Mets to bone after 5 years - damn!

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  • TriciaK
    TriciaK Member Posts: 362
    edited November 2009

    Orchid,

    I'm so sorry to read about your recent dx, I'm currently awaiting results of an MRI to see if I have bone mets also after one suspicious area showed on a bone scan. I've had back pain for a while now.

    I'm highly triple pos, did chemo,rads etc first time around and am now on arimidex since having an ooph in '06.   The arimidex along with early and sudden menopause has also left me with no sex drive at all.  I think this is a common problem with the A1's also.  I am currently four and a half years out and will feel as angry as you if my results are positive.  I just wanted to wish you the best and I can relate:)

    Tricia xx

  • wallycat
    wallycat Member Posts: 3,227
    edited November 2009

    Stupid cancer!!

    Did they grade your original tumor?

    I am so very sorry.  You are clearly dealing with all of our worst nightmares.

    I hope and pray the best..............

  • LRM216
    LRM216 Member Posts: 2,115
    edited November 2009

    Ok, this is where I have to ask my stage IV sisters to explain something to me.  Being Triple neg, I have not researched or needed to know any specifics about the 5 years of additional meds that ER/PR positives get to take ( and I must admit, I have been very envious of that, as I have nothing else after all my treatment is done).  However, having been on the board since my diagnose last Feb. 2009, I have noticed that quite a few gals that are hormone positive seem to have a recurrence shortly after the 5 yrs. of meds. is up.  Can't they keep you on it so that you have a better chance of no recurrence, or are the meds something that can't be taken for longer than that.  I admit I am totally naive about this matter, so if someone could explain to me why you can't stay on these meds, I would greatly appreciate it.

    Linda

  • TriciaK
    TriciaK Member Posts: 362
    edited November 2009

    Linda, there are studies done that are proving ten years on hormonal therapy may be the way to go.

    Unfortunatly many of us either recurr before this or / it depends on our onc's views.

    It's not written in stone as yet but many women who are hormone pos are taking these meds longer than five years.  Given the chance if I dont recurr I'll be happy to take arimidex another five years!!!

    Tricia 

  • comingtoterms
    comingtoterms Member Posts: 421
    edited November 2009

    Hi, I am certainly feeling the "tamoxifen pain", just like all of you.  No sex drive AT ALL.... one thing I do want to mention - I saw in a couple of earlier posts that oncs were putting some sisters on wellbutrin - wellbutrin is counterindicated with tamoxifen - it prevents tamox from metabolizing - so even though your sex life might get better - the tomoxifen stops working!  I was on wellbutrin and ended up being switched to Effexor just a couple of weeks ago. I think the loss of libido hurts more than the chemo and mastectemy put together.... Tammy

  • orchid
    orchid Member Posts: 40
    edited November 2009

    Hi all,

    Just wanted to add a couple of things.  My five years on tamoixfen didn't make me lose my sex drive -- in my mind I still wanted sex.  I just had no function or response.   No sensation, no orgasm.  For the first several years on tamoxifen, trying to have sex felt like trying to get a faulty car ignition to turn over:  sputtered starts then petering out to nothing.  For the last year and a half, it went down to completely zero, and in the car analogy it would be like turning the ignition and all you get is a blank, dead "click".  

    I just last week spent the money on a hitachi magic wand, and while it seems to be helpful for my achey metastatic bones, it does nothing for me sexually.  Completely nada. Zero.  I seem to be virtually dead down there.  

    Just an update on my dx:  I got the results back from my 2nd bone biopsy for the mets (first one came back 'inconclusive') and the good news is that the cancer has all the same markers as my original ones:  ER+, PR+ and probably HER2- (although I'm waiting on further analysis on the latter).  This means that they can give me hormone therapy.  They gave me a shot of Lupron to shut down my ovaries (technically I was still pre-menopausal, but at age 49 [about to turn 50] I was close anyway).  Lupron will continue once a month till I decide to have my ovaries out.  They also started me on Zometa, which they will give me by infusion once a month, to strengthen my bones.  First infusion caused quite a lot of pain, but the nurse told me that the first time was the worst and it would likely get better.  And now that Lupron has induced medical menopause, they are giving me Femara.  Have been on the Femara for about ten days now, hard to tell which side effects are from what.

    I have a lot of bone pain at night, and randomly during the day.  My onc said that the first 6-12 weeks on hormone therapy I can feel worse before I feel better, and that is definitely the case.  I have one spot on my rib that is rather painful every time I breathe.  

    I of course am hoping the hormone therapy will work, but we won't know for a month or two if its on track (guess they'll give me another bone scan to find out).  

    The mood swings (which might be due to the medical menopause, might just be due to depression from recent dx) are tough.  I cry almost every night.  Most of the days I feel okay, but it all seems to get to me at night.  I'm tired of crying every night, though, and don't want to live this way.  Sigh.  

    As for sex, given my current physical response, I'm not encouraged that it will get any better.  But maybe I should ask my doc for wellbutrin, since I'm feeling pretty depressed anyway.  Couldn't hurt I suppose, and maybe it might even help out with sensation and sex...

  • pitanga
    pitanga Member Posts: 596
    edited November 2009

    Linda-- About extending the use of estrogen blockers, Tamoxifen is problematic because it also can cause endometrial thickening which can lead to uterine cancer. That is why they take people off it after 5 years. The AI's are a different type of estrogen blocker and do not have this problem. But, as I understand it,  er+ tumors that have been estrogen-starved can eventually begin to find other ways of reproducing themselves, thus rendering estrogen blockers ineffective. This happened to one gal on the stage 4 boards and her doc put her on estrogen therapy for a few months as a decoy to see if it could lure the tumor back to its estrogen-sensitive ways. This "estrogen therapy" is pretty new. The idea is to follow it up with more AIs.

    Orchid-- I am also on Zometa and have had no SE's to speak of from it. Smooth sailing, except for an itty-bitty pain in my shin the first two treatments. Probably now that your first treatment is under your belt it will get a lot better. About the weepiness, it has been happening to me too, although in the past few weeks has gotten a bit better. Everything and anything makes me cry.

    Comingtoterms-- what I have heard is that Prozac and the SSRIs that are related to it can interfere with estrogen blockers. In the article I read,  Wellbutrin was not mentioned. My own experience has been that Prozac is a lot more effective in treating depression, though it also caused libido problems. Wellbutrin, which I am now on, is just the opposite. Gives the mojo a boost but not as good in lifting me out of melancholy. But since zero-estrogen set in at the end of June, mojo disappeared entirely. If I´m not gonna have a mojo anyway I wish I could go back on prozac, but it's on the no-no list. Sigh.

    Lisa 

  • ead
    ead Member Posts: 686
    edited November 2009

    Hi Orchid, I am so sorry you have to go through this. I too have zero sex drive, I was on Tamoxifen for 5 years and it was absolutely horrible for me.So happy to hear that you can get hormone therapy I am on Aromasin right now and seems to be working. I wish you all the best and please keep us updated.

    Liz

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2009

    Lisa, I'm really interesting in the adding back estrogen.  Do you know how this person who is on estrogen is doing?

  • LRM216
    LRM216 Member Posts: 2,115
    edited November 2009

    Thanks to all that explained the "five year" run on the drugs. 

    Linda

  • pitanga
    pitanga Member Posts: 596
    edited November 2009

    Linda,

    I should have added that the uterine cancer risk is relatively small, something like 2 in a thousand women, but I think it increases with more time taking the drug. 

    There was a long article in the New York Times just yesterday that painted a very rosy picture of Tamoxifen, claiming it reduced BC risk by 50%. It was a little unclear but it seemed they were talking about using it preventively, not in women who had already been treated, I am no doctor but 50% seemed high to me. It did not mention AI's.

    Lisa 

  • pitanga
    pitanga Member Posts: 596
    edited November 2009

    Shirley,

    I have been trying to post the link to the thread on Stage 4 that talks about the estrogen therapy and also to an item in the Research News section discussing it but for some reason my browser (Google chrome) is not letting me cut and paste. Or am I just computer-illiterate? At times like this I really wish I had a 12-year-old around to walk me through things. Electronic stuff that I find so bewildering is second nature to your average kid.

    Anyway if you visit the stage 4 board you should be able to find it.

    Apparently there is just one clinical trial so far and it was very small scale (66 participants), but the results were quite promising. The woman on stage 4 who tried it has liver mets and they started shrinking. 

    Lisa 

  • LRM216
    LRM216 Member Posts: 2,115
    edited November 2009

    Although being triple neg does not afford me the extra 5 years of meds as a precaution, I was curious for all my ER/PR + sisters.  Again, thank you for the info. 

    Linda

  • embe
    embe Member Posts: 2
    edited November 2009

    My heart goes out to you....I don't have much faith in the genetic tests...my BRCAs are both negative and my mom and maternal aunt had breast ca....and 4 years ago I had stage 2 breast cancer it was treated with lumpectomy x 2 rads and tamoxifen no nodes hercept neg estrogen pos...onco type risk of recurrence was 8 % guess what is back...I too am 49...had a mastectomy 7 weeks ago and removal of extra skin around site....now they want to do chemo I had adriamycin and cisplatin at 16 when I had bone cancer and had an amputation...Don't give up....I know how hard this can be and how scary...I will be thinking of you when I get to go into menopause instantly too....you are not alone...lots of women are walking similar roads....I personally draw strength knowing that somewhere out there other women have pioneered this path and lived to tell about it...we will too...Tamoxifen did affect my libido too....should have bought stock in K-Y....don't know much about Arimidex...its in my future too...thank goodness for neighborhood pharmacies....do know the benefits of .25 mg of Xanax when the imagination runs wild...

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