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  • buddy1
    buddy1 Member Posts: 750
    edited April 2009

    Hi Girls.  Just popping in. I am in the Hosp. I was admitted Mond. morn.  W/fever diahrea chestpain..  They looked all week for my infection. My right breast was swollen red.  They were not paying attention to it.  Finally got my plastic surgeon on the phone  to tell him  what was going on   It was bad. The infection was spreading and thick and cloudy. He took it out last night.   While here they found a cyst or mass on or around or near my ovaries,  They want it out , and hopefully its not cancer.  My chemo is being pushed back a week while I heal from the infection,They are trying to get the ovaries out during this time too.  As of right now surgery is wed. They will start it lapryscopy and send it to path.  If its positive they will open me up and take lymphnodes and appendix.  If negative, I will be home that night. 

    I am so far behind on posts.  I cant even try to catch up. I hope you are all well, and I hope I have not missed too much.  I think I get to go home tomorrow.  Depending on infection.. Hugs

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  • bwbly
    bwbly Member Posts: 82
    edited April 2009

    but i reported her also

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  • Dawnmrn1
    Dawnmrn1 Member Posts: 446
    edited April 2009

    Hi Everyone!  Hope all in the East are enjoying the sun!!!! It is glorious in NH!!!! I agree we are here to support  one another not to undermine one another, we are so fortunate to be included in such a great group, bitterness and contempt do not belong in this forem!! To all of my FRIENDS have a wonderful day!  Dawn:)

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  • 7timewinner
    7timewinner Member Posts: 183
    edited April 2009

    buddy1...OMG! So sorry to hear about you being in the hospital, and all that you've been through!

    Sending good vibes your way for quick recovery, and negative findings from this new surgery.

    Cheers,

    Nadine

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  • pickle
    pickle Member Posts: 1,409
    edited April 2009

    Buddy1: Sending my best wishes and positive energy/thoughts your way! Keep us posted......

    Take Care

    Beth P

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  • kim40
    kim40 Member Posts: 904
    edited April 2009

    Buddy1

    Keeping you in my thoughts for B-9 results!  You have been through the ringer!!

    Keep us posted on how you are doing

    Hope you are feeling better soon!

    ((HUGS))

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  • arnie
    arnie Member Posts: 3,050
    edited April 2009

    Buddy1 (((((((((((hugs))))))))))))  SO sorry to hear your news!  Prayers going up...please keep us informed.

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  • maidmarion
    maidmarion Member Posts: 45
    edited April 2009

    Good afternoon Ladies.. from a hot sunny Miami......Missed the morning..... I'm afraid the chemo truck hit me early this time on the evening of Day three! So rest and fluids this morning. Tuesdays Tx went ok not quite as well as last time with the IV, took four goes this time, two different Nurses. Se's same as before so far...touch wood! Half way there!!

    Wanted to post more but finding it hard to sit here for long, so I wish everyone a good weekend with minimum Se's.....and some sunshine!

    Ricki13 My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

    Julie

    Buddy1 So sorry Just read your post....sending positive thoughts for you oxoxoxo

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  • ChrisC433
    ChrisC433 Member Posts: 553
    edited April 2009

    Buddy1:  My thoughts are with you.  There is a reason for everything and maybe this infection was to put the spot light on your ovaries.  I'm praying everything goes well...keep us up to date!

    Maidmarion:  Sorry to hear this time around was so rough.  I look at my TX's just like labor.  One more gets me closer to the end! Hang in there..

    Hugs to all...

    Chris

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  • crusader1
    crusader1 Member Posts: 1,222
    edited April 2009

    Hi all,

    Lovely day here in NYC. It is supposed to be in the 80 's all weekend.

    Thks for all of your support. I don't know why she picked on me.

    Buddy..I do hope things work out for you. I had been thinking about you. I realized you were quiet for too long. Will definitely keep you in my prayers.

    MOB..Congrats to you on finishing TC 4. How do you like this guy. Real cute...

    "

    Chick..I know this was your last chemo also. How did everything go. Here is a hunk for you too..

    "

    Julie,( Marion) ..Feel better.

    Ladies I went out today and bought the eyebrow kit at Sephora by Anastasia. I see my eyebrows are going more and more each day..Anybody else?

    Hugs to all,

    Francine

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  • Alyad
    Alyad Member Posts: 817
    edited April 2009

    Buddy1- SO! sorry to hear to about your infection, esp that it was 'ignored' for several days! I hope everything comes out okay (that needs to come out!) keep us posted!

    I'd like to remind everyone that they can set it so posts from a particular member are ignored and  they won't show upon your screen.

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  • crusader1
    crusader1 Member Posts: 1,222
    edited April 2009

    Ladies,

    MOB..Jan will  finish her 4th TX next Wednesday.

    I was confused. I hope she does accept my hunk a few days early /

    Hugs to all.

    Francine

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  • Luv2sing
    Luv2sing Member Posts: 145
    edited April 2009

    Hello Everyone - Just getting back from Tx #3 and my SEs seem to be kicking in early, but there not so bad for now.  Going back a bit ... not only is ya'll acceptable, I do believe they have placed it in the dictionary ... sort of like EVOO, because it's used so much they made the decision to add it in future publishings.  We also 'make groceries' here instead of buying groceries and we carry pocketbooks, not purses (hee hee).  The 'fixin to' ended with my Grandmother (may she continue to rest in peace).  Emend - My favorite drug, the nausea has gone to the land of Far, Far Away (a Shrek reference) perhaps to that mean Prince CharmingLaughing.  Sakura73 - I'm sending you a (((big hug)))!!!  Sunshine - Our temperatures are expected to hit the 80's up to the 90's this weekend and I'm so glad I took that wig off in time!  bwbly and others -  I agree, my heart goes out to her as it obvious she's got things going on that may require more help than she can receive via this forum.  I was always taught your actions speak louder than words. As a Christian, when I say I don't advertise, what I'm saying is "I let my works, conduct, behavior, morals, ethics and the way I treat and respond to others speak for me.  This is the biggest and best way to show not only am I a Christian, but what type of Christian.  I don't beat people over the head with it and once you have expressed your beliefs, if we don't agree then we agree to disagree, but we keep it moving.  I always share with people how I've come through various situations, but I don't saturate them unless I see they are eager for more.  I have friends and associates from all walks of life and I try to gain an understanding of each of their customs and beliefs.  I don't judge them if their beliefs are not in line with mine and I don't condem them for their beliefs.  I said before and I'll say it again ... If you are strong in YOUR beliefs, no one or nothing will change what you believe. Which is why I don't mind engaging in CONVERSATIONS with people from different religions.  I find it very interesting and enlightening, but at no time do I say you are incorrect beliefs or try to push my beliefs on them.... it's FREEDOM OF CHOICE, FREEDOM OF RELIGION, FREE WILL and my favorite - JUDGE NOT, LEST YE BE JUDGED.  I had promised myself I wasn't going to waste any more of my energy on that discussion, but I too was bothered by her post and reported it, especially after she stated she was leaving forum.  So for her to continue monitoring the posts, just to continue to post what I consider inappropriate expressions, sent me to the next level.  I enjoy this forum and have found a lot of comfort, laughs and information while on this forum.  I stand strong in my faith and encourage others to do the same ... REGARDLESS of who your higher power may be.  Do not give in to the negativity and continue to keep her in your good thoughts and for those who pray, continue to keep her prayer. 

    For Everyone who's dealing with SEs, coupled with everyday stress, financial hardships, whatever your issue may be at this time, continue to be strong, be grateful, encourage others as that is where you will gain your strength and always remember there is someone much worse than you.

    I have to go be 'force-fed' now (smile), if I'm able to I'll be back later tonite.

    Hugs & Kisses, Raymon

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  • Mom_of_boys
    Mom_of_boys Member Posts: 556
    edited April 2009

    buddy1... I am soooo incredibly saddened to hear your news.  It makes me realize how lucky I've been with my own treatments.  Please update us when you can!

    maidmarion... Hang in there!  Hoping your SEs will subside soon.

    Francine... Thanks for the hunks.  Hunks are always welcomed and appreciated.  Unfortunately, with my age and the fact I have "boys", I now look at those guys and honestly realize they could be my sons.  Cry

    Raymon... Seriously?  I have never heard of "making groceries".  But, I'm fixing to ask a friend if she's heard of it.  Thank you, also, for your well-thought out words.  They are indeed warranted in this particular situation.

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  • buddy1
    buddy1 Member Posts: 750
    edited April 2009

    CRUSADER, CHRIS, MOMOFBOYS,ALYAD, MAIDMARION,ARNIE, KIM, PICKLE 5TIMEWINNER,

    Thank you so much for all of your well wishes.  I really do appreciate them.  I have missed you all so much.  I am so glad to finally have my laptop here.  The food here has been pretty good.  Being on DD I am worried about chemo being pushed back a whole week.  There are times when some of you have treatments pushed back for a few days, Right?  It will be my last AC.

    Anyone up for a roadtrip to MO for one of those Monster Icecream cups.????YUMMY

    I LOVE YOU GALS.  I WILL CHECK BACK IN LATER.   i HAVE THOSE INFLATABLE THINGS ON MY LEGS TO PREVENT BLOOD CLOTS.  THEY BLOW UP AND DOWN.  THE LAPTOP GOES UP AND DOWN WITH THEM.  HA HA

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  • buddy1
    buddy1 Member Posts: 750
    edited April 2009

    Sakura.  I just seen your beautiful picture.  Your are lovely. 

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  • arnie
    arnie Member Posts: 3,050
    edited April 2009

    hey buddy1...so glad you can stay in communication with us!  I had those inflatable thingies on my legs years ago after my hysterectomy....You get so used to them that I even slept ok after awhile...LOL at your laptop going up and down though.... YOU TAKE CARE!  THINKIN' BOUT YA...

    GLAD THE FOOD'S GOOD Laughing

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  • Ricki13
    Ricki13 Member Posts: 80
    edited April 2009

    My dear princesses,

    Thanyou all for your lovely wishes and kind words.  It really does help to know there are women all over the world supporting each other through what are difficult times for all of us.  We cope by using a lot of humour in my family.  We're all loud and politically incorrect and overly honest with each other but also fiercely united as a family.  Which is not to say I don't have the odd tanty/meltdown here and there....oh YEAH I do! 

    buddy1 - thinking of you here in Sydney Australia.  Hope all goes well this week and you get home sooner than expected!  Love that you can still find humour in your situation.

    sakura73 - was thinking that between us, we might make one Aussie Rachael/Rachel with one good set of breasts!  We could go on tour with the Show!  My left is still rockin'.  Have you got a good right?  And can we please please see a photo of you with your barrister's wig?  Or is that some kind of offense to the Bar?

    I was thinking about how different people react to being in this boat we're in together, and then got to thinking about how family and friends react.  Some good, some bad.  I've had some wonderful experiences with 'acquaintances' who've really stepped up since my diagnosis....keeping my spirits up in different ways.  On the other hand I have some 'close friends' I rarely hear from these days.  I'm not sure if they're waiting for me to call them?  Do they want me to reach out to them?  I'm not sure.   I know from my sister's experience that she has lost good friends over her journey.  Her 'best friend' at the time of her first diagnosis (15 years ago) went on vacaction soon after she was told, and never called my sister again.  Weird huh!

    I'd be interested to hear what our princesses have experienced?

    R xo

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  • buddy1
    buddy1 Member Posts: 750
    edited April 2009
    ARNIE..I Love the animation.  I am so challenged with the computer. 
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  • Mom_of_boys
    Mom_of_boys Member Posts: 556
    edited April 2009

    buddy1... How are your children doing with you in the hospital and all?

    Ricki13... Uh yeah!  I know exactly what you mean about the friends and acquaintances.  Some of what I considered my closest friends have barely been in contact since my dx.  I mean friends whom I stood by thru thick and thin.  And, like you said, people I considered more in the acquaintance category have been very faithful with cards, e-mails, calls, texts, etc.  I'm trying VERY HARD to not get my feelings hurt.  I've always felt that you get very few opportunities in life to truly make a difference... and I've tried to seize those opportunities myself.  All I can figure is that they don't know what to say?  They figure I'll bring THEM down with talk of cancer?  I dunno.... would love to hear others' take as well!

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  • arnie
    arnie Member Posts: 3,050
    edited April 2009

    I HEAR YA BUDDY1...some of the gals on this site were kind and patient enough to walk me through it!  lol  Once I get it ,  I get it... just takes me awhile! Ha! 

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  • chick717
    chick717 Member Posts: 58
    edited April 2009

    Hey everyone just checking in.  I had AC today - another substitution since taxotere an abraxane didn't like me.  I had Ememd in IV and an Emend pill for tomorrow and Sunday.  I am so glad I had read about it on here, as I had to coax the doc in to giving it to me.  I don't feel fantastic, more like the night after partying waaay too much, but it's managable.  My friend is bringing mashed potatoes and cola icee for dinner.

    Buddy - I am sending you good wishes.  I know that it is so frustrating to be in hospital without a plan for completion.  It sounds like they will know something soon, then you can get back on track with a good idea of how to get you back on track and well again.

    Sometimes I ask, isn't it just enough that I'm dealing with bc?  and surgery? and chemo?  REALLY, now i have THIS too?  (please everyone feel free to say that I'm not just bitchy but that you think that too!)  All I know is that we have be strong for each other and keep each other propped up because thankfully on any given day, at least some of us are "up" enough to remember that we're going for the finish line: a clean bill of health to last us a long healthy life.  Sending you strength and love. 

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  • chick717
    chick717 Member Posts: 58
    edited April 2009
    Francine - thanks for the hottie.  Since MomOfBoys has a few days til her finish line, I think she should give me her hottie too...or at least lend him to me until her last tx day, and I will give him back!  Hey, maybe I'll have him drive me to Texas for the par-tee!!
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  • Dawnmrn1
    Dawnmrn1 Member Posts: 446
    edited April 2009

    buddy!  You are in my thoughts and prayers, be strong you can get through this!! Dawn

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  • datadrudge
    datadrudge Member Posts: 28
    edited April 2009

    I'm not a regular member of this board, but I reported Sessna's post last night also...I am in the February 2009 forum but follow you wonderful warrior princesses as well...very tired of the flaming and religious attacks. 

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  • Mom_of_boys
    Mom_of_boys Member Posts: 556
    edited April 2009

    Tracy...  Here's to hoping the Emend is the wonder drug JUST LIKE IT HAS BEEN for so many others.  That's great about your dinner... I mean how many times do we crave mashed potatoes and a cola icee?  When you come to visit me in Texas, we may put a little tequila in that icee!

    datadrudge... Thanks for stopping by.  If my memory serves me, you are one of the ones that coaxed me into posting my mohawk pic!

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  • datadrudge
    datadrudge Member Posts: 28
    edited April 2009

    MOB: yup --I come by for the mohawks and hunks Wink

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  • buddy1
    buddy1 Member Posts: 750
    edited April 2009

    DAWN  THANK YOU FOR YOUR KIND WORDS

    MOM OF BOYS.  FORTUNATELY MY KIDS ARE 13 AND 14  DH IS THERE ALSO..  I AM MORE FEARFUL ABOUT SEEING MY HOUSE WHEN I GET HOME AFTER BEING GONE FOR A WEEK.  JUST KIDDING....I HOPE SOMEONE HAS FED THE CAT....

    SO WHO HAS HAD THERE CHEMO PUSHED BACK FOR ANY AMOUNT OF DAYS???

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  • PattiB
    PattiB Member Posts: 421
    edited April 2009

    Ricki & Mom of Boys - I feel the same way as you with the good friends, versus acquantances,  it definitely has been a surprise to me, how many acquantances have reached out when I was feeling the most emotional, especially during early diagnosis and ongoing and not much from others you expected would keep in contact.

    Buddy - so sorry that you are going through more health issues, I am sending well wishes and positive thoughts and prayers. 

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  • buddy1
    buddy1 Member Posts: 750
    edited April 2009

    PATTIE  HOW ARE YOU.  HOW WAS YOUR NIGHT OUT LAST WEEKEND.  DIDNT YOU GO TO A PUB?  TO MEET A FRIEND OR AM I CHEMOCENTRIC

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