November Rads 2009

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  • Sunone
    Sunone Member Posts: 151
    edited November 2009

    Marcia- I have Kaiser too. I know each Kaiser plan may be different, but I was referred to a rad facility by Kaiser and I had to pay a $25 copay to see the rad onc for my first visit, and I have no copays for the rad treatments. I verified this through the rad office and Kaiser before starting. I had a lumpectomy and SNB through Kaiser and was charged a $500 copay - then I find out that my plan says I have a $500 copay for surgery as an inpatient and only $25 for outpatient surgery - my surgery was definitely outpatient, as soon as I woke up they were like "here's your clothes, don't let the door hit you in the butt on the way out" seriously the nurse didn't even make sure I was ok to sit up, get out of the bed and dress on my own, and then I walked out with my husband. So I am having Kaiser investigate the charges. the surgeon even told me on the day of my surgery that I was not spending the night and that she had coded it wrong, but she corrected it prior to surgery, she was new to the Kaiser system.

  • Sparrow
    Sparrow Member Posts: 262
    edited November 2009

    Deb, there's an unopened 'two buck chuck' in my kitchen cabinet-  you are welcome to it.  :D

    Ugh, Marcia, good luck!  :) 

  • amlg1
    amlg1 Member Posts: 596
    edited November 2009

    josybee..I do go to Sloan LI.I'm on #14 Monday.My skin is doing pretty good.My boob though feels sore.I go Monday for my muga,sorry you had trouble with herceptin.

  • Lauren3
    Lauren3 Member Posts: 289
    edited November 2009

    Ok I'm going to have to stop taking the Xanex before next weekend then!  I need a glass of wine for my anniversary!  :-)  Thanks for the info ladies.

  • MarciaGoudie
    MarciaGoudie Member Posts: 10
    edited November 2009

    I have the high option Kaiser. About going home the same day. I knew it would be that way and actually I had my husband stop at MickyD's on the way home. I got home by 7 exhausted but not in any pain. I took the meds and went to bed.

    After having both knees replaced NOTHING can come close to that pain...

    marcia

  • Lauren3
    Lauren3 Member Posts: 289
    edited November 2009

    Is anyone else getting a sore throat?  My RO told me there was a chance this would happen since I'm getting the "superclav" area radiated.  Not happy!

  • cherneski
    cherneski Member Posts: 726
    edited November 2009

    Glad to see everyone is doing as best as possible.  I think I will try the red wine.  I am on xanex but at this point I think a glass of wine might help me a tad.  But of course I will ask my Dr. first.  I feel like a little kid always asking permission.

    This weekend was relaxing. I did too much yesterday so feel like dog doo today, but at least I got out like a human.  No puking yesterday and today.  It is deffinatly the rads.  I fellow sister here told me she did the same thing for about a week then was ok.  I hope it goes away soon.  I am sor tired of puking.  But the end is near!  I am very thankful I only have 5 weeks to do.  

    Has anyone not had reconstruction yet that is planning on doing it?  I plan on doing DIEP, as soon as I can, but now I hear I have to wait about 6-9 months after rads.  I was so hoping to have some boobs by spring, but now doest look that way.

    Much love Deb 

  • Niknak0320
    Niknak0320 Member Posts: 138
    edited November 2009

    Has anyone not had reconstruction yet that is planning on doing it?  I plan on doing DIEP, as soon as I can, but now I hear I have to wait about 6-9 months after rads.  I was so hoping to have some boobs by spring, but now doest look that way.

    Much love Deb 

    I haven't had my reconstruction yet...I go on Tuesday for a consult with PS and am hoping to do DIEP with implants but I'll update after my appointment if the PS suggests otherwise.  I think 4 months is the soonest I've heard of them doing reconstruction.

  • Sparrow
    Sparrow Member Posts: 262
    edited November 2009

    Lauren, happy anniversary!  :)

    Here's an article about the red wine study:  http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/32648681/ns/health-cancer/

    Of course, get your doctor's OK first.  :) 

  • shelleyr25
    shelleyr25 Member Posts: 107
    edited November 2009

    Thanks Sparrow for posting that, its nice to be able to justify my daily glass of wine!!!

  • amlg1
    amlg1 Member Posts: 596
    edited November 2009

    Lauren3..I do have trouble swallowing.That started after #6,I am now on #14.I am getting rads close to throat area.My throat isn't sore just hurts to swallow,especially bread ,cake,(all the good stuff)I have to chew the food to death and eat slow.Thanksgiving should be fun!!!

  • Lauren3
    Lauren3 Member Posts: 289
    edited November 2009

    A friend had throat rads for lymphoma and she said she lost her voice for months!  I need my voice to yell at my two year old LOL so hopefully I wont lose it...

  • rinna40
    rinna40 Member Posts: 357
    edited November 2009

    Well, good luck ladies - it is Monday, and a week with five more rads. Hoping we all have minimal SE's

  • cs34
    cs34 Member Posts: 253
    edited November 2009

    hi everyone,

    those of you that are in a funk, what are you doing to help yourselves? i cannot get out of the funk. this was weekend #2 that i pretty much laid in bed all day - except for Saturday. i went to a party saturday and was totally fine because i was surrounded by great people.

    i just want to shut the world off until rads is done.

    i went through my double mastectomy with latt flap and lymph node removal, drains in for EIGHT weeks, skin problem at the incision sight, chemo (started late because of the skin), neuropathy that's getting worse instead of better, having to be "deflated" in the right boob twice for rads, walking around fat, bald and with one boob like a champ but i CANNOT handle rads.

    i don't know if it's just been too damn long now or what. is it the menopause? is it that Jan 2nd will be one year since i was diagnosed? have i just simply had enough?

    i try so hard to turn this around in my head and pull myself together but i just can't. i lay on that frikken table and my heart pounds and i'm angry that i'm there.

    am i/we supposed to be looking at this that "this will help me/us" and be "ok" about it? or is that too far fetched?

    i just don't know how i'm supposed to be looking at rads and what i can do to turn this around in my head so i can at least WANT to function.

    help!

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2009

    It's Monday and another week of RADS begin minus Thanksgiving of course.  I've been like a blausy lump al day today.  Sooo tired. Next week on Tuesday is my last day for Rads. I hope everyone is doing ok.  So far I am not nasueous anymore, and have had virtually no skin problems at all.  Yesterday I noticed I was a little blotchy red on the clavicle area, and under my armpit.  So I've been slathering the aloe gel they gave me, and it seems to be working.

  • Lauren3
    Lauren3 Member Posts: 289
    edited November 2009

    Im' feeling ok, a little tired and sore still, but my incision is getting redder and redder.  I'll see the RO tomorrow -- hopefully he's not concerned.  I know I am...

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2009

    Today will be 16 of 28. Skin is holding up pretty well, but a little redness along my clavical and underarm. I spent a week in a compression bandage for a seroma that devloped along my right (non cancer) mastectomy incision line. I'm hoping that the fluid build up has stopped and I won't need it drained again.

    I have found a wonderful device to help spread the pressure of a seat belt across my chest area. It is a heavy duty nylon thingy that you slip the seat belt through and secure with self contained velcro tabs to hold it in place. I got it at an auto supply store for about $15.00. It's easy to move from car to car or driver to passenger side.  It was designed for short people to keep the seat belt riding up on their neck. I love it.

    I've conquered my fear of the whole rads process by asking questions and more questions. (I'm such a geek.) My technician is wonderful about answering them and seems to take pleasure in educating me. My macine is one that rotates around my body. It makes four stops, but I wanted to know why she flipped the lense after position #3. She showed me these shaded areas along the edge of the lens and explained that those edges deflect the rays and cause them to curve along the shape of my chest. The angel is reversed after stops #1, #2 and #3 (left side) which has to curve up and she has to change it to curve down (right side) for stop #4. She also explained about the "gel pack" she lays on top of my mold for "shots" #3 and #4. It acts as extra layers of skin and fat so that the dept of ray penetration can be adjusted so as not to adversely affect lung tissue.

    My technician will let me use my iPod, but I find I'm only on the table long enough to listen to one or two songs so it's hardley worth it. She does let me know the times she's going to have me on the table longer for taking xrays or films so that's the only time I use the iPod.

    The one thing I haven't heard anyone else say is if they feel dizzy when they sit up after treatment?

  • blondie45
    blondie45 Member Posts: 580
    edited November 2009

    Lauren3 - I also had the supraclav area radiated and I did not get a sore throat. I finished rads on that area yesterday.

    cs34 - I hear you totally!  I cannot handle rads either. I said I would rather go back to the Taxol. I am down to 3 more left and then 5 boosts and I am feeling better because I can see the end now. You will get there!  I agree I think the whole process is soooo long and this is the end and we are getting anxious.

  • linn56
    linn56 Member Posts: 210
    edited November 2009

    About the "pressure of a seat belt across my chest area" issue. I posted on this way back after my surgery, and got some great replies. I bought a small clip for this purpose at an Auto Zone. Before anyone runs out to get something similar, whether clip or Velcro-type, call the stores first. I was told at several that they don't carry them anymore due to liability issues.

    After I got mine, someone posted to my thread that they used a scrunchie! With the belt unfastened, slip the scrunchie on over the buckle insert part. Wrap it around several times. Fasten the seat belt, then slide the scrunchie up into position until it is comfortable. The advantage to the scrunchie is it can stay in place on the seat belt all the time and can't get lost. I find with my clip I have to take it off, or it falls off when I let the belt retract, sometimes flipping under the seat or behind.  If I didn't already have the clip I would go get a scrunchie.

  • gjlanders
    gjlanders Member Posts: 77
    edited November 2009

    Shanagirl I am taking the treatment in Trier Germany.  They are really good and fast.  I am sometimes in and out in 12-14 min. 

    My treated breast has lost a little volume but it's not too bad.  It is red but the skin is ok. 

    Tomorrow is my hump treatment 17 done and have tomorrow 17 more to go.  I will see the doctor when I go in tomorrow after radiation.  He has been in and out of treatment but now that I will be half throught I  was told he would see me more often. 

  • Sparrow
    Sparrow Member Posts: 262
    edited November 2009

    Hi guys, just checking in.  :)  I thought you might enjoy this hospital directory they posted on engrish.com today.  :)     http://www.engrish.com/index.php

    I think I'd rather go to 'Super room of B' today...  the others sound kind of scary.  ;)

    I have some swelling in my breast/underarm area after 4 treatments.  My SNB scar stings a bit and the back of my upper arm is sore again like it was after surgery.  My nipple is sore too.  An Advil takes care of all that, though, so overall it's going OK .  :) 

    Hubby is off from work this week. :)   It's so nice to be driven to treatments! 

  • Sunone
    Sunone Member Posts: 151
    edited November 2009

    Hi Nov. Rad ladies, tomorrow is day 25 of 25, and then I am done. I am so excited! I know it's been tough but there is an end in sight, so hang in there. Enjoy the time off over Thanksgiving - wishing all of you the best. Take care!

  • rinna40
    rinna40 Member Posts: 357
    edited November 2009

    Kime _ congrats. What a feeling to be done. I've only 25 more to go and I'm with you. 

  • Sunone
    Sunone Member Posts: 151
    edited November 2009

    rinna40 - 25 more is a lot to to think about, but you will get through it. I had my schedule printed out and would cross off a day after each treatment, once I was halfway through it felt good to see that list get smaller and smaller, this last week crossing off days has been exciting.

    I thought this was a great quote, I'm stealing it from Tracyanne from October Rads -she said her rad onc gave her a plaque on her last day with a quote from John Wayne, it said "Courage is being scared to death but saddling up anyway"

  • Momushka
    Momushka Member Posts: 33
    edited November 2009

    mom2acat - thanks for the input re: Zometa during rads.  It took it and it was fine - no flu-like side effects I was prepared for.

    Meanwhile I'm on the second half with my 19th treatment out of 33.  Pretty much same old -same old.  Bumpy rash on my collar bone, pinking up, crazy itching (like a sunburn), boob is swollen and sensitive, scars redder, one day nauseous and no appetite, next day not, more tired than usual - nothing special - you've all got it.

    Anyone know about the boosts?  Do they last longer or are they just a stronger zap?

    And one question/observation.......if the machine can zap us right through the table for those back zaps, why can't we wear a t-shirt so we don't have to freeze in there?

    Have a wonderful Thanksgiving holiday everyone!!!

  • Niknak0320
    Niknak0320 Member Posts: 138
    edited November 2009

    Today was # 16 (of 30) for me and I am so happy to be on the 2nd half!

    I went yesterday for a consult at a plastic surgeon for reconstruction.  It was interesting.  I am scheduled for DIEP on July 5th.  I am super excited but scared shitless about the new scars it's going to create.  Thankfully being fat now shows it's advantages...doc says he has enough to work with to make me a new set of "D's" : )

  • LRM216
    LRM216 Member Posts: 2,115
    edited November 2009

    Momuska - the boosts are not stronger, and are a bit shorter in time - but they are just concentrated on your surgical cavity (if you had a lumpectomy, as I did - a large one).  I have two more boosts to go and I'm done with my 33 sets of rads.  My breast is not lumpy, just very red, no blisters, fortunately, but my sentinel scar and part of my armpit are the sorest.  They say we heal quickly from all this - sure hope so.  I look like a lobster bit into my chest and decided to hang on there forever!  Good luck - stay strong.

    Linda 

  • KQuigley
    KQuigley Member Posts: 17
    edited November 2009

    Hello November Rad Ladies, Happy Thanksgiving!

     With 2 jobs and 2 kids (both Freshmen, 1 college, 1 high school), I haven't had a chance to get back on to post.  21 down with 33 to go. 

    The SE's have started -- fatigue reared its ugly head this week.  I've been napping on the boss's couch at lunch time and today it took 3 naps just to get through the cooking and cleaning.  

    I read each and every post and could kick myself for not checking here first on whether anyone else has been nauseous.  DebNJ, I think your nausea left you and came to visit me in Upstate NY!  Know that prayers and good thoughts were offered up for each of you.

    This week has been the toughest, both physically and emotionally for me.  I actually told the nurse on Monday that I wasn't in the mood to see the Dr.  She told me that it was a State law that a doctor see a radiation patient once a week (who knows if she was fibbing or not).   Love my rad onc, love my nurses and the techs, but....

    For the first time today, I felt a stabbing pain during the rad treatment. The tech said I shouldn't feel the beam, that maybe it was the position my arm was in.  ~shrugs~

    I know....I should be thankful that this was caught in time, that I don't need chemo, and that I'm about two-thirds through treatment.  I'm just tired of it all, as I know we all are.

     I hope your Thanksgivings are good ones. xo

  • blondie45
    blondie45 Member Posts: 580
    edited November 2009

    kime - CONGRATS on being done!  For me 1 week from tomorrow, can't wait.

    rinna40 - Though 25 feels like a big number right now, it does go fast. I started with 33 and am down to 6.

    Niknak0320 - Congrats on getting the first half done, hang in there it does go quickly.

    KQuigley - Sorry you are feeling nauseous. Not sure what the law is in Wisconsin but I also see the rad doctor every week which surprised me big time. I would think you would see the chemo onc more often than the rad onc but what do I know. Looks like you have about 12 left. I also was more emotional last week when I had about that many left also, broke down and cried on the table one day. It has just been such a LONG road.

    Anyone else get a rash on their upper back that had the supraclavicular area radiated? I guess the radiation goes through so that can happen if I understood my tech correctly. Actually that rash on my back has been bothering me so far than under the arms or my mastectomy site that is being radiated.

  • Lauren3
    Lauren3 Member Posts: 289
    edited November 2009

    Happy Thanksgiving to everyone!  I found out this week I'll be having 28 treatments so I'm more than halfway done.  12 to go.  I'm starting to look red and a little rashy.  I'm totally exhausted too but not sure how much of that is rads, how much is leftover from chemo and how much is from running after a 2 year old.  :-)

    In other news, I noticed I have a "cord" between the axilla and the breast which is annoying.  I guess it's a delayed side effect from the surgery.

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