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  • ginagina
    ginagina Member Posts: 327
    edited April 2010

    Oh my gosh Lorrie, that's great you are doing the 3day! There was no way I could have physically done it when I was going through chemo....I am really worried about doing it now that I am one year out!!!  

    Carol, I would love to sneak a peak at your letter! I will send you a PM. 

    And I would love to walk...I've signed up for a kick-off walk (that sounds funny) at Bellevue Square on April 17th...at 7:45am! Oi, here we go!

    Happy Birthday Susan! 

    It has been rainy and windy all day here. It's been quiet for the last 2 hours...but now it has started to pick up again. Hope everyone is dry/secure/with power. 

  • daffodil45
    daffodil45 Member Posts: 76
    edited April 2010

    gilly... I had my port out 2 weeks after I stopped chemo... (December+insurance....) I had a local.... took a deep breath, and exhaled! Like the drains, but no tubing! Dr. Wechter even dangled it infront of me and asked if I wanted to keep it. I was still thinking about it, when my hubby said "NO!". Cathartic for me. Sore spot for a couple of days.... no biggie. But then again...everyone has a different experience.

     Here's a question to all: I cannot have ANY type of anti-hormone tx. I don't tolerate herbs well either. Hysterectomy is not rec. because of the intolerance to any hormone therapy.( I have Zometa) My period is back, after 2 "chemo-pauses" unlike anything (except childbirth) I have ever experienced.I am 46, and cannot imagine keeping this up....too much blood loss. Has anyone had a uterine ablation? Know anyone who has?

  • tkone
    tkone Member Posts: 511
    edited April 2010

    Daffodil,

    My sister had a uterine ablation.  She went out to dinner that same night and hasn't had a period since.  She says it is the best thing she ever did.

  • Issymom
    Issymom Member Posts: 264
    edited April 2010

    I had ablation in May and though it made things much better (I had life altering periods), I still had heavy periods.  It would have worked well but I had several fibriods and polyps that were removed during the ablation surgery.  Unfortunately, they were not able to do the NovaSure (I was too dilated from the fibroid and polyp removal) that is the most effective ablation technique.  My gyn warned my of this issue prior to surgery.  Again, it took me from horrible to basically normal.  My very good friend is a top gyn in Seattle and she highly recommends this procedure.  If you are having heavy periods, it will be life altering.  Ironically, now that I am know I am BRCA1+, I will be having a hysterectomy. Wish I knew that a year ago. 

  • tkone
    tkone Member Posts: 511
    edited April 2010

    Happy Easter Seattle Ladies!  I feel very blessed to have found all of you.  Have a great day with your loved ones.

    Tracy

  • ginagina
    ginagina Member Posts: 327
    edited April 2010

    Hi everyone  - so quiet here! Hope all is well. 

    gina 

  • Issymom
    Issymom Member Posts: 264
    edited April 2010

    I tried to post last Friday to say I took a long walk down Alki Beach last Friday.  It was so warm and peaceful (I am sure it was packed on Sunday).  I have to remember to take a few hours periodically and go for a walk there or in Kirkland along the lake.  It was very restorative.  Of course after I wrote my email, my internet connection went down and I lost my work.  I was frustrated and didn't try again.

    Today was my LAST CHEMO.  I can't believe it.  In hindsight, it seems so fast but it truly has been a long 6 months.  I don't have to do rads as I had bi-lat and no nodes so I am only on surveillance and now onto recon and hysterectomy this year.  I have really loved bc.org.  It is great to connect with women going through the same crap.  I am also so glad that I found this group and can periodically meet with you for dinner.

    I still have to deal with SE for the next few days but then I can go onto looking for hair.  It is so interesting how everyone experience is different.  Will it be curly, straight, gray, brow, thick, thin, etc...  I hope I get answers soon but I know it will take time!

    Lorrie

  • frosty1
    frosty1 Member Posts: 420
    edited April 2010

    Congrats, Lorrie!  That is a milestone.  I hit the halfway mark with the chemo cocktail last week, so counting down the number of run-down weekends left.  Then I do the Herceptin straight shots.  I'll be waiting to hear about your hair.

  • Iamstronger
    Iamstronger Member Posts: 378
    edited April 2010

    Yeah for you Lori.  How exciting for you to start the best part of this journey!!  YEAH

    Alki is so nice.  Those were my old stomping grounds in my single days.  I loved living by the beach and having the access to walk along the water.  Something very theraputic about the water for me too.

    I had my 4th of 6 treatments.  #4 was brutal for me.  But, it only lasted a day-thank goodness.  It was by far the worst day I have ever had.  Good news is there are only 2 more of the nasty chemo treatments.  Like Frosty, i will be doing the herceptin for a year as well.  

    After talking to my onc, she has recommended me getting another opinion regarding rads.  She feels that I am so borderline, that I may not want to do them.  I had a bi-lateral mastec and my margins were good and i only had 1 lymph node involved.  Sigh, it is almost easier when you know for sure.  Anyway, next week I see another radiologist onc and we will see what he has to say.  I know that I am a worrier, so I am afraid if I don't do the rads, that I will be forever worrying and wish i had done them.  And, if i do the rads, I have a 50% chance of lymphodema.  Ugh!! Hopefully the 2nd opinion will shed some better light for me.  If anyone has any thoughts, I would love to hear them

    I hope that everyone is doing well and enjoying the spring weather that has begun to arrive.

    Take Care,

    Verene

  • seattle_sister
    seattle_sister Member Posts: 7
    edited April 2010

    Hi Verene -

     I'm one of the Issaquah gals and have been absent for awhile due to having my gall bladder removed.  The fun never ends.  I developed stones due to the weight loss from the infection after my bi-lat mast. and from chemo.  So glad to have it out as I was miserable.  I did not have radiation either.  I noticed that you only had 1 lymph node removed - so I would think that would reduce your chances of lymphedema.  I had 2 lymph nodes on the right and 3 on the left removed and I have lymphedema in both arms.  The only thing I've heard about radiation is if you want to do reconstruction, it can make it more difficult because it damages the skin and makes it harder to expand.  Have you done reconstruction?  I did Herceptin for a year and just finished in March.  It was totally tolerable and I learned from some of the other women on brca.org that it can slow the growth of your hair.  And it did!  Some said it took 3 months after finishing Herceptin to really start the big growth.  That's what I am finding.  In June I will have finished chemo a year ago and I still haven't had my first haircut.  Although it is coming back faster now and it is curly, which it was before, and now completely gray!  Now nobody recognizes me.  I have to say I like having short hair with I haven't had since I was six and had a pixie.  The texture is different and very soft like baby hair.  I'm sorry your 4th treatment was difficult.  I really hope the last 2 are better for you.  Hang in there!   

  • tkone
    tkone Member Posts: 511
    edited April 2010

    Hi all,

    Pretty quiet around here!  I guess that means we are all out enjoying the weather and getting on with life.  Today is my anniversary-14 years married!  I picked the right guy.  I wouldn't have gone through all this cancer sh** with anyone else.

    Hope you are all doing well.

    Tracy 

  • Madge24
    Madge24 Member Posts: 150
    edited May 2010

    Hi Ladies,

    I haven't posted in awhile, just wanted to say hello and hope everyone's doing well.  Seattle-sis, my hair also came in gray and is now short.   Just about no one recognizes me except April Girl!  I've only lived here 3 years, and the past year was spent w/ all this breast cancer stuff!  

    I sure enjoyed meeting the group for dinner at Red Robin recently.  What a great group.  I've been trying to get back to normal schedule and energy but it has taken time.  I still claim chemo brain when forgetful.  I still nap some days, embarrassing but true!  I'm going to start playing tennis and see how that goes.  Take care, girls, and enjoy this beautiful weekend.

    Peg

  • Madge24
    Madge24 Member Posts: 150
    edited May 2010

    Issey Mom -- CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR LAST CHEMO!!!! WHOOT--WHOOOOOT!!  Way to go.  You did it.

    The hair watch will be fun.  I enjoyed watching it grow back in.  It was salt and peppery but I have colored blonde it so it's the same color as before.  I love having it short now and have cut it 3 times, 8 mos. after chemo.  Yours will grow faster than you think.  It'll go quickly.

    Take care, sister.

    Peg

  • Madge24
    Madge24 Member Posts: 150
    edited May 2010

    Gina gina -- wow!!  Gorgeous avatar!

    Peg

  • anniebford
    anniebford Member Posts: 128
    edited May 2010

    Hi Seattle ladies,

    I have only posted here a few times and now I'm back with another question. Do any of you have experience or opinions about Swedish Cancer Institute and/or Dr. Ellis?

    Thanks,

    Annie 

  • tkone
    tkone Member Posts: 511
    edited May 2010

    Hi Anniebford,

    I had all of my treatment at Swedish and loved it.  My oncologist is Dr. Rinn and I love her and would recommend her to anyone.  I only had one discussion with Dr. Ellis and while I'm sure she is a great doctor, she and I just didn't really click.  Best of luck with your choices.

    Hope everyone else is doing well.  Yesterday was 2 years since I was diagnosed.  Yahoo!! 

  • frosty1
    frosty1 Member Posts: 420
    edited May 2010

    How wonderful to have such gorgeous weather for Mother's Day!  Hope you are all enjoying your day ...

  • Laurie_R
    Laurie_R Member Posts: 262
    edited May 2010

    I too had all my treatments/surgery done at Swedish, my surgen was Dr. Beatty and my onc is Dr. Goodmand and I would recommend both of them.  I just finished my chemo on the 5th of May and am start a every six week visit routeen.  I wish eveyone luck with the rest of your treatments 

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited May 2010

    Hello all - what a gorgeous weekend!!!!  Hope all of you who are mother's had a great mother's day.

    Tracy - a belated happy anniversary to you!

    I have a Dr. Ellis at Seattle Cancer Care, not Swedish - but all of my friends have been happy with the various oncs. at Swedish.  

    Laurie - congrats on finishing chemo - that is a cinco de mayo you won't likely forget.

    Anyone doing the Race for the Cure 5k?

  • daffodil45
    daffodil45 Member Posts: 76
    edited May 2010

    I see Dr. Henry (Hank) Kaplan at Swedish. He is really really amazing. I think that everyone who has had contact with him will agree.

    April... I cannot do the 5k because the high school baccalaurette (sp?!) is on that Sunday. Bummer!!! I thought about doing both.... but it might be a bit much.

    Waiting for the sun to come back!

  • frosty1
    frosty1 Member Posts: 420
    edited May 2010

    I'm doing the 5k on June 6!  Got my donation notes out to everyone.  My daugther and her friend are walking with me -- they are making pink tutus to wear.

  • PatSG
    PatSG Member Posts: 17
    edited May 2010

    I am glad to have found this WA thread. Not sure if there is anyone from my area (I haven't read all of the posts yet), but I am here in Olympia, WA.  Originally dx at stage II in 1995 at the age of 41.  Dx with recurrence, stage IV, in 2008.  When dx with mets, I obtained a referral to Dr. Ellis at Seattle Cancer Care Alliance and was quite pleased with the information and treatment options she had to offer.  Am currently doing very well, my last scans show NED status, for which I am very thankful!  

  • tkone
    tkone Member Posts: 511
    edited May 2010

    Frosty1-Good for you for making the commitment!  Good luck with it all.

    PatSG-Welcome!  There are a couple people from your neck of the woods.  Glad to have you.

    Going to play in the sunshine.  Hope everyone has a great weekend.

    Tracy 

  • PAP
    PAP Member Posts: 142
    edited May 2010
    Aprilgirl1....Yes, I am also doing the 5K, however, walking instead of running.  I am really happy to say that I have received over $500 and still expecting a few more donations.... Tongue out  Patti
  • frosty1
    frosty1 Member Posts: 420
    edited May 2010

    My daughter's best friend, who has been over often while I"m doing battle and who made me a get well card after surgery, just found out her mom has BC.  SHe is scheduled for a lump next week.  Wow.  I'm glad she has my DD and knows from my end what is going on.  You just don't expect it. 

    Isn't this weather wonderful?  I love love love love it!

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited May 2010

    Frosty - as awful as it is for others to get diagnosed, it is wonderful that your DD is there for her friend and their family.  I found it really helpful that my kids (9 and 11 at the time) knew 2 other families that moms had bc recently and have been doing great.

    I also find it a bit spooky or surreal - a few months after my diagnosis my neighbor (Madge24) was diagnosed.  Then, a YOUNG mom from my bunco group (Kyasou).  It makes me sick.

    BC is just way too prevalent. 

    Okay - enough of that - have a great weekend everyone! 

  • Madge24
    Madge24 Member Posts: 150
    edited May 2010

    Hey all,

    Like Tracey, I go to Dr. Rinn at Swedish, really like her, and would recommend her to anyone, also.  I talked to Dr. Ellis once and I have heard good things about her.

    April Girl you are right, bc is way too prevalent.  I read somewhere recently that bc in the 1940's or some such was something like one in 40 and now it is one in seven.  If I can find that exact statistic I'll pass it on, but it was incredible.

    I had one node removed and radiation but I was told I had very low chance of lymphodema.  I just went for physical therapy for "cording" (tightness, common after rads) and in the process, they gave me a list of things to do to prevent lymphodema.

    Take care everyone. 

  • anniebford
    anniebford Member Posts: 128
    edited May 2010

    Hi all,

    Well,  I hate to see the rain back but now I can have guiltless indoor time :) I have made the switch to Dr. Ellis. My old onc did not want to do a bone scan and I felt it was important. When I saw Dr. Ellis she wondered why a full restage had not been done already given that he had already chosen the new chemo for me to start. I did the bone scan Fri May 7 and the PET/CT on Mon May 10. I had an appointment with Dr. Ellis on Tuesday and she told me I have bone mets in 12 places.  I had the 1st chemo combo (Abraxane, Avastin, Zometa) yesterday. I will be on this for 6mos. The last month has been a real emotional roller coaster. Cancer has made me deal with so many things I did not expect to until I was "older". I suspect that even if I were "older", I would not have been prepared for this :) I'm hoping I will dodge the possible 36 hr flu type sick that can come after the 1st Zometa infusion. Made it through last night and first thing this am but she said this afternoon was the most likely time for it to hit. Crossing my fingers.

    Annie  

  • tkone
    tkone Member Posts: 511
    edited May 2010

    Annie,

    I'm so sorry to hear about the bone mets.  Thank goodness you followed your instincts and went to another doctor.  I have been very happy at Swedish and feel like they are current on all of the new research and best practices.  I'm hoping that you are still feeling OK from the Zometa.  I have had Zometa 3 times and while I did feel sick with the first one, it hit me in the morning as soon as I got up and was over by the next morning.  Subsequent times are no problem at all.

    I can imagine you have been on a huge emotional roller coaster.  I hope that you are finding support from friends and family and of course everyone here. 

    Let us know if there is anything we can do to help.

    Tracy

  • anniebford
    anniebford Member Posts: 128
    edited May 2010

    Thanks for your kind words and support Tracy. I woke up feeling fine but by 3:00, I knew I wasn't going to skate out on the SE's from the Zometa :( I am sitting here feeling like crap. The pharmacy would not fill the Ativan because aparently it's too soon??? I don't remember having that in the past but I came home and checked my meds and don't have it. I have compazine and am going to take Theraflu. I will be in Seattle for treatments and appts 3 wks on and 1 off, so maybe it will work out for me to go to one of the get togethers. 

    Annie   

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