Recently Diagnosed & Under 40
I'm 35 years old and was diagnosed with LCIS and ADH in my right breast in October 09. My husband and I were finally going to start trying to conceive for the first time when we got the news. My gynocologist gave me the results and informed me that the surgeon he had consulted with recommends that I have a double masectomy and not have children. I consulted with a surgeon on my own, who tells me it increases my risks of getting bc, but there is no reason why I shouldn't have a family of own. I understand that most women that get diagnosed with LCIS are usually in their 40's & 50's. I'm having trouble finding information that pertains to younger women that get diagnosed with LCIS. I'm confused and frustrated!! I'm planning on making an appt with an oncologist for another opinion. Is there anyone out there with advice??? Thanks!
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Cali7 - A double mastectomy and not have children??? Was any reason given, like hormone positive receptors? I have been heavily researching LCIS for several months now, and I have never seen anything like that. Your plan to see an oncologist (or a breast surgeon, as opposed to a general surgeon) is the right thing to do. Take this one step at a time.
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Thank you Cornellalum. I didn't see this surgeon myself. My gyno had reviewed my info with him. I wasn't given an exact reason except that it is risky and not having children would lessen my chances of developing bc. The surgeon I saw was a reputable breast surgeon. He suggested we remove the ADH before pregnancy. Honestly, I'm just scared. I feel like I don't know enough and want answers. I haven't been able to find anything regarding LCIS and pregnancy. Any resources you recommend? I have a million questions and don't know where to begin.
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I understand the reaction. We were all scared when we first heard the words "cancer," even if what we have isn't really cancer yet. I have found that research is the best way to start to feel comfortable with both the diagnosis and the treatment plan. I started with Google. It took me to a lot of sites, and then I had to sort through to make sure that they were reputable. Be careful, because there's a lot of junk out there. This Breastcancer.org site has excellent general information, but again, you need to be careful with some of the posts by individuals (except me, of course -
) You might not find detailed information about your specific question, however. I'm sorry that I can't help you with your question about LCIS and pregnancy, since I'm one of those "older" women (in my 40's) that's done with having kids, so that was not a concern for me.I also took some of the better research to my doctor, and asked him about it. I also went to several different doctors. One of them told me that if you ask four different doctors the same question, you will get five different answers. She was kidding, of course, but she was right that every doctor will not recommend the same thing.
Finally, you need to take all the information you have gathered and think about it, and make the best decision that you can, remembering that it has to be a decision that you can live with. We don't all make the same decisions in the same situations, because our comfort levels are different.
Most importantly, take your time. You are not in a situation that is critical, so make sure that you are not jumping to conclusions. Get smart, then make the right decision for you.
Good luck with your journey, and please let us know how you are doing.
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Cali your Drs recommendation seems to be a bit radical. ADH and LCIS are not invasive cancers. They are markers that may increase your risk of developing cancer. With that being said pregnancy throws a whole new curve into the mix since it increases your hormones. I would go see an oncologist that has experience with LCIS.
How was your Dx made from a biopsy or excision?
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I agree with cornellalum and mack6. We've all done a lot of research on this and I've never heard recommendations like this. You definitely need at least one other opinion - probably more. LCIS is not common and lots of docs know less than their patients who have done a little research. Try not to get too upset about this yet!
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Thank you all of your support. I was diagnosed with core biopsy in October. The surgeon I chose had the pathology slides and mamo film reassessed and confirmed. I had an MRI a month ago and thankfully all they found was the dense tissue and calification from the ADH. I am scheduled to have the ADH excised on the Jan 15th. The University Hosipital where I am being treated does NOT recommend mastectomy for LCIS. I have done plenty of research and understand all the controversy with LCIS. My frustration comes from the lack of information available for those of us that are diagnosed at a younger age. I plan on getting a few more opinions before making a decision.
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Cali7: I was diagnosed at 38, but since I had the lump soon after I gave birth to my first/only child at 36 it had to have been there previously. I believe it probably occured after I became engorged with milk after giving birth, since the lump was not there before that. (I didn't breast feed.) I don't know how much that has to do with anything. When first discovered, I have/had LCIS, ALH, ADH, Columnar Cell Change, etc. in my left breast for which I had Lumpectomy and Radiation. Since then I've had 3 lumpectomies in my right breast and another in my left too. ADH and other findings were in my right breast and now Columnar Cell Hyperplasia with Atypia in my right breast. I'm close to the point of having a mastectomy, I don't know how much more of this I can deal with. But I do have many other stressful issues in life right now too. Anyway, just wanted to let you know I probably had the LCIS at the age of 36 or before. Good luck to you. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers. Feel free to Private Message me if you'd like.
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Thank you Taraleec for your support. I appreciate you sharing your experiences with me. I will pray for you as well.
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Ladies, thank you for all of your support and advice. I found a great oncologist and spent 20 minutes on the phone with his nurse practitioner today and I now have a plan of action! She helped answer several of my unanswered questions and depending on the results of my excision, children are definatley a possibilty! She is an angel sent from above. I haven't even schedule my appt yet and this women took time from her busy schedule to answer my questions. I'm going to be seeing the oncologist in the middle of February. After that, they will refer me to a genetics counselor. I know this sounds silly, but I can breathe easier knowing what to expect. None of my doctors actually took the time to explain the process to me. I will keep you all posted. What can I expect with the excision? Any recommendations....do's or don'ts??? I
Thanks again!
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If you have a lump, you may not do needle placement. If you do have needle placement, then I would advise you have a plan in place in the UNLIKELY event you have pain. I had a mammo-guided needle placement and had a hard time. However, most people have tolerable pain (<=4/10).
In a mammo guided needle placement, they admonish you that you should not move a muscle through the procedure. Since you can't look at a clock, I don't know how long it lasted, but I'm sure it was at least 30 minutes.
We all have different personalities, and different ways of handling stress/pain. For me, I knew if I told him I was in this much pain I would cry, and if I cried I would move. I was never asked if I had pain. When he saw my face, he did inject some local anesthetic, but it did not work for me. If I ever have to have another, I will bring along a bell or rattle or something that makes noises, and have a conversation before the procedure starts about what is going to happen if I have pain.
Again, most people do have a tolerable time with pain, and probably many who do not are able to directly tell the doc they are in pain. I was not. (A few months later I was diagnosed with a PTSD-like syndrome.) It doesn't matter if this happens in the majority of patients, or if it happens in 1 out of a million cases. It doesn't matter if it is due to my nutty personality. No one should have severe pain during a procedure.
For me, just in case they opt not to respond, next time I will smother my breast in Orajel before the procedure (since they do not allow oral meds since you are going to have surgery.) I know this will only numb the skin and not the insides, but that's the best I can think of.
In a poll I did (Aug 2006), with 38 total responses, 50% of the people had injectable local anesthesia beforehand and had a pain score <=4/10. 18% had injectable local anesthesia beforehand and had a pain score >4/10. 8%did not have injectable local anesthesia beforehand and had a pain score <=4/10. 24% did not have injectable local anesthesia beforehand and had a pain score >4/10.
I just want you to be as pain-free as possible.
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Cali7 - First, take a look at www.lbbc.org. (Living Beyond Breast Cancer) They have a link to a section for young women, which addresses fertility and pregnancy, and there's a conference in February specifically for young women with breast cancer that has workshops about pregnancy and other issues for young women.
As for what to expect with your excision - I had a lumpectomy in November, which was probably a little more extensive than your excision will be. I had the wire placement, and had no problems at all. They numbed me up, and it took about 15 - 20 minutes or so to place the wire. We chatted about good restaurants in the area while they were doing it (you have to wait a few times while they check the placement of the wire by mammogram). Then we went over to the OR, I hopped up on the operating table (OK - I climbed up, but you get the idea), and the next thing I knew I was waking up. They wheeled me out, and I got into a chair in the recovery area. Two hours later, we were headed home. I was sleepy, but in very little pain.
Recommendations: relax, it's not too bad. If you get motion sickness, ask for medication beforehand so the anethesia doesn't make you sick. Find out what kind of closure they are going to use for the incision (steri-strips? surgical glue?) so you know what to expect when you take the bandage off. (my incision was bright purple from the glue, a very interesting color, and I expected steri-strips, but didn't have any). Be careful about stretching your arms above your head for a few days - I popped an internal stitch, which hurt a little. Don't be surprised by some intermittent shooting pains for a few weeks - it's the nerves healing. And you may have some sensitivity, especially your nipple - again, it's the nerves healing. I found that gently rubbing the nipple to reaquaint it with normal sensation helped (privacy helps with this one.
) Really, the worst part was trying to sleep, because I kept rolling over on to the "bad" side, and it woke me up.I was OK to return to work in three days. I only took pain medication once. So really, the whole thing was not nearly the ordeal that I had feared.
I'm glad you found someone to answer your questions. Isn't it amazing how knowledge can take away a lot of the fear?
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Cali--I was diagnosed 6 years ago with LCIS at age 46. I was already done with having kids, so I can't speak to the pregnancy issue with LCIS, but I would recommend seeking out the opinion of an oncologist. (they are the specialist in cancer, not the gyn or the surgeon). The excisional biopsy is not meant to remove all the LCIS ( since it is thought to be multifocal, multicentric and bilateral, which means it could be anywhere throughout either or both breasts--the risk is the same whether it is in one spot or many)--it is done to make sure there is no invasive bc in there along with the LCIS. I took tamoxifen for 5 years and still continue with high risk surveillance of alternating mammos with MRIs every 6 months and breast exams on the opposite 6 months. Praying you get good results soon.
anne
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Hi Cali,
I was diagnosed with LCIS and ADH in my left breast the same as you at age 38 one year ago... I was sooooo scared and concerned when i was diagnosed, i saw 6 doctors also went to Sloan Kettering in Mann... They all told me it was PRE-CANCER!!!!!!!!!! and i have a 25% over my life time of ever getting BC in the future.. I did alot of research on LCIS... I have trust in my Breast Surgeon when he told me i could montior every six months with alternating MRI's. He is truly wonderful!!!!!. There is alot of information I can share with you to ease hopefully some of your concerns... Please private message me and we can talk further... I was like you and felt alone.. I wish at the time i had someone my age going through this.. Please private message me so we can talk further... Thanks.. Christine.. Look forward to hear from you...
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Hi Ladies,
I apologize for not responding sooner. I had a lumpectomy on January 15th and have been home recovering. Despite the fact that they took a pretty good size chuck (as my doctor said jokingly the size of a small brownie approx. 2x2 inches), I'm experiencing minimal pain and the procedure was relatively painless. It did help that I took a little something to calm my nerves before heading out to the hospital. My surgeon just called and there was NO CANCER! Thank god! All the ADH was removed. The pathology reports showed no signs of LCIS! How is that possible? Did we catch it at an early stage? I had the previous path slides from the biopsy confirmed at two different hospitals. So I really don't know what to think. I have an appointment with an oncologist on Tuesday, so I am hoping to get answers there. Regardless, I am thrilled. Thank you for all of your support and I will continue to post as all this unravels.
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Congratulations Cali7 that is great news!!!!!! Love to hear NO CANCER!
Good that you have appointment with oncologist so that you can be monitored.
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Hi Cali7,
Last week I had a stereotactic biopsy for calcifications found in my left breast during a baseline mammogram. They called me with results the next day and told me that I have LCIS and need an excisional biopsy but that most likely it will be benign. I was wondering how you have been doing a year later. My husband and I were ready to start a family but have put it on hold because of this and from all the stuff I've been reading it has been making me nuts. Some say never to have children, etc...so I wanted to see if you started a family or if they told you not too. Any help would be greatly appreciated. It's great that these forums have been setup. Until now I never knew about any of this so I'm scared to death. I'm 36 and will be seeing the dr in a few days to go over my stereotactic results and I guess he'll tell me what the next steps are.
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Hi Tootie1,
I'm so sorry for not responding sooner. I have been traveling for quite some time and am finally settled back in at home. I hope that you are doing well. So where do I begin.....first of all, I'm am healthy and doing well. We do not have children yet. My doctor recommended that we wait 2 years from the date of diagnosis. That will be October of this year. To be quite honest I am terrified of getting pregnant. I've seen way too many people battle cancer and loose the battle.
I've had MRI's and mammograms ever six months and each time they find something, but when they take a closer look, they decide its nothing. It has been quite the emotional roller coaster for me. I know that I am a strong person, but when it comes to my health I completely fall apart. Since my diagnosis I am on 2 high blood pressure meds, an anti depressants and anti anxiety meds. It has not been easy for me to cope. Im ok the majority of the time, however, I tend to have issues a month before my tests and it usually lasts for a month after I receive my results. I feel like I have no control over the situation and it drives me crazy.
So, after months of careful consideration, I have decided to go in for a consultations for both double mastectomy and reconstruction. My appointments are coming up in the beginning of April. I just don't think I can deal with this emotional roller coaster much longer!! It has truly affected my quality of life and i'm at the point where I just cant take it anymore!!
My husband and I decided that we would have one child of our own (god willing) after the surgery and adopt the rest. I'm hoping to have the surgery scheduled for the month of July. I'm ready to begin a new chapter in my life!!
I will keep you posted!
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HI Cali, I can relate to your situation as far as the surveillance driving a person insane. I went the BMX route and really am happy how the whole thing went. I know it is a hard decision. Most people with standard LCIS tend to take tamoxifen and keep their breasts. My family history and the high grade of the LCIS pushed me the other way.
Let me say that now, over one year post surgery, I have lost nothing at all as far as mobility, movement etc. I dance and it did not affect me. I have no pain and no problems. I am so much less anxious than before. All is good.
I cannot see why you couldn't have as many kids as you want after surgery. Once the breasts are gone, so is 95% of the risk.
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Beacon800,
Thank you for sharing your positive experience with me. We can have more children, but we really want to adopt. It's just something we've always wanted to do, however, I don't want to miss the opportunity of having my own child.
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Hi Cali,
I was just wondering if you ever decided to go ahead with the double mastectomy? And if so, how you are making out? After my LCIS diagnosis I went back to my surgeon for my 6 month followup and they found some new calcifciations that they tested and found ADH. After having a open excisional biopsy last month they found a small amount of DCIS 0.4cm, low to intermediate grade (1/2), no necrosis. My surgeon is recommending a double mastectomy. I went in to speak to him yesterday and had a consultation with the plastic surgeon. I'm going to go for a few more opinions before I make any decision. I just turned 37 last week so this is all freaking me out. I have no family history. I hope everything turned out well for you. I haven't been on the site since the last time this happened because I've just been occupied with so much other stuff. I just realized you had responded to me. Thank you!
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Hi Tootie1,
I'm sorry I haven't responed to your post. I hope that you are doing well and would love to know what you decided to do. I haven't been on here in a really long time. I found that the more I think about it, the more crazy I become. I actually had scheduled the surgery and then decided against it. It's been over two years since my diagnosis and I think I'm in a much better place now. Depression and anxiety got the best of me for two years and I finally decided that I need to take control of my life. I've realized that I can't control what is happening in my breasts & that I need to live! I was a stay at home wife and had gained 40 lbs since getting married in 2007. I'm now working and exercising 5 days a week. I have lost 21lbs and I'm completely off my depression and anxiety meds. Honestly, I'm happy again. I refuse to let this diagnosis to bring me down!
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