TNBC but no chemo, no rads, rare?

I was wondering if any of my tnbc sisters out there did not do chemo or rads after lumpectomy.  I have been told I am a rare bird, but I wonder if there are others out there like me.

I had lumpectomy, first for the primary tumor, which was stage one, then a second lumpectomy to clean up some dcis in one margin.  I was unable to do chemo due to secondary health issues and rads was delayed for too long to be truly effective, so I did not do rads either.

I am not panicked but I feel a bit adrift and would like to know if I am a nation of one!  It is a bit nerve wracking on this little island!

Are there any of you who are in the same situation as me?   

If you had a similar situation, how are you doing and what type of follow up are you having?