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  • coonie
    coonie Member Posts: 7,618
    edited May 2010

    I always enjoy a good pet storyLaughing

    Isabella!!!!!!!!!! I bow to you.......lol. Girlfriend, you have got your hands FULL with that many daxies!!!  My DD and I were just laughing 'cause ours are ALWAYS in the middle of something. She just told one of them he was getting on her nerves .....hehe.  She's eating something on the couch, and he's almost got his nose in her plate:)......of course a little whine every second or two....LOLOL

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited May 2010

    My two Springers knew I had cancer before I did. I suspected something because last year, before I was diagnosed, they began to stick to me like glue-always looking at me and needing to be in my lap or laying on the couch with me. When i had chemo and got so ill, I truly believe that they began to grieve-it is like 'our dear pack leader has something terrbily wrong' and they cannot fix it. any day that i felt the least bit better i made it special for them, whether to groom or give them big soup bones to naw on, anything-they were in such a funk. my older male is 14 and truly has declined over the past four months since i had surgery and went thru chemo. i am trying to make every minute with them special. i got hauled out in an ambulance yesterday-my heart went ka-flooey-and the dogs were so upset. the emotional energy they expend is enormous-i am home and they are both crashed out by my feet. they get so scared because they know the paramedics are trying to help-but they don't want them to touch me-my dear max tried to follow the ambulance until a friend got him. i nearly cried bec i could see him thru the window from the gurney. They love us unconditionally. ((((BIG HUGS)))) SV

  • dutchgirl6
    dutchgirl6 Member Posts: 673
    edited May 2010

    StillVerticle, your story almost made me cry!   ((((Max))))

  • coonie
    coonie Member Posts: 7,618
    edited May 2010

    Dutchgirl---is that your baby in your avatar picture?

    Sure is a cutie!!

    Everybody be sure to cuddle your babies tonight:)

  • dutchgirl6
    dutchgirl6 Member Posts: 673
    edited May 2010

    Thast my Sadie, who has become my shadow since this whole thing started.  She is a cutie.

  • NativeMainer
    NativeMainer Member Posts: 10,462
    edited May 2010

    When I was diagnosed I had 2 dogs, a hound/mutt (Alex) and a german shephern (Snookie).  During the month of waiting for the mammogram results they knew I was upset and stuck by me like glue.  during the biopsies and surgery time they were so careful about bumping into me or tripping me, gently laid next to me instead of on me on the couch or bed.  During rads, when I got home they would drape themselves over me and keep me pinned down until I took a nap.  I lost Alex a year after, and lost Snookie at the beginning of this month.  But, I now have a Sadie--a yellow lab/hound mix, 2 years old, and not about to let me sit around.  She's determined to get me into better shape before reconstruction surgery next month.  It's amazing how they know what's going on, physically and emotionally! 

  • Karen09
    Karen09 Member Posts: 320
    edited May 2010

    I took in a stray cat I found after my first chemo and he was so attentive after I had my second chemo. I kept sleeping and every single time I opened my eyes the first two days after my treatment, he was starring at me.  Then every time I would vomit or get the dry heaves he was right there beside me.  And I would be up in the night the first could nights, up almost every hour to go pee.  He would follow me into the bathroom, stay with me and then curl up in bed with me again when I went back to bed.  It really touched my heart.  It was in the middle of winter and I was so cold and felt crappy but he would cuddle with me and purr.  I think he knew what I needed.

    Then of course a couple days after my treatment I would start to feel a bit better and he would attack me to play.  lol   They know more than we give them credit for sometimes. 

  • coonie
    coonie Member Posts: 7,618
    edited May 2010
    You're right Karen.....they DO know more than we give them credit for sometimes. Animals are smarter than alot of people I knowTongue out
  • Karen09
    Karen09 Member Posts: 320
    edited May 2010

    That's for sure Coonie  lol

  • apple
    apple Member Posts: 7,799
    edited May 2010

    what a sweet thread.. animals are so neat.

    just a funnie, we taught our dog to sing.  bad move.  I'm a pianist and sometimes have soloists, mostly sopranos over to practice.  The dog has to be put outside during those sessions.. He absolutely loves singing and is so sad when we send him out.

  • Wonderland
    Wonderland Member Posts: 3,288
    edited May 2010

    These stories sound like my experience! My 2 sister cats also knew something was wrong with me. They were so loving to me during my chemo and radiation. Everynight (and I mean every single night I was in treatment!) they waited until I was in bed. Then one cat layed on one side of me and the other cat layed on the other - I was sandwiched between them and felt protected by them.

    Our pets are awesome!

    Wonderland

  • westiemom
    westiemom Member Posts: 174
    edited June 2010

    That's cute! Nothing like a singing dog, they have the cutest face when they sing too.

  • Mybails
    Mybails Member Posts: 29
    edited June 2010

    I am the pack leader of the house.  After my mx in April, our collie Diamond figured he needed to protest me.  No one entered the house without him right there reminding them not to touch "mom'.  Even our kids and grandkids got barked at and knocked.  Our youngest cat Oreo also got into the act and has slept beside me every night, which she had never done before.  I hate to think what the two of them will be like when I start chemo later this month. 

  • coonie
    coonie Member Posts: 7,618
    edited June 2010

    awwhhhhh neat stories!!! Unconditional love is what they give us. I don't know what I'd do without my furbabies.

    Apple---your story made me remember one about my boys. I used to "try" to play the piano a long time ago, and they would sit on their haunches and Hooooowwwwwllllll.......one had a base tone and the other was more tenor........it was so cute!! I wish I had gotten that on video.

    Love all the stories ya'll!!

  • NativeMainer
    NativeMainer Member Posts: 10,462
    edited June 2010

    I had some major problems with radiation and am in the process of having the rad onc investigated, got a letter today about a meeting I'm supposed to be at that will be held while I am in Boston having reconstruction surgery (replacing the breast this jerk ruined) and had a panic attack/emotional meltdown.  I was crying, screaming and generally being a total wreck.  My new dog, Sadie, literally pushed me into the recliner, then climbed in on top of me, licking my face and rubbing her face against my face and neck until I calmed down.  Then she sat in my lap/sat on me nuzzling me until the xanax I took kicked in and I relaxed enough to actually doze off for a little while.  Ever since she has been especially entertaining today.  I've had her a grand total of 2 weeks and already she can read me like a book. 

  • westiemom
    westiemom Member Posts: 174
    edited June 2010
    NativeMainer, Sadie is an angel! They know what we need much better than we do. Smile
  • againmine41
    againmine41 Member Posts: 81
    edited July 2010

    My mother had BC in 1981 and her two dogs never left her side either. My little "Charlie", a shih tzu, seems to know when I am just not feeling well. He clings to me and gets restless when I leave and runs to meet me when I return. When i am feeling well he is as calm as a sleeping baby! God gave us these wonderful caring 4 pawed angels!

  • raeinnz
    raeinnz Member Posts: 815
    edited August 2010

    My dog reacted in a different way.  He is an English cocker spaniel and has been 'joined to my hip' since the moment he joined our family, at 9 weeks old, nearly 11 years ago.  But 6mths before my dx he didn't want to sleep in the bedroom with me and started keeping his distance - he would still keep an eye on me but would be in the hallway or the next room most of the time.  It was quite upsetting for me because I couldn't understand why this was happening until I was dx and then the penny dropped - he knew something was wrong but just didn't know what to do about it I think.  The day I got home from hospital after my bmx (I probably smelled 'normal' again) he was back at my side and sticks closer than ever now.  If he starts distancing himself again I am going to be very nervous!!

    Rae

  • NativeMainer
    NativeMainer Member Posts: 10,462
    edited August 2010

    Isn't it amazing how our pets can tell when something is different/wrong?  Sounds like every pet reacts differently, but since we get to know our pets so well we can see the signals, even if we don't understand them at the time.  If your Cocker start distancing himself again, I would RUN to the doc!  Not sure what the doc will think, but too bad, he/she works for you. . .

  • Hope777
    Hope777 Member Posts: 25
    edited August 2010

    Wow, I thought it was only me that noticed this.  The day I came back from the doc office (early July) I sat at my kitchen table and stared at the wall, thinking to myself"wow I have breast cancer!" my cat came out of nowhere and wanted to sit on my lap, being persistant! she's knows she;s not allowed near the kitchen table, ever.  But, this day, she tried really hard to sit on my lap, I kept hushing her away with my hand, telling her "not now Hockey, I gotta alot going on now". and now that I remember, days before she wanted to sit on my chest only, while I sat on the couch or on the carpet, with my back to the couch holding me up. She just wanted me only and my chest to rest on. I thought what a persistant cat, haha and all this time, she was just trying to me tell me, she loves me and that it would be alright!   what an angel! I love her so much, she's always with me on my bed, walks wherever I go in the house, I spoil her rotten, I had adopted her from the shelter at 2 mths. She stood proud and tall in her cage, caught my attention. or me an my kids attention, my boy named her Hockey, since he plays and loves the sport.   It was great sharing, I told my husband after all this is over with, I am adopting another cat! :)

  • NativeMainer
    NativeMainer Member Posts: 10,462
    edited August 2010

    I think rescued pets have tighter bonds with their rescuers, sometimes.  Hockey sounds like a sweety!

  • Hope777
    Hope777 Member Posts: 25
    edited August 2010

    Yes, she is, I love my baby so much! I could squeezeeeeeeeee her. :)

  • dutchgirl6
    dutchgirl6 Member Posts: 673
    edited August 2010

    I had to take Sadie to the vet this week because she has licked a patch on her right front leg raw.  He said it was acral lick granuloma, probably related to stress or anxiety.  Now she is on antibiotics, steroids and anti-anxiety meds.  Poor girl, I guess that this whole cancer situation has affected her more than we realized.

  • luanne
    luanne Member Posts: 7
    edited August 2013

    I wish I could remember when this started but one of my 4 rotties started jumping onto my shoulders while sitting at my computer/work desk at home. He only did that a few times and then proceeded to push his way onto my lap and hug into my chest.  He did this right up till I had my surgery and now he just gently flops over my legs and give me that knowing look. Bruno is 6 years old and a gentle giant.  Unfortunealty 2 of our older rotties are no longer with us..... RIP Alby (cancer) and Cola (spinal problem). But Bruno and Harry are a great comfort to me.  They don't like the way I smell after chemo but are always right beside me.  After a couple of days Harry is back sleeping on the bed between by hubby and me and Bruno is curled up on the floor right beside me.  Deep down I'm guessing Bruno was trying his best to tell me there was a problem....bless him

  • Cyborg
    Cyborg Member Posts: 848
    edited May 2012

    Before I was dx with BC, but had a lump that the Doctor "was keeping an eye on," my boxer stuck her head in the shower and would just look at me and when I would get out of the shower she would be lying on the bath mat. This was weird behavior for her. Very very weird and I started thinking that she knew something was up. I love her so much. Her name is Layla.

  • Shrek4
    Shrek4 Member Posts: 1,822
    edited March 2013
  • camillegal
    camillegal Member Posts: 16,882
    edited May 2012

    Oh Day that picture is adorable---and I kind of know what u mean, but I have a cat and we sleep together ever night and she's very loving--i went for my mammo cuz of her--she kept on sniffing and pushing on my breast alot and then i did feel something. and after I started chemo she did sniff alot but she found another spot to ay on me like she knew. When I was one for 5 days with my 1st oper. and came home she was crying and crying and stayed by my legs and feet--as if she knew --it's kind of spooky to me--they know more than we think.

  • internutz1
    internutz1 Member Posts: 33
    edited July 2012

    I am newly diagnosed (IDC) and prior to the mammogram that changed the world - I had a mini Babydoll lamb I was bottle feeding after his mom rejected him at birth. One feeding he kept nuzzling what we know now is the affected breast. It was odd and I told my husband "mark my words, there's something going on there." About three weeks later the mammogram told the story he was trying to tell me.

    All of my dogs are super sensitive to my moods and illness. I think that's one of the best things about them. Their entire being is devoted to my happiness and health...

  • bevin
    bevin Member Posts: 1,902
    edited July 2012

    I also actually saw a 20/20 report where they showed dogs could detect humans who had cancer by sniffing their persons breath.  I believe they reported the dogs were correct 80-90% of the time. Pretty darn accurate.

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