cooking when you live alone

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NatureGrrl
NatureGrrl Member Posts: 1,367

I've lived alone more of my adult life than with someone... but that was pre-cancer.So it's not like I'm not used to cooking for one.  But I'm still battling fatigue and some days I don't care what I eat as long as it's easy.  Of course, I really do care, but some days I have to fight the temptation to do not-especially-healthy carry-out.

Do any of you have quick and easy meals that you fall back on when you don't have the energy to cook? One pot or pan (two max.), nothing that takes too long (when I'm tired, 20 minutes in the kitchen is a lot), ingredients that I'm likely to have on hand (nothing exotic, although I do have some of those kinds of things).

I avoid most processed food and most meat and although that shouldn't make my brain go blank, I can't come up with anything more creative than nut butters, oatmeal (yes, I eat oatmeal for dinner) :) or smoothies, and smoothies don't stick to my ribs when I'm hungry.

Any suggestions welcome!  Thanks!

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  • dreaming
    dreaming Member Posts: 473
    edited April 2010

    When I am stressed I cook, I cook  ground beef, I set it in small containers and put in the freezer,I cook different pastas, same they go to the  the freezer. Same with rice. I cook chicken breast filet's, again in the freezer.

    To cook, I add paprika,garlic oregano stir fry with olive oil, add parsley. I use all dry condiments.  then you can add the chicken or the beef and the pasta or rice, and voila it is ready, also you can use spaghetti sauce, or a can of stew tomatoes or just vegetables with the chicken all in one pot.

    To change recipe you can stir the chicken with some soy and Chinese noodles. You can serve only pasta with cheese and kielbasa. Hope it helps.

  • wyldblumusic
    wyldblumusic Member Posts: 59
    edited April 2010

    Thanks for starting this thread.  I also live alone and find it challenging to cook for one without alot of waste.  I love to cook, but right now I prefer quick and easy.

    Whole wheat tortillas have become a staple in my kitchen.  They can be made into veggie wraps, a pizza, and quesadillas.

    Chowhound is a great website for recipe ideas.  The Home Cooking message board is filled with great tips.

    I'm looking forward to hearing other ideas.

  • sweatyspice
    sweatyspice Member Posts: 922
    edited April 2010

    If it didn't come in a microwaveable box or a can or a takeout container, I didn't eat it.  Now I'm utterly lost in terms of trying to change my bad habits.  I'm being my usual bad self thru rads, but I keep telling myself I want to change after rads are over.  No idea how to do that.  Guess I'll just lurk!

  • gfbaker
    gfbaker Member Posts: 173
    edited April 2010

    I make a black bean chili thing. Saute an onion & garlic with cumin & red pepper/chili powder, add in a can of black beans and diced tomatoes. I also throw in a cup of cooked rice, and if you are up for it, you can grate a little cheese and cilantro. Veggies, good carbs and protein so you aren't hungry. It reheats well and if eating alone should cover 3-4 meals.If no cheese then it is vegan too.

  • NatureGrrl
    NatureGrrl Member Posts: 1,367
    edited April 2010

    Thanks, everyone, for the ideas.  I guess my biggest problem is I need to plan ahead more :) My brain appreciates the jump-start!   I used to cook dry beans and freeze them in one-person size packages, time to do that again.  Love the black beans and rice idea, one of my favorite beans... And I'm going to be more constant about some staples like tortillas... I love them and use them for all kinds of things, too, but always think of them when I don't have them.

    I love to cook, too,  (http://cookeatdancelove.blogspot.com/, I need to look at my own blog more often! although it's mainly baked goods) (oh, gosh, glad I looked, I see a bunch of bad links I need to fix!) but for the past year it's been such a chore with treatment and all, now I'm slowly getting back into it (when I have energy!).

    All this reminded me how much I love sweet potatoes, I used to cook up several and cube them and use them with other things (w/ black beans for burritos, and one of my favorite salads is sweet potatoes and golden raisins, nothing else needed!).  Like I said, I just need to plan ahead more.

    Thanks, everyone... and more ideas always welcome!

  • rayhope
    rayhope Member Posts: 228
    edited April 2010

    I also live alone and find dinner challenging at times.  I don't mind cooking since it's the only way to eat good, nutritious food.  However, sometimes I'm just too tired!!  After working 10 long days straight, I came home exhausted today.  Dinner was quick, easy and delicious.  I toasted Ezekiel bread with havarti cheese and made a sandwich adding tomatoes, fresh spinach leaves and a little dijon mustard.

  • apple
    apple Member Posts: 7,799
    edited May 2010

    don't laugh..

    one of my livealone staples was natural peanut butter on a hearty toast with tomatoes, salt and lettuce or parsley.. absolutely delish

  • hbcheryl
    hbcheryl Member Posts: 5,113
    edited May 2010

    A couple of my staples are a little olive oil and garlic in a pan then add 1/2 pkg of spinach when that wilts down add a chopped tomato and then either a handful of white beans or chickpeas to warm and pour it over some brown rice or noodles and this week I have been doing veggies on the bbq, chopped up a bell pepper, a zucchini and a leek tossed in olive oil and then grilled and that was really good, these don't take very as I'm usually tired when I get in the door.  I too love sweet potatoes and yams and sometimes just microwave one whole and have that as my meal. 

  • GramE
    GramE Member Posts: 5,056
    edited May 2010

    Rice a roni can be made and reheated.   Add some veggies, or left over meat or both.   a jar of artichokes can also be added to jazz it up.   Frozen veggies in  a bag, so I can take out a handful at a time - broccoli, cauliflower or if I get really ambitious, I get fresh and par boil and freeze in one person packages.   Add some garlic powder, olive oil, chopped onion.   I can make a meal of just sweet potato or a regular baked potato, but I nuke them instead of baking in the oven.  

    I dont have any right now, but there are small packages of cooked chicken strips - oven baked, no skin - that can be used cold or in a stir fry.   quick and one dish are my kind of foods, although I went out to Red Lobster the other night with a friend and had scampi.    

    Remember tuna noodle casserole?   If you are in the noodle cooking mood.    Keep sending suggesions.   I am allergic to egg whites, so omelets are out for me, but veggies and an egg or 2 is a good source of protein.  (edited to correct spelling)

  • RaiderDee
    RaiderDee Member Posts: 150
    edited May 2010

    Hi ladies, I'm not single but I wind up making two meals every time I cook because my DH is a picky eater and wouldn't last one day on the low fat, no sugar, no white flour diet I am following since my triple negative dx.  The main staple I have relied on since I started this way of eating has been my own homemade humus.  It's insanely easy to make and I can make up a big batch whenever I need to so I always have some on hand.  I wasn't really a big hummus eater until I started making my own.  My favorite recipe is a spinach, garlic and salsa mixture.  You can either get garbanzo beans in the can or buy them dried and then cook soak and then cook them.  The only thing you have to buy that you probably wouldn't have on hand normally is Tahiti ( a sesame seed paste) but you can buy it at most health food stores or a Whole Foods type market.  I take fresh spinach, some fresh garlic, a splash of lemon juice, a tablespoon of Tahiti, fresh salsa (whatever type you like) and a dash of cayenne pepper.  I mix it all in a blender until it's liquefied.  Then I slowly add garbanzo beans until it blends to the consistency of cooked oatmeal.  Then I pour it into seal-able containers and put them in the fridge.  I eat it with whole grain crackers or spread it on wheat tortillas when I make a wrap.  It's delicious and easy to keep on hand.  I've been following this diet religiously for a month now and have dropped 15 pounds.  I hope this helps.  Good luck.

    Dee      

  • GramE
    GramE Member Posts: 5,056
    edited May 2010

    I also make my own hummus, but never use Tahini.  In the blender, put drained chick peas (come in a can) (garbanzo beans) with a bit of olive oil.    Blend very well, add garlic to your taste -  I get the minced in olive oil in a jar and keep in fridge.   Bit of lemon and then a drained jar of artichokes.    

    Odd with the artichokes - I get on these food kicks - chicken casserole w/artichokes lately.   When I was on chemo, I could not get enough pineapple - canned, fresh, juice...   Not sure if my body is telling me it needs some hidden vitamin, but the taste is good.    I made this hummus at Christmas and it was gone in a flash with veggie tray.

    Sweet potato was mentioned above - my raw veggie platter has raw sweet potato - peeled and cut up like carrot sticks, raw zucchini, not peeled - both the yellow and green kind.   Raw sweet  pot is not as crunchy as carrots, but good source of good vitamins.    And it keeps well in the fridge.   I may have to get to the market later and stock up on zucchini and sweet potato.

  • wyldblumusic
    wyldblumusic Member Posts: 59
    edited May 2010

    It was hot and humid in this area this weekend.  So, I had one of my favorite no-cook meals many times.  Take mixed berries (fresh or frozen) and top with fruity yogurt and granola with dried berries.

    Garbanzo beans have been mentioned a few times.  They are quite tasty for a snack when roasted.  First, rinse the beans and dry.  Drizzle a bit of olive oil on them, and add just a small pinch of salt.  Other temps and times may work, but I've baked them on parchment paper at 400 degrees for about 10 to 15 minutes.  After they are done, you can also add you favorite seasoning blend (italian, cajun, grill).

  • thenewme
    thenewme Member Posts: 1,611
    edited May 2010

    Hi Naturegrrl,

    I posted on another thread about quinoa - one of my favorite ways to eat it is soooo simple and yummy-and healthy! Quinoa is similar to brown rice.  Boil/simmer it for 15-20 minutes, and I dress it up with some green chile (homemade or from a jar -I like 505 brand) and sprinkle with some cheddar cheese.  Sometimes I'll add black beans or some veggies or some cooked meat for variety.

    Great thread, even though I don't live alone!  I'll try some of these ideas too!

  • flash
    flash Member Posts: 1,685
    edited May 2010

    Gram- if you like artichoke try getting a small jar of marinated artichoke.( the kind you would use on a salad.)  microwave or saute a small chicken breast or turkey breast with some chicken broth and cumin.  when it's done, slice the chicken or turkey andthen  add the  marinated artichoke with half of the marinade from the jar.Reheat. As soon as the artichoke marinade starts to warm up, you're done.  It's a meal that can be done any quantity and gets a lot of raves for being a different way to do the plain old chicken.  This gets served with olives in it around the NY area as mediterranean style chicken/tukey for a big price. the nice thing is you don't have to plan too much.  It's easy to keep a tiny jar of marinated artichoke on the shelf for that time you want to do something different.

  • GramE
    GramE Member Posts: 5,056
    edited May 2010

    Thanks flash -  I do keep jars in the cupboard and adding the chicken or turkey is easy and pretty healthy also.   

  • Laurie_R
    Laurie_R Member Posts: 262
    edited May 2010
    Like some of the others have suggested, cook more than you would eat and freeze it.  I would do taco hamberger or use ground chicken or turkey, cook some chicken breasts and stick it in the freezer.  Then you can make a salad and take some of the meat out and add it to your salad.  Salads are always but with warmer weather now salads are even betterWink
  • NatureGrrl
    NatureGrrl Member Posts: 1,367
    edited May 2010

    yum... lots of good ideas here... making me hungry just reading!  I love the chickpea recipes, I cooked some last week and make half into hummus (with a roasted red pepper, yum!) and froze the other half.  I like the idea of roasting them, too, that's next!  Flash, that artichoke/chicken idea is high on my list now, too!   And I like quinoa and couscous -- thanks for the reminder about fast-cooking grains.  And yeah, salads have started sounding really good again (all through treatment I couldn't stand them) so I'm back to my favorite homemade dressing and all the various things that can be done with salads. Oh, and Apple, your PB sandwich actually sounds really good to me! :)  

    I know I haven't mentioned everyone but I love each and every idea, great ideas, everyone!!!

  • apple
    apple Member Posts: 7,799
    edited May 2010

    a super fast pasta..

    drain pasta and toss with a can or two of tomatoes (if you don't have fresh diced). cubed feta cheese and herbs.  it's quite good warm and makes an excellent chilled salad (with other things like olives, mushrooms (don't let them get soggy) and whatever.

    i love recipe threads.

  • HKitty71
    HKitty71 Member Posts: 141
    edited June 2010

    Here are some more good things to keep on hand  a really good balsamic vinegar (the thicker the better) if you can find it truffle oil (it has a nutty peppery taste) and it is excellent on sphagetti squash with just a sprinkle of cheese.Fresh herbs like basil, oregano, dill etc. you can grow them in a window sill or on a balcony if you live in an apartment. Plus you get to watch them grow and that is part of the fun. 

  • Faythnme
    Faythnme Member Posts: 167
    edited June 2010

    I am glad I found this string because its been hard for me to cook my meals these days.  I just don't want to.  I was doing really well before surgery.  I was eating lots of salads and veggies.  I would mix romaine, cilantro and spinach together by cutting them up in smaller pieces and shaking them to mix in the bowl.  This was my base for the week.  I would add chicken, tuna or just use it as a side with a small piece of steak or fish.  My meat was no more than 4oz to a serving for lunch and dinner.  I ate lots of oranges, grapefruits things that were easy.  I have to get back to that and as soon as I can I will start working out maybe in a couple of weeks.  Only yoga per the PS.  I think I also just  need to shake off this ho hum place I am in. 

    Cindy

  • pegeyore
    pegeyore Member Posts: 7
    edited June 2010

    Another quick and easy and yummy idea is a soup of refried beans, beef or chicken broth, diced tomatoes, and you can add pinto or other beans, and just heat, season, serve with any bread, and it is filling and yummy!  Not too many calories either!

  • pegeyore
    pegeyore Member Posts: 7
    edited June 2010

    Hey, Apple, don't laugh or wrinkle your nose, but my fav sandwich is PB, mayo, boiled sliced egg, tomatoes, on WW or other delish bread or toast!  YUM!!  don't have it often, but always enjoy it!!!!

  • pegeyore
    pegeyore Member Posts: 7
    edited June 2010

    Hey, GramE:  I love the idea of making my own hummus!  Reminds me of the days I studied Middle Eastern languages and we learned to cook their way---very good & different!  Like using cinnamon with meat---different taste!  We used to make a dish called "upside down chicken" because it was rice with chicken and cinnamon, other spices, cooked in a pot, so that when the chicken was done, it was on the bottom of the pot and you would serve in a big bowl and turn it all upside down into the dish, so then the chicken was on top of the rice!  We also made Tahini with potatoes layered and baked and that was yummy too!  And ground meat with bulger wheat mixed together and baked with Tahini & potatoes too.  We also learned to stuff anything with a meat and rice mixture, like grape leaves ( you have to wrap the mixture up in the leaves, roll up, pile in the pot, cover with broth, and weight down so they don't unwrap), zucchini, eggplant, potatoes, etc.  Easy & delicious!  Try looking thru a Lebanese cook book for ideas!  You would be surprised how good the different spices can make the meat!

    First DX 1985, fourth recurrence 2010, just finished Chemo & remission again!  I am a survivor! 

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