Anyone starting Chemo in August 07?
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DeAnn
Wow! I guess there are alot of things we'll be learning, that chemo has changed us forever....
Enjoy the beer!!
Harley
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DeAnn...gluten as in....BREAD? (no, please no, no please no, no please no....) I can go without many an item. Alcohol? not a problem. Sugar? I could make that work. But Bread? Absolutely not.. I'd rather run naked through the streets of an icelandic berg in the dead of winter with prehistoric mastodons at my heels.
However, that might explain the absolute immovable nature of this belly I've developed.
Hmmmmmnnn. I'm not liking where this is leading the thinking brain things in my head.
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Hey Ladies,
Well, the company has all departed....the decorations are down & stored for another year....and me and 'Teddy Bear' (DH) are settling in for a couple of days of sitting in front of the fire and getting over-dosed on football! LOL Frankly, this is the best part of the holidays to me. Don't get me wrong, I love the time and the family and all the craziness, but it's nice to sit back when it's over and savor another wonderful holiday put to bed in our memories.
Tonight we're doing fondue on the coffee table in front of the fireplace and tomorrow will be our typical southern New Years menu of Hoppin' John and of course collard greens with pot liquor /cornbread and a few other things thrown in for good measure!
Can you tell I like to cook girls? What are you all having?
Nash, I'm so glad to hear that you enjoyed the tea. I so wish that I could 'magically' wave you all here and I would feed you until you popped! Nice to also hear that you and Kaye and Harley have met some new friends.....it isn't always easy as we get older I think.
DeAnn....I'm with Kaye......"slowly remove your hands from my bread please!" You are such a role model and have such determination and will power that I'm amazed sometimes when I read your posts.
The only good thing this ole gal is doing is signing up for a Tai Chi class for seniors in January. I badly need to work on my balance and muscle strength and with the neuropathy in my feet it has gotten progressively worse. I knew I wouldn't be able to keep up in a regular class so decided that I would fare better in a senior class. Besides, I'll probably be the 'youngest' one in the class and believe me that doesn't happen to me very often!! LOL
To all the rest of you...lillith, Harley, Jackie (where are you dear?) , Penney, and all of our wonderful sisters....here's wishing each of you the brightest and healthiest year ever.
love to all of you,
June
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Kaye, you are TOO funny!!
...the same to you, June!!
Jackie... hope you are just hanging out on FB, like I have been...
Happy & Healthy 2010 to all!!!
Harley -
Happy New Year, darlings!
I can't believe it is already 2010!!! life is gallopping, isn't it?
I've been up the Swiss alps, skiing and snow-shoeing - and it was awesome, but I really need to kick my butt back in shape. My skiing has never been fab, but now, after everything, it looks like each movement is a pain... and I came back from snow-shoeing with black toenails as after chemo (I assume I need new snow-boots. I don't know why, but chemo or hormone therapy has made my feet grow both in width and lentgh, suckers).
Well I also came back with a flu. drats.
Once I have all taken care of, I will post a couple of scenary pics on FB.
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Lilith
Glad you had a fun ski trip!! Sorry you brought back a flu! Hope you are feeling better soon!
Can't wait to see those pics!!
Harley -
Yep, Happy New Year everybody.
June, DH looked up Hoppin' John (and those other things) and discribed them to me...we've never heard of them! What a fun traditional meal! Besides the obligatory turkey on Thanksgiving, Christmas Cookies at Christmas and pizza pretty much the rest of the time - we don't have a lot of food traditions...so yes, ma'am you may cook for us until we pop. Thank you.
The Tai-Chi class sounds like a lot of fun. We got a WII-Fit "game" for each other for Christmas. (The Nintendo answer to fitness clubs.) And the balance portion has rated me as (and I quote) "Unbalanced".(really.) Because I'm supposed to pretend I'm going down a slalom course through gates on the snow, but I'm really standing on what feels like a bathroom scale, and I have no poles or anything - and I fall off? Spare me. I did that a few times with their same pronouncement of my balancing ability every time...all the while screaming "I NEED POLES". When they finally said: "Well, looks like balancing isn't your forte!" I grabbed a chair back to simulate the poles, and behold, I rated: EXPERT. What a dorky game. My son says that's called cheating. I call it: "skiing".
And Lilith - I am so jealous of your ski trip! I used to LOVE to ski back in the day, but I"ve never skiied in Europe (Colorado, Utah, and places in Northern California...) but I can not even imagine what the Swiss Alps would be like! And the black toe nails is interesting...DH did that to himself once on an 8-day fishing trip...one of his toenails never did grow back right. GOOD LUCK WITH THAT! And I hope you're feeling better (flu?) soon.
Nash, Jackie, Harley, DeAnn - Happy New Year, and big hugs to you all.
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Lilith, will look forward to the pics--hope you feel better soon!
LOL, Kaye--"unbalanced"--I love it!
Happy New Year to all--xoxox
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Kaye! I am laughing so much as I write this. Way to show that high and mighty WII-Fit program! Lilith! I think your trip sounds amazing! I've never been to the Alps, but someday! Of course, my DH doesn't ski, so I'm not sure when in the world I'd ever get him to agree to a skiing trip in the alps, but one never knows!June! I guess collards must be a traditional southern dish for New Years. One of my friends who lives in NC said she was having a hard time trying to find some for New Years! A run on collard greens! I love it! Happy New Year to you all, and don't worry! I promise not to take your bread away! I never actually said I WAS going to go gluten-free. I said I was "considering trying" to go gluten-free. Big difference! This weekend I was a gluten girl all the way. Pasta! We were at our friend's cabin up north and I'm pretty sure I was eating something every 15 minutes.
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DeAnn,
I LOVE pasta, so I could never go gluten free or carb free!
Kaye,
That is hilarious, about your wwii fit game...
Glad to see everyone is doing just great...
Harley
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Hi All! I got in early to see the MD at the natural medicine clinic and it was such a good experience. I learned a lot in a very short time, and he is much more knowledegable than the nurse practitioner I saw the first time, so I'm really glad she referred me to him. The big news is that he thinks I should stay on Tamoxifen. Even though I don't carry the gene to metabolize it properly, he assured me that it doesn't mean I can't use it. It just means the drug stays in my system longer, so, theoretically, I could even take a lower dose. He said that one of the reasons why I probably am not having side effects is because of my very good diet.
Oh, and he would like me to reduce grains to no more than 20% of my total intake. I think I can manage that so long as I don't have to give them up completely!
Oh, and he advises me to start jumping rope for my osteopenia! Never saw that one coming!
I've got much more info to share but it is kind of technical so I will try to gather my thoughts and make some sense of it. If I just forward you the papers your eyes might glaze over. I know mine kind of did when he was trying to explain things to me in terms I could understand, but I'm sorry, methylation and glutathione are not normal vocabulary words for me!
DeAnn
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DeAnn,
Hey!! Good to see you again! Thanks for the update... I've been thinking about you... I've been wondering how the natur-o-path dr. appt. went...
I would LOVE to hear the news, and yes, even though my brain isn't too good, I am very interested to read the information.
So... are you back on the Tamoxi-train??
I don't understand if you don't metabolize it very well, I wouldn't think it would stay in your system very long... My brain can not absorb this...
Good luck to you, my dear! Can't wait to read your update...
Harley
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DeAnn, glad the appointment was a success. I'm actually glad to hear he was pro-Tamox. That makes me feel better.
20% grains sounds reasonable.
Too bad we don't all live closer--we could start a jump rope club. It would be way more fun to do the traditional playground approach of two girls swinging the rope, with the jumper jumping in, and all of us chanting catchy rhymes, than what I'm sure the doc has in mind for you.
And who knew it would build strong bones? Interesting.
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yes, jumping rope sounds like fun!! Who knew it could build bones??
Harley
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Hi All!
So, jumping rope, it turns out, is super-duper hard! I can only manage about 30-45 seconds at a time and then I have to stop for a minute. If I seriously do this every day, I will be in AWESOME shape by summer! You know what was the most sore after the first day (when I only did 5 minutes, by the way)? My stomach!! The next morning it felt like I had done about 100 abdominal crunches. Seriously! But it was kind of fun, so I'm going to try to keep at it.
OK, so I'm going to try and summarize what I learned from my doc. Basically, he helped me to understand how they think cancer can happen, and it is largely based on our genetics and the enzymes that our bodies produce. It boils down to our bodies ability to detoxify itself. Most of what a cell does is detoxification. Getting rid of metabolic wastes, etc. Getting rid of excess hormones is another example. However, If we happen to be deficient in the enzymes that metabolize estrogen, it can result in a chain reaction of events that eventually cause cancer. OK, let's see if I can make sense of this chart he drew for me.
There are 2 main estrogens (estradiol and estrone). They get converted into 2 hydroxyestrogen (2OH), 4 hydroxyestrogen (4OH), and 16 hydroxyestrogen (16OH). 2OH are good estrogens. These do not cause cancer. However, 4OH, and 16OH, if not properly eliminated through our metabolic process, can cause genetic mutations that result in cancer. They get converted to something called quinones. The quinones react with DNA to form adducts. These are the start of cancer.
Some of us, especially those of us who are hormone positive, probably are missing certain enzymes that metabolize estrogen. In my case, both my parents have had hormone based cancers (mom had uterine cancer and dad has prostrate). So, it is likely I ended up with some faulty genes as well. Adding fuel to the fire was many years on birth control pills. It seems that birth control pills are loaded with 4OH and 16OH forms of estrogen. My body was overwhelmed by the bad forms over time, and well, here I am.
The good news is that, although I can't change my genes, he told me I can overcome my genes with supplementation. One thing that helps convert or eliminate those bad 4OH and 16OH forms is iodine and vitamin D. All cruciferous vegetables also help to eliminate them. This is where taking DIM and IC3 come in. DIM is, essentially, all the good stuff in broccoli and especially is a great supplement for anyone who is ER+. But, even if your body puts it into the waste stream to be eliminated, sometimes, if you don't have the sufficient flora in your intestinal tract, your body will reabsorb them. That's where the calcium d-glucarate comes in. It prevents that from happening so that your body will eliminate the bad guys.
So, he pretty much recommends that everyone with hormone based cancer supplement with DIM, Calcium D-glucarate, Vitamin D, and iodine (though not too much or you can have thyroid issues). Oh, and 1.5 grams per day of EPA/DHA.
In three months, he wants me to do a 24 hour urine comprehensive profile, a red blood cell element profile, vitamin D3, fasting vitamin K and homocysteine levels, TSH, free T 3, and a bone resorption assay. I have no idea what most of those things are, but the tests take about 3 weeks, and then I see him again in May to get the results and we can measure how I'm doing.
So! That's the deal mostly! Sorry if I made anybody's eyes glaze over! I'm off to go jump some rope!
DeAnn
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Wow, Thanks D....that was quiet a post. My eyes didn't glaze over, but I did want to make plane reservations to go see this guy...how amazing. It's stuff that I've read bits and pieces about ever since my dx. (Ok, DH sent me sites, of which I remember bits and pieces) But you get it. Thank you so much -
I really am reading all that literature you sent earlier...it's a lot, but it all makes sense. Thanks for that , too!
Harley - Great pic!
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DeAnn, very interesting. I like to understand things and you made a great job of making it clear.
I have no idea what DIM is - nor IC3? and I don't think I have your extra documentation? it sounds like a good read.
Jumping rope uh? I've tried some time ago.. and can't manage more than a few SECONDS (admittedly vastly out of shape). Maybe once spring sets in and I can bear getting up in the morning, I'll try again...
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Thanks, DeAnn. The doc is exactly what you need--I'm so excited for you that you found him! Great info--thanks for summarizing it for us.
Speaking of sore muscles, my skating competition is in two weeks, and I've doubled my practice sessions. Ouchie. I'll back off of training the week before the comp, but right now Advil is my friend.
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I have discovered it is also very tiring on the arms to jump rope. This is one tough full body workout. Though I'll bet not as hard as figure skating! Sounds like you are really working your body over, Nash! Good luck with the competition!!
Lilith - DIM is a phytonutrient in cruciferous veggies. Here's a website that explains it far better than I can! http://www.dimfaq.com
It seems there is pretty much no negative side effect to taking it, and all the major research centers are looking into this as an adjunct or even alternative to some of the conventional approaches. Pretty exciting stuff!
DeAnn
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DeAnn
Great info! I didn't absorb it all, but WOW! It is very interesting! The TSH and Free T3 I get all the time, cause I have a defective thyroid... underactive, thanks to Hashimoto's... it is an auto immune thyroid condition. I truly believe it is part of the reason I got bc... see, my body doesn't recognize my thyroid... so while it was busy fighting my thyroid, the bc got in thru the back door. Oh, and I took birth control pills for many years also... because I have auto immune condition called premature ovarian failure... again, my body doesn't know that my ovaries belong there, and my ovaries don't know how to work... ugh...
Thanks Kaye... I was getting tired of my old photo...
Hope everyone is doing great!
Hugs to all
Harley
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Hello, girls. Wanted to let you know I skated in my competition yesterday and had a total blast. I'll put FB pic up shortly.
There was a printed program for the event, included in which was a list of "Fun Facts" about the competition. Number 11 was "Best excuse for forgetting the entry check: 'Chemo brain' (We're glad you're still with us)."
Yeah, that was me!
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That is so GREAT! Good JOB - how funny. Well, we're glad that you're still with us, too! Thanks for the update. I'll be checking FB for pix!
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Hey Nash,
What an accomplishment. I hope you had an absolute ball doing it....aches and pains aside though.
Was there a good turn out for the performances? I would think that it being an Olympic year, folks would be geared up.
I'm starting my 30 day count down to the 6 month checks with surgeon/radiologist/oncologist. As usual I find myself having trouble focusing and some disturbed sleep. Do you all experience this too? Do you think it's something we'll just live with best as possible the rest of our lives?
hugs to all...
June
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Hi, June--
I can understand about the anxiety surrounding the 6 mo check. I've found that it's harder for me to go to doc appts now that they are more spread out. The cancer crap sort of fades to memory in between appts, and then when I have to go to the doc, it all gets dragged to the surface once again. As bad as it was when my mom was alive and we were both in treatment, and there was that one month where between the two of us we had 25 appts, at least we were in "doc mode", and it wasn't quite as hard emotionally. It was just part of the routine. It's like being "in shape" to deal with the cancer. I have to see the rad onc next week, and am not looking forward to that.
RE: the skating. The audience turnout consisted of people attached to the skaters, and since the competition ran for 12 hours, the audience came and went. It's a good thing I brought a substantial herd of people with me (20), or else there would have literally been like 3 people in the stands when I skated. I know that a large part of the reason I skated like I did was b/c I had so much positive energy coming to me from my peeps. Anyhow, since it was the first year the club has put on this competition, media attention was sort of at the bottom of the list. They put me in charge of contacting the media outlets at the last minute, and I wasn't able to get any newspaper or TV people interested in it, which surprised me b/c it is an Olympic year, and it's not every day you get to see geriatric skaters in action.
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Nash. Big hugs to you today. I know you are missing your mom a lot.
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Hi Nash - Hi DeAnn - and Hi to you all...
I haven't had a chance to come up (why up, I wonder... anyway) here to post a bit - it has been a madhouse since the start of the year.
Work is - well full of work. sometime interesting, and sometime stupid, frustrating, repetitive, cumbersome, senseless... but that, I am sort of used to.
Unfortunately, my mom's remission was not long-lasting. In fact, it probably never existed... simply, between scans we had the illusion of calm. At the last one, it appears that one of her lungs is fully taken by the monster, and there are several more metastatic spots on her bones.
she has been switched to a new chemo... then she came down with what appears to be a pneumonia - or maybe is a further extremely rapid spread? who knows. Anyway. She was admitted at the hospital last sunday (came back from a week-end away to find my dad in panic, that was quite dreadful). Her breathing is more and more laborious... the docs are trying different antibiotics, but she is getting v. weak, and they can't do more than guesswork, without a scope that would be probably making things even worse. So, we had to decide to forgo that - and I am not sure how long it will last. Could be one night, one week...
I am getting really tired of the monster. It feels I am leaving and breathing it.
Hugs to you gals, I really hope everybody is well and healthy.
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Oh, Lilith. I'm so sorry. I saw your FB post about 2010 sucking, and logged on over here to see if you'd posted what was up. I was afraid it had to do with your mom. Crap. I'm so, so sorry.
DeAnn, thank you. The days leading up to the 15th were tough. The day itself wasn't quite as bad. Sort of like the reality had been.
I wish we could stop the ride and get off.
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Dear lilith....Just wanted you to know that I'm thinking of you and your Mom and praying that she gets some comfort. You are so right about the 'monster' and I think this group will always be flashing light into dark corners.
many many hugs to you and your family,
June
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Thank you girls.
Mom passed away very peacefully saturday, at 5pm. Bless the doctors, she had morphine-induced sleep, was calm - and simply stopped breathing. Both me and my sister were there, holding her hands.
It makes me sad, and fills me with regrets of so many things not done - but I am also grateful that it happened so, rather than months or years of pain. I hope that, wherever she is now, she understand and knows.
The monster won again... but at least it was on mom's terms.
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Lilith
So sorry to read about your Mom's passing... but I'm glad that she is at peace now.
I hate that monster....
Sending HUGS to you, my friend!
Harley
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