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I've been lurking lately.
Paula,that just SUCKS! and I'd me mad too! I'll be praying for you.
Did Nathan catch more than seaweed while fishing?
Mary- Somethings- like husbands- will never change. At least your's TRIES to fix things.
Janie- glad your job is going well... we all deserve that.
The triathlon went well last month. Finished it inless than I thought I would. Took a tourof Michigan to see #1 son and did a bunch of wine tasting, biking and swimming in 2 of the Great Lakes. Then we took the ferry back to WI. Something we kept saying would be fun, but we never did it... great sunset.
Renee -
Renee, good to hear from you again. Glad things are going well. I'll be up your way at Christmas (no matter what treatment they have to throw at me in the meantime).
I'm glad I have you guys to help support me through this latest "bump" in the road. I'm really hoping it's just that. I'll post again tomorrow after I meet with the onc/surgeon. -
P.J. hope you get some good news. I am waiting to hear from you. Mary
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PJ,
You continue to be in my thoughts. I DO hope you get good news.
Hugs,
Janie -
Well, saw the onc and the surgeon today. Onc is being very noncommittal until I get all my scans done. CT this afternoon, then bone and MUGA, hopefully, tomorrow. Surgeon says she thinks it's just local and can be taken care of pretty easily. She's been wrong just about every time, tho, but for now I'm going with her optimism.
Apparently, the thing was outisde the field of radiation, but the chemo apparently was a bust. But I guess they could still radiate the area (whee).
Hope you guys are OK. They're also going to retest me for HER status, as that can change, apparently. Great. -
The law of averages says she needs to be right sometimes....now is the time. I didn't know that about HER2...it is a strange animal. Still holding you in my thoughts and prayers that it will be dealt with swiftly and successfully.
I have dental surgery scheduled Tuesday. Was trying to put that off as long as I could with so many other appointments taking up my time.
Mary, is this your Herceptin week? I did my infusion yesterday. Nothing out of the ordinary.
Later Girls,
Janie -
Ooh, Janie, have fun with that oral surgery. Hope it goes well and isn't real painful.
CT scan came back clean! Still bone scan and MUGA to go, but I'm not sweating those as much. I guess after those come back (clean/OK) we decide what to do.
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Hi Girls, Well sure glad so far so good P.J. Your onkie donk has to be right eventually. I know how you feel, the Docs. kept giving me hopefull possibilities and when all was said and done it was always the worse. I just got so I would ask whats the worse it could be and I would believe that, and it was. I would hope for a surprise but I was prepared for the bad.I got tired of being let down ya know? Today was herceptin day and I went over early(12:30) so I was done and out at 1:45. They run my every other wk. in about 40 mins. I woke up about 5:30 and made myself stay awake. P.J. the results of the bone scan should be back in a couple hours. My reg. Dr. called me an hour later(thats why I took them homemade cookies). You will get 2 doses of radioactive crap so you will glow in the dark like me. I had my muga and bone scan 2 days apart. Good luck with the teeth Janie, thats never fun. Have you ever noticed how happy onkies seem to look? Maybe they are a special breed or maybe they are thinking of all the money they are making. Be strong P.J. we are right beside you.Good luck again Janie. Novocain and benadryl Hugs,zzzzzzzMary
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Have a good Benadryl snooze, Mary. Hope that Herceptin's kicking butt for both you and Janie.
I'm about to head to bed myself. Got to get back into school mode. Starts Monday.... I feel SOOOO much better than I did a few hours ago. Much relief. -
Great news about the scan PJ. Maybe the onc was right this time. Hope you Mary, Renee and the rest have a good day and weekend. Gotta get out the door. We've been in session a while already.
Warm Fuzzies,
Janie -
YEAH Paula on the CT scan. I agree with the others if your onc has always been wrong- he's due to be right this time. When you are here for Christmas we have to meet. You'll need some coffee, hot tea, or hot chocolate at that time of the year.
Nathan starts school next week already. wow that seems so early, but I know it always made my daily activities much easier. Still praying for you.
Janie, I hope your oral surgery is not bad,just ask for lots of drugs!
Mary, we need a laugh- what has honey done now?
Renee -
Yes mary, What has he "fixed" lately? Renee, the cold weather drinks remind me of Fall weather back in TN. My favorite time of year. It will still be hot here. We do not really have a Fall season...weatherwise. Since I moved, it will get cold eventually, and probably snow a little....Something that never happened in South GA. It doesn't happen enough here to warrant buying snow removal equipment, so everything closes. I would rather have the scheduled days off instead of having make-up snow days.
Paula, hang in there. May all your results be good from here on out.
Hugs,
Janie -
Well girls I worked Fri. 7 a.m. to today 1:30 p.m.. I should say I donated the time. Well my hubby is in 7th. heaven. His shed came Thursday, chemo day. He was up at 6 a.m. waiting on the guy to bring and build it at 7 a.m. I was off to work before he got here and then I went for herceptin and hubby dropped me off and picked me up and I came home and laid on the couch and went right to sleep. I heard some voices as the grandsons were here to view the castle/shed building and the guy building it came in to go to the bathroom but I was too sleepy to open my eyes until about 5:00 p.m. I awoke and with my eyes half open I stumbled in my drunken benadryl stuper to the kitchen window to see where everyone was. I saw a bright light and in this bright light was a "GOD" all sweaty and muscles buldging from every inch of his young tanned body. I stood there wondering how perfect his 6 pack abs. were and he bent over to grab a power nailer and his gluteus were fine too(butt). I then came to reality and saw my hubby sitting all alone on the deck watching as patiently as he could and I know he wanted it done yesterday but he was content. I felf really sorry for my hubby out there all alone just watching so I decided to stumble out to sit and keep him company. After all its the least I could do. I sat with my eyes glued on the wonderful young man and he had to be uncomfortable because I am sure my hubby had been perched there like a caged rabbit waiting for the exact moment this castle/shed was done so he could admire it for hours. Well the benadryl wasn't quite out of my system and I began to doze a little and I awoke wondering how long I had been out, Had I drooled? or passed gas? Well I had to go in and get some caffine in me but shoot, now I have to get up and walk like egor and stagger like I am drunk. I waited till his back was to me and I hobbled my gimp ass in the house not to go out again but I did gaze once in a while from the window. (Herceptin seems to give me gas for a few days.) Well while I was watching the "view" hubby was was eye balling the power nailer. Hubby has an air compressor and now we need tools for it. Girls, Do you know how much damage he could do with a power nailer????My pictures would be hung permently to the walls. I wouldn't have to waste money on curtain rods...we could just"nail"them up.....Guess I could nail the grandkids to the yard....If my pants wont stay up, hey I can nail them up. I guess it could help the herceptin diarrhea...yep! nail er shut girls.... Those things are powerfuf and He could hurt himself or worse yet me!!!!!We have nothing we need to nail that often but we will have one and we will use it....Guess my dog won't go outta yard. I always wanted to hang my clothes out to dry and get that good fresh smell, we have privacy fence to nail them on, who needs a clothes line? Later, guess we will be going to Sears soon. Mary
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Was the washboard abs guy real or a figment of your Benedryl delusion? I don't guess it matters either way. Sounds like hubby is in home improvement heaven.
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Janie, Ya know I really don't know if it was all real or a little delusion of benadryl. In my mind it was one of those moments where its like a car wreck, ya just can't turn away and ya wont get a second chance if ya miss it. I asked my hubby why we need a power nailer, he said for when we hang the crown molding???? I had no idea we were going to hang crown molding. Where will we hang it??? and most of all why???? I don't think he knows what the hell crown molding is!!!! We don't have wood trim around our doorways, its sorta spanish style curved. I bet when we ask for it at Lowes they will give us some and we will bring it home and hang it.I have a good dark place to "hang" it!!!!!And I will use the "power Nailer" to do it. Hugs, Mary
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By the way, we still haven't given the remaining 4 ft. of trim in the bedroom a second coat and the bathroom is still waiting for a second coat on the trim around the shower. Maybe we can put "crown molding" over it all. Mary again.
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I am going to have "crown molding" on my teeth Tuesday. Actually, an extraction and a bridge. $1600 AFTER dental insurance! I have a crown missing on the other side. I'm not even going to pursue that yet. Too many appointments. I am falling apart at the seams. Where's the power nailer?!?!
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Yoiks, Janie. That'll be some mouth you have after you get all that work done! I hope your dentist is as good to look at as Mary's handyman.... Got to get something for all that money.
Mary, so perhaps you should have a few more sheds put up at your house. Or, maybe you can get Adonis to just come hang out at your house for half the price...
Renee, hot chocolate in December in Wisconsin sounds great. I'm sure I'll be ready for some about 5 minutes after I get off the plane.... -
Janie, I have a partial and a denture(top) that I got made a year in a half ago and I can't wear them cause the wt. I gained caused them not to fit right. I have to wear my old denture that is 22 years old. I need to just get what few bottom teeth pulled and be done with it but I keep hanging on to them. It is so nice to have the top denture and not have to get any work done on the top. I have never missed those teeth. I don't know what a bottom denture would be like. I hear its kinda hard to get use to. Gotta go get a new swim suit, we are going to Scottsdale the 30th, the day after my hubby's birthday and my old one of 13 years ripped cause of my extra wt. My daughter is sending us out for my hubby's birthday. (I hope she hides the tools) We are going on a helicopte ride. I don't know if it will be in the Phoenix area or up around Sedona. I have never been on a helicopter. She wants us to see her new place. She lives close to fasion square so we can shop. I can't spend much though with this cobra stuff. Well I am taking my grandaughter shopping to get a few school things. She is in 2nd. grade. She loves to shop. I have a Gap card and I take her like twice a year and let her knock herself out shopping at Gap and Old Navy. I don't shop at Gap so she can shop till she drops. She always says "grandma, this is the best day of my life" so its worth it. I find making memories is the most important part of my life now. The grandsons don't like to shop. I have tried but their male, I drag them through the store and they say grandma just buy whatever you want. I don't bother anymore, I just buy for them. Well better go. Hugs, Mary
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Mary, the shopping trip with your granddaughter sounds like a blast. And so does the trip south. You're pretty brave to get on that helicopter....
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Hi girls,
PJ, My dentist is a female who could easily pass for 20 years of age. She is as cute as a button, but I don't lean that way.
Hot Chocolate in December in Wisconsin, how inviting!
Mary, the tooth that bothered me last week is almost gone. Like some of yours, it crumbled under Taxol. She said she could actully save it, but thought it would continue to give me problems. The two beside it are in bad shape too. They are on the bottom right. She is going to extract the one and build a bridge across the 3. I will wear a temporary for about six weeks.
I went up in a helicopter once. It was some kind of promotion at a car dealership. I must have bought a car or something. It's been a while back. Anyway, the aerial view is interesting from that height.
Have bunches to do that I have put off doing this weekend. Later.
Janie -
Hi Girls, The shopping was great fun. My good sister the one divorcing my dentist met me at Steak-n-Shake and her new man was with her. I have been worried about her because she has the daughter with C.P. and I was afraid it might scare some men off, anyhow this guy is a Prince. He dotes after my sister and gets the handicap child in and out for her. I am soooo glad for her. Her soon to be X is a nut and treated her like a slave(bipolar). He never helped her at all with the 3 kids and she has a hernia from lifting the one child who is 8 and dead weight to lift. Her x would say you had them you get them in the car and right now!!!! He was so mean to her and I am so glad she has left him. She is such a good mother and has a heart of gold. I would be consumed in pitty for my child and I wouldn't be a good mother for a handicap child. My sister treats her like her other 2 and doesn't play favorites. I think thats the way you should be. She has to spend a lot more time with her though. I am just happy as can be. Hey Janie, we got rid of the poodle cause it was too hyper and we were going to get a female poodle but I looked at this long hair Chihuahua and well the grandsons feel in love with it as my daughter who don't like animals cause they are dirty, I musta dropped her on her head a time or two but anyway we have a Mexican long hair Chihuahua and my hubby and I talk for the dog, like we ask her, "hows mommasieta's babino?" and I answer for her "se mue bien" oh I can't spell Spanish. We were out in the shed/castle and I told my hubby we are going in the house, he will be out there day and night getting it all decked out, anyway I said tell Daddy we are going in and I said for her" adios muchocho, we go ino el casa". We talk spanish for her and we aren't much in to Spanish so we make up what we don't know like el poopo outside-o. What ya think, out patient or long term? Good thing the kids don't come round much, they would put us away. El Hugos, Maria Jose
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OK Mary,,, that did it for me! I have tears from laughing so much at your dog story. I think it's 'out patient'
Still laughing in WI.. Renee -
Residential for sure. See the guys approaching with the white coats?
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Janie, Don't the guys in white coats sell Good Humor ice cream? Could it be Emeril???? Mary
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Mary, I'm rolling on the floor laughing. OK, not really. But I love the dog story, too. Maybe you can enroll in a community college spanish course so you can increase the dog's vocabulary...
Steak and Shake. Boy, I love those placees. Haven't been for years and years. I love those skinny little fries....
Well, onc's nurse called. ER+, HER status still pending. They set up a PET scan instead of a bone scan. Makes me very nervous.... Scan's on Friday. I wonder how long those take. She told me they make you lie in a dark room for an hour before they scan you so you're relaxed. Uh, right....
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Yes, Mary, you just keep telling yourself that. They are there to sell ice cream. Go with them quietly and you may get chocolate.
PJ, I had a PET SCAN, but I had so many procedures at that time, it is hard to remember which was what. I do remember lying in the dark room prior to one of them, and I do not think it was all that bad, nothing traumatic happened anyway, or I would have remembered that.
Adios,
Janie -
Hey P.J. saying prayers for ya, the PET is just like a bone scan you just have to lay still after they give ya the radioactive crap instead of going about your business and going back to get a scan after they give ya the injection. Its the best way to see anything at all going on from heart trouble to cancer. I was to be off tonight since I worked like 30 hours Fri and Sat. but being the nice Senorita I am I am working tonight. I was calling my dog by going "here Phoenix" but she wasn't responding so I now holler "Ondolay...Ondolay....areeba you little Margarita. She just scurries as fast as she can. I guess its good that we try to incorperate her heritage in our lives. Adios my little amigos, I heard that on the Ol Roy Rodgers show way back when. I have to see if I can find some tacos flavor dog food so gotta go. Taquilla Hugg-os, Maria Jose
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Yes, Mary, I'm sure she is glad she lives in a home that relishes diversity. You'll have to go out and buy her some little dog clothes and a little dog purse to carry her in, just like Britney Spears and Paris Hilton!
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Hey ladies,
Dental surgery went well. I am fine as long as I stay drugged. See the local onc tomorrow before Herceptin infusion. I plan to work in my drugged stupor.
Mary, I have had two of the little Mexican pooches. One lived to be 17 and was as smart as could be.
PJ, I remember the guy telling me the injection was sugar. He said cancer likes sugar. It latches onto it and lights up. I said, "Well, if cancer likes sugar, I have been very good to mine."
Time to take a narcotic.
Catch you tomorrow,
Janie
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