Anyone w/ DCIS choose NOT to have reexcision?
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I had a double mast and could certainly have held a cow! You must have dreamed that or someone is yanking your chain! Or else someone is milking her ailment for sympathy!
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Hi Julia,
We did have a young mother on this site who had a mastectomy and reconstruction with tissue expanders. She experienced a lot of pain with the tissue expanders. In addition to this pain, she also had other longstanding physical problems that caused her great pain when trying to lift her young child. Not being able to lift her baby caused her a lot of emotional and physical anguish. Keep in mind that her preexisting situation added tremendously to the pain she suffered with the tissue expanders.
Hugs,
Bren
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CPM - I'm sorry, but putting off surgery for DCIS because it'll cost you thousands and you want to have a baby instead is just penny-wise pound foolish.
Borrow the money if you have to.
Getting pregneant will do weirdo things to your hormones and if that DCIS isn't taken care of you may end up with a baby that graduates from high school without a mother.
The FIRST lesson of parenthood is take care of yourself so you can take care of your children.
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Julia, I remember reading some time after my first surgery that when skin is cut, it takes 6 weeks for the rejoined skin to regain 90% of it's original strength. This is why whenever someone has surgery - of any type - in which there is a large incision, they are sent home with clear instructions to not do any heavy lifting, no reaching, etc. for 6 weeks - they aren't supposed to do anything that will strain the incision. In fact, after my exchange surgery, when I had the implant put in, my PS warned me that I would be feeling great within a few days (and I was) but that the 6 week rule still applied because of concerns about tearing apart the incision. So if you decide to have a mastectomy without immediate reconstruction, unless you are very unusual, you should be good to go - and do anything you please - after 6 weeks. Even if you decide to have an expander put in, for many of us it's a very manageable process with little pain and no restrictions. But as the others have said, with reconstruction there is more risk that you could have problems so the safest bet is to have a mastectomy only with no immediate reconstruction. Reconstruction can always be done later, even years later, if you decide that's what you want.
As for diet, putting my researcher hat back on (sorry folks!), there have been many studies that have shown that elements of diet do in fact increase the risk of breast cancer. Usually the impact is quite small - those are studies that often present using relative risk because it's more impressive to say that there was 50% increase rather than to say that 4 more women out of 100 were affected. And usually these studies are controversial because with self-reporting and with so many lifestyle and personal health & genetic variables that can't be controlled, it's virtually impossible to conclude definitively that it was diet that caused the difference in results between one group and the other. I also don't believe that a pure causal effect has ever been proven between diet and breast cancer. In other words, while it's known that a slightly higher percentage of women who consume alcohol (for example) will get breast cancer, there is no suggestion that alcohol alone actually causes breast cancer. Instead, it appears that elements of diet, together with other factors (either within an individual's genetic make-up or within their environment), may trigger the formation or growth of cancer. This is why there are many women who consume lots of alcohol who still don't get breast cancer. And it's why even within the China study, some women still were diagnosed with breast cancer. You can have the perfect diet & the healthiest lifestyle and still be diagnosed with breast cancer.
Personally (no research here, just my opinion) I believe that there are hundreds and possibly thousands of factors that lead to the development of breast cancer. Some (diet, for example) can be almost fully controlled, others (environmental factors, for example) can be only partially controlled and still others (genetic background) can't be controlled at all. My belief is that for each of us, the combination of factors that caused our cancer is different and there is simply no way to know what the exact combination was or whether the cancer was caused entirely by external factors that can be controlled, or whether at least one of the triggers was outside of our control. That's why I understand when people say that breast cancer is random. I don't really think it is but I think it's virtually impossible to know which unique combination of factors triggered the cancer in each of us. So in that sense, it appears random.
Back to research then.... Even if there was a study on the impact of an aggressive anti-cancer diet and even if it showed that this diet significantly reduced recurrence and new cancer risk, there is no way to know for whom this diet would be effective. As a group it might reduce our overall cancer rate but any one of us could still have a recurrence or develop a new cancer. Research is great at telling us what may happen to a large group but it's completely useless in telling us what will happen to any one individual.
As I see it, what this means is that if you choose to aggressively pursue an anti-cancer lifestyle, it certainly can't do you any harm, it could possibly cause your current cancer (if any cells remain in your body after surgery) to become dormant, and it could possibly stop a new cancer from developing or delay the development. But if it happens that your cancer was primarily caused by uncontrollable genetic or environmental factors and/or if whatever caused your cancer is already within your body, then even with this diet you might still develop a recurrence (if any cancer cells remain in your body after surgery) or a new cancer. An anti-cancer diet can't hurt and it might help but unfortunately there are just no guarantees. So that's where luck comes in. I wish you the best of luck that for you, an anti-cancer diet is the answer!
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Crunchy,
I still do not understand you. When I was diagnosed I was desperate to get it all out, and if the Dr. wanted to do another surgery, I would have scheduled it immediately. I didn't want to play with cancer. Cut all the cancer and calcifications out, and then make the lifestyle modifications that have NOT been proven, but sure are worth a try to prevent a recurrence.
You can have either a reexcision or mastectomy and worry about reconstruction if and when you get insurance and financing. You also might want to wait to get pregnant until you have coverage, which will not be easy with a previous diagnosis of DCIS. Also, I agree with the ladies who commented that wanting a baby but taking the chance you will not be around is not responsible parenting.
Crunchy, I have had four babies and have used a breast pump at times. The thought of using a breast pump to try to remove the cancer cells actually made me laugh. I am sorry. Do not depend on that.
Please cruncy, go back to the doctors, get it taken care of surgically, and then have fun trying to get pregnant.
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Julia and all others planning to become mothers soon:
As the mother of 5 children, three biological and 2 adopted, I can answer honestly about adoption. I understand that most women want to carry a child and breast feed it, that is where the biological part ends. There is absolutely no difference between parenting an adopted child and one that you created. I loved holding my tiny babies and bottle feeding them while kissing the tops of their heads. Babies smell great. Children are a blessing that we are intrusted with no matter how they come into our lives. Adoption is NEVER second best. Adoption is an honor. I feel blessed that I have been allowed that honor, not only once, but twice.
Most important take care of your health, so that you will be strong enough to parent a child or many children no matter how that comes about. It is worth the delay.
Jane
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Crunchy,
I wanted to let you know what my PS advised in regards to being able to hold a baby. I am a childcare provider, so my job obviously involves lifting and carrying little ones everyday. I am having bmx with diep recon. He said that he would have me on a 10lbs lifting restriction for 12 weeks. After that point, he said I would be able to lift more, if I was careful and did it slowly. This would last until I was completely healed and then I would have 85% of strength returned. As Beesie said, once you have surgery you will never get back to 100% strength.
Please go back to the doctors and really consider having the surgery. You will be doing yourself and any future babies you have a wonderful service. You don't want to have your miracle baby and then find out that your cancer has spread and turned invasive. You owe it to your future baby to give him the best possible, healthiest mommy.
I understand your need, your ache for a baby. My husband and I tried for years to conceive. Went to numerous fertility specialists, tested, poked, prodded-all to find out our infertility was of 'unknown' origin. They couldn't even tell if the problem was with him or me. It was one of the worst times in my life. I cried and screamed and raged at the world. At times it felt like I would die from the heartache. We were very fortunate, in that after several years we became pregnant and we had a happy healthy little girl. If you can believe we were actually 'caught' by 2 unplanned pregancies after that, one when our baby was only 4 months old! Crunchy, I have been on both sides of this fertility issue. I have to tell you, honestly, now that I have them, I will do ANYTHING to protect them. Part of protecting them is protecting their Mama and making sure I am here for them for a very long time. It would be horrible to die from cancer. The worst part of it would be my girls, it would devestate me to know I was going to leave them behind and know they would be without me. If I do not do everything possible now to rid myself of cancer, and eliminate as much risk from my future, I would feel as if I let them down.
You really need to see the doctor again. For you and your future babies.
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The best thing you can do for yourself at this point is listen to SWALTERS and get a phone and written consultation from Dr. Michael Lagios. He is not some random doctor. He was in the group of doctors with Mel Silverstein that invented the VNPI that we all use. He will re-do your pathology and give you a clear picture of what you are dealing with as well as your risks, how long you can wait, etc. He won't tell you what to do, but he will tell you what options you have. You might be very surprised. He laid the cards out on the table for me and I realized I needed to do the radiation treatment I was trying to avoid. He helped me to make an informed decision. It is too confusing to try to find out critical info from people who don't exactly know your case. Don't take a chance. It will be worth the small cost...trust me! I found Dr. Lagios through SWALTERS and I will be forever grateful!
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Crunchy, I have had four babies and have used a breast pump at times. The thought of using a breast pump to try to remove the cancer cells actually made me laugh. I am sorry. Do not depend on that.
Are you telling me it's safe to breast-feed your baby from a (previously) cancerous breast? Maybe I misworded what I meant... I would NOT want to breast-feed from my cancer breast... but there is no WAY I wouldn't want milk to flow through the remaining ducts... I'm 100% sure that the "starting and stopping" of milk production because of my multiple miscarriages has a lot to do with why I developed this in the first place. So, yes, my plan would be to pump but throw that milk away. Sorry if that sounds ridiculous to you but I refuse to take chances by feeding my baby possibly cancerous cells in my milk or to take the risk of NOT pumping (so that the ducts can get clogged/whatever they did during all my pregnancies, for yet another time).
BTW, just to make something clear - I am very pro-adoption. Two of my three niece/nephews are adopted and they couldn't be loved any more than if they were biologically related to their parents. That is so far from any kind of issue to me. There is one specific reason that *I* am unable adopt. It's a personal reason and I would rather not discuss it here. Just wanted to clarify that I'm in no way against adoption. Sorry if I offended anyone.
Thanks again for the Dr. Lagios recommendation. As soon as I can afford to, I will get a second opinion from him. I will also talk with my doctor about doing something between a reexcision and a mastectomy. There is absolutely no DCIS on the outside half of my breast, so for the life of me, I can't imagine what purpose it would serve to scrape out every bit of breast tissue (beyond getting clear margins).
I'm actually starting to feel hopeless that I will ever be a mother so this is all a moot point anyway.
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Hi Crunchy,
This is the line to which II was referring, "I would plan to pump the diseased breast to "flush out" any remaining DCIS". Even though you did further explain about not giving the milk to the baby, it does state you are thinking that using a breast pump would eliminate the remainder of the DCIS in the one breast.
Cruncy, you repeatedly refer to microcalcifications in your breast. After your first surgery you had unclean margins. That does not mean microcalcifications, it means you still have cancer cells in your breast. Microcalcifications is not a euphenism for cancer. The Dr. is concerned that in addition to the cancer cells in the dirty margin, there are additional microcalcifications. In other words, to be blunt, cancer is still there. Microcalcifications are extra.
Anyway, forget that as you have more important issues.
If I were you, this is what I would do.
1. Find a state program that will pay for the second lumpectomy/mastectomy and get it taken care of ASAP. At this point you are not even sure what you are up against.
2. Unless the new health bill kicks in with coverage without considering pre-existing conditions (I don't know if it is included in its current reiteration), you absolutely need to find a way to get health insurance. If you have an employer who offers health insurance, pre-existing conditions are often covered. Some part time employers, I believe Trader Joes, will even offer coverage to employees. You really need coverage through some employment from you or your husband.
3. You need the coverage for another reason. Fertility treatments are expensive, and your baby would be high risk. It is imperative you find insurance for your sake, and the baby you hope to have.
4. There was talk of adoption. Adoption can be very expensive, and I do not know what your plans are in that area. I work in an orphanage with disadvantaged children, whom I have grown to love dearly and they love me. Have you ever thought of foster parenting? I know of people who have received newborns through the foster parent programs. It is much cheaper,and much needed, you get to give and receive the same love, often for many years. Sometimes these even develop into legal adoptions.
Anyway, that is what I would do if I were you. I am not trying to tell you what to do, I am just telling you what my course of action would be. Totally ignore me if I am out of line.
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CrunchyPoodle - here's what I know.
My DCIS grew like wildfire while I was pregnant/breastfeeding. Pregnancy flushes your body with oestrogen which is like pouring oil onto a fire with an ER+ cancer. Pregnancy & breastfeeding also hid the >7cm tumour quite nicely. It was only when I weaned my baby that the huge lump became instantly obvious.
I initially had a WLE (lumpectomy) which failed to get ANY clear margins. However, I also had lymphoma, so more surgery had to wait while I had chemo for that. Both my surgeon & my onc agreed (when questioned separately) that even over the space of 6 mths, there was a chance that the remaining DCIS cells could turn invasive BUT they were prepared to take that risk only a) because the chemo contained some of the drugs used in BC chemo and b) because the lymphoma was a certainty but invasive BC was only a maybe.
When I was finally able to have the mastectomy, my pathology came back with a further 3 cm of DCIS which was 'invisible' mammographically...and my surgeon looked nothing short of relieved when he told me there was no invasive cancer. So, yes there is a threat from waiting and yes pregnancy & breastfeeding *can* escalate that threat.
In terms of whether you need a re-excision or mastectomy: it's not always easy for the surgeon to determine how much tissue to remove...sometimes the tumour is visible but the diseased cells can also be scattered thinly through surrounding breast tissue...the microcalcifications provide clues but even so the surgeons can only ever guess. All it takes is a small number of those cells to break out of the ductal structure and then it's invasive cancer. That's why the drs want clear margins & sometimes to get them they have to either a) take less tissue and risk needing to go back for yet another reexcision - more surgeries at increased cost - or b) take more tissue and compromise the shape/appearance of the breast - to the point where a partial prosthesis isn't helpful AND recon is difficult. A clean mastectomy can give a much better recon.
I totally feel for you, I know how you're yearning to hold a baby in your arms...but 40 is *not* some magic cutoff point engraved across the sky. I do know the grief of miscarriage (and so sorry to hear you have had so many losses) and understand of course that it can complicate your journey to motherhood but please don't give up hope. I suggest you discuss your dilemma with your surgeon, explain your difficulty with insurance, timing, your fertility concerns etc, and see what options/suggestions they have. There could be a non-risky way around this.
Wishing you all the very best
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Oh, and re the breastfeeding: turns out in hindsight I was breastfeeding my DD with both DCIS and lymphoma which is a systemic cancer & possibly swimming around my whole body = *horrified mumma*!! So I interrogated every onc and surgeon I saw. They all said there was no transmission risk. It's an unpalatable thought though, isn't it. Not that it matters, many mothers exclusively feed their babies from one breast only, whatever the reason, and I'm sure some have managed to feed from a previously surgically-altered breast too.
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