Losing Weight with Breast Cancer

Options
cakeisgreat
cakeisgreat Member Posts: 660

Hello, All!

 Well, I found out I had bc almost 3 months ago.  I am over 50 pounds overweight (unfortunately), so I obviously want to get this weight off.  I have changed my diet to more bc healthy (also heart healthy which is a plus) foods, but only lost 10 lbs since diagnosis.  I also walk or exercise 3-5 times a week now.  I thought the weight would come off being that I'm so heavy!  (37 years old btw)  Have a couple questions:

Anybody else in my category of being overweight at diagnosis?

Anybody else actually lost lots of weight because of a bc diagnosis and eventually got it together? (need some encouragement)

Is it my fault that I got bc to some extent because I am over weight and thus have extra estrogen (mine was 100% estrogen positive)

Is sweets okay to eat (in moderation) or do I have to be super vege girl from now on?  

Any thoughts would be helpful :)  Thanks!

«1

Comments

  • idaho
    idaho Member Posts: 1,187
    edited August 2009

    First-- NO it is not your fault you got cancer..... the end.   Yes you produce more estrogen when you are heavier but estrogen does not CAUSE cancer...  if we knew what caused cancer we would be rich!  If that were true every over weight woman would get cancer - and that just doesn't happen.   Second- good for you for changing your diet!   I have been trying to lose weight since diagnosis and it is a struggle-- I think tamoxifen is not helping any!  I walk also - and if I see a treat that I just can't live without I have half of it ---  I normally would have eaten the whole thing-- but now half--- life is to short not to have a treat once in awhile...  just my thoughts!   Good luck and peace to you.  Tami

  • Annabella58
    Annabella58 Member Posts: 2,466
    edited August 2009

    I completely and overwhelmingly agree!!! Most of america is classified as obese and we don't all have cancer.

    While it's a risk factor, seems to me that just being alive in our toxic environment these days is a risk factor.

    Good for you for putting healthy stuff into your body.  It can do nothing but good.

    No, you do not have to go all veggie, just eat more of them.  Add a salad to lunch and dinner.  Try to keep the white carbs to a minimum.  And btw, dark chocolate in moderation is good for us!

    I lost (while on tamoxifen) 35 lbs.  I never looked better.  I decided that if i was going to have cancer, dammit, I'd be a makeover story and a healthy one too.  Of course, I did get it again, but this has nothing to do with anything.  I was not overweight, but I was still ER++++.  Now, getting the old ovaries out, may help I do hope.

    You can do this and you can make a huge success out of it.  It's fun to have people say "wow, BC did that for you?" with all the other crap we go thru.  I just got tired of having them glance at my boob (like I don't notice that) to see which one, so I thought if I made myself look better, then they'd be admiring glances.  Makes silly sense I know, but anything helps with this.

    You will feel so much better if you eat clean.  The weight loss will just be a lovely SE.

    Good luck to you, and congratulations on your healthy attitude.

    xoxo

  • Artemis
    Artemis Member Posts: 759
    edited August 2009

    Hi, cakeisgreat ~
    I have lost 30 pounds since my diagnosis.  I already ate a pretty healthy diet, but I ate late into the night and never excercised.  I stopped eating after 8:00pm, and the weight started coming off.  (Being nauseated during chemo probably helped a lot, too!)

    I started walking three times a week about three weeks ago.  I haven't lost anymore weight, but I'm on Tamoxifen now so maybe this is going to be as good as it gets.  I don't know.  I'd like to lose more, so I may try walking more frequently once my stamina is built up a bit more.

    I agree with Tami that life is too short to completely deprive ourselves of treats!
    Laughing

    Good luck to you!
    Artemis

  • RHP
    RHP Member Posts: 48
    edited August 2009

    I also overwhelmingly agree, there are people who are 3 and 4 hundred pounds over weight and don't have breast cancer! My doctor wrote that I was a "well nourished woman" kind way of saying over weight! 

    I agree about the not eating at night, don't eat at least 4 hours before bed and it will make a huge differance. As for sweets, minimum treat yourself a little but keep it minimal. I decided that I controlled everything in my life except food.. well now cancer takes that place, so I now control my food intake. Surprisingly after a short time you don't miss the junk.. Add exercise and you have more energy and a better attitude. This also gives you the strenth to fight! Good luck and find good ways to "treat" yourself :-) and always remember YOU DON"T DESERVE IT, it just happens.

    Hugs
    Robin

  • JanMarch
    JanMarch Member Posts: 167
    edited August 2009

    I was diagnosed in January and after a few months of emotional eating (related to the dx), I reined myself in and started eating nothing but veggies, fruits, whole grains and lean proteins.  No processed food, no white flour, and as little sugar as possible (when I want a treat I make a smoothie).  Also, I eat every 3 hours 5 times a day and don't eat after 7pm and have protein with each meal and snack.  I'm on tamoxifen and have hypothyroid, so I assumed weight loss would be difficult becuase I've always had trouble losing weight.  So far I've lost about 15 pounds in 5 weeks and I haven't felt hungry or deprived once.  Long way of saying, you can do it!!  Trust me, if I can be successful losing weight just about anyone can.

    Oh yeah, another motivation for me besides being healthy is I want an awesome bod to go with my new boobs!!  I plan on starting back to walking after the insane heat here goes away.  

  • cakeisgreat
    cakeisgreat Member Posts: 660
    edited August 2009

    Hi, Idaho/Tami!  Thanks for reminding me that estro doesnt cause the cancer.  I guess the weight issue is the only real thing that I can try to pinpoint that might have given it to me, and so early.  I dont drink any alcohol, or smoke, and my life is not really stressful, all things considered.  Plus all the other things they ask...breast fed 4 kids, had them all before age 30, etc. Then every time I read, being obese raises the cancer risk, I'm like...yep I bet I contributed to this stinky problem.  I havent started the Tamox yet...doing it in four weeks after the rads, so hopefully if I can continue to make improvements, maybe the Tamox wont slow anything down.  (I didnt know it did that...great, LOL!)

     Thanks for the encouragement!!!! :)

  • suemed8749
    suemed8749 Member Posts: 1,151
    edited August 2009

    Love your screen name - cake IS great!

    I was diagnosed in January of 2008 and lost about 20 pounds from stress and anxiety - I'm a nervous puker, not eater. Then I lost a few more during chemo.

    I've put about 13 back since I finished chemo in July 2008, and so I started WW a few weeks ago. I have a great motivator - my right boob is a silicone implant which does NOT grow when I put on weight, unlike my real left boob. So if I want to stay balanced. . . gotta watch what I eat.

    Good luck to all of us trying to eat healthier and exercise more. And I agree with all of the above posters - NO, you did NOT cause yourself to get breast cancer!

  • cakeisgreat
    cakeisgreat Member Posts: 660
    edited August 2009

    Hi, Anniealso!  I agree about so many folks being overweight but not getting cancer.  I've thought the same thing myself.  I think I will adopt your attitude of being a success story.  This should be an opportunity to really change my look and yes, make people stop looking at my uneven boobs, LOL!  Why do people do that!  it's so annoying, ha ha!  I guess they're just curious.  Anyway, let's let them look at something better, right?!  I'm going back after rads to get a BMX and new boobs, so that'll be cool!

    So, I guess eating healthy and losing weight will not guarantee my not getting a reoccurance.  How are you doing?  I hope well!  I do want to feel better tho, so I know there is a benefit.  Ovaries are something I'm going to look into removing after awhile.

  • mumito
    mumito Member Posts: 4,562
    edited August 2009

    I have at least 40lbs to loose and I too blamed my weight gain and lack of exercise,for my cancer DX.ut everyone is saying that its not true. I am now exercising regularly but have only lost a few lbs.I am finding it really hard.Hang in there cake you are not alone.

  • cakeisgreat
    cakeisgreat Member Posts: 660
    edited August 2009

    Hi, Artemis!  Yes, I eat very late at night which I bet has a big thing to do with it.  My family is so busy that I eat about 10:30-11 am and then after 8 pm (after cheerleading practice currently).  Not good.  I really think I need to eat the smaller 5 meals that JanMarch mentioned (thanks!). 

    RHP--I like how the doctor said "well nourished," LOL, that's a new one!  I too controlled everything in my life, but let loose with food.  I felt like that's the one thing I could enjoy (before cancer...that ruined it for me!), even tho' I paid for it with extra pounds.  So, I should look at controlling that now too since I have no control over the cancer.  Great suggestion!  Looks like we were dx'd around the same time!  Thrilling, aint it? (yeah!)

    JanMarch--I actually ate the way you're eating about a year ago when I had a pain in my chest and the doctors thought it was my heart.  (I BET IT was the cancer!!!)  I lost 20 lbs in like 2 months...but I didnt stick to it because they found my heart was fine.  How stinky for me!  I have given up the white flour and most sugar...but definitely still need to work on it.  Thanks for your suggestions, and keep it up!  You're an inspiration!  PS--Your picture kind of looks like a yummy cupcake and I want to eat it!  Ha Ha!  I guess I really need to work on this, aye?

    Thanks Suemed8749 for your post!  I joined WW when I started slipping about two weeks ago, but I am so busy, I end up putting it aside during the week.  I think that's what got me a little down.  I just have to maybe work on eating 3-5 small meals and exercise.  Hopefully, I'll get the hang of it.

  • cakeisgreat
    cakeisgreat Member Posts: 660
    edited August 2009

    Hiya, Mumayan!  Glad (so to speak) that there's someone out there who struggles like I do and that I am not alone.  All my doctors agreed that being overweight does not actually cause cancer, but I felt like they were just trying to be nice because they didnt want me to blame myself the rest of my life (which I guess I've been doing somewhat anyway) and plus I cant change it now that I have cancer.  I'll keep you in my thoughts/prayers for strength while I'm drooling over the cookies. Maybe we can both get past this!  Excellent on your exercise!  Maybe in a year, we can all be featured on the "babe" Sports Illustrated, LOL!!!  

    Oh, sueme8749--glad you agree...Yummy...Cake IS great!  (see...my mind is always on food, ha ha!!)

  • vivre
    vivre Member Posts: 2,167
    edited August 2009

    There is not just one cause of cancer, that is why there will never be a cure. It is a multifocal disease that occurs when our immune systems are compromised by a lot of reasons. I felt it was important for me to figure out all the reasons for my cancer, and work to change them as much as I can. I had to be honest with myself and balance my mind, body and soul. I did not feel I was blaming myself, but rather taking responsibility for figuring out why so I could make changes. I had to detoxify my environment and I work to live a cleaner life. One of the most important things I think I have done is to lose the weight. I went from bordering on obese to now having a very healthy BMI. I lost over 40 pounds by committing to eat for my health, not to fill up the spaces in my heart. One of the most important things we need to do is to heal emotionally. I did this with  a lot of walking. I always walk outside in nature and use the time to work out all the cancer causing anxieties that I have harbored for years. I cannot tell you the peace I have found. It gives me such reassurrance that I have tamed the beast. Daily exercise will increase the endorphins which will make you feel better. When we feel better, we do not need to use food to fill the void. Exercise also builds muscle which burns more calories and ups the metabolism, making weight loss easier. If I can do it anyone can. I have struggled with my weight all my life, and love the fact that I no longer have all the bulges. It is a pleasure to shop for size small tops and size 6 pants and not even have to try them on because I know they will fit. All I can say is that if you really want to feel healthy, losing weight is really important. I hope you all will take it seriously and use food as your medicine. I hope you will make a committment to losing weight. It will lower your chances of recurrance tremendously. Head on over to the motivation thread for a little inspiration.

  • Rabbit_fan
    Rabbit_fan Member Posts: 166
    edited August 2009

    Hi Cake - I can really relate.  I would say I've been about 25-30 lbs overweight (sometimes more) almost my entire life.  I WAS a complete junk food addict.  I lived for candy and pizza.  If I was stressed at work, many times I would eat a whole theater-size box of candy.  I know people get upset if you blame your lifestyle for your cancer, but now I really feel like instead of living for junk food I could die from it.  I have always been very into thinking about and reading about nutrition, but I couldn't stick with healthy eating, and I always saw a diet as only a means to lose weight.  But now I feel like the stakes are higher. 

    I have had a total attitude shift, and now I only want to eat healthy food.  When I got diagnosed I started trying to follow the advice in "Anti-cancer - A new way of life" and "Foods to fight cancer."  I told myself I would only eat healthy food, but once a week I could have an unhealthy meal of whatever I want.  At first I looked forward to the weekly pizza quite a bit, but now I can even skip that.  I recommend those two books all the time.  They make me feel like I CAN do something to improve my chances, and that makes me feel great.  I've lost about 12 lbs. since I started all this, and I haven't been at that weight for 10 years.  So I think it's totally possible - it's all in your outlook.

    There is a pdf file that I'll try to find and post a link that lists a couple hundred studies on diet and exercise that show that it does impact survival. 

    For me, I wasn't willing to do chemo because of the very low chance of benefit, but I am totally willing to fix my diet and give up the junk.  Some people say they want to choose the most aggressive surgery and chemo available, but this is my version of being aggressive.  I'm totally into juicing now - I have a huge glass of fresh veggie/fruit juice every day. 

    You can do it - if you really believe in it, then it becomes easy.

    Here's the link to the booklet - I found it elsewhere on the forum and it's been really helpful to me.

    http://cancer.ucsf.edu/crc/nutrition_breast.pdf

  • pj12
    pj12 Member Posts: 25,402
    edited August 2009

    Hi CAKEISGREAT!

    I can totally understand your frustration.  I used to say I was a thin person in a fat body.  About 6 months before my BC diagnosis my DH was diagnosed as pre-diabetic.  We took a diabetes diet class and vowed to try to control his blood sugar with diet and exercise rather than drugs.  I am the cook so it was really up to me to see that we stuck with the program.  At first I was really depressed over such a dramatic change in my cooking and eating routine.  But it was easier to stick to it for someone else than for myself!  He lost 20 lbs, I lost 40 lbs!  

    The diabetic diet is the basis of WW and close to the South Beach diet.  The emphasis is on reduced carbs spaced out evenly with smaller  meals and frequent snacks.  At first I felt as if all we did was eat!  And not want I really wanted.  But now I am used to it, feel healthy, and have kept my weight stable for almost 18 months.  

    Now I am trying to get rid of my muffin top with some exercises.  It's hard and time consuming.  Everything easy is bad for you and everything good for you is difficult to arrange.  I'm happy to be slimmer of course but I don't think I could have embarked on such changes at the moment of my BC diagnosis.  One major life challenge at a time please!  

     And besides, the diet police keep changing the rules on us.  If you are an old baby boomer you will remember the food pyramid of the late 50s and 60s... red meat, butter, cheese were good. And eggs were verbotten for years and are back in favor now.  Orange juice used to be good for us; now we should eat the orange instead.  Soy was great, now avoid it if you're ER+.  Who knows?

    Pam 

  • Lindissima
    Lindissima Member Posts: 239
    edited August 2009

    Cake is great:

    Your situations sounds very like mine.  I have lost 20 lbs since diagnosis, through exercise and healthy eating , but since I started on Arimidex 2 months ago, the scale has not budged  I stil need to lose  50 pounds, so I am frustrated and concerned because I know it can impact recurrence to be overweight.

    I always ate a lot of fruits and vegetables,avoided red meat and alcohol, but was addicted to sweets. My workplace is covered iwith desserts and snacks full of transfats, corn syrup and very unhealthy things, but I found it very difficult to pass up all those chocolate chip cookies and muffins and candies that were just everywhere.  I definitely feel  eating that unhealthy junk contibuted to the cancer. or at least  created an imbalanced  environment in my body  that helped it flourish.

    After having been diagnosed with BC, I now refuse to eat any of that junk, but  do allow myself an occasional high quality treat, but only after having had a healthy, balanced meal so my blood sugar doesn't spike.  I have read that surges of insulin are the real culprit, not the sugar itself.

    I agree that the book "Anti-Cancer" is very inspiring and informative.  I also liked "The End of Overeating" and "In Defense of Food."  The food industry has been cooking up a toxic mix which it serves to us  disguised as "food" and this is what is causing a lot of our disease, more than the extra pounds.

    I suggest avoiding processed foods completely.  Indulge in an occasional high quality treat where you know the ingredients are natural. 

    I plan to ramp up the exercise, cut back even further on carbs and stop eating after 6pm. I hope that will start the weight loss ball rolling again. I really like what vivre said about thinking of food as medicine. And walking only 30minutes a day. 4 days a week, can cut your risk of recurrence by 2 to 3%, according to my oncologist.

    Good luck! 

  • everyminute
    everyminute Member Posts: 1,805
    edited August 2009

    Not your fault.  I always wonder why we tend to blame our selves for bc - you dont see many people blaming themselves for other cancers (or maybe I just dont know that because I dont have other cancers - I hope!)

    Anyway - I don't know where you live but check into resources for cancer survivors.  Teamsurvivor is a great one with affiliates all over the country (I run one here in Albany NY) and offer free exercies programs and support to female cancer survivors. 

    ps - before diagnosis I was an exercise junky, had a perfect bmi, ran 16-20 miles per week, strength trained and didnt eat fat or much red meat and oh - I dont drink.  Still got cancer.  Sigh.

    pm me if you would like more info on how to find a teamsurvivor or other exercise program for cancer surivivors in your area.

  • London-Virginia
    London-Virginia Member Posts: 851
    edited August 2009

    Oh sweety - don't you blame yourself!

    There are some fantastic posts on this thread - what great info.

    My tuppence worth - 10 mins on a treadmil at maximum incline burns off a lot of cals!

    www.fitday.com is free, and I have been using it for calorie/exercise tracking for  ages and it does help.

    Be an avid food label reader - it is so surprising how many foods have completely uneeded and unexpected sugar and worthless carbs.

    Fruit juices are very high cal.  So not as healthy as we think.

    10,000 steps per day really does do the trick, and no one should worry about having to start off at much lower than that.  Over a while, it becomes easy.  I think people may get put off because they think they have to be running miles and miles to have a positive effect - you don't.  By all means do so if you wan to, byt the 10k steps does a great job.

    All best wishes -

  • cakeisgreat
    cakeisgreat Member Posts: 660
    edited August 2009

    Thanks everyone for all the great suggestions.  My hubby and I went on a nice walk today.  I ate pretty well...but I did have a small bowl of ice cream (maybe 1/2 cup).  Not a great choice, but I'll keep trying!  Ugh!  I'm going to look into some of the websites, etc. you guys suggested, thanks!

  • Sassa
    Sassa Member Posts: 1,588
    edited August 2009

    I have lost 60 lbs since my BC diagnosis (20 of that I refer to as my mastectomy/chemo/herceptin diet as appetite loss was a side effort for me of the treatment).  The other 40 came off as a result of portion control (yes, a half cup of ice cream is OK) and exercise.

    I have been plateaued on weight loss since March and still would like to lose about another 20-30 pounds.   I talked to my PCP last week and he has me on a doctor supervised system of food supplements and an appetite suppression drug. Of course his plan also involves exercise and diet but he agrees I have that part down pat, so I am hoping that the supplements give my metabolism a kick in the butt and gets my weight loss started again.

    By the way I am postmenopausal so the excuse of menopause doesn't cut it for not losing weight.

  • Ainm
    Ainm Member Posts: 781
    edited August 2009

    Hi Cake,

    I have to lose about 100lbs. I too feel that I may have been semi responsible for my dx as I have been yoyo dieting and overweight for the past 22 years and I took the contraceptive pill for most of that time too (except for my two kids and breast feeding them!) It's hard not too think the 'what if'! Anyway I can empathize with you and if you saw my posts on the motivation thread you will see that I am really freaked out by the thought of having to lose so much weight when I know I'm not the best at keeping it off. All I can say is the people on this site are great. Check out the motivation thread, the ladies there are awesome and so supportive. And just get through each day with as little junk as possible and try introducing a healthier diet that you will be able to maintain. I've started walking about 30 mins every day and exercising (I use a Wii Fit) 30 min every day. I lost 10 lbs in the first month and this was the month I started Tamox. Best of luck to you. You have my thoughts and encouragement as we share not only a BC diagnosis but that cuddly layer that we need to shed for a new svelte us!!!!

  • leaf
    leaf Member Posts: 8,188
    edited August 2009

    I have about 35 pounds to lose.

     If you are interested in losing weight using calorie counts, and have an iPhone or iPod touch, a collegue just recommended a free iPod app called  "Lose it! ".  You can enter your daily weight, your loss plan, what you eat, what exercise you do, and it provides a daily calorie limit, depending on how fast you want to loose. 

    I think its quite an app, and you can't beat the price!

  • swimangel72
    swimangel72 Member Posts: 1,989
    edited August 2009

    I need to lose 35 pounds as well. I've been trying to follow my Weight Watchers food diary, but often forget - I'm a lifetime member, but am currently suffering from "WW burn-out". Once I can get back into my regular swim routine it'll become easier to diet. I never feel motivated to diet unless I'm also able to exercise. My surgeons gave me to OK to return to swimming last week, but I haven't done any serious lap swimming yet because I ended up getting a fever and cold. It's getting better - hopefully tomorrow or Tuesday I can start with 1/4 mile in the pool.

  • sandilee
    sandilee Member Posts: 1,843
    edited September 2009

    Well, if being overweight causes cancer, what's my excuse? Wink

    I've always been on the thin side, and it didn't protect me. There are so many carcinogens in our air, food and water, and we really don't know why some people are affected and others are not.

    My 81 year old mother has been very overweight for the last 40 years, and she is pretty healthy in spite of it, and has been cancer free. Oh, and she has also been on estrogen (Premarin) since she was 35 and had a hysterectomy!  

    Some of us are just "lucky" I think. 

  • yasminv1
    yasminv1 Member Posts: 238
    edited September 2009

    I agree with you sandilee. Cancer does not discriminate. I am 31 years old and I have always been very thin and healthy. I have eaten healthy with a little indulging a day a week for the past 10 years. I have also lifted weights and do cardio 5-6 days a week and this terrible disease got me anyway. No family history of BC and BRCA negative. I guess I was just the luck of the draw.

    Cakeisgreat sounds like you are taking the right steps. Good luck to you and please don't give up sweets completely. It is ok to eat your favorite things from time to time just as long as it is in moderation. Take Care.

  • Sydney6
    Sydney6 Member Posts: 172
    edited September 2009

    Cake - Just want to weigh in on this (no pun intended).  Please don't blame yourself!  I have never really been too overweight (maybe 10lbs at most) and according to the stats when I went for my mammo last October I had a 13% chance of getting breast cancer to age 90.  Well surprise - at age 45 I had cancer.  Of the risk factors listed I guess my main one would be alcohol.  I do enjoy having a glass or two of wine and I'm not giving it up.  I can't believe that one thing caused this crappy thing to happen and I refuse to feel guilty about enjoying a glass (or two) orf wine.  I dropped 10lbs quick when I was diagnosed.  I felt so sick about the whole thing I couldn't eat.  Everyone I saw pointed out that I had lost weight.  I told them it's the cancer diet and I don't recommend it.  I wish you only the best on this rotten journey.

    Sue

  • cakeisgreat
    cakeisgreat Member Posts: 660
    edited September 2009

    Thanks, Sue!  It does stink to have this, this, "stinky thing!" Smile

    I bet most of of can find at least one thing that we wished we could have changed or maybe  contributed to the cause, right?  And yet there are SO many folks who eat like horses and drink, etc way more than what you drink, and live to 103!  Interesting...

    PS--My friend who's mother died of BC still enjoys one glass of wine every night, but she drinks the organic wine.  She says the reason wine was a contributor was because it has the sulfites (or some "ite" in it), but the organic wine does not, so it's okay.  Not sure, but maybe worth a try so you can keep enjoying that yummy wine!

  • StarWish624
    StarWish624 Member Posts: 101
    edited September 2009

      I agree with those, here, who said that being fat doesn't CAUSE cancer. I used to weigh over 300+ lbs. for years. I finally lost weight, was down to 165 ish, and THEN they found my SMALL spot. So, I didn't get cancer while I was fat.

      I went through Chemo. first, and, with the steroids in the AC, I gained about 10 lbs. But, what with the nausea and all, I took that off, plus another 35 lbs. I have floated around the same weight through Radiation treatments, and since. I guess what really helped me, was that I made popsickles out of my protein drink. The cold is nice while it is so hot, and it is a way to get nutrition, even if you have naseau.

      Remember,  there are lots of us with stories like yours. And this site is a GREAT place to share.  Best wishes.

  • cakeisgreat
    cakeisgreat Member Posts: 660
    edited September 2009

    Thanks, Starwish!  First, let me congratulate you for losing that weight!  It has been such an obstacle for me to lose weight for about 7 years.  It figures that when you lose it, THEN they find the cancer, but I appreciate your sharing with me and all who read this about your experience.  This site and post has really helped me realize that being overweight didnt cause this blasted cancer.  I know that I have to lose weight and be healthier, but not because I "did myself in."  Just because it makes sense to be healthy and feel good, whether I have cancer or not right?

    So I have been enjoying some sweets, but I have also changed my eating habits to eat more healthy.  I've only lost 1 lb this week (and 10 at the beginning, and nothing in between), but I am choosing not to be obsessed with my weight anymore (as if it helped anyway LOL!!!).  I'm choosing to enjoy life and the fact that I still have it.  If I continue to lose weight slowly, that'll be great!  But if not, whatever, right?  No more beating myself up.

    Thanks everyone for helping me with this question!  And please...feel free to add some more help and comments.  It's AWESOME!

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited September 2009

    Dear Cakeisgreat,

    Thank you for posting, and starting this thread.  I just found it, and I am so glad.  I also have been dealing with the irrational thought that I caused this because being overweight is my only risk factor.  It was so encouraging to hear the responses to your questions.

    I joined WW on Dec. 31, 2008, and found the lump in my breast on Jan. 11, 2009.  I could easily have freaked out, and given up on weight loss.  Something inside said if this is something bad, you will be better able to fight it if you lose some weight.  I stayed on the program, and lost 30 pounds before my diagnosis in May.  I didn't lose at a fast rate, but slow and steady is better.  I have yo-yo dieted all of my life.  Now I just want to keep off what I have lost, and if I can get more off that would be great too.  I still have to go thru chemo, and then Tamox, so I just want to keep eating healthy and I think I will be fine.  I found a website, called Hungry Girl, and she has a couple of cookbooks that have lots of good healthy snack recipes, and her desserts are really good, even my kids love them.

    Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!!! 

    Susan

  • BarbAnne41
    BarbAnne41 Member Posts: 380
    edited September 2009

    I have been reading this thread for a few days and just had to put in my 2 cents. I have been a relatively healthy person for a long, long time. Never really overweight, maybe a little here and there when I go through rough periods in my life, like when my mom died, Must admit since my diagnosis and subsequent revelation that I would need chemo and radiation I have been medicating with food a bit. I love cake pie and donuts with a passion.

    But I am a vegetarian, walk 3 miles a day, do not smoke or drink and coffee and colas are forbidden for me since I have had bleeding ulcers, (heredity isn't it fun?)

    At 41 I have BC-I just look at it as it is, what it is, and we will all get through this together-right? Being healthy is important but I don't think we have to live like monks. And I really don't think being healthy, (diet, exercise) prevents you from getting sick as much as it helps fight the illness you are dealt better.

    That's just my 2 cents.

    Take care all of you!!

    Barbara

Categories