Starting Chemo in July 2009
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OK Js, Question. After my 1st treatment on the 9th, I went in the next day for the Neulasta shot, which hadn't been previously scheduled till the nurse asked about when I would be in for it & I said I didn't have it on the books, so it got scheduled & I had it. When I went in today the onc (who said just to keep an eye on the blotches by the way & if they get worse in any way, let her know) said when I have my injection tomorrow after my steroid pills like last time...I said wait a minute, the only pills I had last time were the compazine, she said oh no, you have to have the steroids & I said, well I didn't, so she immediately wrote out rx for this time. My question is---since I didn't have it last time, why should I take it this time? She's adamant that I take it. What do the Js have to say?
Joni2
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Hi all you beautiful Triple J's. Hope all are doing their best. Am getting by today. Have had nausea all day but have managed to eat some toast and then a couple hours later some jello. Will try some yogurt after while. Hoping thank you! We all have to stay strong and keep an up attitude. That is half the battle. I am going to ck. on the vitamin D that is for sure. Thanks for the tip. GOOD LUCK ALL AND STAY STRONG.
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I have a question which I hope does not sound too stupid...My hair started falling out a few days ago so I went to my beautician today. She used the buzzer on it, number 1. I came home with stubbles all over my head. So I need to shave it. I used my husbands shaver and after about 30 minutes I still have little stubblies all over. Is this what we are supposed to have? I had thought my head would be smooth. What am I doing wrong? Thanks
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Joani, is your husband's shaver an electric one for his face? Maybe you won't be able to get as close as a shave with that vs. a razor. Now, I'm not suggesting you use a regular razor unless you are comfortable doing that, but if you really are looking for it to be smooth, that's probably the way to go. Just be careful, b/c my husband shaves his head with a razor and sometimes cuts himself, and he does it all the time!
I had my hair buzzed a week ago, but still have hair (just had 2nd treatment today, so I'm expecting for it start to fall out this week) This time the Dr. gave me EMEND, and so far, I think it's working. Slightly queezy, but not as nauseas as last time and no puking. I hope I'm not jinxing myself!
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tougherthanithought & eph3_12: I had my 3rd AC treatment yesterday and today the Neulasta shot. I take EMEND right before AC treatment along with the steroids, I have not been sick once, after the 1st treatment stomach was a little queasy once or twice but took the pill for mild nausea that was prescribed. I have had a good appetite, but I do get a lot of heartburn for about a week after the treatment so I usually have to take pepcid after I eat. I have been getting the most problems from the Neulasta shot which I have to have after the first 4 treatments. It seems to really affect my reconstruction sight the most. Can't wait till I am finished with that shot.
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Thanks for all the HUGS. I felt them all the way here!!! Everything went great on my first day of chemo. I have felt pretty good except for a bad headach. Dr said it is probably the anti nausia drug they put in the IV. Haven't been sleeping very good so she gave me some Ambien. I take my first one tonight. May be up all night walking and eating in my sleep. Who cares I'll be asleep. Had my hair cut short today so when it comes that time I will not have much to clean up. At my age I like things nice and easy. One fun thing happened yesterday during my chemo. I am a big football fan of the local collage and a bunch of the players came in to visit us. My husband went down and bought me a cap so they could all sign it. It made it a red letter day for me. Thanks for all your prayers and hugs. The triple JJJ's are the best.
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Hey everybody, Had my neualsta shot today. Feeling way better this time than #2. The A/C only one more dose than I am half through. I meet two cqncer survivors today. One had BC and the other a man had liver cancer. They were both 5 year surviors. Bothup beat. Both say to stay positive. The guy did give some good advice from when he went through chemo. Eat when nothing tastes good or your not hungrey. Put stuff on your mouth. If you do not you can't keep the strength to fight this thing and it will put your counts down and delay chemo. he had 18 treatments. Sounds like good advice. Strength and hugs for everyone. Dianne
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Good job Dianne. This site will really help everyone with a positive attitude.
SallyMae - how sweet of the football players! Sounds like you are doing well.
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Lovinglifetoday, my mom's hair stared falling out on day 13 after 1st treatment, and she is now "shedding like a cat" on day 2 after treatment 2. She cut it short on day 14 and still has a good amount of hair (no bald spots) but it is steadily coming out. She is on A/C- I am not sure what drug(s) you are on and if the time table for hair loss is different. Hope that helps.
Eph, I would trust the advice of your onc and take the steroids just to be sure you don't get sick. In my mom's case, the steroid made her crazy (very restless and jittery, she was unable to sit still or relax or feel comfortable doing anything) so she asked them if she could be taken off it and they said no, they almost garunteed she would get sick without it but reduced her dose. The steriod she is on is Decadron- is that the one your doc prescribed? I would take the minimal dose your doc tells you to take but it is probably a good idea to take it with any other anti-nausea meds you might be on (my mom is on an array of them- Emend, Compazine, Zofran in addition to the Decadron- not sure about everyone else) because I think it's better to be jittery than vomiting. Just my two cents based on my mom's experience... does that help? I'm curious as to how others feel about this..
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SallyMae; Aren't those little things in life that counts.?
I remember the last day of my chemo. My nurse put a candle on a cupcake and everybody in the room celebrated my graduation day.
Now I know who your daughter takes after.
God Bless you both for your sense of humor.
Good luck to all JJJ's and wishing minimal side effects. You all are wonderful women.
Hugs
Sheila
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Hi ladies. Hope everyone is doing ok w the SEs. By now, the last rounds are on their second week (I think) and you should start feeling better however if not, sorry and hang in there. With my experience, I think by day seven the SEs are lessened. By day six,TX2, a new side effect emerged for me. I had issues with my legs from the neulasta shot. Odd pains like I had been standing all day with knees locked. No fun and weird that it would wait so long to appear post neulasta.
I am also curious about the Vitamin D situation. Mine was low when I was initally diagnosed. I was 12 and normal was 35. I have been taking 2000IUs daily and last week I was still low. My dr. rec'd another 1000IUs, so now I am taking 3000IUs and on average you need around 600-1000IUs. Sunbllock can hinder Vitamin D absorption - great. ..also areas where there is a lot of smog lessen vitamin D intake. feeling kinda screwed right now. ...gotta love NJ.
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PS73, the nurse practitioner my mom talked to made it sound like she could give her a prescription-strength dose of vitamin D to take until her levels improve (if she needs it... we are still waiting for results). She also said that once your levels were normal, you're good for a while since it's stored in fat... Since they've told my mom to avoid the sun whenever possible during chemo, she will need to get vitamin D elsewhere... I would ask your onc if he/she can help you obtain a high-dose source somewhere, or prescribe one.. good luck!
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Hi fellow triple J's:
Day 6 post 1st tx. Yesterday and today I did not feel quite as well as the previous days -- mainly body aches, fatigue and general maliase. I have no appetite or hunger at all so don't even notice when I don't eat. My mood is also a bit more depressed. Yesterday evening I realized I hadn't eaten much all day and then ate too much for so late in the day. Today is kind of the same thing -- I didn't eat anything at all until mid afternoon. There is no pleasure in food right now as I can barely taste anything and the empty belly "feed me" sensation that I used to get if I skipped a meal seems on the fritz.
I believe we all have to eat sufficiently to keep our blood counts up so I'm going to try to look at food in the same way I look at the meds I have to take.
Although we all react differently, it seems this taste malfunction thing is pretty common. I'd like to ask what foods some of you are finding most palatable. There's also probably a specific thread for eating while undergoing chemo. I'll look for it.
Very best wishes to all my BC sisters!
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Hi ladies, Had my 2nd chemo today. Went well..so far.
some of you have asked about the stubble left of your head after shaving it off. I took duck tape and put it on my head and pealed it off...the stubble came with it. duct tape a true answer to everything.. hope all goes well for everyone!
Warm wishes,
Balsie~
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Oh I love the duct tape idea! Might give that a try!
Thanks for the responses. I will do what the onc says but if I have different (worse) reactions this time around with the steroid I will definitely let her know!
Sleep well. Joni2
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Lori - I too am trying to eat even if nothing is wonderful or I'm not hungry. Yesterday was a struggle to eat but I have found potatoes are ok. Plus crackers and bread with nothing on it.
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Here I sit, all broken-hearted,
Tried to sleep-can't- nor
have I farted!!
I HATE not being able to sleep. Not too mention that it's hotter than hot here!
Joni2
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I am so sorry you cannot sleep. I use Ambien and or Melatonin. I don't bother taking them on TX day as I am way to hepped up on steroids, but I do still sleep on & off on that night. Yesterday, day 4 after tx #3 was HELL for me. I was soooo eexhausted, but too jittery to sleep. Never have had that happen before after chemo-I think the Prilosec I took for heartburn made me jittery and the anti-nausea meds made me tired . It sucked, but I took my Ambien at 7:30pm & slept thru the night until 5:30 am....phew , I feel better. I hope everyone else has a great, happy SE free day!
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Joni2...crack me up !!! Sleep only comes in the form of naps for me as well. It is hardly ever more than 4 hours at a time. Don't have sleep meds and not sure I want them.
Is everyone on AC taking steroids? I've been reading all the posts about steroid issues. I'm not on a steroid...just had the decadron IV the day of treatment. Can't remember everyone's regimen, so maybe it's those on another drug than AC..just curious why some might have steroids and some not.
Joni1
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Hi everyone! I hope you all have a wonderful weekend~ SE FREE!!!
Joni1~I was wondering the same thing.. I'm on AC and the only steroid I get is IV and I was sick as a dog, nausea lasted from day 1 through day 10. I was taking nausea meds every 4 hours alternating between two different kinds, Zofarn and Phenergan.. I even had alarms set so I would make sure I took them at the right times during the night. They only lightened the nausea but never took it away. If the steroids are to help with nausea, I'm going to see if I can get them for the day before too. I would much rather be jittery than sick!!
Hopingforacure~I'm on AC too, day 12, I can't tell if my scalp is tingling here and there or if it's all 'in' my head... anticipation......lol
Vitamin D vs. D3~Our biggest source of Vitamin D is the sun, but I've read that in the tablets, that Vitamin D3 is the one that we are supposed to be taking because it is more like the natural one. Does anyone know more about this?
Elizabeth~Lovinglifetoday
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Joni and Lovinglife...
I am also on AC and I get the steroid in my IV but they also have me take 2 decadron for two days after each chemo trmt. My nausea is very bad the day of my trmt, but lessens the next day. Hope you are both feeling much better!!!!
Hugs,
Linda
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Thanks Linda, I'm going to be sure to ask for it!!
Elizabeth~LovingLifeToday
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Eph3-12 Just know of my experience. I'm on Tasotere and Cytoxin and have steriods during my chemo but no Rx. Only something for nauesa and a sleep aid.
Joani-I did the same and finally took a regular blade razor over it with shaving cream. I have to do this about every three days as stubble grows back. My onc. said if I wanted smooth, this is the way to go because the stubble will grow back between treatments and then fall out.
NewportLori- I too have to think of food like medicine. Nothing sounds good but then when I eat I almost always feel better. For me it's Cereal. I've eaten healthy stuff like Special-K with strawberries and yesterday I ate a huge bowl of Apple Jacks. For some reason they were delicious! The milk leaves an unpleasant coating on my tongue so the dog gets my milk. She thinks it's great!
Today is day 4 after 2nd treatment. Still with the bone pain from the neualsta shot but I can tell it's getting better.
Hi Mom! hang tough buck-o!
My 22 year old son got me a shirt at Warp Tour (Rock Concert) that says: F&*k, F&*k, F&*k, F&*K CANCER. I won't wear it out of the house, but around here it sure makes a statement. Love my young adult childrern. They are my inspiration and a huge help with my attitude.
Everyone have a great weekend and NO SE!!! that's an order!
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LovingLifeToday~ there is a thread on the Complimentary Treatment, Alternative Treatment, board that talks about Vit D. Lots of good info. Just found it this a.m.
So, the steroids are for nausea?? Interesting. I was nauseous for about 4 days after tx, but I hate the SE's of steroids as well. May just see how I do this next tx w/o steroids again. I don't like swelling and weight gain either. Why is it all so complicated???? What a crazy disease!
Triple J's...have a great weekend,
Joni1
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GOOD MORNING TRIPLE J's!!!!!!
PauldingMom: The same thing happened to me when I had completed a whole post....Woosh...gone! I really want one of those tshirts, but my 3 year old grandson would be asking way too many questions!!!!
Eph3_12: I would definately take your steriods. I have bee on TC and they give me bendryl and nausea meds before starting the TC. I also take a steriod for 3 days after chemo as well as Emend the day of tx followed by two days. I have had no sickness at all. A little heartburn here and there for 2-3 days after tx cured by Tums. Also senecot automatically tx day followed by 4 evenings before bed...no bowel probs at all either. Sorry you can't sleep
Vitamin D....best way is the sun...but we aren't supposed to be in the sun...so how does that work? What foods can we get this from?
joni: I too have the stubble problem but was hesitant about using a razor. Love balsie's idea of duct tape....I'm trying that tonight!!!
NewportLori: I too have the same SEs with no hunger pains and the tongue that feels like fur. You should be trying to put something in your mouth at least three times a day. We forget that food is fuel for our bodies. We are so used to things tasting good and that is why we are eating instead of the real reason we are eating! Does that make any sense?
SallyMae: That was wonderful for you! We need those positive things to keep our smiles and spirits up!
TCGGal: I'm really not looking forward to tx #3 on the 13th! Two down went pretty well...hoping #3 does as well....good luck to you!
Forge on Triple J's....we can do this!!!!! Have a non-SE day everyone!
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My Cinderella Story
I had been divorced for 5 years. I work in an elementary school as a teacher. In 2005 I went on Match.com and on March 11th I met my prince at the age of 48. We have been in a long distance commited relationshop for 4 years. He surprised me with an engagement ring Christmas Eve 2008 and this past New Years Eve we got married. In Sep we bought our castle and no more traveling.
Four months later on April 10th I had a mammogram and on the 15th was told that I had Breast Cancer. I remember crying and saying that my Cinderella Story wasn't suppose to go this way. On May 4th I had a lumpectomy and mammo site put in.
On May 19th, my husband ended up at the ER at the same hospital that I was having my second radiation treatment. They said it appeared that his pain was due an intestinal virus but they were more concerned with something that showed up on the cat scan that looked like cancer.
He did have cancer in his kidney and had to have it removed on June 30th. He didn't need radiation. I started my chemo (TC) shortly after his operation on the 13 of July.
We had planned on going to Denver this summer for our Honeymoon but it will have to wait.
So to get to My Hair Story...
I have had long brown hair for as long as I can remember. I had read this book and it mentioned that taking flax seed might help from hair coming out. I also listened to a friend on took Biotin 2x daily to prevent it. I thought that it might not fall out.
Twelve days after my 1st treatment, it started coming out. Clumps in my hands, hair all over the house. My emotions were every were. Up, Down and all Around.
I had a friend and her daughter who is a beautician come to my house. My husband and daughter were here and watched as she shaved it on Wed. What little that was left. She made a braid and gave it to me to keep.
I overnight expressed some caps that came in on Tue. I have a long wig that looks like my hair but lighter in color. I was worried that I wouldn't be able to keep it on and wanted something to cover my head.
The problem that I have is that hats or anything on my head often lead to a migraine. Very unconfortable for me. In the winter I always wear earmuffs and not hats. Trying to adjust to the new me. Or is it the new me. I think I am still the same. Just have more life expreriance now.
Glad to have you all here.
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Joni2 - that is too funny. I have had the burps since tx. When out in public I try to burp quietly and without attention. But at home I open my mouth and do the loudest burps imaginable. I can beat any beer-guzzling drinker! Last night I woke around 4:30 and felt the need to burp. It just would not come. So i got up, walked around and was finally able to burp. Such relief. Scared the cat!
The difference in peopl'e meds is interesting. I am DD A/C right now. On chemo day I got emend, (also day 2 and 3), decadron (also days 2,3and 4.) Then compazine and zofran and ambien on an as needed basis. I take one zofran each day as the only day i didn't was not a good day, and that's all. I got a neulasta shot and have had no SEs from that.
joni1 - My meds cribsheet says the steroid is for nausea. All my meds on chemo day were pills, not via my port.
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Hey everybody, i am on the A/C treatment too. Good news #3 tx has been a breeeze so far. No day 3 which is usaually been my worst. I have been taking very little anit nausea pills. Only 2 since tx. They did give steriods in the IV . That is all I am on besides the anit nausea stuff. Instead of duct tape. Try a sticky lint roller, it works well. The duct tape might be hard on the scalp.
Marielf On the hat thing. they might be to tight. I am not a hard wearer but like them better than a wig. I wear the hats only when going. places otherwise no head coverings or a bandana.
NewportLOri, Got advice from a 5 year surivior, Eat even when it does not taste good. you need your strength to fight this stuff!! Try watermelon, fresh strawberries, or blueberries, they are what I eat when nothing taste good.
To everyone fighting this stuff, hope the weekend brings relief from SE. i am hoping mine are non existnat this time. One more A/C. Strength and hugs Dianne
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Hello Triple Js! I always feel like I'm back in the land of the living on Day 8 after my treatments - I think someone posted that the worst of the SEs last about a week and that's how I feel on the T/C. I notice mild SEs throughout the period in between, but not like the week of chemo. So hope everyone in midst is hanging in and everyone in between is feeling better! And God bless to Sallymae - hoping this cycle is as easy as possible - we are all pulling for you.
I just saw Fran Drescher on TV (which I'm watching way too much of lately) who had uterine cancer and now has a website about gynecological cancers - www.cancerschmancer.org. She has an interesting story if anyone is surfing and has time on their hands. The site also has prevention and research articles about different cancers.
Also - just in case this helps anyone - from the beginning, my onc prescribed the Emend and Zofran. I think if people are having a lot of nausea and vomiting, it's worth asking for the Emend and if that doesn't work there is a patch called Sancuso. My other big issue last time was the steroids and sleep - I slept an average of 1-2 hours per night despite Ambien and even Valium. This time they gave me Ativan pills and for me that really seemed to counteract the effects of the steroids where you're awake staring and jittery for 22 hours a day. Hope everyone has a good weekend & feels as good as possible. Take care.
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Hi all you BEAUTIFUL TRIPLE J's ! Hope everyone is having best day possible. As for myself still having the nausea. I keep eating even when I don't want to. I put peanut butter on crackers it helps some. I am having more trouble drinking, that is when I really start feeling bad. I am on AC also but only get the steroids on the day of treatment. All Dr.'s seem to have a different idea on what and how to do. We just have to keep smiling and stay strong.
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