Need a Replacement for Cig's
There has to be something besides nicotine replacement to quit(not food!! lol)...don't really want either. I need to replace the physical addiction while under this stress. Can anyone help?
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Jules: I quit smoking over 10 years ago, and I'll tell you something about nicotine gum....it's addicting!!! I still chew it, I am soooo addicted to it. Plus I know if I stop chewing it, I will gain a bunch of weight. So, you may be on to something by wanting to avoid nicotine replacement items to quit.
My dad quit after smoking for over 30 years....I know he used regular chewing gum to keep his mouth busy, which he kept in his pocket where he used to keep his cigarettes. Some people use cinnamon sticks to chew on, they have a similar size/shape to a cigarette and give you something to do that is similar to smoking, but isn't (there was supposed to be some psychological benefit to doing that).
I also hear that the new medicine, Chantix, works really well.
Good luck
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gcpommom,
My mom tried to quit for years and when she was x'd with lung cancer she quit with "Smoke Away". Seriously, she tried so many different things over the years...I quit before cold turket ...but I can only quit for a couple of days now...tried the gum..want to quit the obsession completely. My prob is physical dependence with this stress. Took my second tamox. tonight. Not looking forward to the SE's
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I quit on May 5th (40 days ago) - used nic gum for three weeks until I found out that the gum could also limit the effectiveness of chemo and slow healing. Switched to Doublement Gum -now chew gum like a cow chewing its cud...also use blowing bubbles (uses same inhale and exhale motion and counting/watching/catching bubbles can be fun - just don't try to blow and drive).
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Bubbles...that's such a kool idea...the blowing...exhaling
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I quit the 24th of Feb cold turkey, how did I do it?? Not really sure just did and I smoked for over 20 years but, I told myself listen you are doing everything to beat this cancer and you tell yourself get up do something, don't feel sorry for yourself, you can beat this, you will not be sick, you will win, and win gracefully and boom you do and yet how many times have you tried to quit???? and failed???? I am not sure how many times honestly but, I can tell this IT WAS ALOT and always I found a reason to pick them back up but, NOT THIS TIME!!! If I could kick Cancers ass I can darn sure QUIT SMOKING!!! and I used the doublemint gum technique as well. I did not replace my cigs with food or anything else other than gum and I won't lie I would love to have one right now, but Not this time usually I started right back up and the longest I had quit for in the past was 13 days but, now Its been what about 4 months wow didn't realize it had been that long I am so proud of myself (pat pat on my own back LOL) I also am around others who smoke on a daily basis and that can be tempting but, you can do it. I KNOW YOU CAN !!! challenge yourself and if that doesn't work I will challenge you to quit just like Wendy from these boards did for me, heck maybe thats what worked and you would be the next one in our tradition on this forum to win the battle.
Good Luck and I so Challenge you!!!
Hugs,Debbi
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I feel that I can do it with no prob. b/c if I go a several hours in the day without a cig..it really tastes like crap on the first cig..then I just move right along with them..I really think that I am just not mentally ready, for some stupid reason. I wish my husband would quit with me...I got him chantix, maybe he will decide soon. My son told me that I should quit first. That may give him a real reason to quit. I am even holding a cig in one hand while I type this...lol...gotta get a replacement for somethingsI do and smoke..like driving..on the phone..etc Thanks for your support!!!....jules
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One friend of mine used lemon drops when she got the urge to smoke. Relatively low-cal and she would be sure to dissolve them in her mouth, not chew them. She didn't gain any weight.
I've heard of other people just using a diversionary tactic when the urge hits -- find something to do for 5 minutes. Sit ups, deep breathing, whatever, but make your craving wait for that period of time. Often by the time that's over, the craving has passed.
When I smoked for a few years during a divorce many years ago, I talked to myself a long time about quitting, set dates and watched them go by, etc., but kept in my mind that I absolutely wanted to quit. One day I realized I was out of smokes, and then and there suddenly decided that I was sick of spending the money and didn't feel like going out for cigs and that was it. I was lucky, didn't have serious cravings, etc., and I know that will make some of you roll your eyes at how easy I got off
All I can figure is that all my thoughts towards quitting finally paid off.
Good luck! I've heard (don't know if it's true) that quitting nicotine is harder than quitting heroin. It's certainly an addiction. You can kick it!!
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NatureGrrl:::
Thanks for the advice...can use any I can get for JULY 5th...my quit date!!!
...................jules
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Jules...I second the bubble gum...and chewing straws..moistening a cinimon stick in warm water and using that (this one came from the american lung association) it sucks that there isn't another thing quite as satisfying to the cravings -except maybe food - and it's always the food that's bad for you, but you're right in that won't work either! I have cut down drastically - but I have not been able to give up the last 2-4 a day I do smoke...I'm hoping the more I get in shape, the less I will need those last few. Good Luck!!
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Thanks Navygirl!!!! evry bit of advice helps. I may need all the suggestions on here...lol..
you never know just what will work for you................jules
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Getting ready for July 5th...any advice is much appreciated...think I will do the usual...cold turkey!!! How did a "Turkey" or a "cold Turkey" get involved in this????..........jules
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I second Nature Grrl's "diversionary tactic". When you get the urge go for a walk if you can, if you can't just get up (if you're sitting at a desk) and try to get a whiff of air from a window. A deep, deep breath of air. If there isn't a window--keep a bottle of spray cleaner nearby and a roll of paper towels. Clean stuff that has been in the "smoking zone". Hopefully you'll be as grossed out as I am/was. If you're alone (and very easy to do while driving) buy the little plastic holders that have a piece of dental floss on them. Satisfies the finger to the mouth thing and it's great for the teeth!! My food replacement has been "Pirate Booty" which is like popcorn with no kernel. Trader Joe's has their own variety that is cheaper and has less calories. Make little notes that say "I am a healthy non smoker" and leave them in places you'll find them later--a book you're reading, your checkbook, your makeup drawer. TELL PEOPLE you are quitting. I've "quit" many, many times and NEVER told anyone--then when I didn't really quit I wasn't responsible. I owned it this time--I told people, took a smoking cessation class and went to a few sessions of Nicotine Anonymous. I also took Chantix. Some people complain about bad dreams but I think lung cancer would be a "badder" dream! For the first couple of days I really recommend changing your schedule as much as possible. I spent as much time as I could out walking. It isn't something I usually do and we live in a hilly place. I go out occasionally now and it feels SOOOOO wonderful to take a super deep breath and not cough! And for those who have managed to keep a stash of valium/ativan from treatment---a couple of days into it when you feel like you are going to pull your hair out, kill the next person who walks in the door or just think you can't do it--take the valium and take a nap!! If you're sleeping you're not fighting an urge. For me, knitting helps. I'm on sweater #3--it's amazing how much time I spent smoking and not being productive. I go to a Zumba class that is a killer and I never could have done it had I still been smoking. I also try to do pilates at least a couple of times a week. I've tried to replace the bad habits with exercise. I've spent more time looking for good vegetable recipes and I've spent more time in the store looking for veggies I haven't had before. Being at the store I can't smoke. Also super-cleaned the interior of my car, shampooed the carpets and such and sprayed it with Fabreze. Am still trying to get the stink out of my office/sewing room and read on the other board about a bowl of water with white vinegar. It seems to be working, albeit slowly. Avoid being around people who do smoke at first. It doesn't bother me at all now (in fact, now it smells icky to me).
There are all my tips for now. I quit January 27th at 6 p.m. I have taken myself shopping and bought an expensive pair of pants that I wouldn't have purchased before--but I still spent less than if I had been buying cigs the whole time. I have gained 7 pounds but I'm pretty convinced some of it is muscle from Zumba. The other part of it is "butt by Oreo" so I have decided I have to give them up, too.
GOOD LUCK to all of you who are now non-smokers. It gets easier as the days go by. I've also decided that if I'm still around when I'm 75 that I'll start smoking again if I want to. In the meantime, I'm choosing NOT to smoke. My best to all--
Jill
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Jill...so kool for you to post on here!!!! I LOVE everything you had to say!!! I can do it!!! I know I can when I read posts like yours!!! I bet you are a muscle bound BABE by now...you go girl!! I want to be just like you....but....I still don'tknow if I can exercise like that...you must be BUFF!!!
So proud of you...kinda worried about the DH not quitting...when I have quit before...evreyone that smoked..they stunk!!!! Dh is not willing...is there something I can spray on him so he will smell nice????...................jules
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This will sound odd, but one of my kids gave me a gift certificate to Barnes and Noble and I wanted to spend it right away. (Before they went bankrupt like everyone else is doing). I bought a CD and a book. The book: THE EASY WAY TO STOP SMOKING by Allen Carr. This fellow smoked 4 packs a day for 30 yrs. Some of the stuff in the book is preposterous: "you will look at smokers and not envy them..............." Sure. But I read part of the book every night and this is wk 12 without smoking. I have a lot of dental work in my mouth so I chew Freedent gum. And the nicorette gum as needed. And I did use Chantix. Had some really odd dreams but nothing too bad. Try to get the book from the library, altho for $15 I found it to be a good investment. Many of his thoughts and hints really hit home. Good luck!
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Congratulations on week twelve, Sue. I am on day 3 and really want a smoke. This is my 10th day on chantix. I have had laryngitis since last Thursday, so can't really call the support hotline- isn't that a double whammy? Need to talk, but can't!
Good luck to each of you on the journey of being a non-smoker. I like what Jill said- she is choosing to not smoke. I have told myself that I will try to be smoke free until and through my reconstruction next month. After that, I can smoke if I want to.
Mary Beth
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MBscruggs, the first 3 days were the worst. Day 4 will get easier, and day 5 will be easier than day 4.
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I ended up taking 5 drags yesterday ( on Day 3). Was so sad right before doing it and while doing it. I quickly put it out and am moving forward. I do feel calmer today.
Thank you for your support and encouragement.
mb
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Good morning ladies!! I am keeping up with every post on here b/c I know that all your advice will help me out come July 5th..that's my quit date..going cold turkey as I have done before...but all the other times..I quit, the moment I thought about quitting..just threw out the cig's I had..Usually stopped for 3-4 yrs..don't even remember why I would start again...this time is somehow different..I still can't believe I chose a quit date..I guess I am trying to be prepared b/c I feel like this time will be much harder..don't know why...sure wish DH would decide to quit with me...maybe he will once I do all my complaing about how bad he stinks..and how I can't imagine kissing a smoker...yuk!! you know..If I quit, I mean when I quit.. that would be yukky!! Ya'll go out and have a wonderful day ladies..........jules
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Mark Twain; "Quitting smoking is the easiest thing to do. I've done it hundreds of times". LOL
Quit Smoking All Together: the Web's Largest Quit Smoking Community
I had fun reading posts and tracking my progress in the above forum when I quit 3+ years ago.
I quit using Nicorette gum, which worked extremely well for me, although I'm still hooked on the gum to this day. Yes, I have cheated along the way, but never to a point where I went back to buying my own pack. Rewards work better than punishment. I bought myself nice gifts every month or two with the cig money I saved from quitting.
Mom-in-law quit 2 yrs ago using Chantix after 45+ yrs of smoking. Wanted a face lift, and PS would not operate on her until she quit. She said she never had any urges, so that med must be really good! I remember her being very hyper/talkative, and even seemed happily "high" while she was on that med for few weeks - LOL.
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Jame6...another good reason to quit..nice gifts to myself...always wondered how much money I would have if I saved the cost of a pack of cigs a day...maybe each day I will put $6.00 in a jar..and once a month buy me something really nice..let's see..30 x 6.00..wow $180.00 a month...Maybe I will save it quarterly...what is that...like $540.00..wow!! a weekend getaway for me and DH...OoooHHH better yet..If I could get him to quit his 2 packs a day!!! I think that is like $1,080.00 dollars more...Hell I could take a quarterly cruise!!!!!!! OMG!!!! that is a lot of money we are spending on something that could eventually take our life!!! I am gonna sit here and get all the #'s on paper today and when DH settles in tonight..I'll hit em' with the figures and see if that convinces him..If we had to pay for the cig's quarterly..all at once..that would be too hard for a lot of us...just some thoughts ladies...my quit date is July 5th!!!!..jules
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Just thought I would pop in on this thread in addition to the Stop Smoking Thread. The more ideas/support I can get as I attempt to quit again the better. I really loved that Mark Twain quote. It sums me up so well. I have tried to quit many, many times. Honestly I think the best chance of me to quit would be drug rehab, but that does not exist so I have to create my own drug rehab of some sort.
Would those of you who have quit share the positive physical, mental and emotional things that have resulted since you have quit?
Jules here are a few things I have tried, when I have quit before. Some of them actually I never followed through on. Make a list of alternative behaviors and commit to go through each and everyone of those, before taking a drag. The longer the list the better. Drink lots of water to flush the nicotine out of the body. To keep the blood sugar level more balanced drink some fruit juices during those first weeks. I dilute mine with water at times. I second the gum idea. Lollipops and mints. Scullcap tea. Lobeila which you can also get in tea or supplements is similar in structure to nicotine. Toothpicks/straws. Carrot and celery sticks. Pickles--the big ones to suck on. Stay away from your smoking spot. Of course get rid of all ashtrays, and lighters. Exercise. I have things to keep my hands busy. Puzzles and word search books are my newest addition to these.
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Cleo:::
1 thing that will help now...my laptop croaked yesterday...I ALWAYS sit on my deck,,smoke and chat..never use the desktop inside b/c I hold cig in one hand and type with other...such a habit...it's like I cannot get online without smoking...now laptop broke...gotta chat inside where it is smoke free zone...that will take some getting use to...I cheated and smoked a couple in the house yesterday...had to burn incense or anything to kill the smell before Dh got home....will keep trying....jules
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I tried everything and on my 8 attempt I said this is the last time. I'm quitting quitting. I used patches and ate a "Hot Tamale" candy if I craved a cig. These are small,red, cinamon, jelly bean type candies that come in a box like Dots and also in a big bag at Costco. They seem to bite the tongue and satisfy the oral thing. I didn't gain any weight and felt pretty good. My doc said that I could just stay on the patches because I was doing so well. I was afraid to go off because I'd get so bitchy. Well, I went off the patches after several months and all was fine. I was so mad that the cigarette industry that insisted the cigs were not addicting when they knew better. That was a big incentive to me. No more of my money going into their coffers.
I haven't seriously wanted a smoke since then ... Nov 1999.
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I quit 13 years ago--used nicorette gum for about 3 months, caramel apple suckers helped when I had the urge. It was my third attempt--I never gave in to a cigarette as I knew I'd go back to smoking. I still have cravings and believe if I smoked 1 , i would be hooked. The other thing that helped then was nintendo games as hands were busy---now I guess computer games would work. My kids thought I was cracking up playing but helped me through many rough nights. Good luck--keep mind and hands busy.
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