My mom...Please help

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Pleasebeokay
Pleasebeokay Member Posts: 3
edited June 2014 in Caring for Someone with Breast cancer

Please help me.

Last year, my mom got breast cancer and I had to go stay with my dad. I always miss her so much and I dont know what to do. She finished 6 months of cemo, got her breast removed, then they found that the cemo didnt kill all the cancer and now she has to go in for more cemo and a month of radiation.

I just miss her and I don't want anything bad to happen to her. I always worry about her, and sometimes I can't go to school because I'll just end up crying in front of everyone. And I don't know what to do. Please help.

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  • Mazy1959
    Mazy1959 Member Posts: 1,431
    edited August 2009

    Pleasebeokay,

    How far do you live from your mother? If you are too far away to drop by..can you call her? Write her letters or etc. I am sure she would want to hear from you on a regular basis. God Bless...Mazy

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  • makingway
    makingway Member Posts: 799
    edited August 2009

    I'm sorry you are experiencing this sadness. I'm sure your Mom misses you very much. She probably didn't want you to have to see her not feeling well. Will she let you visit her? Maybe you can let her know that you need to. You need to find a psychologist to talk with about this. It's hard, even for family and close friends to talk about it. It's good to share your feelings with someone you can trust. Go to a counselour at school and see if they have any resources outside of school they can recommend you can go to. You might also try Mental Health Services. It's a county program. You can find it under government listings in the front of the white pages phone book. I'm sure others on here will offer some helpful advice. What state and county do you live in? I can try and find you a counselor.

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