Proud Mama!!!
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I really haven't shared much about my youngest daughter and some of our tough times here, but she just called with an award she received that is such an honor I have to share how she got to it.
Two years ago she was a healthy normal teenager (sophmore), then after a cheerleading performance the first week of school she starting having pain in her foot. We thought she had sprained her ankle and treated it as such, it didn't get better went to the doctor they took x-rays and various test, didn't see anything and suggested a boot. Again, got worse - more testing, nothing..... Then this mysterious pain and inability to move her foot went to both feet - she was suddenly in a wheelchair - a month later it was in her hands and she was unable to even bathe or brush her own teeth. Again...... doctors don't know what it is. She pushes through - still attending school, her friends helping her with her work, teachers giving oral test instead of written. She works hard in therapy and manages to get out of the wheelchair, but still struggles with pain. One year later she is diagnosed with a rare neurological disease that is treatable. She hobbles through the next year trying different medications, learning to manage the disease, but is unable to cheer anymore, which disappoints her, but you do what you have to in life. During this time, she continues to volunteer at the Lighthouse for the Blind, continues to do various other volunteer work with Key Club and maintains honor roll status. Then......... the fall of last year her dad passes away and early summer I'm diagnosed with Stage III Breast Cancer. The start of her Senior year she has to deal with the death of a parent and the cancer diagnosis of another in addition to Senior year stress. Does she give up? Nope, she works just as hard with her volunteer work, helps more around the house and manages to get her grades up even higher!!! And.............her hard work has started to pay off with scholarships she's being offered to various colleges, but that's not all............
She was nominated by her peers for Louisiana Young Heros Award - an award given literally to only handful of kids each year. The committee interviewed her teachers and school administrators, talked to various other people she's worked with and she has WON the award. My sweet angel will be one of a few select kids in the State to receive this award and will be honored with a luncheon at the Govenor's Mansion in April (by which time I hope to have more hair). I am so proud of her............. She has overcome so much in the last few years and has ended up on top!!!! Amazing what our kids can do when they put their minds to it. I am so proud of her and just wanted to share it with my BC Sisters.
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Congratulations!! God bless you and your beautiful daughter!!! xo
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Jenn3;
What a wonderful story, I am impressed with her determination and focus on life and its rewards at such a young age. I am certain that she will always remain a leader in life and make you proud.
Her ability to stay the course obviously came from her parents... you taught her well
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My best to you both and " CONGRATULATIONS " to your daughter.
My sympathy that her dad passed away, it has been a tough few years ...enjoy this celebration.
(((( HUGS ))))
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A proud moment for sure. Congratulations!
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Amazing:) Both you and her!!!! So so wonderful!!
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Congratulations! She's some special person!
Leah
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The story gave me goosebumps.....
What an awesome, really awesome child. You just can't be more proud of her.
You did good MOM.
Jacqueline
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Congratulations to you both! Quite and awesome daughter you have. Good job mom!
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What terrific news!! I can feel the joy and how proud you are coming through your post. Please pass on to her that I am proud of her great accomplishments too!! She is an inspiration!!
HUgs,
Lexi
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What a wonderful story, she sound like a very smart, strong and determined young lady. Aren't daughter great, just when you think you know them they blow you away.
Congratulations to you and your daughter.
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How wonderful for her and for you. And well-deserved. You have raised a strong, caring daughter. I hope you both celebrate BIG when she is presented her award. Congratulations, Jenn.
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Wow, Jenn that is awesome! I'd be beaming with pride (and crying a bit, too). Congrats to your daughter and yes, you done good, Mom!
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You have done good! You have raised an awesome young lady! Good job
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I am wiping tears from my cheeks - what a bittersweet, yet marvelous post. While I feel so badly for all she has suffered, as if that wasn't enough, then the loss of her Dad, and capped off with your diagnose of cancer - my God, it's one of those situations where you have to look up above and scream why, why, why. What a wonderful child you have raised, may she walk in sunshine from this point on - always. And a healthy journey for you as well. Thanks so much for sharing this story - how very proud you must be.
Linda
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You should be a very PROUD MAMA wow your story is so inspirational ...... my best to you both xoxoxox
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that is wonderful Jenn.
you must be so proud. may she have a wonderful future.
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Jenn...thanks for sharing your wonderful news....what an amazing young lady.....Karen
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Wow!! I can see why you are so proud. she must be so proud of her MOM!
Jackie
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You raised her well. You must be very proud!!
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Wow Jen! What wonderful news!! You must be so proud of her!! Like mother, like daughter!
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Thank you so much!!!! I am so proud of her for not straying and staying focused. It's so much easier to give up than to work through the hard times - and rather than taking the easy way out she decided to work harder. Although I've told her how proud I am of her time and time again, it's nice that she has been recognized by this award.
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Jenn - Thanks for sharing Jenn. Your family has been through so much. Your daughter would be so proud to read your post.
BC is tough on teenagers (and she has had to battle with so much more). I was dx during my daughters senior year.
Bev
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Congratulations to both of you! What an amazing young lady!
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Wow !! Congrats out to your daughter...Jenn I was not aware of your history..lots of love out to you and your family !!
much love
C
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Both your daughter and you are AMAZING examples for all!
Thank you for sharing!
Many many congratulations to you both!
Marcia
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I too had tears streaming down my face. You must be so proud of her. She sounds like a couragous inspirational young lady! You both have endured so much! Congrats to you both!
P.S. Spelling is off due to chemo fog.
Frankie
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Thank you - it feels good to share the story. I hadn't mentioned what my daughter (and our family) has been through the last few years because she had reached a good medium and she really doesn't like to talk about it much so I try to honor that. But............. I am just so proud of her that I just had to share with you. I feel like we're one big (cyber) family and help each other good times and bad.
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What a blessing to have such a wonderfull daughter! Tell her congrats and also to you...what a great job you and your late husband have done raising her!! I just had an argument with my 13 year old daughter...a bit upset from it then .. I read your post...Thanks!
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An award she well deserves. I cried reading your words. You have an amazing daughter. Hmm, I wonder who she takes after...
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WOW one awesome child! One awesome parent! One wonderful reward!
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