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  • heatherpalmerton
    heatherpalmerton Member Posts: 2,247
    edited July 2008

    Hi Ter I was just thinking about you, I sure have missed seeing your post. Sorry your computer is being so difficult, dagnamit anyways!!!!! Sending you and Frank many hugs and prayers. Heather

  • gracejon
    gracejon Member Posts: 972
    edited July 2008

    Also been thinking about you, Ter.  Hope Frank and you are doing a bit better,

  • TenderIsOurMight
    TenderIsOurMight Member Posts: 4,493
    edited July 2008

    Gosh, when computers go, we suffer.Cry
     
    I wish you well, Ter and Frank. I think of you often.
     
    Keep eating Ter.
     
    Tender 
  • Fitztwins
    Fitztwins Member Posts: 7,969
    edited July 2008

    Hi Ter,

    Thinking of you and wondering how you are doing.  My boys are still full of it and enjoying the summer. I am sure you probably heard of my recent dx of bone mets.

    Anyways friend, just wanted to say hello, let you know you are in my thoughts.

    Janis 

  • katie11
    katie11 Member Posts: 2,514
    edited July 2008

    Another one here thinking of you, Ter ... we're missing you here!

    Katie xx

  • LuAnnH
    LuAnnH Member Posts: 8,847
    edited July 2008

    I posted on another thread, talked with Ter around 2 days ago, she is doing ok.  Her computer is broken so she can't get online, had to send it back to HP or where ever she got it from.  She misses everyone here and hopes to get back online soon.

  • TenderIsOurMight
    TenderIsOurMight Member Posts: 4,493
    edited July 2008

    Just letting you know I'm thinking of you, Ter. Glad to read LuAnn's message that you're doing ok.
     
    Tender 
  • TripleNeg
    TripleNeg Member Posts: 836
    edited August 2008

    Where's Ter? Has anyone heard from her lately. It's been since June 1st since she posted. God is able, stephanie

  • MargaretB
    MargaretB Member Posts: 1,305
    edited August 2008

    I literally just got off the phone with her.  Still no computer.  She said to tell everyone hi and she misses everyone.

    Margaret

  • TenderIsOurMight
    TenderIsOurMight Member Posts: 4,493
    edited September 2008

    Missing you too, Ter. Hope you and Frank are doing ok.
     
    Tender 
  • rosieposie
    rosieposie Member Posts: 37
    edited September 2008

    Hi Girls

    Calling from the UK ~ I don't go on this thread and haven't posted on the boards for a while but I do lurk. This morning when I woke up I thought of Ter and wondered how she was. Glad I found this thread. Thoughts and {{{HUGS}}} from across the pond.

    Rosemary xx

  • Ter
    Ter Member Posts: 357
    edited September 2008

    hi you guys, its the 25th of Sept and im back...still feeling pueny.

    thanks you guys for posting that im still alive.

    who was talking about weight?  welp since i last was on here I went from size 10-12 now a 6 or 8 and 35-40 pounds lighter, all my clothes hang on me or even with zipper up etc they fall to ankles, and evenb the new under pants are now too big..not a good way to loose weight.

    i will write more other time, now that i can get on line now, and what happebed to this site???ugh

    oh and where is the reoccurance mets board?

    love ya all

    Ter 

  • slonedeb
    slonedeb Member Posts: 562
    edited September 2008

    ter glad to see you back i know how you feel about losing weight ive went from a size 20 to a size 5 in the last year all my clothes will wrap around me twice and they are a size 9 10 i cant afford to go out and buy more so i will just have to wear what ive got but that dont worry me but ter glad you are doing ok  love deb from ky

  • kbryan
    kbryan Member Posts: 10
    edited October 2008

    Hang in there lovely lady, you are in many people's prayers, we are all praying for better days ahead for you.  Take care.  Kay

  • Ter
    Ter Member Posts: 357
    edited October 2008

    hi all you guys,

    no I am not on here too much, as I am having tons of personal issues, that do not help ANY of my diseases, including my BC...a couple wks ago had an apt to see my onc, and he cancelled out due to he was sick, and i need to reschedule, but w/all this other issues there are appts that keep getting in the way, really ticks me off that Im trying so hard to put myself kind of in first place, yet that isnt happening, and the stress is going to kill me before the cancer will...

    Ive been trying to force feed myself, as i told you all the pounds and inches i have lost and those new clothes i had bought, well, lets just say they dont fit at all, and there so cute.  I want to wear them so bad...I went on friday to see mom, and on fridays there they have "social party", and when I heard music blaring, I thought for a minute and wondered where mom could be, as its a big place, but hearing the music, I knew exactly where she would be..I walked in w/walker and the music (2 guys, one singing and one on keyboards), plalying tons of good music, had all the people, even w/alzheimers claping their hands, and the workers getting patiets in their w.chairs dancing in the chairs..and there was mom, she had gotten up and went to this hispanic man who doesnt speak english but she stood up and tapped him on shoulder and the 2 of them, him with no legs and only one arm and mom by his side bopping like crazy, well i couldnt refuse as i tried to get in the dining area where this was taking place and man it just made you want to dance, and i did my best and got tons of applause, and someone got me a chair to sit on, and WOW what a day I had there for that hour or so....Ruby the lady who just turned 100 was at our table, and i just love her, as she was singing all the tunes by memory..from Fats Dominio to Elvis, and so I got up w/walker and grabbed her little hands and her and i were dancing having so much fun...I hadnt had that much fun in years....too bad their time had to end, but everyone had a good time, I dont think anyone had as much fun as i did.....yes it was a Kodak moment.

    I need to ask of you guys, I need prayers so so bad, Id love to tell you all what has happened, but it is not very pretty, and very stressful on me and on my son.  We have all doors redone, bolted etc and if you call and i dont answer, please leave a message as i will get back to you, as i have to screen all my calls, and it seems like im a prisoner of my own home.

    As of my BC and mets, after I find out when these other obligations get taken care of I am going to see him, as I have to start driving now, which means I cant take my pain meds if I drive, and still have to be so careful....

    I know your all wondering whats going on, well the only thing i can say is my flu bug is almost over, had it for 2 weeks, the cough etc, now just a runny nose, thank G*d, at Musinex that you see on TV works, pretty expensive for OTC but it works, and Id suggest the liquid, as I bought the pills due to price, but they work too.

    I hope all this finds you all in good spirits, and your health doing nothing or getting better.

    love and hugs

    Ter

  • Ter
    Ter Member Posts: 357
    edited October 2008

    Oh I forgot, hello to all these new gals I see here, welcome, as this one site and the mets and recourrance are the best gals around.

    and yes I will try to eat more, as I try, Im stuck on potato salad, which I have always hated, ugh, but always tried just a bite of anyones, but a few weeks ago, wow I purchased some at the deli and WOW, my mouth loved it..just had a bowl ful instead of like icecream..I know I am wierd, but i want to fit into my size 8s very bad, but they hang so low and baggy, and i dont want skin tite, but at least not to pull up every second...never had this problem, plus i guess i have been very fortunate never having to be on a diet either to loose, but now trying to gain..and cooking is very hard, my son helps alot but he's also a man who will cook some but cleaning is the pitts, and i try each day to do one thing of cleaning, no not the whole house but just a bit at a time, and today was bed changing and a bit of laundry, and I am tyring to keep it like that, as doing too much and pushing myself is the pitts, and then im down for days..

    please dont forget me in your prayers in this "issue" I cant go into...yes its legal and thats all i can say.

    love and hugs

    Ter

  • wishiwere
    wishiwere Member Posts: 3,793
    edited October 2008

    {{{Terri}}} so glad you enjoyed the time with you mom and the others, does sound like fun :)

    But so sorry too, that you are dealing the 'legal' issues and feeling like a prisoner in your home. Just not right.  Hope there is an end to that soon dear lady. 

    Good thoughts and prayers for all accounts...

  • katz03
    katz03 Member Posts: 94
    edited December 2008

    Hi everyone I haven`t heard anything at all from Ter in a long time and I am very concerned.  Is anyone in contact with her?  How is she and Frank too?

    Kathy

  • kbryan
    kbryan Member Posts: 10
    edited March 2009

    Does anyone have an update?  Prayers for us all . . .

  • TenderIsOurMight
    TenderIsOurMight Member Posts: 4,493
    edited March 2009

    I have not heard from Ter in a long time. I'll try to find her email and send her a note. I miss her too, and hope she and Frank are well. 

    Hoping to hear from you Ter, and please know you remain in our supportive thoughts. 

    ((Hugs)) 

    Tender 

  • Fitztwins
    Fitztwins Member Posts: 7,969
    edited March 2009

    Luann spoke to her a few weeks ago.

    Janis

  • kbryan
    kbryan Member Posts: 10
    edited April 2009

    Thank you for the update.  I hope that she knows that she is in our prayers. 

  • TenderIsOurMight
    TenderIsOurMight Member Posts: 4,493
    edited April 2009

    Missing you Ter...Still think often of you and Frank.
     
    Tender 
  • celia088
    celia088 Member Posts: 2,570
    edited April 2009

    I spoke to Ter last week and she really wasn't feeling well, so we didn't speak too long.  She seems fairly depressed.  Her mother has had several strokes and is not doing so well and Ter feels bad because she can't get there to see her everyday.  Ter has quite a lot of medical issues going on and lots of pain.  There are other things going on that Ter doesn't want to try to talk about because they are quite involved---she is overwhelmed right now. She still does not have a functioning computer so she doesn't have any email.  I think it would be nice for her friends to send her cards now.  I think that would help cheer her up.

    celia 

  • dreamwriter
    dreamwriter Member Posts: 3,255
    edited April 2009

    Celia, could you tell us where to send the cards?

  • Fitztwins
    Fitztwins Member Posts: 7,969
    edited April 2009

    Can someone PM with her current address?

  • celia088
    celia088 Member Posts: 2,570
    edited April 2009

    Janis, i PM'd you.

    celia

  • heatherpalmerton
    heatherpalmerton Member Posts: 2,247
    edited April 2009

    Celia please let Ter know that she is in our thoughts and prayers. sending many gentle hugs her way. Heather

  • celia088
    celia088 Member Posts: 2,570
    edited April 2009

    heather, i will definitely let Ter know that you all have been asking about her. Thank you all for caring about her.

    celia

  • dreamwriter
    dreamwriter Member Posts: 3,255
    edited April 2009

    Ter's card went in the mail today.  Of course I ended up with the card that does not meet the size qualifications.  Lordy, lordy when are they gonna know that a flower needs room...... hahaha

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