Starting Chemo February 2009?
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Oh gee whiz, jancie, I hate you're having to delay your chemo, but it's good to get all your dental work done first. I'm glad you were able to play your chemo card and get in soon. Good luck with the root canal and crown!
I haven't tried lemon water; thanks for the idea! I've been buying Propel powder in the berry flavor; I like it a lot, but might need to switch it up for lemon once in a while.
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>>I dread the stares I will get next Sunday when I go to church with a wig on. Nobody would ever say anything mean but you have to wonder what their silent thoughts are.>>
If anyone looks at you wierd, just hold up your Chemo Card.apple, I don't know for sure, but I can imagine that I'll like scarves and caps/hats better than a wig. I'm a ponytail-n-ballcap kind of girl anyway, so yeah, I'm going to buy some scarves tomorrow.
So, Furies, my second chemo went fine today, praise the Lord! My aunt stopped in to see me; she's being treated for lung cancer at the same group; we've joked about asking for a family discount, haha!Hugs to all,
Artemis -
It was a very rough weekend. The bone and joint pain from the Neulasta hit hard Saturday and Advil didn't touch it. I have pain meds from my opreration, but they really made me sick. I stuck it out and by Sunday morning Advil was relieving some of the pain. A heating pad on my knees really helped Sunday night and by Monday morning all pain was gone. I managed to work and pick up the kids today. My mouth has a couple soars, but I've been using the rinse since before chemo, so I think I'll try some good old baking soda and water. I've decided to try the Claritin D for the next Neulasta shot to see if it has any effect. Good luck to all that started treatment today. Stay on top of the SE's if you can. Your in my prayers.
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Lisa810 - the brain fog is weird and is still lingering. I was in class until 2pm today and had a hard time focusing on anything. I'm sure it'll get better soon..I hope
. I start my clinicals next week (I'm a student physical therapist assistant) and this is my last semester. I also need to start prepping for my state licensing exam.
Jancie - this winter has been cruel - it was brutally cold a few weeks ago with windchills dipping to 20 below 0. We had a foot of snow last Wednesday, but it warmed up this weekend and it's starting to melt. Now everything is turning to mud.
My latest side effects include wicked acid reflux and even worse constipation. Notifiied the onc.; she said to take an otc anti-acid and senokot. I'm done with the steriod until the next treatment so hopefully that will hault this incredible appetite of mine, lol.
Hugs to all -
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Ok - here's a question - hypothetical at this point -
For someone who is Grade 2, Stage 2, tumor size 2.3 cm, .2cm micromets in sentinel node and no other positive nodes, what would be the Chemo Cocktail of Choice?
Just curious!
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Started my chemo today. I I was quite nervous at the doctor's office. He gave the "go" and told me to take the Emend right away. Half an hour after taking Emend, I felt relaxed for some strange reason. The chemo itself was short only 1 hrs but the waiting before that (for the doctor's exam and all) was two hours. I had really good appetite coming back home at 2pm since I missed my lunch. Started to feel muscle pain a bit now and a bit cold before dinner. Then the hot soup my aunt made for me really made me warm and had to eat some icecream to cool myself down.
I went shopping for wig and bra and hats. The store was owned and operated by cancer survivors. The owner, being a 17 or 19 yrs BC survivors, she's so nice to her customers. We got there a bit late since I live nearly 1 hr away from the store. She stayed 1 hr late after the closing hr to make sure I got everything I need. Also she took my insurance beforeahead and called them to know my allowance. She had such a big collection of everything. I was my one stop shopping for everything.
SHe did tell me that some of her customers had developed lumphdema out of blue - years after the treatment and also some like herself has blood clots in her leg later although she's not sure if it's related to the BC treatment.
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I'm going to St. Peter's also. So much for one size fits all; that's what we thought as a family, but no!! Surgeon was Suzanne Kreinenburg. My team is Dr. Sunkin, Dr. Savage, and Dr. Welt.
Feb 11 will be my 1st chemo, as Feb 4 was messed up because of port. What days are your sessions? Maybe we can meet
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My husband is saying I'm overeacting about the wig. He wants my hair to fall out then look for a wig. (He's really hoping my hair doesn't fall out). This is a man who is only used to seeing me with long hair. I may slip into to some local wig shops and see what I can find, but he only wants me to look for long hair so people won't think it's a wig (????). We'll see how that goes.
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Just a quick report in from me - I almost feel guilty reporting that it's pretty much been life as usual for me since AC treatment #1 last Wed and Neulasta #1 last Thurs. Pretty weird to wake up in the morning with no idea how you are going to feel that day, but so far so good and very sorry everybody else isn't in the same lucky position. I have focused a lot on hydration and think that has probably helped a lot. I was a little tireder than usual Fri and Sat but spent hours out with dd and dh at a horseshow yesterday and hardly thought twice about it - slept like crap last night but that was mostly because dd's horse was really bad at the show. Feel a little head-coldish today but had a pretty normal day in terms of energy, activites, etc. Need to get on that wig thing pronto - will make an appt at the nearest place that's been mentioned tomorrow.
Hope all of us who started treatment last week are having better days every day and hope it went well for those who started today.
Tricia in the NW
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Luv2sing - oh....thre are so many beautiful long hair wigs out there for you to try on and look at.
I have been having problems figuring out how to post pictures here. I am getting a wig that has longer hair than I currently have and I can't wait to wear it! Here is a link that shows you a picture of it http://www.wilshirewigs.com/SUGAR-RUSH-by-Forever-Young-pr-3486.html
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Twill - Was your DD's horse acting up at the show? I want details! What kind of horse, what kind of show, what classes did she show in?
I will be doing the AC treatments also and will be 2 weeks behind your schedule so keep posting so that I know what to expect! I would give anything to start chemo this week but I think they are going to push me off until next week.
Just noticed I hit over 100 posts today in 1 month - can you tell that not only am I bored to death, stalking Apple (ok, my inside joke) and trying to learn as much as possible so I am better prepared to go through this journey.
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Hey jancie - wow, that is quite the wig!! You will be turning heads!
I had second treatment last Friday, has hit me harder than the first one. I'm still feeling a bit crappy, but am able to function OK, I think. I would not like to be having to go to work and think!! Just need to ride it out until the weekend, am sure to feel back to normal by then. Got a bad taste in my mouth - it is the SE from something, wasn't as aware of it last time. yuck...
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Hey girls. I must say, I am very glad that some of you are missing the se's, you are very lucky. I hope that my second treatment is easier, but I am very sensitive to normal meds, so am not surprised that I am sensitive to this. The racing heart is concerning me, so I am calling my onc today. I've had 2 blackouts now, which I never have, so something is off. I can barely walk from one room to another without it racing and getting short of breath. I think I'm doing ok on fluids, so not sure it is dehydration. I feel like such a wimp, so many people still function on chemo, but I'm barely doing so.
Kerry, I am so sorry to hear that your second tx was harder. I hope you feel better soon. I had a weird taste with my first tx, not a metal taste, just yucky. I've never brushed my teeth as much as the last week!
Marlomom: good luck with your studies, that sounds like quite a challenge. Last time (2004), when I had 2 surgeries and rads during spring semester, I found that the teachers can be very understanding and even extended deadlines, etc. I made it through just fine with their help, so be open with them and let them know what's going on.
Jancie: I also bought a Forever YOung wig, need to have a couple inches trimmed off it. I am borderline between a normal size wig and a larger wig (skinny body, big head!), so I hope it fits after the hair is gone. I like some of the ones on the page you posted, might have to buy another one! This is the one I got: http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&ssPageName=STRK:MEWNX:IT&item=380096361550
I hope to feel as normal as possible soon, I miss doing normal things (you know, laundry, cooking, taking care of my family). Actually, I miss my mosaics, I haven't even had the desire or strength to go downstairs and glue glass to something!
Judy
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aaww..
hope you feel better Judy. heartracing and blackouts are not good and I hope your doctor can relieve them. (I personally love doing laundry, altho you wouldn't know since my laundry room is such a mess). why the kids think they can pull all the clothes out of the dryer, throw them on the floor, find their pants in the washer and dry them is beyond me. I wish I could take pride in their laundry skills and not complain.
i would love to see pics of your mosaics if you have them.
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Thanks apple, sorry to be such a whiner. Your kids sound like mine; I hate it when they take stuff out of the dryer, but just leave it down there to wrinkle--then they run the dryer for like 80 minutes to dry one thing! Ugh!
I had just started mosaicing last year, it all started with a table I bought that had no top. I was hooked after that. (My avatar is a small plant table I made). I have about 100 things to mosaic, and tons of supplies, but no energy. The week I was dx'd, my DH bought me a glass grinder for my bday; I have yet to use it, but feel confident that springtime will bring new inspiration for me. I love spring and summer; at least chemo will be done by then. I always say that if I could mosaic outside year round, I would get so much done.
Here is a link to my flickr page that has some of my mosaics on it. http://www.flickr.com/photos/30169650@N07/
I have other projects in progress. I am not an artistic person, but it is really fun and relaxing to do mosaics, and I really enjoy it.
Oh, and thanks to all for the well-wishes for my mom. she is still in the hospital; they need to do something to unclog her arteries, but need to get her kidneys stable first. She does sound better, and we think everything will be ok. It's not a main artery that's blocked, it's a smaller one. Still scary, she is my rock, she's amazing, and she has great doctors, so I'll let you know how she comes through this.
Judy
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Love your doctors' names Bethie1 ! Dr Sunken, Dr Savage and Dr Welt! Reminds me of my post surgery torso! Kind of sunken, savaged and welted.
My primary care is Dr Badman, my mom's is Dr Payne....
Anyone looking for elasticized (easy to tie)scarves, I found some on Etsy and eBay made by survivors. just search 'chemo cap'
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Webbie~ I'm OK. Thanks for asking. I went to work yesterday for a couple of hours and regretted it. However, I feel a bit better today (less nauseated... mostly queasy) so I went into work again. I need to try to save some sick leave and not use it all at once... I'm sooo fearful about next time. I'm not sure how to deal with that...
Dx 12/30/2008, IDC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 3, 0/7 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2-
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Luv2sing, You can also try to call local ACS for free wig and scarf, something for you to transition if you don't feel well enough for the wig shopping after your hair falls out.
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Thanks Kelty.
I plan on trying to do some things this weekend when my cousin flies in from Texas.
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to: Bethie1 Much luck to you tomorrow. I'll be thinking of you. I, too, was operated on by Dr. Krieinberg. I liked her a lot. My oncologist is Dr. Garbo from NYOH on Washington Ave. Ext. I had my first chemo last Fri. I've got 5 more treatments to go. What chemo drugs will you take? Let me know how it goes for you. I got a wig today. We'll figure out a way to connect. Suzanne
To all: This journey is a strange one. A long road to travel, so many experiences.
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Had my 3rd trtmt today.Feel kind of jittery,probably won't sleep much again.That seems to be my pattern.The night of chemo can't sleep. the next day get lots of stuff done.Sleep 12 hrs that nite not bad the next day.Then Friday all day on the couch.Weekends are not too bad.Go out & do some normal stuff.Just get tired sooner[Home by 7:00]Monday O K. Some things tast terrible some taste normal.Chemo brain definitly set in.Put a Turkey breast in the sink to thaw.Completly forgot about it.Went to bed & remembered as soon as I woke up in the morning.Had to throw it away.Can't believe I did that.I was right in the kitchen getting a glass of water to take to the bedroom & didn't give it a thought.Scary.Good luck to everybody starting this week & everybody else to-we all need some good luck.
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Hey Jancie, dd's horse is a 7yo thoroughbred gelding. He has been her 4-H project for the last 2.5 years, and she has been trying to bring him along as a hunter. The show we took him to was a local English/hunter/jumper schooling show, and unfortunately Tex decided he did not care to jump that day - out on refusals in 2 of 3 classes and eliminated when she came off after a very dirty stop five fences into the course in the third class. Let me know if you need more details, and I'll pm them.
I will keep you posted on how my treatment progresses - so far so good although I had a cranky day today - chemo related? I don't know! Do you have your start date yet?
KerryMac - sorry to hear your second was harder on you than the first - hope you feel better every day.
Carol0371 - I am following your treatments with interest since I am slated for Tx12 following AC (but no Avastin). Sorry about your turkey breast!
Prayers and positive thoughts to living4today and nancyb7912 who are listed as starting Wed and Thurs - and everyone else whether your treatments have started or you're still waiting to get going.
Tricia
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Tricia, Thanks for the prayers and positive thoughts for starting today. Isn't it amazing the wide range of emotions involved with starting chemo...scared to death, but want to hurry and get done. Drank lots of water yesterday and enjoying a chai tea this morning. I went to the look good, feel great program yesterday. I am really into makeup, etc...but it was sure a fun day (even if the ladies there were 20 years older than I)...they provided great encouragement, although none of them worked. That is probable the thing I am most anxious about, if I will be able to keep up with working a full time job. Lucky my hours are 8-4, Mon-Fri and its pretty sedentary, just have to be "up" as I am a wellness coach...we will see.
Thanks to you all for your posts on your journey. Prayers to those with SE, that they may disappear and you are able to enjoy your day!
Kim
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Hey there everyone. Still hanging in here, holding out for the weekend when I am sure I will feel better. Sore body today - my 3 year old ended up in bed with us last night, and he was kicking me all night, Now I feel all battered. We are having a bit of a heat wave which is lovely, everything is all melty outside. Roll on spring (or more specifically May 1st, my last Chemo!!)
Carol - you made me laugh with your Turkey breast - I was cooking soup for my kids lunch yesterday, and was thinking it was much more noodly than usual....I, of course, had forgotten to add the extra water! My brain is certainly not inside my head, I find I am typing really slowly too, and misspelling a lot.
Just wanted to add something people might want to think about with their hat buying - I have a lovely soft sleep cap, which I wear every night to bed. I would be chilly without it, and it is nice to be able to get out of bed and have a head cover on.... I am really nearly bald now, look far more like Cancer Girl than GI Jane!!
Anyhow, hope anyone starting today does well. You've just got to put your head down and get through it.
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Kim - good luck today, I will be thinking of you!! Hope you manage to work through the treatments. Not sure what your cycle is, but I have found the first week the hardest, the second two weeks I have felt nearly normal.
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Is anyone doing the TAC vc TC study? #06-090. Looks like that is what I am going to do, hopefully to start on 2/20/09. I'll either have Taxotere/Cytoxin X6 or TC+A X6. I am a little worried if I get the TAC, since all 3 of those drugs together seems like the SE's could be terrible. Hopefully I will get the TC and not have to worry!
Jancie - I like the wig you selected, and thanks for the link! I ended up ordering a couple from them yesterday (inexpensive ones) and will get the more expensive daily wear wig from a local wig shop. Did anyone get a fun, punky style? I think I will order a costume wig in bright purple just to wear for days I need a cheer. lol.
I hope everyone is doing well. Webbie - looks like you have the closest regimen to me, how are you tolerating the TC? What are your worst days so far?
Thank you all for being inspirational!
Janine
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Add me to the Feb list. I start 2/13. Will I be able to drive myself home? What's the mouth rinse people are talking about? Can I take pain meds/allergy before? Does Claratin help w Neulasta pain? SO MANY QUESTIONS, PLEASE HELP!
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lbrewer,
You shouldn't need pain meds before, but the next day when you get the Neulasta shot I would take something like motrin or the Claritin they say does help. As for allergy meds... you should be getting a steroid and benadryl with your treatment and that'll take care of any allergy side effects you might encounter, but that is rare. The mouthwash I use is called Biotene, rinse with it twice a day, it'll help with possible mouth sores and also dry mouth during sleeping time. If you get a sedative during treatment like Ativan, you won't be able to drive. Good luck!
Well I finally slept thru the entire nite last nite, first time in 2 weeks! And just in time to start my steroid craze tonight, to get ready for treatment #2 tomorrow bright and early at 930. Guess my house will be pretty clean again this weekend!On the wigs.. I bought 2 cheap-o ones from ACS website tlcdirect.org. They have wigs for $35-40 and they look really nice. Not as well made as the $400 ones of course, but hey it's only temporary right! Also just ordered a new one from voguewigs.com (w/free shipping!). Came upon this "Options Heat Resistent" type of wig that you can use a curling iron, hot rollers, blow dryer, etc. on! You can't use any type of heat on a regular synthetic wig or it will be ruined, I learned the hard way on that one! So with these types of wigs you can go straight or curly or wavy... just like real hair, and without paying the price of a human hair wig ($800+)! They are by Alan Eaton, check them out!
Sue
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I like the thought of the family discount!!! Gotta get some laughter in there as well!! YOU GO GIRL!!!
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Just wanted to let all of you who are starting chemo, hang in there. The horror stories you hear are not nearly as bad as they sound. Reading your comments tells me you are all strong women. That is what it takes to get through this frightening time of your life. I finished ACT in four months with very few side effects and can tell you your state of mind is your biggest ally along with a strong belief in God. Bald head?, so what. I shaved my head before I started losing my hair. It was going to happen on my terms not cancer's. Never be ashamed of admitting if you've gone through a mastechtomy, a breast does not make a woman.
I completed my chemo December 26, 2007 and 8 days later my husband was diagnosed with throat cancer. We went through our radiation together and again our attitude toward this disease is our saving grace. Hang in there ladies, you've already gone through the worst just by getting your diagnosis. The rest is easy, it's working on your cure. Love to you all.
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To: jdecking I am in the TAC vs TC study. Happily I'm doing the TC. I'm up here in Albany, NY. Same thing, 6x for either one every 3 weeks. Honestly I think if I were to make the choice I would just go with the TC. Everything I've read points to it being potent enough. I went to Sloan-Kettering Hospital in NYC and the oncologist there told me that many places in CA and the southwest have already stopped using the A. This is the 3rd phase of the study and results have been good. For those using Adriemyicin (spelling ?) I don't mean to question its effectiveness. Today is day five post first chemo and I had a rough day with TC, can't imagine adding more discomfort. Good luck with your choice. Suzanne
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