Starting Chemo in July 2009
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PauldingMom: That stinks that you have to go 45 minutes away for rads!
Can't wait to get through the whole dang thing! I only have to go about 15 minutes to get rads. I travel one hour to get to chemo in Chicago. That is where my onc is at. I'm pretty tired today, but trying to drink down my wonderful water. I drink, I pee, I drink, lay down, get up, pee, drink, etc.I guess my onc is proactive on the shot to help with the counts. It worked the first time!
Eph3_12: I understand the hair thing as I shaved mine down to a mear stubble on Tuesday. It's not the easiest thing to see yourself like, but it could be worse. My DH tells me how cute I look all the time and that it doesn't matter what it is on the outside, it is what is inside that counts. We have been married 25 years this Sept and are just as in love with each other now as we were then.
Nothing tastes good, but I keep trying to eat. Keep brushing my teeth and rinsing with Biotene which helps. Days 7-20 are the best I think.
Good luck to all starting Chemo and all that are along with me! (((HUGS)))

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gill...had the same question about drinking so much..Is it just on treatment day??
I'm having a hard time eating protein..for some reason the only things that sound good are related to potatoes. Potato soup (loaded of course), baked potato (loaded of course), potato chips, etc...
Think I'm doing good to get anything to stay down, so not going to worry about it till I start rebounding some. I'm praying days 7-20 are MUCH better.
Thinking of you all getting ready to start next week. We're all in this together
Great weekend to all,
joni 1
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Joni sorry to hear that it knocked you out. ..but glad day five is a little better.
I had heat sweats on m first round but my second round is everything my first round was but earlier and a little more SEs like acid reflux. First round, day 5 hit me hard. Second round day 3 (today) is awful. I can't open my mouth, my throat hurts so bad. My body is sore to the touch and of course the emotional aspect of shaving my head today. My DH thought it was sweet to put a little mullet action on the back of my neck and ears so that when I wear a hat or scarf it isn't as noticable. ...now I have to go back and re-shave it bc he used the number 12 blade and that is about an inch of hair that keeps falling out everywhere. He was very sweet and came home and brought me soup but I couldn't get off the sofa to have him shave off the rest. Maybe tonight bc not only is it a mullett, but its a mullett made of knives. Joni 2, Im with you, shave the shit off pronto! ..the only hair not falling out is my leg hair and where exactly is the justice in that?
Just want to raise a glass of milk of magnesia to the ladies who are going thru these awful SEs and work right now. Cheers
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Hi triple js:
I'm on day 8 and so far so good after #1. No Neulasta yet. My doc says wait until wbc at next appt and will then determine. What symptoms are an indication that wbc is lowering? How low does it have to get to cancel treatment? Wanda
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jacee.....
I'm on AC and not getting the neulasta shot either....didn't have to do blood until 10 days after my first chemo. My blood count was low, but she siad it is working and that is what it is supposed to do. I go for my second trmt on Wed and I am not looking forward to it!
Feel better....
Hugs and prayers,
Linda
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how do you update the footnote infomation?
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LindaSue, I've had first tx and next is 8/5. That is when my wbc will be checked. Were you given explanation for checking it about mid-way after first tx?
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Hi Ladies,
I am new to the site and was suggested by another member. I started TCH on the 15th and had a few poor days but feeling normal now. My only complaint is that carbonated soda burns a bit so I just drink more water or vitamin water which I have come to love. I happy to have someone to share this with although I wish we were sharing something else.
Faith Over Fear!
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Welcome shelclaire!
Yes we all we wish weren't here, but if we have to be, this is a great group of ladies to go through this experience with. Look forward to getting to know you.
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BlessedOne2....
I guess all onc have their own ways, so did you not have to have your counts checked at all after your first trmt??? They didn't give me a reason, and I didn't ask, but it seems alot have their counts checked the very next day. Who knows???!!!!
Welcome to shelclaire!!! Love your "Faith over Fear" quote!!!!
Love to all,
Linda
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Hi Ladies~
I wore my wig out today...got a lot of compliments. Really anybody looking for a wig..check out Raquel Welch wigs on the inter. They are light and real looking for not a bad price at all. I have to go to a staff party tonight...1st night with my co workers. I will be glad to break the ice before school starts in the fall. You ladies understand that ...right? It is a whole new world out there.
If you are scared about shaving your head don't be....today I felt good about walking around my house and not worrying about dropping hair everywhere...It really is a relief.

eliz46....I am not taking a neulasta shot either. My onc. said I didn't need one right now.
I have chemo again next Thursday...I meet with the onc. on Monday. I will ask him about the neulasta shot. I am also going to ask if the side effects are cummulative....do they get worse or
better as it gets more in my system. Do any of you know this?
Well I am off to a party....I will try to behave myself.
healing wishes to all
Balsie~
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Hey everybody, Some people do nto get the neulasta because they are on a 3 week schedule. I am getting on but doing Dose dense every 2 weeks. There are a few people doing this. #3 chemo is the 29th, I will have had 3 doses in a month. It goes fast but sometimes fast enough. Going to a wedding this week end and wearing the wig. I hope it is not hot. My year old grandson could not figure me out the other day. He stared at me with the cap. I do not wear these. Then he took it off and could not figure the bald thing. Knew it was grandma but something was wrong. Had the funniest look on his face. It was really funny. The 5 year old gave it no thought. Just grandma. 6 year old thought I can wear caps like him. Everyonne have a great weekend. I am going to the boonies of South Dakota for a wedding in a bowling alley. Real red neck maybe. Hugs Dianne
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Hi shelclaire - I started TCH on the 21st. It's nice (in a weird way!) to see another ER/PR+ HER2+ on here. Makes me feel not as alone! I feel pretty good actually and I'm hoping it stays that way, other than I'm hungry but nothing sounds good to me. I too have a Vitamin water addiction now!
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Hi all Triple J's. Hope all had the best day possible. PauldingMom Thank You for the words of encouragement. Sorry to hear about your mom. Will add her to my prayers. Hope she joins us on this journey. White929 I will also have to do the radiation thing after chemo. I keep telling myself that I have to be thankful that we have all of these treatments to heal us. To all you wonderful ladies, I have started a thankful journal. Everyday I find five things to be thankful for and I write them in the journal. When I am having a down minute or day I get out the journal and read all the reasons I have to be thankful. It helps me and maybe it will help someone else. Have a great weekend all. I am waiting on Monday it is my C-day.
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Hey Shelclaire- Welcome...it looks like me and you are on the same sch my first TCH was on July 15 also...I use to be a diet pepsi only drinker...but just like you it burns my throat!! Now I am drinking gatorade and I have come to really like it. I guess we can go thru this together, the only other really bad SE I have had has been stomach cramps. I hope your SE are not that bad!! I see your from Jacksonville...I love that city it is so beautiful at the Landing!
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ssimmons66:
Where in Ga are you from?
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Hi Everyone-my avatar shows the back of my head as of this afternoon! Been doing some major crying. I look STUPID and scarves, hats, etc. don't make it any better. But tomorrow's a new day, right?
Joni2
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Joni2: You are AWESOME! Its ok to cry, rant and rave...
Thinking of you and sending BIG HUGS!
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With ya Joni 2 - I shaved my head today and cried cried cried. I feel much better now though, the anticipation was not so great. Im sure you will look beautiful in scarves, hats, turbons, wigs and all the like. Just got to battle through this my dear. ..we are all with you.

Puppy likes to walk on my port and lay on my GI Jane head. How do you say bad dog, don't walk on mommy? hmm. Hoping for a better day tomorrow. The round 2 SEs kicked my ars today. Im on DD as well so I take the neulasta - the claritin didn't help or did just was more severe this time, who knows. I was told by my nurse that I could expect the SEs to be the same as the first round but so far they are stronger and earlier so I guess yes, cumulative. So be it.
Would love a Mr. Misty Cherry Vanilla shake right now. ..wonder if Dairy Queen delivers at 3:15am?
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Jacee - protein is really hard for me too. for some reason, when my husband cooks these frozen turkey burgers I can eat 1/4 of one. And potatoes and potato chips, especially help me with the nausea and feeling I don't want to eat. Helps me drink more too. I thought it was the salt, but maybe some vitamin in the potatoes? I don't eat much protein during chemo week - and I think White 929 said days 7-20 are the best when you're on the 3- week regimen and for me that's really true. Those are the days I work and feel like myself, just a little tired.
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Hi ladies (mostly of magnificent 7)..started cytoxan/taxotere thursday..brought a bag and never touched it. turned out i knew a few of the nurses there ( i was their kids school nurse) and the time and treatment flew by. went for nuelasta yesterday and had h/a and heartburn and had to recline in the afternoon.haven't slept between 3-6 am in days since starting dexadron and have to take it 2x day until tuesday. i too will be having rads right after 3 more cycles of c/t so when that group starts i'd love to keep in touch with all of you,too. getting the haircut today..always wanted a buzz!!! so great to come on here and laugh and cry with all of you. hope the ladies that started together are ok!! have a nice weekend ladies..i think of you all the time
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Looks like we have a couple folks from Georgia. I am West of Atlanta about 45 Minutes from downtown. I know the week after my first chemo. I craved Sunny D's Smoothies. I walked around with the jug and looked like the opening credit from the movie Juno.
Eph 3 12- Honestly sweetie, I am sure you look good in a hat.I know I will be just like you and cry a river. It's okay and probably better than holding it all in. I don't like the way I look in caps or scraves either but am going to do my best. It just a little bump on the road to recovery.
Did you purchase a wig? TLC has some on clearance for about $30.00 and they look cute. I ordered one and it should come on Monday or purhapes today.
I have my second Chemo on Monday and am doing everything I can to enjoy this weekend. Just took DH and doggie to the park for long walk. Watched group flying toy planes and saw the geese floating in the pond.
My mom signed up under the name SallyMae but she hasn't gotten on the discusion board, but did get lots of information. Sending me to ChemoChicks.com today for some laughs.
Hugs to all, and as always, hang tough.
Lisa
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Just want to say thanks to Seyla888 for directing me to the list of abbreviations and others for the welcome. This forum is so helpful for knowing what to expect and what is normal and what we can all endure. I'm on day 4 from my first AC treatment and doing well. The emend is apparently wonderful because I felt queasy, but not nauseous. My energy level is not what it should be, but I'm not down for the count. Thanks to all of you for sharing. I appreciate being able to go through this with others who really understand.
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Hi All - I was directed to www.ChemoAngels.com by a fellow BC sister...This is a non-profit organization that has volunteers who send cards/letters of encourgagement to people dx'd with cancer and currently undergoing chemo. I got my first letter today from a wonderful woman in MO. I just wanted to pass this on to everyone...
PS73: I have five animals (2 dogs, 3 cats)...I typically have at the least 2 and very rarely but sometimes all 5 in my lap, on my chest or snuggled up next to me whenever I am sitting/laying down. It has become second nature to hold a pillow across my chest to protect me from the affection of my critters...(was going to post a pic with 4 out of 5 sitting in the recliner w/me a week after surgery, but I cannot get the darn thing to load here
).HUGS to all
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Hope everyone is having a nice weekend. i am starting to feel myself again those steroids really hit hard like your the go go bunny. im on day 5 and feeling good, drinking lots of water with ginger .....i am a chef ...my recipe is an alkaline drink, it dosent burn the tongue or the mouth. feels good .....i went to the store and bought a bag of cristalized ginger it has sugar on it and stuck it in a bottle of water ..plus the ginger helps with nausua..awwwwww relief finally .......eliz
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Lisa,
I am about 30 minutes SW of Atl. I have a brother that lives in Dallas.
I will have my 2nd on monday also.
Good luck
Carole
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oops I mean next Monday, Chemo has fried my brain already.
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O2b, I was having trouble loading my picture last night & my daughter made it smaller (the pixels or whatever it is)on the "my pictures" site & then this site would take it when I browsed to the pictures.
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Happy Saturday Ladies. I pray everyone is doing OK today. I just came from having a full body massage. It was so wonderful. I had concentrated so much on my hurting and/or numb body parts that I had forgotten there are many parts of me still not hurting! It re-commected my body. The foot massage was the best! We have a local group that volunteers every Saturday to provide this and other alternative procedures free of charge to all B/C patients. What a wonderful group. They also put out all kinds of vegies and fruits freee from the farmers market and we can all sit and eat and talk. I just wanted to share my wonderful experience with you all. I am doing great today. Take each day as it comes.
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joani- what a great program! I had a facial the week before my first chemo. and a pedicure. They were both great. I have heard that we shed lots of skin cells from the chemo. treatment and is an excellent exfoliater. (sp) Gotta find the good with all this negative.
Carole1 - We live in the same county as your bro. just different ends of it.
So how many are having their second on Monday. I am counting at least 3 or 4. I am still trying to figure out if the SE are worse or easier on the consecutive treatments. I guess it just matters on the person. Will wait and see. I also got my first ChemoAngel card the other day too. She was a sweet lady from TN and she sent a very nice note too. I understand we are not suppose to contact them back except by e-mail and I don't have here address. It was a very thoughtful card.
Gonna go look for Ginger Crystals at the local store. Is this something a regular store would stock or do I need to go to a specialty store?
Hope you all are having a fun weekend.
Lisa
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