First MS, then breast cancer, now diabetes?!?!?!
Okay, it isn't "official," as I have to do a 10 day glucose monitor, but the signs are screaming in my face. Diabetes is galloping happily into my unwelcoming life.
I was just dx'd with an ulcer, and my new PCP (God bless him) did some blood work and a urine test to be sure there wasn't anything else looming.
My glucose was high, my triglycerides were high, and my cholesterol was high. My freakin' cholesterol is never high. WTF?!?!?!
I've been nagging my dh to start eating better with me for about a year. I tell him we are fast approaching the Conner Family from Roseanne. Now I get the diabetes scare. Argh. WTF again!?!?! I told him today that I am making healthy stuff from now on. I can't change him, but I can certainly change what I am serving!
How much more can my crap-body take. For some reason this leaves me feeling really bothered, perhaps because it is something I let happen to myself. Yes, I am the only one in the house who eats fruit and veggies, but I also guzzle my Diet Pepsi and Starbucks, and have been getting a donut with my coffee more often than not.
So, I am here looking for wisdom on how to QUICKLY drop those numbers. What should I eat? I am ready to go through the entire kitchen and throw away all the BAD stuff and go to my neighbor (a dietician) and offer to pay her for some cooking organic lessons.
Should I call the Shaklee lady by my house (did I spell that right?)? If so, what do I need?
I am sick of being sick, and it is time to do some "natural" stuff to get me in the right direction.
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So sorry you are finding all this stuff coming down on you
I'm horrible in the 'what I eat' department, but b/c dh was dx diabetic, I had to learn for him what to change in our lives. First....cut out all additives, like ketchup, mayo, sauces, dressings, gravy's and so on. You can use mustard it's a freebie, no calories, sugar or other. Anything you eat that's starch/ carbs, like noodles, bread and so on, make sure they are whole wheat or other high fiber (this helps to clear them out before the sugar can all be digested too. Fiber is great for you. Fruit with peelings are okay, but just ripe, not overripes (they contain more sugar) and veggies are freebies too.
Recently I read that they are now saying that diet coke (what ever it is in there that makes it diet) is used in the body like regular sugar and NOT good for diabetics. Just a thought, but you might want to read up on it.
If you should loose some weight? Good way to start out, is to start cutting 1/4 of everything you normally put on your plate off. Like take away a 1/4 hamburg, potatoe and add veggies to fill in that area. If you use big plates to serve on. Use the smaller (salad) sized plates, it looks fuller to your eyes
DRINK lots of water. IT's good for everyone, but especially if you are diabetic to keep your system (uninary tract) flushed
Cut out chips and other carbs. Read lables and look for the sugar (carb) content. Dh is a large man and was told 2 carbs for his snacks (2 a day) and 5 for each meal. And he was NOT supposed to skip meals. The thing with diabetes is that you want to keep the sugar level consistent. If you go without food, your more apt to overeat the next meal/snack.
BEST thing I did, was take a menu of everything he'd eaten for 2-3 weeks into an appt I made with a dietician for him. We sat down, went over the meals and she told us how to figure homemade goulash, pizza and what not. She explained a lot more to him than I could have and had him absorb it. Time and time again I have to remind him I will NOT push his wheelchair or lead him around if he doens't take responsibility for his diabetes. He has to want to keep his feet on his body and see with his own eyes. It does help to get him back on track.
Good Luck to you.
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Recent studies have shown that one of the most important factors in a successful weight-loss program is having a decent breakfast: one that contains a healthy portion of protein. The protein provides long-lasting appetite suppression so that you want to eat less at lunch and through the afternoon.
Go to the Food Pyramid guide (http://mypyramid.gov/) and follow the recommendations. Or join Weight Watchers. Both of these provide excellent advice on nutrition and health.
Make sure that 30-60 minutes of moderate to vigorous exercise (approved by your physician) each day is part of your lifestyle.
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I am totally following your suggestions, ladies. For the past three days, my blood sugar has been below 100 when I wake up. That's good, right?
I have been MUCH more aware of cholesterol-rich foods. I made noodles yesterday and saw it offered about 30% of my daily intake! YIKES! I had a few noodles mixed in with my fresh broccoli and cauliflower with roasted chicken.
I have been working out vigorously (missed one day), and the day I missed, I woke up with a blood sugar of 103. Interesting!
I don't feel out of the woods yet (still freaked about cholesterol), but I feel better, and more in control.
Thanks ladies for the input, and I'll gladly take more! Deb
PS-LJ13, I love your tag line.
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You might be interested in this video:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YSUw9SaPLmA
Or read anything written by Dr Gabriel Cousens. He has written many books and has a place in Arizona called the Tree of Life where people can learn how to follow the healthy food lifestyle described in the video.
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Deb, that observation about exercise and your blood sugar level is remarkable. It's amazing how much our bodies respond to the good things.
Personally, I hate exercising, I really do, but I do it every day because they have evidence that it lowers the rates of recurrence, and because cancer made me realize my mortality ... that I can't just live as I want to as if there aren't consequences. Mind you, for the past 10 years or so I have tried to eat well, I quit smoking, use sunscreen, avoid fat, get lots of whole grains, etc. ... I just wasn't so good about the exercise thing.
Anyway, I bought a nice MP3 player and expensive (but great-sounding) earphones to use for working out. Anything that takes me out of the awareness that I'm exercising is worth it, and helps me stick to the schedule. If you don't have a music player, I highly recommend getting one.
I'm not nuts about whole-grain pastas, but they are lower on the glycemic scale than regular type of pasta, so you might think about trying those if you like pasta. And try to substitute alternative natural sweeteners wherever possible, such as agave nectar and honey (provided you aren't still on any kind of immune-suppressing treatment). Both of those have a lower glycemic index too. I don't care for the taste of agave in my tea, so I still use some sugar (raw or unrefined and organic), but less than I did.
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Deb. I am considered pre-diabetic at the moment, so I know how you are feeling. You seem to be definitely doing things the right way and I would say having your sugar below 100 is a very good sign.:-) Exercise is huge, so try to keep it up. {just don't ask me how I'm doing it that area at the moment!LOL} All the tips you've gotten here so far are right on, and you seem to be finding the willpower to do what you need to do, so I'm sure you'll be able to get this beast under control. Good luck to you!:-)
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Whoopsie,
If you want to do a quick turn around. And I know this works because I did this diet and it worked! Also saw this on Dr Oz special. For the next six to eight weeks...cut out all carbs, meats and dairy. Yes, this leaves you with fruit and veggies. No salt or any thing white (flour, white rice, white potatoes, breads) You can have one protein (chicken or cold water fish) each day. A small amount. This is tough to do, but you did bc so you can do this. After two years of chemo I had high blood pressure & cholesterol plus forty extra pounds my health was the worst it has ever been. On top of everything was the fatigue. (I had none of this before tx.) After being on this diet I had a big burst of energy and my high blood pressure and cholesterol was gone! On top of that I lost the forty pounds! And NO more fatigue.
When you come off this diet. Slowly add back in more protein's. If at all possible stop the dairy and red meat. This will make your body flash faster. And your stomach does not spend all it's time trying to break these items down.
Good luck - I know what your New Year list will have at the top! Eat better in the new year
Flalady
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Whoopsie-
Read "The China Study" by T. Colin Campbell. You can probably get it from your library. It tells you what to eat. Then get "Everyday Cooking with Dr. Dean Ornish". Also try Anti-Cancer. This will get you started. Then search the internet for recipes. That is what I am doing now. Also, do some walking. It is hard to change but not impossible and your body is telling you that you must make these changes. It is worth it.
Baywatcher
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Seconding LJ13 - it is VITAL to eat a good breakfast, with protein. I find that if I eat lean protein with my breakfast it "sticks to my ribs" a lot longer, and I have more energy, too. I like low-fat yogurt, chicken or turkey breast - yes, I've been known to eat turkey on whole wheat pita for breakfast!
It is better for most people to eat several small meals a day rather than three big ones. And I find that it's better for ME - for my weight, my digestion, my sleep and my hot flashes! - to have a big breakfast and small dinner rather than the way most people eat it, the other way around.
Take walks, even if it's just around the block or to toss dirty clothes in the hamper. Any little bit of movement you can do will be good for you. -
I've been taking my cinnamon, and my blood sugar is reading at 80-84 in the mornings. Is that "okay?" Or is that too low?
How long does it take for efforts to lower cholesterol to actually surface? Like if he takes a blood test tomorrow, will my results be better after 11 days of careful eating and exercise?
PS-why the @$&* haven't I lost any weight with my careful eating and exercise?!?!?!?!?!?!?! GRR!!!! My butt looks shaplier after having used the eliptical!
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I think it saw results in three to four weeks. Hang in their whoopsie....don't give up yet.
Flalady
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Hi Deb: After a CBC in August, I got a call from my cardio's office telling me that my triglycerides were on the high side. I immediately went online and found a wonderful website that had a low glycemic list of foods - Eat This/ Don't Eat This. I printed it out and stuck with it religously. I have dropped 16lbs since August 19th....I will get another blood work up in January and I expect my numbers to be pretty darned good. www.bellalonline.com/ArticlesP/art4474.asp . What I really liked is that there were no "numbers" to remember - just do/don't....it couldn't be easier.
Never mind what your husband is eating - YOU MUST lose the weight - and it's not because you want to look good but because you want to LIVE healthy. I'm a chocoholic - if I can do this eating plan, anyone can.
Deb - we live close to each other....PM if you'd like to talk......Trina
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My husband is fighting his genetics--both parents are diabetics and this year his fasting sugar crept up: I was steered to this web site and found it very helpful. Also, Dr. Bernstein has a website that is intense but helpful. The main thing is low glycemic index, low carbs, high fiber, exercise. My husband was testing and just one serving of bread made his sugar jump. The high trigylcerides go along with pre-diabetes. Keep up the good work.
http://www.phlaunt.com/diabetes/
http://www.diabetes-normalsugars.com/
Kira
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Hi ladies, I am giving a little update-
I haven't had another bloodwork done, but I know my blood sugar is well under control (whoo-hoo!!!)..
I am eating fantastic and wonderful food, and working out on my Wii Fit and FREAKIN' LOVE IT!!!!! I made the best dinner ever today......roasted chicken breast with some lemon pepper and broccoli with whole wheat noodles. Yummy!!!!
My Mii's age was 46 (started 3 days ago) on the first day, and is 41 today! I'm 34, btw.....
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Hi Deb: I'm thrilled to see this update--------good for you girl!
Looking forward to seeing you again...keep up the good work.
Hugs, Trina
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Whoopsie, Keep it up! I was pre diabetic before bc, got the wake up call, and have never looked back. Over the past year I lost 40 pounds and feel fantastic. I pretty much do as FlaLady says. I do not follow any diet. If it is good for me I eat it. If it is not I don't. I no longer eat any form of sugar, except a little honey on my oatmeal once in a while and I never eat diary. Those were my main comfort foods. I also eat nuts and seeds instead of chips and no bread. I am not a vegan because I think we need meat, but in small amounts. And weight bearing exercises are a must. Start walking with free weights and add more weight if it gets too easy. One more word of advice, only weigh yourself once a month. If you obsess about it daily, it can be discouraging. You will be so happy when you get there.
One more thing. Pick up Suzanne Somers' book Breakthrough. She interviews all these doctors who talk about how all disease is related to what we eat and there is a lot of great advice. Some is a little over the top, but it is all very motivational for me.
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Hi Whoopsie and welcome to the world of diabetes....and it ain't such a bad place! I have lived with diabetes for more than five years and have found that life has only changed for the better...better eating, better exercise, better self awareness. Has your doctor made any recommendations after diagnosing you? Has he recommended diet and exercise to manage the diabetes, or does he have another plan. There are regional and national associations for diabetics that provide EXCELLENT information from experts with well researched info that I have found worth exploring. And as much as diabetes can feel overwhelming at first, it can be well managed. And it sounds like you are off to a fantastic start...GOOD FOR YOU! Hugs and best wishes,
Debra M.
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