Starting Chemo Aug 09
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Lilah...Excellent tip. Thank you. Somehow Victoria's Secret and BC just don't go naturally together, but hey...if they've got something that works I'll take it!
Patty
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OK ladies here are two links to items on the Victoria's Secret website. And Patty I know! Who would think that VS was a BC survivor's dream? But it is! They also make bras with some sort of memory foam in them that mold to the body (or at least that is what I've heard) which can help with those whose implants don't quite fill out a cup. There are two insert links (the second one is inexpensive):
Shaping Inserts (which promise to increase you as much as a cup size) - silicone inserts for your bra:
And Invisible Uplift Shapers (which the site says can be worn WITHOUT a bra or with one) -- wow -- but look like silicone of some sort... and might do the trick if you use one in a bra (or out I suppose) to even yourself out:
Cheers,
Lilah
PS -- the hyperlinks above, despite being huge, only took me to www.victoriassecret.com (rather than the page IN that website). So if you click the link and you get the main page, just search the word "inserts" or "style secrets" (which will get you to a page that INCLUDES these items... look for the name of the items -- either Uplift Shapers or Shaping Inserts once you get to that page). OR: copy and paste the above links -- for some reason when you copy and paste them into your browser, they work right (and take you to the exact page).
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When I go to England next week, I am going to a proper bra shop with my sister. She was having backache and her husband said why don't you go get measured properly, having read that most women wear the wrong size bra. She is so pleased with the results so I'm going too. It is something I can't do in our tiny town here. We have a Macy's which claims to fit bras, but when you look, that section is manned by perky little young things who don't look like they have a clue. (Probably some girl who went to high school with one of my boys!)
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Gill, LOL on the perky young thangs! I really hope you have the best time in England, you sooo deserve it!
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Gilly -- have a wonderful trip! I love England. And it seems far more suitable that you be fitted by a proper British lady who know what she is doing.
Lilah
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Weety -- btw -- I think the less expensive inserts might do the trick for you (looks like $16 for the pair) and I bet you could cut it to fit inside your bra (since it is made of silicone).
Memory gel by the way is what some of the bras on the VS site have (or maybe it's just called memory fit? I get the impression it's more than just fabric... you might want to search that term as well and see what they have in your bra size).
Lilah
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Thanks Lilah, I will check it out.
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Thank you, Jenn3, for your advice. This morning I called all my doctors - primary, breast doctor, cardiologist, and the consensus was - get off Evista. So that's what I'm doing now. Hope I get my "mojo" back soon.
Lilah, I don't know the name of the cancer test, but I will ask my oncologist on my next visit. I'm sure it's one that is given after treatment (3 months later for me) to keep an eye on things. I'll let you know as soon as I hear.
Again, thanks for your help!
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Thanks Marrhea - for all I know my doctor did it and didn't tell me lol. I did get blood drawn recently while I was in for my Herceptin (since I have a port it's not a big deal). They told me they were checking my Vitamin D but who knows maybe they did run other checks. I'll ask my ONC when I see her in March.
Here's to all of us getting our mojo back!
Lilah
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I'm guessing that Marrhea might be referring to the tumor marker tests???
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Is that something that is done for ER+ or PR+ cancers, Weety? I totally don't think I had any specific cancer blood tests... but being negative on ER and PR that has meant not having certain tests (like the Oncotype, for example).
Thanks,
Lilah
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Marrhea - you are very welcome - I hope that getting off of the Evista helps you "to get your groove on" again...........
Gill - LOL..... you're right about that perky little thing...........
Speakin of VS...........they gave me a great bra fitting ironically enough about 6 months before my dx and I was wearing the wrong size - the new "bigger" size really made a difference. Guess after recon later this year, early next year I'll have to get refitted for my new size.................
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Lilah - The way I understand it, there are blood tests which evaluate certain blood "markers" that are associated with tumors (of any kind). I don't think it matters about the hormone receptivity, it is more of a screening test to see if further evaluation needs to be done. From what I've read, these tests can be useful, but can't be used as a single measure to determine whether you have cancer or not since elevated results can be due to a variety of things that are unassociated with cancer. My Onc never ordered any scans or tests for me because, as he put it: "We fish where we think there are fish and we don't have any reason to believe your cancer has spread outside of what we already know"
Patty
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Thanks Patty. My ONC is a thorough woman from all I can see. I'm sure if she thought a blood test was necessary, she would order it.
Lilah
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Lilah, the tumor marker test is just as msmpatty described it. Some oncs use it, others don't. The problem is that it has both false negatives and false positives. THe one they use for breast cancer is called CA27.29. My onc follows mine every 3 months. I only know about it because I always (ALWAYS) go and pick up all my blood work without waiting for my appts. THe results of this test is blocked from the normal website that gives routine lab work, but when I go to the medical records office, they have to release any records that you request, and this is one that I found out is on there. The "number" on the test isn't as important as is the trend. If the results started creeping up, then more tests/bloodwork might be in order. It is only one indicator of cancer growing, but not always accurate. Look around this website a bit and you will find lots of anxiety-ridden patients asking questions about their tumor marker results.
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Thanks Weety. I will ask my ONC about it, given all the discussion here. It may be she doesn't choose to run that test. I don't know. I have an appt in March and will ask her about it then.
Hope everyone is having a great day!
Lilah
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Just wanted to check in to say hellos, it's been a few days. I'm starting to get a little on the crispy side from radiation, but not as bad as I thought. Hopefully it won't get as bad as they first predicted........but I'm not getting my hopes up yet - I still have 12 or 13 more treatments.
Hope everyone is having a good week.
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Jenn - From what I've read, your "crispies" are coming right on schedule. What are using on your skin?
Patty
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Hello ladies, just thought I would stop in and complain about how I'm feeling. I went from feeling great after chemo and again after rads to feeling lightheaded all the time. I am wondering if anyone else is experiencing this too. It happens about 15 minutes after I wake up and last all day. I think maybe this could be a chemopause side effect I am also very tired. I have been without my period for almost 6 months now and the hot flashes at night are getting worse. I also have read that the lightheadedness could be from anxiety??? All I know is it kinda freaks me out since my moms breast cancer went from her breast to her brain 6 years later. Although I have no headaches like she did and if I remember correctly I complained about being lightheaded last year right before I was diagnosed with breast cancer, I always assumed it was sinus related and even occasionaly take sinus pills to relieve it and think it works sometimes. Or it could be getting more constant because all I do is think about it all day! I think in reality I probly don't have a huge tumor in my brain because I'm not affected while laying down and you would think if it were I would be affected all the time no matter what position I'm in......oh my can you say anxiety! {{{HUGS}}} Donna
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Donna -- have you consulted with your doctor about this? Have you been monitoring your blood pressure? Low BP can make you light-headed (I believe). So can low blood sugar. It could be something like that (which is easily checked). It also could be anxiety (you could be hyperventilating out of anxiety without realizing it). If it's anxiety, getting a check up will help calm your nerves... if it's BP or blood sugar or some other innocent imbalance a doctor can help
Lilah
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I've had some dizziness that at first I chalked up to my herceptin, but now during radiation I am on a herceptin break and the dizziness is still there. I've considered all brain tumor possibilities as well (I HATE CANCER) but when I think about it realistically, I think it might be the whole chemo-pause thing and the lack of hormones (and also I'm sure the anxiety doesn't help). I think I remember reading somewhere that women with low estrogen going through menopause can feel foggy and dizzy at times. I wish I knew for sure, too, though because I make myself sick worrying about every little thing like this!
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Donna - I'm so sorry you're feeling like crap.............The dizziness could be from so many things. I'm still doing radiation and at times feel a little lightheaded at the end of the day, but think it's more from fatigue. Also, I am a terrible allergy sufferer with a lot of sinus problems that were much worse with chemo. I have found that sometimes my weird feeling is from sinus pressure and a sinus pill helps. Talk to the onc......... because like the others said it could be from so many other things and you do need peace of mind. (((HUGS)))
Patty - I am using Lubriderm in the morning after my shower and again before I get dressed, Miaderm (aloe based product that my onc likes) during the day and after radiation, I use a leaf from the Aloe plant at night before going to bed and sometimes I used another rub down of Lubriderm. I've starting itching these past few days and the onc suggested the Hydrocortizone cream, which I used last night instead of lotion and it helped the itching and gave me great relief. It's bothersome at times and it's getting redder by the day, but really not doing as bad as I thought. I really hope to continue down this path..........but I know the end is when we really start to fry.
Weety - how are you doing with radiation?
Lilah - how are you feeling? getting your energy back?
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Donna and Weety - I agree with the others. Light headedness could be due to so many things. Maybe a visit to your GP for a general check up?
Jenn - Thanks for the information on what you are using during radiation. I'm also using the Miaderm, which people rave about. I'm avoiding Lubriderm. Although it works great I had an allergic reaction to it while on Taxol. I got angry red spots on my legs and arms which disappeared when I changed to Aveeno. I have used Aquaphor in addition to the Miaderm but I don't know if either are working because I've only just finished my first five TXs. My rad Onc assured me this morning that the skin reaction gets worse over the course of treatment...so we just have to keep lubbing up and trying new stuff as the skin gets worse. Glad the cortisone cream gave you some relief!
Patty
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Patty - I don't know if it's a fluke or the hydrocortizone helped, but today it the best my skin has felt in the last 4 or 5 days......just thought I'd mention it. I'm going to keep using the hydrocortizone once a day through the weekend and I'll report back on Monday.
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Jenn -- you're such a sweety to ask after me! (And so glad the creams and hydrocortizone are working)! I've been quiet because a lot of the chat has been about radiation (about which I know nothing)... and at the moment I'm also without internet or tv service! WE got over a foot of snow yesterday and today (ANOTHER FOOT on top of the one we already had) and my internet service has been out since last night. Im going through withdrawal! I am sitting at a Starbucks now getting my fix (caffeine AND internet lol). I am feeling GOOD except for the lack of internet which is driving me crazy!
Lilah
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Jenn - I'm so glad the hydrocortisone cream seems to be working. I'm anxious to hear the results of your weekend "test". A friend of mine swears by Emu Oil, so I'm doing my own little test of it this weekend as well.
Lilah - Sorry you feel left out of the rads discusssions...but, trust me, it's not worth doing rads just to participate in the conversation. HA! I'm also sorry you have been unwillingly thrust back to the pre-internet days. What did we do with our free time then? Good luck digging out!
It's raining buckets here in San Diego and, apparently, a (little) tzunami is on its way to our shores from the earthquake in Chile. Exciting day!
Patty
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Lilah - Yuck to the snow! We rarely see snow down here and in all honesty we don't know what to do when it does snow just a an inch or more. I really don't know how I'd handle the snow you're getting...... We've become so used to instant access and cable television that when it's out we feel lost......I sometimes think "how did I do it"? I'm still not happy with getting rid of the analog system because that would give you access to at least the network stations on an old television if cable was out or with a battery operated television (like I had for the hurricane season). But.....in the name of moving foward it's something else to get used to. Glad to hear you go your coffee and internet fix at the same time. Both of which seem to be an addiction of mine too.
Patty - so far the hydrocortizone cream really calms the skin - I've been using it and either the Lubriderm or Miaderm. I forgot my Aloe leaf last night. Good luck with the weather - I heard about the earthquake in Chile - terrible.
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My mother-in-law is from Chile (came here to the states at age 32) and has most of her family still out there. So far, all of them are okay. SCARY!
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Patty -- aw sorry I didn't mean to sound like I feel left out! I just wanted to explain why I wasn't commenting. It's fine with me, really, to be left out of that convo.
And good news! My internet and tv are finally BACK! Almost two days later I am back in my favorite spot: in front of the TV with laptop in my lap
I felt SO deprived!
Except for the snow it's been nice here though... so it's all melting pretty fast. My BF and I went to see a movie called THE LAST STATION today, about Tolstoy's last days, it was lovely! And then we came home to restoration of service
Lilah
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Weety - glad to hear you MIL's family is okay - I hate hearing these things - the recovery is so hard, mentally and physically.
Lilah - Whoo Hoo........... television and laptap - your day is complete. The movie you mentioned sounds like one my oldest daughter would like. She still hasn't finished school.........can't figure out what to do, but she was an English major, then a History major, then a dual History and English major.
I brought my youngest daughter to the airport this afternoon - she is in route to DC with some of her classmates from school. And..........because it was cancelled a few weeks ago and had to be rescheduled they ended up with an extra day and a half of fun (at no additional cost). Yipeeee..... As we were standing there talking I also found out that one of the Mom's has volunteered to take a small group of the girls to the beach the week after their graduation. Senior year is so much fun..........
Stay warm and I hope that everyone has a great evening.
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