Mom Passed away :(

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ddoyle
ddoyle Member Posts: 40
edited June 2014 in Caring for Someone with Breast cancer

Today my mom went home to see Jesus, it was so peaceful but so sad because she is not with me in the flesh but in sprit only.  Today and the next few days will be hard but with God and my friends at some point it will be okay.

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  • Marple
    Marple Member Posts: 19,143
    edited July 2009

    I'm so sorry ddoyle.  Offering my deepest sympathy and gentle hugs.

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  • lmays
    lmays Member Posts: 114
    edited July 2009

    ddoyle - I looked back over your previous posts and see that you have been a wonderfully caring and attentive daughter.  You gave your Mom what she needed in the final stage of her life and I know that meant the world to her.

    Big love to you and best wishes for the journey you now face.  You are not alone.

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  • hollyann
    hollyann Member Posts: 2,992
    edited July 2009

    ddoyle so sorry to hear of your sweet mom's passing.......I had read your posts and know what a loving daughter you are....She was really lucky to have you with her.......Just know that she is at peace and no longer suffering.......Please PM me with an address to send a card and your phone number so you can have someone to talk to if you need.............Gentle hugs coming your way........Please continue to come here for support from us.......it will be difficult but you are strong and can make it.........

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  • dee1961
    dee1961 Member Posts: 1,672
    edited July 2009

    God bless you and your family ddoyle (((HUGS)))

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  • ddoyle
    ddoyle Member Posts: 40
    edited July 2009

    Thank you everyone, this is really hard for me to do.  I hate cancer and what it has done to my family.  But I do know that my mom is in a better please where this disease will never ever touch her again.  She is with God and he will take care of her today and forever.

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  • candie1971
    candie1971 Member Posts: 4,820
    edited July 2009

    ddoyle, my condolences to you and your family..I am praying for all of you.

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  • arnie
    arnie Member Posts: 3,050
    edited July 2009

    (((((((((HUGS)))))))))) dd... Praying for comfort and strength in the coming days....

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  • hbcheryl
    hbcheryl Member Posts: 5,113
    edited July 2009

    ddoyle, I am so sorry, you are in my prayers (((((((HUGS))))))

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  • Leah_S
    Leah_S Member Posts: 8,458
    edited July 2009

    My sincerest condolences to you and your family. May G-d send you comfort.

    Leah

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  • kbugmom
    kbugmom Member Posts: 15,189
    edited July 2009

    Hugs and prayers for you and your family.

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited July 2009

    Ddoyle, condolences to you and your family.

    You are correct and she is now with the Father; no more pain or tears.  For you, that knowledge gives you comfort and peace as well.  God is awesome in that He walks each step of the way with us and carries us when we think we cannot go on.

    Blessings.

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  • ddoyle
    ddoyle Member Posts: 40
    edited July 2009

    I made it through the first 24 hours.  But what a night, I'm staying at my best friends house and I was able to sleep (this is something I haven't done in a while) but I kept waking up feeling like I need to find my mom, someone stole her from me and I start walking around my friends house looking for her and then it hits me she is not here on this earth anymore and then the tears come.  I still can't believe she is gone my heart gets it but my brain says I need to go home and take care of her ( I was her caregiver).  Everyone please pray for me, I need all the prayers I can get right now.

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  • hollyann
    hollyann Member Posts: 2,992
    edited July 2009

    Dear Heavenly Father, please watch over our friend ddoyle......As You know she is hurting right now and needs comfort......Lord wrap Your loving arms around her and make her feel better...Let her remember the good times and the laughter she shared with her dear mother.......Please send someone to hold her and comfort her........Lord though You all things are possible and I thank You dear Lord for making this so.......In the name of the Father, The Son and The Holy Spirit...Amen

    Sweet sisters, ddoyle has given me permission to share her addy with you all...Please PM me and I will gladly share.......Maybe we could send her a hugaghan too so she can feel all the love form us all.........

    Ddoyle, please PM me with arrangements to send flowers......

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  • Jadai
    Jadai Member Posts: 182
    edited July 2009

    I lost my mom last Thursday at the age of 63 to this dreadful disease.  I feel every feeling you are having right now and it is so hard.  Last Thursday is and most likely will be the worst day of my life.  I don't know how I am going to get past this.  Please know that you are not alone and always feel free to PM me if you want.  Take care of yourself.

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  • ddoyle
    ddoyle Member Posts: 40
    edited July 2009

    I wanted to say thank you to everyone.  The past week or so has been really hard but with God all things are possible.  My moms funeral was last Monday the 20th which is strange since she became a Christan July 19th 1989 and I became a Christan on the 20th of the same month and year.  So I guess my mom got the ultimate gift for her spiritual birthday and that was to be with God himself.  I had my aunt here with me for about four days and she helped me reorganize the house and make it mine which was great.  I'm not sure what tomorrow holds or even what today holds but I trust that everything is in God's hands and with him all things are possible. 

    Once again I want to say thank you for all the support that you guys have given me especially when I needed it the most.  May God richly bless each and everyone of you.

    Denise

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  • jeepgirl
    jeepgirl Member Posts: 1
    edited July 2009

    I am so sorry, my mom passed away on March 26, 2009. I know she is in a better place now....no longer in pain. But, I still miss her, especially today because today would have been her 70th birthday. I miss my mom!

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