Confessions of a hospice patient

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  • CapeBretongirl
    CapeBretongirl Member Posts: 364
    edited October 2009

    I am keeping watch.  I am part of Amber's vigil.

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  • Brendatrue
    Brendatrue Member Posts: 1,830
    edited October 2009

    Maintaining hope for comfort...peace...acceptance...and serenity...for Amber and her dear family.

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  • navygirl
    navygirl Member Posts: 886
    edited October 2009

    Prayers are being said...and we are keeping Ambers candle burning...although I know she would find her way -even in the dark. (((((((HUGS))))))) Amber......

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  • celtic
    celtic Member Posts: 59
    edited October 2009

    Amber and Dan;

    As I pray for Amber's comfort and god's loving arms to embrace her in her journey to be with him,  Dan I think of your strength and devotion to her and your children especially over these last few months. You are an amazing husband and father , You have set such an example and I am certain made Amber's last few months enjoyable and memorable for the children.

    My heart breaks for the lost of a young mother not being physically here for her daughters and sons, yet I know that with such love for her children Amber will never be too far.

    Please have comfort in knowing that many people that have not met Amber or you have been touched by your story and dedication to life and love.

    Prayers are being said and Ambers candle burns.

    Christine  ((((((  hugs )))))

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  • Artemis
    Artemis Member Posts: 759
    edited October 2009

    I am keeping watch.  I am part of Amber's vigil.

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited October 2009

    Amber, Dan and your children - I have read your blog, seen your beautiful family and am inspired by your courage and love!   My prayers are with you at this time.

    I am keeping watch.  I am part of Amber's vigil.

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  • Makratz
    Makratz Member Posts: 12,678
    edited October 2009

    I am keeping watch, I am part of Ambers vigil.

    May God bless you all.

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  • deborye
    deborye Member Posts: 7,002
    edited October 2009
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  • mikita5
    mikita5 Member Posts: 373
    edited October 2009

    What a glorious group of ladies.  My thoughts and prayers to Amber, Dan and children.  May God hold you in his arms and comfort your heart.

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  • AnnaM
    AnnaM Member Posts: 1,387
    edited October 2009

    yes, she will find her way - even in the dark . . .

    I am keeping watch. I am part of Amber's vigil.

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  • spar2
    spar2 Member Posts: 6,827
    edited October 2009

    amber, your bright smile has always made me smile more that you can know.  You are always so positive.  We are sisters in hearts.  I am helping keep watch with love in my heart

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  • OG56
    OG56 Member Posts: 897
    edited October 2009

    I am keeping watch. I am part of Amber's vigil. I am praying for your family.

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  • Luvmaui
    Luvmaui Member Posts: 86
    edited October 2009

    I am keeping watch.  I am part of Amber's vigil.  The candle is lit and I'm praying for your family.

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  • faithandfifty
    faithandfifty Member Posts: 10,007
    edited October 2009

    I am keeping watch. I am part of Amber's vigil.

    We stand here united. Sending our communal strength to you Dan and the wonderful children.

    Amber, may you fly free & unfettered, where you will again be whole and in the company of our Creator. May the angels carry you with mercy & compassion.

    We are here to pray for your children.

    Strength and courage.

    Strength and courage.

    Strength and courage.

    xx00xx00xx00xx

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  • melissa-5-19
    melissa-5-19 Member Posts: 391
    edited October 2009

    Dearest Amber- I am new here - have little to worry about compared to some. I don't know you, but know your soul as it is the sprit and soul of my Dearly Departed Mother- who was given 3 months and lived 3 + years. Sometimes a blessing and sometimes not BUT you have the peace that she had and I felt her prescence for years and know that she watches over me (us) and is a grand Gaurdian Angel. You must be fantastic to know and I am sorry to meet you late in our journey. As demonstrated- you will not be gone- the threads above show that you will be in the hearts of many- but you are and will be at peace- Good for you - Gods Speed and I am so glad to have our paths cross.

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  • hollyann
    hollyann Member Posts: 2,992
    edited October 2009

    I am keeping watch, I am part of Amber's vigil.......Dear sweet sister, go to the Light of Our Father and be WELL.........You will be sorely missed by your Earthly Sisters, but we will all meet again in our Heavenly Father's mansion He has prepared for us......

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  • Bitsy
    Bitsy Member Posts: 10
    edited October 2009

    Amber,

    I am crying, in awe of your beautiful words & courage. It takes a strong woman to make that kind of decision....I fully understand and support your decision. Quality of life is as important as life itself. God will be waiting to open his arms to you, a special angel, whether in life or heaven.

    My Mom recently made this decision herself after the doctors said not much else can be done.

    I just wish they were more honest about what to expect as the end nears. She was a 7 yr DC survivor  until last Jly when it returned to her chest wall& masectomy scar. We see them popping up almost weekly & it is frightening, especially without knowing how this will pan out.

    I am new to this board, but to all of you, I say, "May the good LORD welcome you when it's your time , may it be an easy transistion & you will be in a better place. OIne day we will all be there together again.

    God Bless you.

    {{Hugs}}

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  • Amberzhubby
    Amberzhubby Member Posts: 7
    edited October 2009

    Amber passed away Wednesday, October 14th, at 11:15pm.  She has won the fight with cancer and is in heaven enjoying the fruits of both a battle well fought and a victory won. 

    Funeral information will be posted 10/15 in the evening.  Thank you to all prayed for Amber and our family.  We could not have done it without you!

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  • konakat
    konakat Member Posts: 6,085
    edited October 2009

    Yes, Amber was a winner in so many ways.  She touched me profoundly with her writing.  Such a young woman with such wise words.  Please accept my condolences.  Gentle hugs for you Dan and your sweet children.

    Elizabeth

    xox

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  • Caseysmom
    Caseysmom Member Posts: 507
    edited October 2009

    Dan:

    My deepest sympathy to you and your family. 

    Hugs

    Laura

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  • AnnaM
    AnnaM Member Posts: 1,387
    edited October 2009

    Dan and family, please accept my condolences, too. My prayers will continue to be with you and your family.

    She is finally home!

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  • coonie
    coonie Member Posts: 7,618
    edited October 2009

    Cry May you rest in peace Amber.

    (((Amber's family and friends))) My thoughts and prayers are with you for the next few hours, days, weeks and months! She made such an impact on these boards with other sisters. She was the perfect image of grace and dignity. When I grow up, I hope to be like Amber.

    ~God Bless You All

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  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 19,757
    edited October 2009

    Thank you Lord for your merciful power to take Amber from her earthly pain. God bless you all.

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  • FLtricia
    FLtricia Member Posts: 140
    edited October 2009

    Dan and family,

    I thought of Amber's blog about her birthday party and how it was a glimpse of her arrival in heaven.  We know she was welcomed with open arms and great joy.

    May our Lord send you his peace and comfort. 

    With love,

    Pat

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  • leaf
    leaf Member Posts: 8,188
    edited October 2009

    My condolances to Dan and the family and friends.  I only wish all young women were as wise as Amber.  What lessons she has taught me.  She will be remembered.  Thank you, Amber, for being here.

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  • activern
    activern Member Posts: 409
    edited October 2009

    Amber Rest in Peace - my prayers and love to your family and friends.  Love.

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  • Irina
    Irina Member Posts: 987
    edited October 2009

    PRAYERS and (((HUGS)))

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  • wackyjackie
    wackyjackie Member Posts: 669
    edited October 2009

    Dan,

    Amber was an inspiration to all of us on this site.  I will NEVER forget her courage and perseverance and that will ALWAYS stay with me.  Peace to you and your whole family.

    Thank you, Amber, for giving so much of yourself to so many people.  Rest in peace.

    Hugs and hugs, Jackie

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  • lexislove
    lexislove Member Posts: 2,645
    edited October 2009

    RIP Amber.

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  • Britt
    Britt Member Posts: 731
    edited October 2009

    May she rest in peace, no more pain, no more suffering . . . and peace and comfort to her family.

    In tribute to Amber, I remember her wonderful sense of humor while reading her blog - I never knew her nor corresponded with her, but she wrote a really humorous account of getting a CT scan, complete with pictures of those "delicious" smoothies one has to imbibe beforehand.  I read her account the day before my third CT scan of this year, and I laughed out loud - she gave me courage through her account, and also a good laugh - Amber, I want you to know that your CT blog helped me so much through that ordeal . . . and I know you are laughing about it now, remembering, while you are now in the midst of Paradise . . .

    Maria

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