Mastectomy Stores
I still don't get it! Why is it that I can walk into any store and buy bras off the shelf but now, post mastectromy I have to go into the store and hide in the little room in the back. It's not that I don't appreciate the help of the salespeople and fitters but I just want to browse thru a rack of mastectomy bras not have them taken out of a box or a drawer in a "special room"!
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Oh, that's a good point! I never thought about it until now, but it really did irritate me that the only mast bras I was allowed to see, much less try on, were the ones the fitter decided to bring to me as I waited in the "special room."
Edited: I just thought of something else. Maybe they think we'll be embarrassed, or self-conscious, about the fact that we are buying a mastectomy bra. Isn't that odd? Women who have boobs are expected to browse through the racks and piles of regular bras in full view of anyone who walks by ... but women who are missing a boob, and the bras they are looking at, must be sheltered from public view because someone might get uncomfortable.
otter
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we are high profit customers no doubt
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This is a great question, since while it's obviously true, I'd pretty much accepted it as a given and never gave much thought to it.
One time, in a Nordstrom's, I did see a rack of Amoena bras (the only mastectomy line they carry). It was in an out-of-the-way spot, but still out there. And it was pleasant to be able to see the entire selection and choose for myself rather than count on a fitter to pick for me.
In a funny way, I think fitters are a lot like many of the plastic surgeons I hear women talking about--they think they know what's best for us. If we have to rely on them to choose bras, they might not even show us the ones we would like. I'm only generalizing here--I know there are some wonderful fitters out there (I've even found one, but after much searching).
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I know exactly what you mean. I haven't gone back to the fitter to get the 2 bras my insurance covers because the shop only carries 2 bras that are covered, and I don't particulary like either one. The shop makes it a big hassle to upgrade, too. You have to buy the bra you want and apply to your insurance for reimbursement. Since it's an HMO, it's really too much of a hassle to deal with it, so I just end up ordering bras that I like online. With the big markup at the mast shop, I probably don't spend that much more to do it that way. No one ever seems to stock the bras I'm interested in, so they have to special order them.
There's a local lingerie boutique that carries mast bras and forms. They carry the ABC T-shirt bra, which has a stretch-foam cup, and they do disply this bra on a rack. You can't put that type of bra in a drawer without squishing the cup, so they have to hang them. That's the only place I've ever seen with mast bras actually on display.
They're building a Nordstrom in our area, so I'm hoping they carry mast bras there so I have another option.
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Otto ".....but women who are missing a boob, and the bras they are looking at, must be sheltered from public view because someone might get uncomfortable".
You are so right! Yesterday I was even ushered into separate dressing rooms in the secret room in the back......I could see for the privacy for the prostetic fitting but not for buying a bra....I cannot get used to the fact that I am supposed to hide the fact that I'm missing my left breast by no fault of my own just to make everyone else not have to deal with it.
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We usually have to deal with insurance forms - rather than just paying for them and walking out of the store. That's what the difference is - a regular department store doesn't offer the service of billing your insurance company. Mastectomies have made specialty lingerie shops very lucrative. Why do we have a price tag of around $300 on a silicone prothesis? What makes it so expensive? It's not exactly made by hand? What I'm really pissed about is insurance only "letting" you have 3 bras a year and only ONE prosthesis every two years!
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Here's my pet peeve. It ticks me off that stores like Macy's and Victoria Secret have the big sales promos for Breast Cancer Awareness with pink displays and a % of sales going toward Race For The Cure, and yet they don't sell mastectomy products!
They sell breast-enhancing silicon push-em-ups, yet they don't sell silicon whole boobs!
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I agree SLH it's SO annoying.
There are some fantastic products out there but trying to get them is a bit of a nightmare. I'm going to try buying mastectomy pockets and sew them into off the shelf bras.
I recently went to a store in London (UK) specifically designed for mastectomy wear... I felt like I was walking into a really dodgy (sex) shop as the windows were heavily frosted and the light inside was minimal. I was so excited when I found it and so disappointed with the experience.
I understand the reason behind this is for privacy reasons, but to be honest it was more embarrasing walking in and out of a shop that looked so hideous. I'm 31 years old I don't wan't to be hidden away from the world buying a bra just because I have only one breast! Also if there is anyone out there who is a mastectomy bra designer, what about giving it a bit of OOooomph when it comes to your designs, like pretty straps, oh and maybe take into consideration the smaller one breasted women, I sometimes kinda feel like I'm wearing my grannys bra...
Sorry for the rant...
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Hi Maeve,
As a small woman (with a bilateral mastectomy), I can relate to your wish for nice bras. There are a few good ones out there, though. Have you looked for Anita bras? They're made in Europe (sold both in Europe and the U.S.), so I think you could find them somewhere near you, at least online. Here's a link to one I like (it's on the UK site Nicola Jane): http://www.nicolajane.com/product-Anita-Stretch-microfibre-5362/
Hope this helps!
Barbara
p.s. Check out my non-profit website, BreastFree.org. In the "Bras and Camisoles" section, you'll find a number of options that women find comfortable and attractive, with links to photographs.
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I found a WONDERFUL website for t-shirts. One of the ones I bought says: "Yes they are fake. My old ones were trying to kill me!" Try walking into one of those shops with that shirt on
I thought it was great! It makes some of the prudes think, though. (I'm 67 and LOVE wearing this shirt)
Site is: www.cafepress.com then search for Breast Cancer.
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Bump.
(Getting tired of seeing that blank post. Besides, I visited "my" mastectomy supply store this week and I have another story to tell. It was, once again, a disappointing visit. At least I managed to get out of there without spending any money this time. Story will follow. Bedtime beckons.)
otter
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I reported johonydep's post . Might odd - i am afraid to click through on the links to see what they are.
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lisa-e,
I agree, it's an odd and inappropriate post and I'm glad you reported it. However, I was curious, so I googled "A Little Help breast forms" and found this website: http://www.breastform.com/, a site which I've come across before in my meanderings around the web. They are forms made with a non-silicone substance known as Sentac, developed by Jack Schweitzer, who's mentioned in the post.
I would be curious if anyone's ever tried these, as they're certainly inexpensive compared to most silicone forms. The site says they're made of a polymer gel, so perhaps they're like Pals breast forms, which are made from a non-silicone gel (http://www.supergelproducts.com/index.html).
Always looking for new alternatives!
Barbara
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Good Morning,
I havent been to Nordstroms yet because they are not covered within my insurance but I am going anyway later this year- you can make an appointment with Nordstroms fitters and they have a service that will let you pick out any bra in the store and they will put in the pockets so that it works with your prosthesis- I am going to check this out!!!!
My onc recently wrote me a prescription for 2 bras and on it put- "pretty ones please" - she was upset when she saw what they have fitted me in at the local shop!!!!! She even told me about a black lacy one that she wants me to have..................
Kristy
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I have a friend who designs lingerie and her next line will be for women with lumpectomies and mastectomies I just wish she was working on it now! I posted a couple days ago asking women for their input for designing a sexy mastectomy bra but a few looked at my post and I had no replies:(
I'm with you on the choice of bras for us--they look like something my grandma wouldv'e worn 50 years ago!
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Has anyone found a sports top/bra that can be used with breast forms?
I had a bilateral mastectomy 2 years ago and I've been struggling to find a bra I feel comfortable in. I recently tried putting my forms into an old sports bra with a lining (some stiching was required to keep the forms from migrating to the center), and I was very pleased with the results. I'd love to find a comfortable sports bra that was designed to hold breast forms.
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Janicel1, I have an Anita sports bra with pockets which I got when fitted at my local Nordstrom's. Only comes in white, though. The label says 5321X. Here's a Her Room link (nice website with good customer service; doesn't specialize in mast wear though. http://www.herroom.com/Anita-5321-Irina-Active-Sports-Bra.shtml
Amazing Grace Bra: http://www.titlenine.com/product/pretty-and-functional-support/specialty-mastectomy-bras-nursing-bras/300100.do?sortby=ourPicks
But I've also found some sports bras at Marshall's for reasonable prices -- look for the ones that say "Removable pads" because they have pockets that you can put the breat form(s) in.
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If you go to shopbounce.com they have two sports bras that are already pocketed. The Solutions and Amazing Grace sports bras. You can also get to the bounce website through the Title Nine website and Title Nine also sells the latter of the two bras.
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I remember taking my mother to the local mastectomy shop, small and dismal, and hearing her cry all the way home because of feeling demeaned after being ushered into a small room behind a grey curtain. Now it was my turn many years later and I made a social trip with a friend to New York City to the most applauded fitter post surgery. When I arrived at the famous destination, I asked for my fitter. The sales person's response was in a whisper and said the mastectomy products were kept in the back and once again decades later I was ushered like my mother into a small private room behind a grey curtain. Designs were not modern as expected from a special trip to a high fashion house but clinical as was the personality of the fitter. Horrifying experience for what I believe can be a opportunity for women who have been transformed into wiser much more beautiful sisters. Hmmph. I created my own business directly upon returning
home. Look out mastectomy fashion world. We are going up a notch or two, breathless even though breastless! -
Keep us updated ccClark!!
My fitter also was in the back behind a gray curtain, it felt sad back there :-(
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What bothers me is that the shop that is covered by my insurance company is only open weekdays from 9-5 so I need to miss work (read: lose pay) to go buy bras or get prosthetics. This feels so unfair! Why should I have to miss work just to be able to go buy a bra?
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