onco score 19 how can i decide??
Hi everyone, first off let me tell the specifics- 6mm,stage 1,IDC/DCIS< 0/2,ER(100%+) PR+, HER2-(FISH 1.7),grade 2(I think) and they said lowest score as far as aggressiion. I just received my onco score of 19. Why is everything so very hard with this disease?? Its one thing after another and i'm having panic attacks constantly trying to decide everything. I'm 58 with no family history so this hit me out of nowhere. I don't no how much more I can take. Like everyone else I have family members who depend on me- and all of this is just too overwhelming. I've already decided to have bi-lateral mast. on Feb3. because I know I can't deal with the stress of going back to the BS every 3mon and the mammo's. My question is - HOW DO YOU DECIDE ON CHEMO? my ONCO didn't want me to have the test to begin with and she didn't recommend chemo to begin with and I don't think she'll change her mind- I'll see her on Monday to go over all the info but I know I'll still be undecided. I'm on Xanax and even that isn't helping me anymore. SOMEONE PLEASE tell me how to cope with all of this. How did you decide what to do with this in between score? I want to fight it the best that I can but how do you know what that is?? Was there any thing that helped any of you know?? I have received alot of comfort and support here so thank you for any help. Is chemo that bad- or worth the feeling of doing all you could???
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Here is my take. Chemo can kill the cancer cells in the body scans cannot even pick up. I did chemo.. it is doable. When I did finally have my surgery ( after chemo) I had no cancer cells left anywhere in the breast or nodes. I was COMPLETELY gone. The reason this made me feel so great, was the fact that if it killed it completely in the breast and nodes.... it killed it elsewhere "if" I had it anywhere else. My body just did really well with chemo.
Now... I am on the line about rads myself. I am in that grey area.. like you are with chemo.
I would do the chemo over rads. if I was in the grey area with both. Chemo kills cancer throughout the whole body... rads are for mopping up ( if needed) local cells on the breast, armpit, chest wall.
Good Luck and honey, I TOTALLY know where you are coming from. Why do WE have to make these choices... I wish it were black and white for us all.
Be kind to yourself and know you will make the right choice for you!
Gods Love,
Laura
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Thanks Laura, you've been such a help. Your words make alot of sense, and you really seem to think I could get thru the chemo. I'm glad you were there for me. God's Love to you also.
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Hello
My diagnosis is VERY similar to yours(mine was also 6 mm)! I had my bilateral in October and am currently finishing up four rounds of chemo. It has been very doable. My oncotype was also 19. But I have a lot of family history...my sister was diagnosed two weeks before me and my Grandmother and Aunt both had breast cancer...although I tested negative for the BRCA gene.
I'm still teaching my fitness classes and running my home based business during chemo.
You have to do what is best for you.
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Hi Lisa, I'm so glad you responded. I really wanted to talk to you. I saw your info on the onco roll call and I kinda thought we had some things in common. I'm from Philly so we're in the same state too. Did your onc recommend the chemo or was it your choice?? I'm amazed that you were able to continue working cause I would have to and I'm worried about that cause there's alot of people contact. What type of meds did you get- I don;t know too much about them but I'm trying to learn. Did you have a port? Do you know much about any permanent damage that can come from these meds? If I decide to go the chemo route I was considering having the port put in at the same time as my surgery in two weeks. But I guess I have to discuss all that with my ONC on Mon. All through this I've been making my decisions based on what would give me peace of mind. Anything else you have to add that you think would be helpful- let me know, please. I've never been on medication for anything so all this really freaks me out. By the way, you look beautiful in your pic and I'm so glad things went well for you. Thanks
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Hello!
My onc recommended the chemo...he said two points lower and he would not have recommended it. I also decided on it because my FISH test said I was HER2+ but the Oncotype said I was HER2- So I decided to go with the chemo as an insurance policy. I'm getting four cycles of TC (taxotere and cytoxan) three weeks apart. I'm around people all the time...I teach Zumba classes 6 days a week and haven't stopped living my life...been shopping, out to eat, etc. I refuse to let this "thing" define me!
I didn't need a port since I was only getting four cycles. I have had not problem with the IV. My sister had a port, but she has a lot more chemo to get than me.
As far as permanent damage...I'm not planning on having any! LOL The biggest thing has been the fatigue and the taste in my mouth.
Like you, I was on NO medicines before this diagnosis so this was a hard decision for me. At this point, I'm not planning on taking Tamoxifan. My body, my choice.
Feel free to pm me if you have more questions.
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I had a lumpectomy for a 1.2 cm tumor and a 3mm tumor, my Onco score came back 18 on the first tumor and waiting for the score on the second, my oncologist said chemo was my decision. For me, with only a 2-3 % reduction in a reoccurance, that wasn't enough of a benefit for the risks of side effects from chemo. She also told me if I were in my late 50's or later, she would not recommend chemo with my score.
Only you can decide if the risks outweigh the benefit of chemo. Best wishes in your decision.
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Hi s3434, As you can see below, my tumor is very much like yours, only 3 cms. I am waiting for the oncodx test results and I am so sure that I will fall into the grey abyss, like you between 11 and 25. So I am eagerly reading the responses you get to your post. I discovered my tumor 5 months ago, went through alot of time before finally getting an mri. then they tried needle aspiration, hematoma, punch biopsies,hematoma and then lumpectomy, hematoma!! So I just know I have cells in my bloodstream. How could there not be?? I think if my score is 14 or above, I will go with chemo. I am 60yrs young ....good thoughts and warm hugs to you, mimis
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Hello lisasayers, byzalot and MimiS, Such difficult decisions! Thank you so much for sharing your info and for your caring input. Helps to know how others are making their decisions. We're going thru this together and hearing how all of you are getting on, coping and dealing with all of this -while still going about your lives- is a great source of strenght for me. I have to admit I've been a basket case and many times I feel like I just can't DO IT (but I know I will- I have to). I guess I'll wait to hear from my Onc on Monday, when we go over everything, but I'm pretty sure she won't recommend chemo and I'll feel like I need to do it so that I've done all I can. But I don't know the risks involved yet and I'm sure she'll tell me. Still not sure why a tumor so small (6mm) and non-agressive would have a score of 19, but I guess its much more involved than that. take care and my love to all of you- thanks again.
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These are the toughest decisions you'll ever have to make, and I agonized over each one (mast v. lump., chemo or not), etc. I had an oncotype of 14, which was low and presented me with a 4-5% improvement over no chemo, per Genomic Health. I consulted with 2 oncos, one in private practice, and one at a major cancer center in my area. They both recommended a short course of chemo, which I completed in Nov. Not fun, but doable, and I feel that I've done whatever I could to face this beast. I also found out I'm BRCA 2 pos, so I felt even better about my decision, but I didn't know that til after my last chemo session. I'm also 36, so that played into the recommendation for chemo for me.
SO, I know how hard it is and the impossible decisions that face you. Here's my recommendation for you. Read, research, talk with experts, pray, think, talk some more, pray again, and then go with your gut.
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Hi Emily, so even though your score was on the low side you still had 2 oncs recommend chemo. At least that made the decision a little easier ( if that possible). I do plan to get 2 opinions also, so we'll see. I know what you mean about agonizing- thats THE word. Its all I seem to be able to think about, even when I try to distract myself with other things- my mind goes right back to it. I hope in time after these decisions have been made that I'll be able to go back to being me although I don't think I'll ever be the same. I appreciate your words and I know you're right- each decision it seems is a process- the answers don't come right away. I will do what you recommended . thank you for being there-all the best--- S.
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I hope you are feeling a little better today... I just wanted you to know I was thinking about you and the decision you have ahead of you... whatever you choose, will be right for you!
Laura
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Hi s3434 - I just met with my oncologist today, Oncotype and FISH tests just ordered. Thanks for starting this thread, I am a few weeks behind you, but appreciate learning what is to potentially come my way.
Lori
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Hello Ladies, Thanks for keeping me in your thoughts Laura, it means so much, as I'm sure you know. I hope everything is going well for you. Lories, I'm glad you found this thread- I'm hoping it will help many as we make our way through these difficult decisions. I'm hoping others who have found themselves in the "gray area" will share their info and how they came to make their decisions. Stay with us Lories- here's hoping you'll be in the low risk group. Love to all!
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I had an oncotype score of 20. I did get a second opinion, which I HIGHLY recommend, and both recommended chemo. I had 4 treatments of taxotere and cytoxan. Like others have said, doable. The oncotype score is not the only thing they base their recommendations on, so be sure to discuss it completely with your onc. (I know you will)
Something you said in your original post about the stress of going back to the BS every 3 months and the mammos made me reply to you. My second opinion doctor told me to consider if I was the kind of person who, if I did not do chemo, would get worked up and worry every time I had to come back for a check-up, or if I could just decide and go on. I thought that I would worry more if I did not know that I had done everything that I could to fight this. That, and her discussion about distant recurrence, helped me to make up my mind.
Good luck to you whatever you decide to do.
Chris (now 8 weeks out from chemo and not sorry)
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Hi s3434--it is a hard decision. There are a few threads here where people go through how they made the decision which I found helpful.
Just wanted to share my story--I am similar diagnosis as byzalot: multi-focal, one tumor 1.5, one 4mm, ER/PR+, grade 1, HER2-. Had an oncotype of 18--which was higher than I wanted to see as it is on the borderline between low and intermediate helpfulness of chemo. But by doing research and with the advice of my onc, I did not do chemo. A lot has to do with your other info--like grade, etc. My grade was 1--the slowest growing. And b/c I am ER+, I can take tamoxifen (I am pre-meno) which also acts as systemic (whole body) treatment to prevent new cancer growth. So I felt comfortable with that. I had a lumpectomy and am in the middle of radiation. Hope that helps!
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Hi ladies,
We all have breast cancer and that is where the similarity ends. Each case is very individual as we all have learned or are learning. We are sisters but we are not identical twins.
I discovered my lump in a shower last July 1st. It was huge and I just knew it was something. Of course I go for my mammos regularly and they have always been "normal". You know the drill, radiologist says everything looks great, see you next year, and you leave happy to know you are free for another year. DON'T BELIEVE IT!!!
I went to my gyn the day following my lump discovery. She sent me for the usual mammo and ultrasound. Mammo of course showed nothing. Ultrasound showed a mass. Ok, let 's do a biopsy...............................we have a 3.5 centimeter malignant grade 3 tumor.
Ok, next step, lumpectomy and the surgeon thinks followed by radiation. After the surgery, I actually took another couple of months to make my treatment decision. I have a wonderful and gifted local onc, but I also went to Moffitt CC for a second opinion which has now proved invaluable with my two oncs consulting as my case unfolded.
First there was the oncotype..................score 17. Test results say I do not need chemo, would not get enough benefit to outweigh the risks. Only 9% chance of recurrance. Yippee, Hooray. Okay, not so fast. I asked for a breast MRI just to check that all was well with other breast since this large tumor I had didn't show in a mammo even after we knew for sure it was there. MRI for breasts are very sensitive.......................show every darn little thing. Okay, now it shows something in BOTH breasts. Surgeon and Onc (and radiologist) say better have biopsy, but probably nothing, there are lots of false positives with this test. Oh no.............................. no cancer in the "good" breast, but another cancer site in the already diseased breast in another separate quadrant. It is early stage, so they are still basing treatment on first dx. It should be noted that this was a 9mm tumor that also never showed in any mammo.
In the mean time a second oncotype was done on the original tumor tissue because the first time it was done on the biopsy sample. This time a score of 19, now my odds of recurrance have increased to 11%. So with that and knowing that I had another cancer in the same breast I (with both oncs advice) went ahead with chemo. Like so many before me have said, I never want to look back and say if only I had.............................
Finished chemo almost three weeks ago. Yes, some annoying side effects, but very doable. Started on the TC every three weeks, but severe hand peeling after tx 2 so switched to TAXOL given in a lower dose EVERY week for six weeks. Next in the plan, on to radiation. NOT SO FAST.
Breast surgeon makes an appt for 6 month post surgery checkup...............................the breast with two malignancies fine..............................some sort of lump in other breast. How can this be happening. He does not "think" it is cancer, let's check it again in three months. WHAT??????????? Okay, now I ask to have breast exam form med onc and rad onc. They actually concur. Whatever it is, the consistency is soft and spongy and cancer is usually hard. Rad onc pretty sure it is fibrocystic changes. He is comfortable to just wait the three months. Of course no guarantee that it is not cancer, but odds are with me and it wouldn't be any more threatening three months from now.
So I am moving on to my radiation journey. I have had my tattoos, positioning and dress rehersal. My 35 sessions start Monday for seven weeks. I take time to make my decisions. I ask lots of questions and do a ton or research until I am comfortable, or at least at peace. I do not look back, knowing each decision I have made is what I feel is the best for me and my outcome.
I know this is a ridiculously long post, but since every story is different, I just may be reaching someone who has something close to mine and maybe they can find some info and solace in reading this.
I have found we are all so much stronger than we ever imagined and..................projecting and anticipating are a waste of time and energy.................every step so far has been easier and more doable than I imagined.
WE CAN DO THIS!
Caren
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PS I forgot to add that I am 63 and my brca 1 and 2 were both thankfully negative. That was the greatest gift, knowing I could not genetically pass this on to my children.
Caren
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S3434:
My onco score was 20 with a recurrence rate of 13 and I also did 4 rounds of taxotere and cytoxan. If your tumor was a grade 2, then it is in the middle as far as aggressiveness. Chemo is very doable. I swam, walked 2-1/2 miles almost every day, only had a few bad days per round of chemo, it's sometimes about preparing for and managing the side effects. I never had nausea.
I would go for it. You sound like you will be anxious anyways. Hopefllady had some good advice. My onco initialliy just said radiation but changed her mind to pro chemo after my oncotype test.
Peeps
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Hi all, I will keep you posted on my test results. Lori
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Thank you all So very much for your responses. They have been so helpful and informative. I feel ready to face my ONC on Monday when we review all the specifics of my test. I really think this thread will be beneficial to alot of ladies who find themselves struggling over these test results. One of the most important things I've learned from all of you is that you cannot make your decision based solely on this test score. there are so many other factors to consider. I am at this point ready to hear about the risks of chemo (I know the benefits). I have up to now avoided reading about them, because usually what I read is the worst of every possibility and that just scares me off- so now I'll ask if any of you amazing women would care to enlighten me. I'm at the point where I DO need to know possible risks i n oder to make an informed decision. I don't mean hair loss- of course I know many of you have gotten thru that and I could too. That's a temporary SE. I'm talking about the more severe long lasting (scary ones). I would appreciate your continued help as I make my way thru this decision. Thanks for letting me lean on all of you!!
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Hi thegoodfight, So sorry to hear your story was such adifficult one but thank you for taking the time to share it with all of us. I'm glad to hear you've taken your time to make these important decisions. I have too, although I sometimes worry that I'm dragging my feet. I found my lump in the shower and went to the gyn that day. Mammo and ultrasound the following day- thats when I was told by the radiologist herself that I was fine- just a cyst and I could come back for a re check in 3 mons if I was really that concerned. Of course I went back again and had both mammo and ultrasounf repeated and again I was told I was fine nothing to worry about. I went home thinking ok then what else can I do- but I still didn't feel satisfied- for some reason something kept telling me to keep going so I took myself to breast specialist and she confirmed my fears (needle biop). She saw it on the ultrasound in her office. VERY FRUSTRATING- needless to say I Have lost my confidence in testing which adds to my anxiety. We all go thru so much, as if it weren't enough just having this. My love to you- I can only hope it gets easier for you from here on out.
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s3434, The long term possible side effects would depend on what type of chemotherapy you would have. As with so much of the treatment, everyone does not get the same type and each comes with it's own risks.
I think that you will have to talk with your oncologist first and if chemo is recommended then find out what type and research it from there. We will all be able to help more after you know.
Chris
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Hi hopefullady(Chris), Thank you for the response, Of course that makes sense. Also wanted to thank you for your previous response where you pointed out that it seemed from what I've said that I am the type that would always worry. That hit home- You're right and that should play a part in my decision. I had a lumpectomy with clear margins but I re-discussed it with my BS at follow up appt. and with her help I decided on bi-lateral (Feb. 3). cause I couldn't take the anxiety of coming back every 3mons. and I wanted to reduce my risk of recurrence as much as possible. It took awhile for me to come to that decision, as I'm sure this will too. Onc tomorrow -1st opinion and 2nd opinion scheduled for 2 wks after surgery. Thanks again for your help- Sandy
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s3434-- My oncotype was also 19, and I had two opinions, including one from a major breast cancer center. Neither of them recommended chemo, so I didn't do it.
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Hi s3434, I just got my scores today - 19 - 12% recurrence. So will have to chat with my oncologist. thanks for posting and sharing, I just had this feeling I would be in a grey area...did you make a decision?
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I had a score of 19 as well and had two oncologists recommend chemo (one from Cleveland Clinic and the other is here at our Regional Cancer Center), which I'm finishing up this week. Sandy, as I have said, you have do to what you can live with! I'l lbe thinking of you tomorrow!
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