All About Gummies
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Oooh...good topic!
I have bilateral Allergan Style 20, 500 cc's, high profile, smooth round silicone gel implants. We were just discussing this issue of "bounce and jiggle" on the Exchange City site the other day. My implants feel soft and pliable to me, albeit odd, as I still have minimal sensation in either breast. My DH, on the other hand, thinks they feel remarkably real and would want to play with them all day if I would let him.
Liz, I do just what you do - I examine other women walking down the street and watch as their breasts sway and bounce with each step. Mine do not do this. I can walk down the street in a tank top with no bra and there is really very little, if any appreciable movement. I can make them bounce if I maneuver them with my hands - and believe me - we ALL do this and try this - trying to get some semblance of normal extracted from these foreign bodies sitting on our chest.
The amount of bounce and jiggle and real softness though is really rather subjective. In the breast augmentation realm, implants are, in many instances, being coupled with breast fat and connective tissue and these are the elements we are missing with mastectomy. Some of us have skin and muscle overlying the implants which are lax enough [and perhaps this happens more over time] which will relax and enable the implants to move more freely within the pocket. I must say though, if you look at very small breasted women who have very little breast tissue, when they undergo breast augmentation, they are pretty firm and there is not a great deal of movement. I have a friend who has had implants for ten years now and she has no more bounce or jiggle than I do....
My plastic surgeon here in So. Cal has said to me she believes the "gummies" - the Allergan 410's and Mentor CPG's - when approved for widespread use - "will be the standard in the industry." She thinks that the anatomical Allergan 410 will be the best implant to address my lack of upper pole fullness I am concerned with - but I have told her I really do not think I want them. I am still investigating my options - to address rippling bilaterally and a step-off on one side - but I just do not feel that I would personally be happy with the firmness of the 410's or CPG's. I think that women undergoing breast augmentation who have sufficient skin thickness and underlying breast tissue will probably love them. But for breast reconstruction patients - as we can see by some of the comments here - the jury is still out. I do believe that breast reconstruction patients in particular have not had sufficient "trial" time to know how these true gummies are going to feel two years down the road. You will quite likely still have nice perky breasts, while my implants have happily bottomed out and require hydraulic lifting.
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Emma8 so good to see your post as I am also bigger than expected (34A to 32D) and wondering if its possible to go smaller. My ps wants me to give it some time before we have that conversation but it is good to hear that it can be done. You said you had your pockets stitched down to make the pockets smaller - do you know how many bra sizes smaller? How will this affect the pec muscle function? Did you have extra/sagging skin and if so how was that handled? You are happy with the size but are you happy with how the skin, scars, etc. look now after the second exchange?
Elizzim, sorry to hijack your thread with these questions. I am also a single woman with hopes of an active sex life in my future, and think it is perfectly reasonable to be concerned not only with how we feel about the foobs, but how a partner will experience them. I also find the gummies a bit firm, but think they do look really natural (I have the anatomicals, how about you?). If I do decide on another exchange, I will revisit the implant type issue with my ps, but ultimately, I am hoping that if I like how they look, I will have the sexual confidence that the feel of them might not be such an issue for the right partner. Of course I worry that my scars, the fake nipple (eventually), and the firmness may hinder sexual response in a partner. But they are battle scars that make me feel strong and sexy in a different way, and if I can exude that, maybe the fakeness of the foobs can be overcome?
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Libragirl: Oh don't do a thing at all! You look fabulous - not too large by any stretch of the imagination. There is a guy out there with your name on him who is going to be a very happy man with those boobies!!!! Trust me......
You single girls.....this guy is going to love you and he is going to love everything about you - including these fake boobies. If he doesn't - OFF WITH HIS HEAD! A man's view of breasts is so different from ours. We are SO critical of ourselves....I am in the mirror dissecting every flaw and my husband just does not see the flaws. You are not going to settle for less than someone who adores you!!!! PROMISE ME you won't settle!!!!
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I am leaning towards implants (heavily) after my bmx. You have given me a lot to talk to the PS aboutnnext week thank you so much. Did any of you have mamosite radiation and then implants? I know radiation can be very problematic to implants, but I had midline abdominal surgery years ago and that will most likely prevent a DIEP (which I am scared of)...so my choices for reconstruction are slim and I don't want to be without any FOOBS. If a woman has enough skin left after her mastectomy can they put the implant in immediately without TE's? I am trying to quickly educate myself but I am confused about implants. My BS said she can do skin sparring mx's.
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OmahaGirl:
Here is a thread discussing this very procedure:
http://community.breastcancer.org/forum/44/topic/736507
Here is a link to a website describing this procedure - along with Alloderm grafts:
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Hi all,
Well, I met with my PS yesterday. First of all, I just have to say that whippetmom's post ("If he doesn't - OFF WITH HIS HEAD") had me laughing out loud in the waiting room. People thought I was crazy, but I really needed the laugh and the support - both.
SO, I'm a pretty sad girl today. I overcame my trepidation enough to make my case for what I don't like about these gummies - primarily 2 things: the firmness, and the lumpiness/ripples in the lower pole. I was SO SURE that I'd have an alternative, since so many of you seem happy with your traditional gel implants. I should say at the outset that I fundamentally like and trust my PS alot - he's a top guy at MSK, and he does a great job aesthetically. In terms of the surgery itself (i.e. nipple placement (I had nipple sparing BM), scars, etc.), I don't think I could have done much better. So I have absolutely no reason not to trust his judgement. After all, I chose him because his judgement in these matters is so superior to mine. I chose him BECAUSE I knew I could put my trust in him.
In that context, here's what he said: he basically said that while non-cohesive gel implants would be somewhat softer (not even significantly softer, in his opinion), he thinks I would really not like how I look. His reasons for saying this are that I have a longish torso (length from collarbone to sternum), so the shape that I have from gummies looks decent, whereas with round implants I'd have a long flat expanse, and then suddenly a round implant. He thinks I would NOT like the way this looks, and that if we did it, I'd wish I had kept the gummies. He's not any arrogant guy, as some of your PS's seem to be. He doesn't have a lot of ego tied up in convincing me he's right. He said he'd do what I want, but he's telling me very clearly that he doesn't think I'd be happy at all.
I asked again and again - are these my only 2 alternatives? A softer gel implant that looks awful (and would require an enormous amount of fat-grafting), or this anatomical implant that looks OK in clothes, but feels like a hard, immovable tennis ball stuck on my chest, and has tons of dents and ripples? And he said, pretty much, YES. This is the only true anatomical implant that he would trust, and all the softer ones would not look good on me.
Talking with him, I now feel that it's really likely that if I had surgery to switch these gummies for a round, soft alternative, I'd like the result LESS than the gummies I now have. And I'd be stuck with those results.
I now realize that the problem that bothers me even more than the firmness is the ripples/dents I have on the lower pole, and the general bumpiness in feel and appearance. I'm not sure whether this is because my 410's are slightly large for my frame (although I asked for this size, based on the dimensions of my TE's). I asked him if he thought going a size down would make them less lumpy or give me fewer "dents", and he said he doubted it. So it seems there's nothing that I can do!
I held myself together, and then I cried the whole way from NYC to CT. It's not that any of this is comparable to the concerns of health and well-being, so I feel almost silly. But when I look at myself in the mirror, or imagine some man touching me one day, I confess that I feel kind of like a freak. I almost feel like not even trying to meet anyone. I used to feel such confidence in myself as a woman, even though I was far from perfect. I felt whole. Now, these two things on my chest neither look nor feel anything like a real breast - theyr'e hard and full of bumps and dents. And I feel like even the most wonderful man couldn't help but recoil from this. How do you consider getting back out there and dating with this baggage? Maybe it's not so different for those of you who are married, if you don't love your result.
Anyway, it's hard to believe that I have no option but to live with what I've got. But the implicit message from my PS was that there's no perfection in breast reconstruction post-mastectomy, and we have to accept flaws in either one area or another.
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Liz I am so sorry and disappointed that these seem to be your only options. Even though you really respect and trust your ps judgment, perhaps it is still worthwile to consult a few others. If you really don't feel happy and right with your gummies, maybe the softer gel with fat grafting would be worth it in the long run, even if you have to go through several fat grafts/procedures to get a result you feel good about. I was thinking about this myself today, that although I loathe the thought of more or multiple surgiers, I think I'm willing to do what it takes to get where I want (and I need to convey that to my ps, who I get the sense feels I should be happy with the result I have). These foobs are not accessories; we need to feel that they are "us."
Another thought - I've heard that there are saline anatomicals but have no recollection of who makes them and who they are recommended for. Perhaps this is something to explore?
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Thank you Whippetmom! Your post made my day! I am trying to give myself time to get used to the size. I am really self-conscious though. I do find I get more looks than I used to, which is positive on the one hand, but makes me feel strange on the other. I do have other issues, and I will post more pix on the photosite soon to show what I am talking about.
Hugs to all
Michele
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Hi Michele,
Thanks for your post - yes, I'm thinking the same things you are. Even though part of my is trying to find acceptance of what I've currently got, another part of me is analyzing other implants, their dimensions/projection, to see if maybe my PS is missing one little piece of the puzzle. I'm very confused. Part of it is feeling one minute like I should not trust my PS blindly if I'm displeased, and the next minute wondering how I could possibly question what he's saying when he said it thoughtfully, and it comes from a decade of experience! I cannot believe how confusing this is!
For the record, I saw your photos on the photo site, and I think you look great! But the way we look in clothes or photos, and the way we feel to ourselves, can be two very different things.
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Liz,
As someone who chose not to have reconstruction after bilateral mastectomy, I can't respond to your specific concerns about the gummies. But I did want to say something about the dating thing. My mother-in-law had a mastectomy when she was 31 and reconstruction wasn't available. She needed a second mastectomy at 46. When my father-in-law died, she was only 64 (a very youthful and beautiful 64) and she was convinced that no man would ever want her, given her flat chest. Not only did she have an interesting dating life for a few years, but she then met and married a wonderful, smart, handsome man. When she died recently (at 82, not from breast cancer), he told me how beautiful he'd always found her and how her lack of breasts made no difference to him.
I know your situation is different, but I just wanted to say that there really are some great men out there. I can see from your avatar that you are a beautiful woman with a great smile. Whether or not you decide to keep the gummies, I'm sure there's a man (or many men) out there who will love how you look and who you are.
Barbara
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Barbara: Touche', touche', touche'!!!
Liz - Do not be sad and do not give up this quest. Frankly, when I read about your long torso and what you were describing as your nice long sternal notch to nipple ratio - I was pretty floored that your PS did not tell you about the extra full projection implant style. I personally think you have the right build for this. As long as you have a fairly narrow ribcage....the Allergan Style 45 and the Mentor Extra Full Profile/Projection silicone implants are indeed still "rounds", but this style is narrow and tall - it sits up higher on the chest wall. It really is a beautiful style of implant for the appropriate situations - especially for women with a narrow ribcage and a long torso and a good SN to N distance. On page 99 of the Exchange City thread, I have explained how to calculate these measurements - check and see where you are in this regard.
I think your issues also with the gummies is that they are textured - must be textured by their inherent anatomical nature to keep them in place - but you are getting traction rippling, which is a known problem with textured implants. I just think you would be a very good candidate for the extra full projection style implants. If it means finding someone else who is interested in pursuing this further, then perhaps this is a route you need to consider.
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Barbara - your words made me cry! Have I actually lost faith that wonderful men like that exist in the world, and that I am actually - we are all - more than the sum of our parts?
whippetmom - thank you, thank you, thank you. (And how on earth do you know so much about implants?) This is exactly the kind of info that I need so much to present to my PS. I can't understand why this experienced surgeon, who wants to do right by his patients, at one of the top hospitals in the world, would not be able to provide me with the options you just did! I am so confused. But I'll take this info to my PS. At the moment, half of me is trying to accept what I've got, while the other half is determined to find any softer alternatives that would work with my shape. If these alternatives exist at all, why does my PS seem not to agree that they do?
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Liz: Sadly [and I wish I had the time and energy to be a political activist in this regard] many plastic surgeons just do not think outside of the box with breast reconstruction patients. It is perplexing to me. The breast augmentation patient comes in the door, money in hand - and the design studio is set up for her with glittering lights and everyone jumps through hoops to give her the boobies of her dreams. The plastic surgeon is in major competition - he has to deliver the goods to get the referrals and the name.
The woman who has had a mastectomy comes in, her chest ravaged by surgery and the mission and the vision changes. It is bizarre. After all, the plastic surgeon makes more money on the breast reconstruction patient than he will ever make on the breast augmentation patient. Is it because WE are not paying him personally that this relationship changes? Does he feel beholden to the insurance company to not make us too terribly gorgeous, for fear the insurance provider will think he has gone too far? [I hope I do not initiate any debate about this....I am today just feeling rather frustrated - I talk to women weekly who are so very unhappy with their reconstruction results and their plastic surgeons are telling them "this is as good as it gets" and one particular case today has me all fired up!]
Now again, there are many plastic surgeons out there who do make it a personal effort to make these new breasts as beautiful as possible. Many take a true interest in this regard. But there are too many out there who do not fit into this category. Now interestingly, some of them turnaround quite nicely, once the patient starts pushing and prodding, becomes well-informed, and demonstrates they are not going away quietly into the night. So keep asking questions!
ADDENDUM: And herein I am specifically addressing tissue expander-based reconstruction - not the microvascular specialties. They DO take a different approach and there is a vision for cosmetic enhancement with the NOLA's of this world.
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I am off to MSK in a week and I am going in armed and enlightened as to some of my choices when I see the PS. I am sorry Liz for your stress and conflict, I am hoping to avoid some of this because you brave girls have gone before me and have taken the time to share your experiences with the rest of us. My deepest thanks.
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I am so happy for all the info on the different types of implants. I have many months before my exchange, but I didn't even realize all the different types of implants there were (gummies vs cohesive gel). Are there good web sites to view the aesthetics of these implants? I had a bilateral mastectomy, I start radiation soon (with the TE) and have 6 months to wait for exchange - lots of time for research. Thank you for all the info on these pages!
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Hi Kerkle,
I just wanted to let you know something that my PS (whose knowledge I trust) said, for whatever it's worth. When I asked him about other "cohesive gel" iimplants, softer ones than the Allergan/Natrelle 410's, he told me that the 410's are the only true cohesive gel implants out there. He says that these are the only reliable, well-tested implants that will give you that natural, teardrop shape of a breast. But the trade-off for getting that shape is that they are very firm.
I know that other PS's seem to disagree with my PS on this point, but my PS went into great detail explaining that there are other implants being called cohesive, which are not truly cohesive at all. So it may be something you want to talk to your own PS about. Please keep in mind that I am no expert on implants, as you can tell from the confusion evident in my posts on this thread! I'm just telling you what my PS told me, but you'll have plenty of time to do your own research.
There is actually a site where many generous women have posted photos of their own journeys through the reconstruction process. You need to send a private message to Timtam to get the link to this site, and the username/password to access it. As soon as I can figure out whom to ask to take a photo of me, I'll put up pictures of my own final result. Good luck with your research - take your time and explore all your options.
-Liz
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I'm no authority here either but have done a TON of research on implants. All implants today are cohesive to some degree. The gummies are the MOST cohesive with more crosslinks in the silicone than the other 'lesser' cohesive gels on the market today which were approved by the FDA (after testing) in November 2006. My PS actually had one of the 'lesser' cohesive gels (which is what I have) cut in two in her office. I pushed on the implant and the gel started to ooze out of the shell but as soon as I left off pressure, it retracted back into the shell. The old runny (oily) silcone implants have been removed from the implant market. BTW, the round implants take on a contoured shape because of gravity but if they rotate, there is no harm done. HTH Best wishes
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I think (I can only assume) that my PS is trying to make a distinction between the gummies, which have a true, anatomical shape, and the "lesser" cohesive implants that are certainly more cohesive than the old silicone implants, but not as cohesive as the gummies, and therefore not teardrop shaped.
When I asked my PS about other silicone implants that are cohesive to some degree, but not as firm as the 410's, he said that any others are not "really" cohesive. Are these just different ways of using this word, in the same way that love can mean different things to different people? I'd think that it the realm of science, there wouldn't be such divergent uses of the same terminology. It's confusing to me. I don't want to second guess my PS, who is great. But it's strange...
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Thank you Liz and thank you RubyTuesday. That information is helpful and I will ask my PS next time that I see him. I dont know names or gel types, but I do know he wants to use a teardrop shape. I was worried about it flipping, but he said that it shouldn't be a problem. I hope he is right! Being in Canada (Montreal) and not in the U.S, I always worry we are not getting the most up to date information and using the most up to date implants. I hope I am very wrong here.
Liz - I did get to the area with the pictures, I started looking through them and they are amazing. The women here are incredible and so inspirational. I feel lucky to have found this site and all you amazing women.
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Kerkle - I just wanted to update you about my own experience. While I'm by no means finished researching and considering other (softer) options, in parallel I think I'm gradually feeling more acceptance of the 410's/gummies. It's such a tricky process - there are so many issues colliding invisibly in my feelings about my new "breasts". Among these are the fact that I may be comparing them to "ideal" breast (when the ones I had before had their own set of problems!), the fear of how they'll be perceived by a man, my perfectionism. At this point, the dents/bumpiness in the lower pole is bothering me more than the firmness. And I might well have more rippling with a softer implant.
But maybe more than anything, I stumbled upon this thread yesterday about position of tumor, and the likelihood that tumors in the lower quadrant would drain to an entirely different set of nodes than the axillary, resulting in incorrect staging of the cancer. My tumor was at 6:00, and reading this sent me into a real panic about my prognosis. I don't mean to get into this topic on the reconstruction forum, but only to say that it's amazing how worries about mortality quickly make all these worries I've had about reconstruction seem almost meaningless! What a roller-coaster this trip is.
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Greetings from northern Michigan Ladies,
It's been too long, but boy am I glad to be back, and with this topic. I had a double Mast. w/recon. (2 years in October.) My photo's of my implants are in the photo section we all visit. Since the photo's of my reconstuction I also had two nipple reconstruction surgeries. Both have failed and flatten. The reason, everything you are all concerned about. I have the mentor 350cc gels round high profile. They are now way too tight as well as the capular contracture that Hanna is talking about. This is with a textured implant, not smooth. I also have alot of pain because the implants are pulling and feel like the are seperating into my arm pits. My muscles are always tight in my chest. It's not so much the implant, but my muscles flatting them and making them harder than they shoud be. Tomorrow I go down state to my PS and hopefully we will come up with a solution. The pulling also creates a strain on my back and neck. It's like I am always pulling my shoulders back. Now mind you, I am only a full B cup if I'm lucky. Physically they look fine, they just don't feel fine! So as for the drop and fluff mode, mine really did not settle that well. Thank you for allowing me to read all your comments, I am going to ask my PS about the more narrow implants. Even after my exchange surgery, they always seemed too wide and under my arm pits, but then again, I was lucky if I was an A cup before BC and never had boobs. But I'm pretty sure their not suppose to be under my arms...right?
I'll let you all know tomorrow night how it went.
Take Care
Sharon
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Hey Ladies, thought I'd throw in my experience for what it's worth...
I had my exchange surgery in August 2005--so my implants have had a good four years to do whatever settling they're going to do.
I have Mentor silicone gel. I can't tell you what size or the "model" number as it's been four years and I don't think I ever bothered to find out that information in the first place.
If anyone is interested, I could find out from my surgeon or dig through my paperwork.
I was a 34 barely-A prior to bilateral mastectomy. I'm now a 34D. I figured if I had to go through surgery and chemo I was dang well going to get some bigger boobs out of it! I spent hours on the computer prior to my exchange surgery researching photos of reconstructed breasts, and I took the ones I liked in to my surgeon. He did a wonderful job. The non-cancer side implant looks great--completely natural. The cancer side is not shaped as well, not because of the implant but because of the scar tissue from the mastectomy. Both implants feel soft and natural to me--but keep in mind I previously had small, dense breasts so that's what I'm comparing to. There is some slight rippling when I lean forward, I have very thin skin which may cause the rippling to be more visible. I have very little upper body fat (all my fat congregates in my rear and thighs
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While both sides have settled a *tiny* bit, neither implant has drooped at all--I joke that the rest of my body is suffering the effects of gravity, but my foobs will never droop.
I can't give you any insight on how a man would feel about my foobs--my BF bolted while I was going through chemo and frankly I haven't been all that interested in finding a replacement since then.
Liz, you may want to at least talk to another plastic surgeon for a second opinion. Never hurts to get someone else's thoughts.
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2acdmom: Would you PM me with the state and city you live in and the name of your PS? I help out women on Exchange City and finding a plastic surgeon who actually shows an interest in giving you what you want is a find indeed. I will add him to my list.
Thanks!
Deborah
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Thanks to all you wonderful ladies for sharing your experiences here! I have read every word carefully, and I'm taking it all in, trying to find my way with this issue.
I'm not used to being this unsure of what to do! In most situations, I'm pretty clear about my feelings and the course of action I want to take. I have never gone back and forth about a potential decision with such intensity in both directions. At one moment, I look at my chest with the 410's and feel it's OK, I should definitely live with it rather than undergoing another surgery. I'm so worried about the results of the revision surgery being much worse than what I have now. I'm scared of not taking the advice of my kind and experienced PS, and ending up with a result I hate, and can do nothing about.
On the other hand, I am so unhappy with aspects of these breasts. I think I could live with the firmness as a trade off for the best possible shape. What I feel I CAN"T live with is the uneveness of the breast surface - all this bumpiness and these many little dents and resulting shadows. I'm longing to have the smooth, continuous, soft surface of a natural breast - or as close to it as possible. So my question now is: Is this unevenness in surface due to the kind of implant I have (Allergan 410 gummy), or would it be the same with a lesser cohesive gel, like the Allergan 45? When I look at photos of the 45's, they look smooth to me. Is this just because the photos don't capture the uneveness? I've analyzed the situation, and my bumpiness is not the texture of the textured implant showing under my skin. (When I pull my skin taut over the implant, the bumpiness goes away.) So, what is it? And would I have the same thing with the softer, smooth 45's?
I'm really going crazy trying to figure this out. I'm not sure what I'd gain by seeking a 2nd opinion, because I actually like and trust my PS alot. If another PS said the opposite, that he thinks most of my problems would be solved with a lesser cohesive gel implant, who do I believe? I'm so afraid of having a second surgery only to hate the results. This is part of my confusion and frustration - how do I reconcile what my PS is telling me with the photos I've seen, and what seems to be the experience of so many women on this board? Sorry to go on and on...
I was actually thinking today that it would be so great if the women from this board could actually get together face to face. There's so much intelligence among the women who come here, and It would be nice to be able to talk about all aspects of this process with others who truly understand. If there are any of you in the greater NYC area (in my case) who would be interested in meeting one day, let me know. I'd try to plan something for us.
Wouldn't it be great if our PS's had some way to have willing post-op patients share their results with upcoming surgery patients? At the risk of sounding a bit odd, I would happily volunteer to let a woman who is making these decisions prior to surgery see my results, and even touch them. I have NO modesty left.
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Hi Liz,
I wish I could wave a magic wand and have a perfect solution for you! It really isn't fair, going through all this, and not being satisfied with the result.
In terms of the ripples, can you ask the PS to do fat grafting? It seems like that may be an alternative to get you closer to what you want? Also, I would go back in there again with your new information from this board and see what he says. He definitely has enough confidence in his work not to be threatened at all by a patient coming in with information.
As you know, I too can't stand the hardness of this gummy, so I'm curious what he's going to say on Monday. I'm really in quite a bit of pain from the implant, and I'm sure all the amount of sitting in the car, driving to and from Virginia last week and then sitting for hours in La Guardia airport on Wednesday, didn't help. But still, it just doesn't seem like there should be this much pain.
But, I do want to see you happy, so I think you should follow-up with the new information.
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Liz: Based on what you are describing, you have partial submuscular placement of your implants. If "partial", the lower 1/3 of the implant is covered only by skin...if complete submuscular - the lower 1/3 is under the fascia, connective tissue and rectus abdominus. [In both placement methods, the implant is partially under the pectorals.] It seems you might have been a good candidate for Alloderm, which I think would have reduced the likelihood of this kind of complication in the lower pole of the breast. I have Alloderm and partial unders and trust me, if I did not have the Alloderm I would be experiencing the same thing, because my skin flaps are very thin. Additionally, as rubytuesday mentioned previously, the problem with textured surface implants is that they do have a tendency to grab onto the skin, bringing about traction rippling.
Referable to your last question, that is what I am going to be doing with Kaiser in Southern California - hopefully before the end of the year. I will be meeting with breast cancer patients to answer questions, discuss implant options and "show and tell" what they might be able to expect with implant-based reconstruction.
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Hi Liz, I also used sloan kettering. I had a lat. flap on my previously radiated side plus an implant. The other side was implant only. I knew nothing about different implants , my ps asked me, saline or silicone. I chose silicone. I have not been happy with my results. The lat flap side looks good, except for some heavy duty rippling when I bend, The side with just an implant looks like a hamburger bun. It's smaller, and it doesn't lay like a breast. It's just a blob. I'm a year and a half out, so I assume they settled. They move around when I lie different ways in bed. I'm going in Monday for a revision. He's taking out the implant, and putting in a slightly larger one (the lat flap is larger), and I asked him to use a gummy. It has more of a teardrop shape, and I'm hoping will look more like a breast . The silicone implant is round. He did warn me that the gummy will be harder, but he feels this will give me the shape I'm looking for. My husband is not happy that I'm going under the knife for this, but they really bother me, when I see myself without clothes.
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Digger - I hope your trip went OK. I was thinking about you because another friend of mine just told me that her mom, who had reconstruction at NYU, just had her implant taken out due to chronic pain. She went through many PS's before she found one who understood the reality of what she was experiencing. Apparently, the implant was impinging on a nerve. All of the PS's with the exception of one thought that it was all in her head!
Deborah - thanks again for your wealth of information. I will ask my PS whether I have partial submuscular placement. I was told simply "submuscular", but this is important to clarify. It's phenomenal that you're going to be providing this kind of guidance and support to reconstruction candidates. It would have been such an amazing help to have the benefit of someone else's experience when I was making these decisions in the first place.
mittmott - the gummy (as I'm sure you know by now!) is what I have. It will give you that nice teardrop shape, but the firmness of it, and the fact that it's immovable, are very hard for some of us to get used to. I would actually ask your PS if you can talk to other patients who have them. If you want to ask me any specific questions, please feel free.
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I, too am in the process of figuring out which implants to use. I had a BLM in May and am due for one more fill before the exchange in Sept or Oct. My friend had a single mastectomy and has the gummies and she loves it. I'm just as afraid of making a wrong decision as elizzim is. I want to know - what are the best questions to ask the PS when I go again to settle the implant choice for me? Since most of you have already gone thru the exchange, is there any advice for us newbies?
Thanx!
Denise
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