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Anyone have pets that know that something is different after surgery or chemo etc?
I just wanted to share about one of my cats. His name is Jack and he acts like a dog. He comes if I whistle, plays fetch with balls and sticks and is a lap cat. And sometimes he will jump on the edge of our fish tank straight up from the floor (about 4 feet) and when he does I say "Ta Da!" so now he jumps up there and tries to say "ta da!" in Catease "MowWow!"
Anyway, each time that I came home from one test or another Jack would run out to greet me and then thoroughly inspect me to see what happened to me. I'm sure it mostly had to do with the unusual medical smells like alcohol and tape residue on my skin. But every time he would sniff and then want to lick my wound for me (I had a dog that did this too a long time ago) but I know where his tongue has been
so he didn't get to "heal" me.
Well, after each lumpectomy and again with my bilat mast. He knew something was hurt on me and would sniff all over the area and instead of his usual jumping up onto my chest he would gently walk over to me and lay down on my lap for his pets. Even after showering several times he still knows that my chest is hurt and will sniff all over the area and avoid laying on it while I'm resting or sleeping.
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I have a boxer named Oscar (he's the big guy in my avatar). We are especially close; I am really the only one in the house who he'll listen to or behave for. He is very intuitive and always seems to know when I'm feeling badly. He also seems to know when he needs to tread lightly. We also have a cat named Kiki (not the one in my avatar). She was a stray that we rescued a few years ago. She is normally very aloof. I have noticed, though, that she is extra friendly and cuddly with me when I feel badly.
I love my pets and am so glad to have them!
Diane
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I don't know how people live without at least one pet! I have had some very intuitive ones myself. Right now only one of my four cats seemed concerned when I came home from treatments and would stick to me like glue. However, when the others just go about their business (eating, sleeping, pooping and throwing up) it gives me a feeling of 'normalcy'.
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Hi, I have a black labrador his name is Sambucca. It is a tradition in our family if we get a labrador it has to be named after a alchoholic beverage. Our first was named Whiskey, my grandmother took one of her pups and named her Sherry, a friend of hers took another and named her Shandy. When we got Bucca one of my sisters got a new lab puppy and named her Bailey, she suggested we put my Sambucca and her Bailey together and make Slippery Nipples.
Bucca is just my best friend, he gets vey upset if people yell at me, he follows me everywhere and is quiet aware when something isnt right with me. I thank god for him every day.
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My dog kept chewing holes in the cup of my bras on the side I had breast cancer, before I knew I had bc. She acted weird, too. Somehow the dog knew I had cancer. Weird, huh?
Miss S
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2 of our 4 cats continue about their normal business (see prettyinpink above). Felix, our biggest guy, sticks to me like glue, hovering close by and sitting against me when I sit. Harley, our only girl, does this zombie-cat thing where she follows on my heels everywhere I go. Always at a slow stroll, but always right there when I turn around. She's really patient - just making a point to be on the spot for lap-sitting when I sit down. My cats are a huge comfort - can't imagine a home without them.
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My horses are always so careful of me when I'm going through treatment. It's one of those marvelous give and take relationships where we all take care of each other.
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We have several pets in my house - 3 dogs, 2 cats and two birds. One of the dogs, a shepherd mix named Lexy, would sniff incessantly at my lump before I could even feel it. It was what made me keep checking the spot...it was very unlike her to bury her nose in my boob. I'm convinced she's the reason I was able to catch my cancer while it was small. One of my birds, a scarlett macaw named Abbey, is normally a very "feisty" character who never let me partner handle her. After my surgery and all during my chemo she became a very big sweetheart and bonded with my partner allowing her to handle her and lover her for the first time in 7 years.
There's no doubt our critters understand when we need a little TLC and extra good behaviour!
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my puppy was such a help this morning when I did the barn. I had to hand walk the horses because of the foul weather so she walked each one with me. then she helpeed me clean stalls. By the time i was done we were both wet and cold, very ready for the inside. Now she's snuggled up beside me on the couch because i had chemo this afternoon and she knows that I need hugs. The corgi, who wishes he was tall enough to jump on the couch, is by my side. What great pals.
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I love these animal stories. Folks who don't live with animal companions don't appreciate how they become family. I don't ever want to live without pets - will probably grow old to become that weird "cat lady."
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Oh I know that I'll be a crazy lady in aa barn someplace with straw in my hair. That old horse beside me will probably be the best cared for horse in the barn. They used to pay the rent, now it's my turn.
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Is it true that cats and horses make good pals to each other? Or is it goats and horses....? I like goats too. Wish I could get a couple of the miniature varieties. And chickens. Unfortunately, our subdivision isn't zoned for livestock. Just cats. Although my 17 and 14 pounders might qualify as "livestock!"
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Goats are wonderful. The horses like them because they just hang around.
Have you seen the baby minauture goats? Aren't they adorable? Maybe you could pass them off as service animals. They have minauture horses that are service animals.
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I adore the tiny babies! We live almost next door to the site of the state fair; the goats and chickens are my favorite spots to visit. A friend lives waaaaay out in the country and raises miniature goats, among many kinds of animals. She says the goats are hard to keep confined where she wants them because they're so smart. It's gotten to be a game to see if they can figure out her newest security system. She may be accidentally breeding a super-smart variety! Re: the chicken exhibit at the fair, this past fall some breeders also brought a pair of golden pheasants (in with the chickens - guess it made more sense than putting them with goats!). The pheasants were gorgeous.
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It's been a long time since I've seen pheasants. We used to have the ring-necked ones around where I grew up.
The horses are attentive to the coming cold snap. They don't want their blankets touched all.
Ours are inside at night and really pretty happy about that.
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The little love of my life is "Penny" Yorkiepoo. I rescued her 4 years ago and she is magnificent! She has such a personality. And she is right beside me every step when she knows I don't feel good. Even follows me to the bathroom and lays on the rug until I leave. What great therapy a pet is. I can have the worse day and come home and she just makes me smile.
I also am into dog rescue and work to get them out of the puppy mill situation. I have successfully rescued 28 so far and unfortunately have had to put it on hold until I can get through with chemo. Been 8 months now and hopefully my Stage 4 statis will allow me to do it again! I am so anxious to get back to my 4 legged rescues!!! God's creatures should not be treated this way. Okay enough I guess..... Can you tell I have a passion?
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I am single, with no family. I live with 3 cats. During my Chemo treatments, a cat had a litter of kittens under my home. I fed the mother 3x a day, so that she would make good milk for her babies. As the kittens got bigger, I found homes for all but one (which the mother hid - somewhere else - I guess). When I saw mommy with, yet, another kitten, I was surprised. A BAD storm was due soon, so I took the kitten inside. I planned to find it a new home, also (Yeah - RIGHT). I had just started radiation treatments by now.
Well, the kitten so entertained me, and made me laugh, by it's running around, playing, stalking my other cats, jumping, AND lots of cuddling with me, that I realized that I really needed this kitten. It cheered me up, and made me feel so much better (dare I say: HAPPY?).
P. S., her name is Bootsy (four white feet). -
Thankyou Sydpen2 for being such an awesome person and going out and rescuing puppy mill dogs. May you always have everything you need and always be a healthy billionaire.
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I have 4 dogs, 1 Great Dane and 3 Smooth Fox Terriers. My 1 Smooth Nissan has just been so gental with me. He is my boy and has slept with me from a pup. He LOVE TO FETCH but want to play tug after he brings it to you. Since my surgery he has been super slow and lets go of his toy now.. he never did that before.
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