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  • kfinnigan
    kfinnigan Member Posts: 1,729
    edited November 2009

    meg, is that Ivory?  All you cuties have a great day!  Started mine off with Pilates, and the skies have cleared, looks like a beautiful weekend. 

    I get to meet Allie tomorrow!!!  Its a No. Calif. girls hookup!! YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • FlowerArtist
    FlowerArtist Member Posts: 51
    edited November 2009

    Just starting off my day, too.  I'm ready to do my exercise, clean the house and spread compost in the garden since its not windy yet.  Did my 10 K steps yesterday and also got on the stationary bike for 15 minutes or so.  Did weights 3 times this week, too.  Carl is checking on doctors to see if he can get his shoulder repaired before December. He is still driving me crazy.

    Take care all.

  • AllieM22
    AllieM22 Member Posts: 464
    edited November 2009

    Hi ladies--

    Kari--you're so sweet! I get to meet sweetie-pie-happy-face and other fab No Cal ladies tomorrow!!

    I am proud to say I am just back from a great hike along the coast--an amazing, beautiful, sunny Fall day here so I talked my DH out of bike riding and coming hiking with me and the pooch. We went I think about 2 hours, 1,000 feet of elevation and maybe 5-6 miles. Woo hoo! Hard work up hill but the amazing views were worth it and it felt great to move. 

    Enjoy your weekends and hope you have good Fall weather! 

  • ktym
    ktym Member Posts: 2,637
    edited November 2009

    Just starting to feel a little more back to normal and like I'm shaking this bug.  Its really put me down for the count.  I have managed to get some gentle yoga in every day so that has helped, but feel like I've lost a lot of ground.  Bringing back my memories of how weak I was after chemo which I'm hating.  Hope I'm immune from anything else coming my way this winter, this has been the pitts. Thank goodness for yoga

  • Ainm
    Ainm Member Posts: 781
    edited November 2009

    Hi all,

    Kmmd - hope you are feeling better, enjoy your yoga, at least it's something you can get great satisfaction from without having to overdo it.

    Allie (and other no cal ladies) let us know how the meet goes. I'm so jealous that some of you have a chance of meeting up!! Well perhaps someday we'll organise a meet in Ireland - you could all do with a nice holiday, far away from it all!!!

    Flower Artist - wow your exercise regime is brilliant. You must get great satisfaction from it.

    Kari and pk - how are you doing!!

    Meg - you have really bounced back after surgery, you are such a role model.

    And Spring you are another person I think of when I am cranky about doing my Wii Fit - you had such an intense surgery and all you were worried about was getting back to your pre surgery activity. Both of you are an inspiration.

    Brenda!!! You are lucky I don't have a contact number for you - remember how you did 'my' exercise for me while I was sick??? LOL well if I had a number for you I'd be phoning you every second day to see if you would do 'my' exercise - I'm sooooo lazy!!!

    Joy and Deanna - I hope you are both doing well, you are both always so encouraging to others I hope you get some satisfaction from knowing you have really helped me along the way.

    Anne & Mandy, I hope you are enjoying the warmth of this thread - it's great, isn't it??

    Well you can all take a bow - you have helped me reduce from 235lbs to 202lbs (33lbs lost) since I finished rads on 29th July!!!  And I am aiming to keep going for as long as I can. It hasn't been easy, and I still have a very negative attitude towards it and I still have a huge 'chip on my shoulder' about having breast cancer and although I am doing well enough physically, mentally I am still very, very,...... oh gosh..... - can't put a name to it but I still feel like stamping my feet and having a tantrum!!!!! 

    But you ladies - you have helped me keep going. Thank you. 

  • ktym
    ktym Member Posts: 2,637
    edited November 2009

    Ainm, that bow belongs to you, 33 lbs, way to go, you're doing awesome

  • sobx
    sobx Member Posts: 435
    edited November 2009

    Ainm - you are doing great. I understand the tantrum thing. My son told me when I started this journey that you have to have an attitude and that I have one so I could make this journey. Not easy but we kick some a--. trip  to Ireland sounds sweet.

    Went to an outside concert last night for Child Abuse. One of the ladies was abused. They write all of the songs they sing. Someone's Sister is the group. They play at coffee houses and this was done in the backyard of some people. Several songs they sang were also for "survivors" and that included cancer. Very emotional from my stand point. Also very cold!

    Hopefully the weather will hold and I can get out on the kayak this week too. A guest wants to go out and knows I kayak too so we are planning a paddle Tues or Wed. My days off this week.

    I have also found a center down the road with exercise equipement so I will check it out and maybe get some exercise other than walking the Dd. It might be a long cold winter and I have to exercise something other than my fingers and mouth. 

    Everyone have a great start of the week.   

  • Brendatrue
    Brendatrue Member Posts: 1,830
    edited November 2009

    Meg, Before I forget, here's the info on the "osteopenia dvd." It's "Skeletal Fitness: A Workout for Your Bones" by Mirabai Holland. It includes a 50 minute, bone loading workout, with warm-up, upper body with hand weights, stretch/pull/twist with towel, isometric and wall resistance with lower body bone loading, and stretch/relax as well as 2 sections on bones, osteoporosis, etc. The instructor is laid back, maybe too laid back for some, but I have found the workout useful as I return to greater fitness, challenging enough that I feel as if I am accomplishing something, not likely to risk my lower back integrity (L4-L5 injury of a couple of years ago), easy to follow. I got it through Amazon.

    Kari & Allie--kudos to you for keeping your activity going! And let the rest of us know how your get-together went. I'm with Ainm; I'm envious! kmmd--I'm happy for you that you are feeling better & that you were able to keep some movement going during your illness.  I know what you mean about illness or other setbacks triggering memories of chemo. I think it's in retrospect that I truly realize how debilitated I became during chemo. I hope never to go back to chemoland again....

    Ainm--I agree with kmmd--you deserve the accolades for your weight loss and working towrd greater well-being. However, I do know what you mean about giving others "credit" as well; I, too, have been motivated to work out more since joining this thread and receiving so much support. If you called me, I would just do my best to get you to exercise "along with me"! Joy, you made me laugh with the comment about exercising more than your fingers and your mouth! I hope you get in the kayaking fun and that the exercise center will be a good fit for you. I'm sure your dog won't be abandoned in the process!

    pk, flower artist, Anne, Mandy, and any other newcomers--Keep moving and keep sharing your adventures with us! And Spring, how are you doing with working out now that you have returned to work? Be good to yourself!

    I think I'm starting week 13 of daily exercise, and I have missued just one day! Yesterday I did the 50 minute bone loading workout mentioned above; today I walked for 45 minutes then raked after cleaning out my garage this afternoon. I am So tired! I also have been trying to think about how I can stay as active as I would like and still get other things done, too. It's a puzzle!

  • kfinnigan
    kfinnigan Member Posts: 1,729
    edited November 2009

    Ainm - WOOHOOO 33 lbs!!!!  You must be so very proud of yourself!!  WOW!!  Would love to go to Ireland one day, ok...its on the list!!

    kmmd, hope you are feeling much better!  None of us want to feel as we did during chemo, awful memories!!

    Joy, concert sounded really cool!  funny about your comment on exercising more than your mouth and fingers, I can relate! haha

    Brenda, kudos to you on the daily exercise!!!  that osteopenia dvd sounds really cool!!

    The meeting yesterday in Napa was simply fabulous.  I posted pics on facebook and also on the thread "sisterhood of the secret handshake"...feel free to check them out!!  

    Allie is a beautiful kind fun loving woman!  But I expected no less!!!!!!!!! 

  • AllieM22
    AllieM22 Member Posts: 464
    edited November 2009

    Aww Kari--how nice!! You made my day. The same back to you! You really ARE sweetie pie happy face! :)

    We had a great time mtg up in beautiful Napa. Such a fun afternoon!! 

  • kfinnigan
    kfinnigan Member Posts: 1,729
    edited November 2009

    very motivating!!

    Edited to add:  Allie, the brownie was to DIE FOR!!  YUMMY and the cookie was delish...we dug in on the drive home!! haha 

  • AllieM22
    AllieM22 Member Posts: 464
    edited November 2009

    Oh good--I admit I ate mine too on the way home--had an extra... :)

  • Mandy1313
    Mandy1313 Member Posts: 1,692
    edited November 2009

    Ainm:  33 pounds is fantastic.  You should be really proud of yourself.

    I never know what to say in a post so I tend to lurk and read other posts. 

    I am off for a check up with the surgeon tomorrow...I have the most disorganized group of physicians....I went to them so regularly and not one of them gave me any follow up plan. I was the one who had to arrange for my internist to order the mammography. I feel as if I dropped into a large hole the second my chemo was over.  Anyway, I liked the surgeon the best so I scheduled an appointment with her tomorrow and I hope she can help me come up with some kind of reasonable follow up plan.   As you can probably tell, I am a little stressed out tonight. Sorry about that.

    Have a nice evening all.

    Mandy

  • sobx
    sobx Member Posts: 435
    edited November 2009

    Hey Mandy - my surgeon is the one who ordered my mamo and I followed up with him. I go back to him in 6 months. I see my chemo onc every 3 months for blood work and any issues I might have. And my rads onc- I don't have to see him again for a year. I had a 6 month checkup and everything was fine.

    Off to go kayaking before the rain moves in. I'll post after.   

  • pk0199
    pk0199 Member Posts: 586
    edited November 2009

    Ainm-way to go!

    Hope everyone is doing well. Had another acupuncture session yesterday, feel well worked over today. The acupuncturist worked on my arm for a pulled muscle (approx 1 month ago) my arm is very sore today right down to my hand. C'est la vie, move on, it is a holiday day so need to go out and enjoy it.

    Hope everyone has a great day.

    In Remebrance. 

  • dlb823
    dlb823 Member Posts: 9,430
    edited November 2009

    Ainm ~ Can't wait to hear that you've blasted through that 200 mark!  Let us know so that we can celebrate with you!  I'm really proud of you for sticking with everything you're doing to continue to see that scale go down.

    And Brenda, I can't believe you've missed only one day in 13 weeks!  That's incredible!  Good for you!

    I've been dealing with a very painful lower back for a few days -- probably the result of all the lifting and moving I did in my antiques space last week.  It was the first time I'd done all that without my DH's help, and I guess I really overdid it.  Anyway, I hope that's all it is.  Surprisingly, walking seems to help, so I've been out there chalking up the miles this week -- almost 5 this a.m.  But sitting -- especially getting up and down -- is a killer.

    Well, happy Veterans Day everyone.  My DH is a Vietnam vet -- Navy riverboat -- spit on when he returned home way back then.    Deanna

  • kfinnigan
    kfinnigan Member Posts: 1,729
    edited November 2009

    just a quickie!  hi to all....Deanna breaks my heart to know vets were treated that way...

  • Ainm
    Ainm Member Posts: 781
    edited November 2009

    Hi gang,

    Port is history!!!! Went to the hospital yesterday to get it removed, was told to be there for 8am and I was. Waited until gone 4pm to be seen!!!!! Ended up not getting out of there until 6.30pm - so frustrating!! But at least the port is gone. Quite achy and sore today - more than I though it would be.

    Brenda, wow 13 weeks exercise that's great. When I read that I though I would never manage that so I checked the Wii Fit calendar and I found that I had done a minimum of 30 mins exercise everyday for 15 weeks - but you hold the record because I missed 4 days (out of 105 days) the time I had the 'flu and remember you did my exercise that time so I think that cancels out the one day you missed!!!

    Deanna I'll let you know when I get below the 200, I'm almost there - I never thought about it until you mentioned it. wow it will be my first time under 200lbs in years, oh I'm getting excited now thinking about it. I really hope that I will keep it up I so want my onc to be able to notice a significant weight loss when I visit him in Jan (my appointment with him is on the anniversary of my surgery!!). I just want to show him I am serious about working towards prevention of recurrence.  How is your back? I know what you mean about overdoing it - do we just get more stubborn with SFBC, because I noticed when I was clearing out mum's house that I pulled and pushed and lifted stuff that a year ago I'd have asked for help with!!

    Kmmd - How are you these days, did you shake that bug??

    Kari and Joy I'll have my spare room all ready for your trip to Ireland!!!

    Mandy - so glad you joined in. How did that check up go. Everything as it should be I hope.

    Pk - How is your arm - did it ease??

    Take care everyone and hi to anyone I may have missed.

  • Mandy1313
    Mandy1313 Member Posts: 1,692
    edited November 2009

    Thanks for thinking of me and letting me know what your follow up was.  The surgeon was looking at the mammo I had a couple of weeks ago so I knew that was ok...thank goodness!!!! And she did not find anything new.  She did come up with what seemed to me a plan for too much follow up...two visits a year to her; two mammograms plus one MRI a year;  two visits a year to the oncologist (they don't do tumor markers at my medical center so I don't know what the onc will do) and then one a year to the rads onc.....I feel that I could get fewer visits and be just fine...my next appointment will be with the rads onc because although he is not personable, he gives thoughtful answers to questions.  Unlike my onc who denied any and all side effects, he told me what to expect and then asked about them.....interesting because I had fewer side effects in rads than expected...so in my case as least, knowing about them did not cause them to happen.

     Ainm your weight loss is so impressive.  It is inspiring me to work a little harder.

    And I know I have not responded to everyone but for some reason my chemo brain is really up there today...it is the one year anniversary of the day I began chemo...and for some reason I am really sad and just a mess. So if I have not mentioned you, please pardon me. 

    Thanks again to all of you for your kindness to me.

    Mandy

  • Brendatrue
    Brendatrue Member Posts: 1,830
    edited November 2009

    Okay, they say confession is good for the soul: well, I missed another day exercising. Monday was an extremely challenging day and I just felt overwhelmed, so I decided to allow myself no exercise. It was one of those times that I knew that rest would help me feel better than a concentrated activity or exercise would. Work was especially demanding, and my med onc appt that afternoon was emotionally draining. Suffice it to say, some days I am better able to live life "one day at a time," while other days I find myself apprehensive about the future. I tell myself that this is to be expected; after all I have had breast ca three times. I allow myself to have a full range of emotional responses, but intellectually acknowledging that does not necessarily mean there aren't days when I just want to put my head in the sand. Perhaps those are the days when I need to wrap my heart in a warm, comforting blanket and just ask for more hugs!

     Deanna--I'm sorry to hear about your back (says one back injury survivor to another soon to be survivor Smile). Do you use ice to help? I have found that ice packs for 20 minutes really make a difference when my back 'acts up." I also have a back routine that I do that helps me to get "realigned" and to stretch, which I find helpful.

    Ainm--You sound so relieved to have had your port removed! My med onc and I have agreed that I will have to keep mine for at least a year since I am at risk for needing it again (ugh....). When I was going through chemo, my chest area around it always seemed sore but now it feels much better, so I am complaining about it much less. Your 15 week record is awesome! Congrats again on the weight loss! You sound motivated to keep moving, and you will have to let us know when you reach your goal so that we can send you cheers that you can hear all the way to Ireland!

    Mandy--I understand about the chemo brain, and yes, it does seem to be worse some days than others, doesn't it? It feels to me like I have a certain amount of fog in my head that grows more dense when I have increased stressors or demands to manage. When I was first diagnosed with ca, and after I finished treatment, I saw my med onc every 3 months, the rad onc every 6 mos, the surgeon every 6 months, and my primary care doc every 3 months. At that time I also had mammo's every 6 mos. Since my last diagnosis (Jan) and the official end of the latest treatment--not counting Tamox, of course--I now see my med onc every 2 months, my internist every one to two months, and my surgeon as needed only. All think I should have mammo just once a year and the MRI only as needed, which makes me somewhat anxious, but I continue to do self-exams and will follow up promptly if needed. Anniversaries are tough sometimes, and I hope your spirits will lift soon.

    And, hi to all the others who keep showing up here for a shot of motivation or to give one!

  • sobx
    sobx Member Posts: 435
    edited November 2009

    I think I did enough exercise Tuesday. I went kayaking for 4 hours. It was GREAT!! My fingers got numb from the paddling but I really enjoyed it. Got both walks in today but felt like I should have been swimming. We have had rain from "Ida" all day and through tomorrow. Flooding on the roads and hoping that the wind don't bring in the tides. Starting to get windy now. I looked like the girl on the Morton Salt box. My rain coat and white boots. Dd had fun playing in the puddles.

    Hope everyone had a good holiday. My soon to be ex was a Nam vet too.

  • AllieM22
    AllieM22 Member Posts: 464
    edited November 2009

    Yikes Joy--don't wash away! :)

    I missed yoga this morning as I didn't get the dog home soon enough to go. But did go for a walk with him this afternoon. Hopefully yoga in the a.m. 

    Deanna-hope your back is better soon! 

  • sobx
    sobx Member Posts: 435
    edited November 2009

    quack!  quack!

    Now the wind is picking up too.

  • kfinnigan
    kfinnigan Member Posts: 1,729
    edited November 2009

    Joy, love your photo!!  cute about the Morton's girl.

    Ainm, so happy your port is out! YAY!!  Can't believe you were at the hospital ALL DAY...and what a terrific job on your commitment to exercise, you ARE doing it girl!!  You just make me smile!  I was watching The Biggest Loser (I watch most things after the fact...DVR it) and I think wow, look at them busting their butts and hanging in there with their commitments!  So Motivating to watch that show!!

    Mandy, wow that is a lot of follow up!  Sorry you are down and sad...what's going on?  Big hugs!

    Brenda, hugs to you as well with the draining work and appt juggling.  One day at a time!

    Gotta run...back to work now.  Kisses and smooches and hugs! 

    Edited to Add:  HI ALLIE!!!! 

  • sobx
    sobx Member Posts: 435
    edited November 2009

    I went to the SR Center today for a tour. It has limited hours but I can go in the mornings that I work 2nd. A few mcahines so I will give it a try. Beats sitting here looking at 4 walls and not doing anything. Hey - it is a start. I will still walk the Dd since she is persistant with the paw. She loved playing in the puddles again today. can't wait for it to finally dry up. With this wind it shouldn't take long. Have a great 13th.

  • kfinnigan
    kfinnigan Member Posts: 1,729
    edited November 2009

    Joy, that will be nice to get the change of scenery at the SR Center!!  mix it up girl!!

  • AllieM22
    AllieM22 Member Posts: 464
    edited November 2009

    Yes--happy Friday the 13th everyone!! I almost didn't notice...

    Joy--good for you! Hope your weather clears up. Love the "persistence with the paw". Yes the power of the paw is strong! :)  I just got back from the dog park myself...saw lots of cute doggies. It's always fun.

    Am mtg some friends from an old workpkace tonight which should be fun. Tomorrow I will either go to 8:00 yoga (ugh) or go hiking with the pooch. Right now I am back to cleaning out my office! Fun, fun... :)  Although it IS therapeutic to throw a bunch of stuff out... purge!!!

    TGIF everyone! Especially you SPHF (sweetie-pie-happy-face)--since you are always SO grumpy and never smile... :)

  • kfinnigan
    kfinnigan Member Posts: 1,729
    edited November 2009

    heehee, back at ya Allie!!

  • ktym
    ktym Member Posts: 2,637
    edited November 2009

    Ainm: thanks, two weeks yesterday and first day I started feeling like I was getting back to normal.  Still tire easy, thank goodness for yoga.  I HATE it when I've gotten away from running and have to get back into it.  Those first few weeks are so hard, at least this time it was illness and not laziness

  • jrgolomb
    jrgolomb Member Posts: 1,236
    edited November 2009

    kmmd! I am glad you are feeling better. 

    I took a week off because I bumped my knee a few weeks ago and I keep irritating it  and so it's sore whenever I run .....bummer!!!  I did step aerobics today and I gotta say it feels okay. 

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