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Pure
Pure Member Posts: 1,796
edited June 2014 in Stage III Breast Cancer

So I went into labor this morning-full fledged labor for about 2 hours and then it STOPPED. I am now, at home sooooo uncomfortable. I am sitting upright in a chair and I think I might have to sleep in this chair.

When the the labor pains hit the memorys came flooding back and my first thought was-Oh S _ _ _ _ this is going to really flipping hurt.

Not to mention I consumed about 8 nutty butter cookies for breakfast, a sub and 2 more cookies for lunch and now I am on no more food mode b-c we all know what can happen on that table:)))

What I learned today is my doctor and nurse and very concernced for me. My doc said he will come in especially to deliver despite who is on call. I was both touched by their concern and scared. Also, I don't want to be the "cancer girl" delivering the baby.  I am not going to wear my wig but I am wearing a hat, and I am wearing my fake boob-if they ask me to take off my bra they are not going to like my answer. I refuse to be the bald uni boob girl having the baby. I want this to be as normal as possible so I have good memories.

Anyway just an update and a rant.  I am praying I go into labor tonight!!!

I went on the machine and the baby looks good-everything looks normal-no stress.

If I walk I have contractions-if I sit down they stop.

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  • tamlyn110
    tamlyn110 Member Posts: 195
    edited January 2010

    Good luck Jenn- You could wait until Sunday though (thats my b-day:)  ). Keep us updated

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  • apple
    apple Member Posts: 7,799
    edited January 2010

    godspeed Jen

    Good luck.. it does hurt like hell doesn't it?

    ha

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  • Leah_S
    Leah_S Member Posts: 8,458
    edited January 2010

    Oh, Jen, I wish I could just be there with you.

    Now, deep breaths.

    Keep walking - not only does it help the contractions but it gets the baby's head right down where it has to be so second stage (pushing) is easier. Yes, I know it doesn't feel easier but it really is. Remember to relax; it makes the contractions easier to deal with.

    Keep a mental picture of the most relaxing place you can think of. It could be a beach, the woods, your childhood bedroom - whatever place makes you want to just let go. When the contractions come, that's where you should go. Just let yourself melt into the chair or bed.

    Deep breaths.

    Love from all of us will help get you through this. I'm feeling very privileged that your baby chose now - Jan 8 is also my birthday.

    Leah (who is a doula and has 6 kids)

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  • Kodapants
    Kodapants Member Posts: 139
    edited January 2010

    So it's after 10 pm in N.C. so it may happen tonight, I hope you get some rest for all that pushing. I am sorry about the no hair thing. I wore a bandanna with cap over. So no matter what my head was covered. It will soon be over with a bundle of joy. My sister had a baby a year ago and I just can't get enough of that kid. You mentioned your are on facebook, send me a message with your name if you want.

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  • kimber3006
    kimber3006 Member Posts: 586
    edited January 2010

    Oh, wow, your post brought back memories and made me laugh!  I can't wait to hear that beautiful, healthy baby is here and it all went smooth as silk.  I'll be praying for you both....and maybe a little one for anyone who tries to take your bra, too.  ;)

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited January 2010

    Now I am not going to be able to sleep tonight with the excitement of a baby on its way.  Try and get some sleep, then get up and walk so you do not have to be induced!  My midwife made me walk and then squat with each contraction to bring baby down.  If it gets uncomfortable get into that tub and R*E*L*A*X.

    I am so excited for you!  Remember that through all the chemo and surgery that you have been through, that having a baby is one of the most natural things you can do. 

    I wish we are there with you... actually we all are there in spirit with you.....

    Sending peaceful vibes  your way.

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  • Bugs
    Bugs Member Posts: 1,719
    edited January 2010

    How exciting!  OK, maybe too painful for you right now.  I like your idea of being as normal as possible.  This is the time for you and your baby...not cancer.   Hugs and prayers for an easy delivery.

    Leah..I've always wanted to become a doula!  However, being a single mom kinda put a damper on late night trips to the hospital.

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  • Marple
    Marple Member Posts: 19,143
    edited January 2010

    Jen, I hope all goes well.........happy birthday to your baby.

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  • everyminute
    everyminute Member Posts: 1,805
    edited January 2010

    so exciting!

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  • Beverly11
    Beverly11 Member Posts: 443
    edited January 2010

    Thinking of you Jen.  Can't wait to get all the baby details. 

    Deep breaths.  Focal point.

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  • Diana63
    Diana63 Member Posts: 773
    edited January 2010

    I will be praying for you and little man :)

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  • Faith316
    Faith316 Member Posts: 2,431
    edited January 2010

    Totally forget the cancer.  Right now, this is all about the experience of your baby's journey into this world.  A time to create memories for your family.   The birth of a new baby is a beautiful event.  Enjoy this special time.

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  • lexislove
    lexislove Member Posts: 2,645
    edited January 2010

    Wow Pure,

    It sounds like the time is near. This is exciting! I dont have experience in the labor pain department, I had a sceduled C-section......so sorry I cant be much help there.

    Thinking of you and your baby.

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  • smithlme
    smithlme Member Posts: 1,322
    edited January 2010

    Positive thoughts coming your way. Perhaps tomorrow will be the BIG day! Breathe....relax.....post pics!

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  • karen1956
    karen1956 Member Posts: 6,503
    edited January 2010

    Jen....thinking of you and waiting to hear when Killian makes his arrival.....wishing you an easy labor.....hugs from Denver....Karen

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  • KerryMac
    KerryMac Member Posts: 3,529
    edited January 2010

    Jen - oh, I wonder if he is here yet??? So exciting!!

    I remember a couple of days before my son was born suddenly realising I was not going to get any sleep for the next 6 weeks or so - I kind of forgot about that part of it! 

    Hope the delivery is smooth and event free......we are all right there with you. Post a photo if you can.

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  • NancyD
    NancyD Member Posts: 3,562
    edited January 2010

    I hope you got up and walked! Why procrastinate (lol)?

    Here's a {{{{{hug}}}}} and hope that things have progressed to delivery by now. 

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  • Let-It-Be
    Let-It-Be Member Posts: 325
    edited January 2010

    Jen, thinking of you today!  Waiting for news on pins/needles...

    Big Hug,

    Christine

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  • Pure
    Pure Member Posts: 1,796
    edited January 2010

    Thanks Guys!!! Your support means so much.

    I had a eventless night so I am getting motivated today and working out and walking.

    My belly is soooo sooo low it's comical. I need to send pics. How do you post pics on here? I will post on facebook.

    My facebook is Jennifer Varner.

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  • lvtwoqlt
    lvtwoqlt Member Posts: 6,162
    edited January 2010

    Jen, I started into labor but because my son wasn't presenting properly, they did a C-section before I got to the HARD labor. Good luck to you and your bundle of joy, focus on the moment and don't think about cancer.

    Sheila

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  • Annie62
    Annie62 Member Posts: 1,081
    edited January 2010

    Hi Jennifer,

    I haven't been around much the past few weeks but was thinking you were about due and saw your post. I wish you a speedy labor and enjoy that bundle of joy. How exciting!

    Best to you,

    Annie

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  • geewhiz
    geewhiz Member Posts: 1,439
    edited January 2010

    How wonderful to start a new phase in your life. Thanks for sharing, and I am thinking of you and your little one today. Keep walking!!

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  • kimf
    kimf Member Posts: 334
    edited January 2010

    Jen, just checking in to see if you delivered...looks like you're still hanging low but hanging in there...Yes, I remember labor! But you will feel awesome after the baby is born healthy...not to mention the relief physically and mentally!  Best wishes for a happy labor day!

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  • jenn3
    jenn3 Member Posts: 3,316
    edited January 2010

    Wow - the baby is almost here....... Thinking of you and family!!!!! 

    Kiss

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  • AzKim
    AzKim Member Posts: 124
    edited January 2010

    Ohhh,.I remember labor pains and giving birth wasn't any better,lol. I wasn't able to get an epidural (sp?) nothing at all for pain. By the time I got to the hospital (everyone told me I had PLENTY of time since it was my first),.I was already pushing and my doctor said,.there was no time for pain killers to kick in,.YAY! Hahaha,.TOTALLY natural birth,.it seemed like an eternity,.but,.actually only took 4hrs and 20min,.total. (Labor 4 hrs and delivery 20min.) I remember it like it was yesterday,..even though my son is 22 now,.lol.I wish you a speedy delivery,.a healthy baby and a long wonderful life,.I have your hand! Goodluck!! :D

    Hugs, Kim~

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  • candie1971
    candie1971 Member Posts: 4,820
    edited January 2010

    Best of luck with your labor...what a treat youwill have when your baby is born!! Oh how nice!!!

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  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited January 2010

    Jen, I posted my best wishes to you on another of your threads.  Then I found this one.  I had no idea you were this close! I join the others in excited anticipation!

    I can remember labor pains and I am 20 years past the last time I had them.  I would much rather walk around to get labor really going than to be induced.  I went through that once and vowed I would carry the next baby to his due date the next year than go through it again.  

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  • Billynda
    Billynda Member Posts: 121
    edited January 2010

    Wow, I just came onto this website today and here I thought I was the only pregnant girl with Stage III IDC.  Too bad we couldn't have connected earlier!  I'm due the 28th.  I hope and pray all goes well with you and your baby boy!  I'm having a boy, too!  You are definitely in my thoughts and prayers through the night!!!

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  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited January 2010

    Welcome to BC.Org Billynda.  Best wishes on the impending birth of your baby boy.  You will be in my thoughts and prayers as well.

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  • apple
    apple Member Posts: 7,799
    edited January 2010

    Billynda

    2 babies

    what could be better.

    Go Jen!

    i know you'd be jealous of my 80 minute deliveries so I won't go into detail.

    (walk walk walk)

    oh and Jen... if you want to be bald for labor, go for it.

    no one will give a hoot..  i never wore a wig.  it's  all for show and comfort should be Yours.

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