ex husband, large breasts

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mmm7789
mmm7789 Member Posts: 3
edited June 2014 in Life After Breast Cancer

My estranged husband moved out a year ago, to move in with another woman. I'm a 15 year survivor, I had a lumpectomy. We had been married 27 years. I don't want him back. I found out today, the other woman has HUGE breasts. It is really bothering me, I don't know why. I also know she is isn't as "pretty" as me, that didn't bother me, I know she isn't as smart as me, that didn't bother me.. So why does the huge boobs bother me?

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  • Member_of_the_Club
    Member_of_the_Club Member Posts: 3,646
    edited May 2009

    If it wasn't the boobs it would be something else, don't you think?  I gotta ask, how did you find out?  Did a "friend" pass this on?  Is it one of the few facts you have about this woman?  That would be a reason to focus your distress there.

     I hope you don't mind some humor here, but when i saw the title of the thread I thought you were saying your ex husband has large breasts.  Which would represent a different problem entirely. 

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  • mmm7789
    mmm7789 Member Posts: 3
    edited May 2009

    No, the boy who mentioned it is only 18, and boobs in general still astound him. I see no malice in the info.

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  • lassie11
    lassie11 Member Posts: 1,500
    edited May 2009

    I agree with Member of the Club - haven't met too many people who are impressed with what I call our replacements. Maybe the boobs are kind of a sensitive area for you. I was annoyed that both of my replacements were way thinner than I am (my sensitive issue) and the first one was much younger. Now, more than a decade later, I can't quite recall why I cared who else got him!

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  • otter
    otter Member Posts: 6,099
    edited May 2009

    mmm,

    Well, now at least you know what's most important to him. If he's that shallow, let someone else have him, and see how long she can keep 'im. Just MHO, of course.

    otter 

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  • mmm7789
    mmm7789 Member Posts: 3
    edited May 2009

    Thank you all. You helped me remember his is a huge boob. Although I do admit to the little evil pleasure when people say she is not younger than me. I know she is, I checked her criminal record. Evidently, she just looks older than me. Although the boy who said she had huge boobs also asked if it was smoking that made her skin "look like that", kind of leathery.

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  • mke
    mke Member Posts: 584
    edited May 2009

    Now what is so mysterious about a big boob being attracted to big boobs?

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  • farila_1966
    farila_1966 Member Posts: 224
    edited May 2009

    Your title was so misleading LOL.. But interesting comments as usual from smart ladies of the board.

    Like everyone else says lets see how long he can hang to those boobs..

    Take care

    Farila

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  • abbadoodles
    abbadoodles Member Posts: 2,618
    edited May 2009

    HeeHeeHee.

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  • iodine
    iodine Member Posts: 4,289
    edited May 2009

    For the first couple of years after dx, every time I say a big boobed gal on TV, I would get pissed off---just too many boob pics.

    I have gotten over that, but I do belive we become pretty sensitive about all the boob advertising after loosing one.

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