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  • leta17
    leta17 Member Posts: 120
    edited April 2010

    Faithfulc - My OncoType was 10 and I had questioned 6 vs. 4 and got the same answer.  My 4th has been the easiest thus far, so I guess what is 2 more?? 

    Have a great weekend ladies!  The weather is great here in NJ and getting outdoors for a walk is amazing for the mind!

  • teemee
    teemee Member Posts: 122
    edited April 2010

    One more note on the Oncotype: If the doctor knows you need chemo, s/he probably won't order the test. What it gives you is a 10-year risk of recurrance with chemo, and without. It's actually lowering chemo use overall, I heard, because some people who won't benefit are not getting it, that would have been given chemo in the past.

    So basically it's the last decision-making tool, if the doc thinks you are still in a gray area after looking at the rest of your records. I think ;)

    I probably wouldn't have gotten one, but I was really against doing it and I think the doc was trying to convince me ;)

  • mebrown
    mebrown Member Posts: 74
    edited April 2010

    grdnsive - I haven't had reconstruction yet. I asked my onc when I could once I finish tx. He said in 2 months after. I have an appt with a different ps than the one that I was referred to because I was uncomfortable with him. I have been doing research on the different types and I didn't like the one option he gave me. Do research and check out the docs before you make your final decision.

     Has anyone had itching and skin being red in those areas? I am day 11 of my 3rd tx and itch like crazy all over. Also have had a lump in my throat for almost a week. Had a sore throat where I could barely swallow. Have just finished antibiotics and the soreness is coming back. Any suggestions?

    Have a wonder holiday. Hope all have beautiful weather for this weekend. 

  • Bambaloos
    Bambaloos Member Posts: 85
    edited April 2010

    Just wanted to wish everyone a Happy Easter and a great weekend. 

     I had #8 Taxol on Monday and have had a fairly good week.  The usual bad taste in my mouth, tired and stomach problems - but much better week than last, which is always a good thing.

    I would like to thank you all so much for posting such great information, you are all a bunch of amazing Women!

    Wishing you all a SE free weekend and sending healing thoughts and hugs to you all.

    Mandy

  • lindee629
    lindee629 Member Posts: 61
    edited April 2010
    Hi Mebrown.....I wonder if the lump in your throat is GI reflux. I had a lump too for about 3 weeks which got worse and worse (I felt like a cat with a furball) and I actually thought I got a pill or something caught in my throat, so I spent days trying to MAKE myself vomit (like chemo doesn't already do that). It was awful. And then it started to hurt. I finally broke down and called the onco office and they told me its classic Reflux, suggested OTC Prilosec in the morning, Tagament or Zantac at nite and TUMS thru the day. Well, its been about another 3 weeks and I think it is finally going away. I don't know if you were on the antibiotics for the sore throat or for something different, but I thiought I would mention the GI reflux thing because I had no idea. The meds really did help though if that is your problem.  Good luck! 
  • burley
    burley Member Posts: 631
    edited April 2010

    Nothing significant to report here!  Very mild side effects this last time, other than losing the eyelashes (they're still here-just very thin and sparse.)  I can't believe I still have 5 more treatments to go-ugh!

    Off to get some bloodwork, then to work...it's getting hot in AZ, and I tell you, the wig is very itchy and hot (just like everyone said it would be!)  I actually have instructions to not lay it down in the car because the insides of cars here get so hot...funny.  But I understand now why I have them-when I leave work, I seriously have the urge to rip it off!  Luckily, it's only a 30 minute drive home.

    I hope everyone has a terrific weekend and Easter!

  • retrievermom
    retrievermom Member Posts: 522
    edited April 2010

    burley:  Rip it off for the drive home and crank up the air.  Be prepared for the looks of drivers-by, tho.  I've caught some serious second glances.  Too bad, cause, like you, after wearing my wig for awhile, I'm ready for some freedom.  Itchy bumps on your scalp?  Mine have come back.  Any solutions?

    A friend and his twin six-year old boys were over yesterday.  The sweet pleaser one asked, "what happened to your hair?"  After I told them it would come back in awhile, the engineer-to-be asked, "when do you mean, awhile?"  

    Hug your kids, hide some eggs, if you've got sun, bask in it (snow forecast here for the weekend).

  • faithfulc
    faithfulc Member Posts: 284
    edited April 2010

    retrievermom, I had patches of itchy bumps on my scalp in Feb - and if I scratched they grew!  Two things helped me: (1) sleeping without a cap and let the pillow cool the back of my head down - it was very soothing and reduced my desire to scratch scratch scratch; (2) baby powder (which is really pure corn starch), which kept my head dry.  The bumps have mostly disappeared and a few that pops up now and then don't itch any more. 

    burley, I feel like ripping off my wig after work, too.  Mine is supposed to be light and airy - it is, until it gets up to 80 degrees.  Oh well.  

    This pollen season is finally catching up to me - so I kind of look forward to next Wednesday's Benydral shot, along with the other stuff called chemo. 

    Hope everyone's weekend is a good one.

  • mebrown
    mebrown Member Posts: 74
    edited April 2010
    lindee - I went for blood work today and got with a nurse, I was told I probably had sores on my throat. I was given some medicine as well as told to take Pepcid everyday. I hope it works soon. If it is reflux like you mentioned, maybe Pepcid will work. We shall see. Thanks for the input.
  • mebrown
    mebrown Member Posts: 74
    edited April 2010

    Have any of you ladies had your hands and feet itch and hurt? I have a lump on the bottom of my left foot that came up last night. It hurts to walk and hold things. I remember my husband going through similar things when he was on C. He could barely walk at times. I have had few SEs but things like this is popping up now. Last night my finger nails hurt as well. They are better this morning but it makes me wonder if I will lose my nails sometime in the future. Just had to complain a little. I didn't sleep well last night because of my throat situation. It is a little easier to swallow this morning.

    It is raining here but should be a beautiful day for the holiday. Hope everyone is having a good weekend. My sister is keeping my grandbabies and she plans on putting their outfits on and will get on the web cam so I can see them. They have been sick so I dare not get to close unfortunately. They are growing so fast. The little girl is standing now. Her brother gets on his knees so it won't be long he will be up standing too.

    Sorry about rambling on. Have a great day! 

  • faithfulc
    faithfulc Member Posts: 284
    edited April 2010

    mebrown, after TC treatment #2, my palm and sole got dry, red and itchy in week #2 (the middle week).  Luckily they subsided before treatment #3, and has not come back.  I did not have a "lump" on my feet, but they were constantly itchy - so annoying.  The skin was also very dry.  I tend to get dry skin on my feet in the winter months anyway, and I think chemo just made it worse. 

    I didn't use anything on them other than occasional lotions.  I did try to drink a lot of fluids every day.  Perhaps that helped.  Heard numerous times that chemo is very drying.  At some point water was almost unbearable right around treatment #3.  Uggh...

    Your grandbabies sound so cute!  Hope you can be with them soon.

  • lindee629
    lindee629 Member Posts: 61
    edited April 2010

    Mebrown--I'm glad they figured out the source of your throat pain, and hope the meds help.

     I haven't had my hands and feet itch as of yet, but yesterday I woke up with excruciating bone pain.....even my fingers hurt to type. It hurts to walk. Its mainly from my lower back to my ankles, but my fingernails hurt do so that might be totally different than the bone pain. I was really hoping to see if  could keep my nails..my fingers have been sore for a while but today has been the worst.  Hope they are not going to start getting loose and fall off. I am just really bummed because I felt so great Tuesday and Wednesday after my first dose of Taxol...I thought I was gonna get thru the Taxol with less problems than the A/C. It's beautiful outside here, and I just wanted to go outisde and get some fresh air like a normal person, maybe go visiting for Easter tomorrow, but it looks like that's not going to happen. Oh well, its gotta get better soon. Sorry to vent girls, i was just so excitted about feeling better, and now I feel worse.  arrgghhh...sorry, just another SE to get thru i guess.  Happy Holiday to all!!! 

  • me2u
    me2u Member Posts: 52
    edited April 2010

    hi all, and happy easter to all! its a beautiful cool sunday here. blood count went up within ref range and had my 3rd AC tx yesterday. feeling tired and slept for 4 hours. today was fairly good as well, hope it maintains this way thoughout. after another AC will be 12 taxol, half way through, yippe! and oh, yesterday, the nurse said my vein are getting thinner, hope will last throughout chemo, lots of hand execise.

    mebrown, hope you are feeling better ya. all my fingernails are showing purplerish, especially my thumbs. toenails are looking fine. skin are dry.

    eyelash and brows still intact however a few strands came off easily...

    to all, hang in there and its already April!

  • BaileyCan
    BaileyCan Member Posts: 5
    edited April 2010

    Hi,  Wow - I just found this site (well actually, I found it over an hour ago, and lost track of time reading some of the posts.....and now it's very late and I have to go and try to sleep......but I will post this short bit for now. ..... I was diagnosed on Dec 10th, 2009.   I had surgery (lumpectomy) on Dec 23 and now doing chemo....cyclosphomide (sp?) and Taxotere x4.  I just had my 3rd treatment on March 29 and do my last one on April 19.     The s/e after my first treatment were fine - I thought I breezed thru them, but then after my second one, I started with new s/e's......the worse one being extremely burpy, gassy and bloating - the burps are endless and there is no relief from the burps either !  Oh, if I can be descriptive here, oh, they are huge gut belches....but they don't relieve any of the pressure.  It is so uncomfortable that I cannot sleep.  My doc said to take Gas-X , which hasn't helped.......anybody have any suggestions ?

    Thanks and Happy Easter everyone !  I'm glad to have found this site - it sure does help to feel connected with others who actually "KNOW" what we are going thru.  (It is very late hers now, and I've got to go try to sleep, but I will be back to check out some more of these posts again soon !)

  • teemee
    teemee Member Posts: 122
    edited April 2010

    OK trying to be positive but it's hard right now. I had Neupogen shots Thu & Fri to try to bump my very low WBC, and I think I feel worse than after the chemo! I am in so much pain it's hard to even breathe. I don't know if I should be worried or not -- I know that's a 'normal' side effect, but I don't remember anyone making as big a deal out of it as I'm feeling. Muscles and bones, from head to calves. Horrible headache, every vertabrae in my neck hurts, plus my ribs & chest (hence the not breathing easily). The best I can do is try to find a tolerable position and not move for hours.

    Did anyone else have pain like this? Even my jaw is throbbing...

  • mofend
    mofend Member Posts: 140
    edited April 2010

    BaileyCan - Hi - welcome aboard!  We're full of good information - seems like we've run through all the possible SE's on here, so you should truly find this a comforting place to be.  Anyway, when I was doing the burping contest like you, the doc prescribed Nexium, which helped considerably.  At first, I was doing Prilosec along with Zantac, but my acid reflux/burps were beyond their reach, so the Nexium really helped.  Hope you get some relief. 

    Teemee - hope you called the doctor about that pain - the one thing I have been told by my docs is that no matter what, you shouldn't be in intolerable pain - there's ways around it - hope you get some relief - that's such a bummer.

    Lindee629- check your private messages -sent you info about the art show tix.

    Hoppy Easter to all - it's a beautiful day here in PA and it's another day I don't have to cook so I'm loving it!!!  Hugs to all - Mo

  • mebrown
    mebrown Member Posts: 74
    edited April 2010

    me2u - I am feeling better. My throat is not too bad this morning. Still uncomfortable to walk but all in all better.

    Have a Happy Easter! It is beautiful her to day as well. 

  • lindee629
    lindee629 Member Posts: 61
    edited April 2010

    Mo--thanx for the message, that I was able to retrieve. Looking forward to the art show!

    mebrown--glad you're feeling a bit better.  Me too. I don't have the entire body pain, just from the low back down, seems a bit better today. All I have done for the past 36 hrs is lay around. Still don't know if this is a SE from the new taxol--or from my Neulasta shot. I wonder if it is because I tried the generic form of Claritin instead of the real deal. My (soon to be ex) H has been complaining about the med bills piling up and how the bank acct is low and so to try to save $$$ I purchased the generic stuff b/c it is way cheaper than the Claritin....(he and I are separated but still living in the same house since I was dx'd shortly after the decision to separate. Trying to make things less difficult for the kids and all. and we still have a joint acct so he has been freaking out about the medical bills.) Well, I hope its the generic Claritin, and maybe not a SE from the Taxol. Other than the bone pain, and the throat lump, and the not-able-to-taste-anything--and I HAVE been trying to eat more in an attempt to enjoy what I am eating. How stupid is that?!!  It's like maybe if I eat 3 times my normal amount I will eventually enjoy it? Still can't taste it!  DUMB!! 

    Anyway, the only other SE really bothering me right now is the fingernail pain, mostly in my thumbs and index fingers. I know there is a possibility of losing them (yuck) and in an effort to try to keep them as long as possible, I still have my artificial nails on. Figured a little support couldn't hurt. I get them filled every Tuesday morning prior to chemo, and they looked OK the last time I went. Not purple or anything. Toenails seem to be OK though, no pain, although I painted them this past week in preparation for the warm sunny weather here.  Look pretty good, even if I do say so myself.  

    Anyway,  I just wanted to say what a Godsend this site and all you girls have been for me. I think I spent 70% of my time the last 2 days just reading up on all the posts from the beginning, and I can't believe how far we've come.  Just to have someone to vent to, to cry with, to laugh with.....I can't talk about this stuff to my family or even most of my friends, but I can complain to you girls and you all understand.   I couldn't get thru this without you!  Thank you all so much!!

  • burley
    burley Member Posts: 631
    edited April 2010

    Happy Easter, everyone!  Sorry for those of you with side effects on what should be a day off from them...I hope you're able to enjoy part of the day at least.

    My 10 year old daughter doesn't believe in the Easter Bunny anymore as of this morning...dang!  And I thought I was being so sneaky.  Come to find out, she doesn't believe in Santa Claus either.  Less work for me!

  • burley
    burley Member Posts: 631
    edited April 2010

    Oh, and by the way...THERE IS A GOD!

    I just found out yesterday I'm inheriting $90,000...no joke!  Should be here sometime between now and June after my uncle's estate is settled.

    Unbelievable.  This has been my unluckiest and luckiest year at the same time!

  • retrievermom
    retrievermom Member Posts: 522
    edited April 2010

    indee:  Like you, I eat more when what I eat doesn't taste.  It's as tho I'm searching for that "fix" that will taste good.  As for the nails turning purple,  I have two toenails that have been purple, and hurting somewhat, for weeks.  They have not fallen off.  So maybe your fingernails will hang in there.  I hope so for your sake.

    bailey:  I changed heartburn otc's more than once and then doubled up after reading others' experiences.  The Gas-X did nothing for me, but the 24 hour time release heartburn stuff did.

    burley:  Wow!  

  • me2u
    me2u Member Posts: 52
    edited April 2010

    hi teemee, last wed my WBC was low and ONC gave me 2 mini jabs to booast them up. the first shot was ok however the 2nd jab had my bones aching especially when i touched and sqeeze them. when comes night time, i had a horrible headache as well. hang in there, it will goes away.

    had my chemo on sat and today my nastuela jab, so far so good, no aches, crossing my fingers. taste wise, its weird tasting on certain foods, will have to bear with it.

    btw, my ONC admin girl just called me to check if i am comfortable to share my BC experience (phone interview) on sat cos they are planning for a BC awareness talk soon and I said Yes, of course! would love to create as much awareness to the women out there that early detection goes a long way....keep all in touch if this pulls through :)

  • mofend
    mofend Member Posts: 140
    edited April 2010

    That's awesome, Burley!!!  Sounds like the timing couldn't be better. 

    I just crossed off another day on my "chemo" calendar and it's really becoming apparent that this is all going quickly - quicker than I thought it would anyway, so it gave me a momentary sigh to know that just another eight weeks and this chemo bit will be over.  I'm really beginning to see the light at the end of the tunnel, is what I'm trying to say.  Hope you all are, too!  Mo

  • mebrown
    mebrown Member Posts: 74
    edited April 2010

    lindee I hate to hear about all the SEs you are going through and I understand about the medical bills. We had some money to come in and we were hoping to be able to save. haha everything has been going to medical bills. At least we are making it. Hang in there and I do hope that the pain will ease up. My husband had fingernail pain when he was going through chemo and he didn't lose any nails. So I hope the same for everyone who has fingernail pain.

    burley  That is wonderful!! and well deserved. 

    It is another beautiful day and I hope all can enjoy it as best you can through the SEs. 

  • mofend
    mofend Member Posts: 140
    edited April 2010
    Hi - I've seen in a couple of the posts that some of you are having difficulty with medical bills.  There is a phenomenal organization called Patient Advocate at www.patientadvocate.org.  At the bottom of their site you can click on Co-Pay Relief and it tells you how to apply to get them to help pay the costs over and above your insurance.  We did this when my father had cancer and some of his medications were not covered and neither were some of his treatments, and they paid everything!  You have to provide them with financial information and then they let you know if you're eligible.  They were wonderful to work with and my parents were so thankful for their help.  So, thought it might be something you can look into - it's a well kept secret, I found out.  Hope this helps because the last thing anyone needs to be worrying about right now is money.  Much more important dragons to slay, as they say!  Take care, ladies - Mo
  • burley
    burley Member Posts: 631
    edited April 2010

    Had a fill in my TE's today, and I am more sick to my stomach from the pain than I usually am after a treatment!  Torture...

    Everything is seriously bland...I either have to eat my food really hot just to have some sensation in my mouth, or load it up with salt and pepper.  We went out to eat last night and I had this gigantic burger with bleu cheese and onion strings on it...nothing.  Barely any taste.  Ugh!  Junior Mints are still good luckily Wink

  • riley702
    riley702 Member Posts: 1,600
    edited April 2010

    I agree with some of the others who've said citrus tastes come through best. Maybe a few Starburst jelly beans or a lemon Luna bar. Or sherbet. I really have to stop myself from salting everything to death.

  • Iamstronger
    Iamstronger Member Posts: 378
    edited April 2010

    HI All,

    I too struggle with the  food being tasteless.  I agree with the others on Citrus.  This is one of the items that I can taste.  I also find that a cruch helps too.  I may not be able to taste so much, but the change in texture seems to have helped somewhat.  I have added almonds to my mini bowl of icecream.  yumm

    mofend-i am so excited that i am halfway through too.  I have found that once i am at the halfway point in anything that I find unpleasant, it is so much easier to see the end.

    Question for you all.  Anyone having sleep problems?  I am waking up a few times a night.  Sometimes it is due to night sweats, but other times I just wake up and can't fall asleep.  Let me tell you, doing chemo and having a 2 yr old and a 3yr old and no sleep has been SUPER hard  for me.  I do have some help with the little ones, but i have no patience and my youngest is embracing the "terrible twos" which makes it even more challenging.  Anyway, just curious if anyone else is experience sleep issues.

    Hope everyone is doing well and having little or better yet, no side effects!

    Verene

  • mebrown
    mebrown Member Posts: 74
    edited April 2010

    Verene - I too have problems sleeping. I have tried Benedryl and Ambien and still only sleep a couple of hours at a time. Like you night sweats is sometimes the problem. I have also had a sore throat that wakes me when I try to swallow. Other times I do not know what wakes me, I just wake up.

    Not sure what else to do about not being able to sleep. Anyone have any other suggestions?

  • ginadmc
    ginadmc Member Posts: 263
    edited April 2010

    Verene - I've been having sleep issues, too. I have taken over the counter sleep aids and I don't think it's helped. Last night, I woke up every hour or two. Then I get stressed because I feel like I have to get back to sleep quickly so I get enough hours in before getting up to go to work.

    Do you think your sore throat could be from dryness? I've noticed a very dry mouth and throat when I get up at night. I've been using Biotene mouthwash and it helps with dry mouth and icky mouth taste.

    Gina

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