Jan 2008--Ain't it Great?
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Wow, have you all been chatty. I've read everything, but have no time for shout outs right now.
I had a busy weekend, so just enough time to read some yesterday, and finish this morning.
Kath is doing well. She sees the surgeon this afternoon, so I'll let you all know tonight what the scoop is.
I've not been able to connect with the OBGYN guy, so today, I'm going to call during class time. Kids have a Mid-term, and my student teacher can watch them for a few minutes while I do that.
Spent this weekend baking Pumpkin Cheesecake Bread (20 loaves - mini loaves)...and attending two Christmas parties. I was pooped yesterday.
I have all next week off, so I'll get more 'wordy' soon. Hope those of you in the northeast are hanging in there....heard about ice storms.
SIS Kimberly
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WOOOOHOOOO!!!!! SNOW DAY for me today!!
We actually got ice and sleet, but I'll take it for the day off. The best part is that dh and ds DON'T have one, so I have the house to myself!! I'll be spending the day wrapping and doing laundry that I didn't get to over the weekend -- certainly no fun in doing the laundry, but at least I now have the extra day to do it. I'll check in later and see what's up with all the Jewels!
Julie
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Julie, okay ...hate to say it but I'm exicted to be home this afternoon doing laundry myself !!! My ds' school was 2 hours late this morning as it snowed over the weekend and the temps for us are friggin' cold (twenties today) and expected to get colder tomorrow. He was so hoping for school to be closed.
So I took the ds into the doc this morning to have his swollen knee looked at. Doc recommendation ... knee brace for 6 weeks and PT starting week 3. He said once he has had the knee cap dislocate it will be prone to having it happen again. He said it would be better to spend a few weeks now tending to it, and hopefully avoid a more serious injury in the future. The lucky ds "got" to have (3) vaccinations as well since we we're there. We arrived home and I told him to shuffle his bottom out the door to hit 5th and 6th period ... not a happy camper !!!
Figured I'd stay home at this point in the day, as with Julie, its kinda nice to have the house to myself to putter. Hopefully I have some time tonight to shout out ...!
Oh, I did receive a call from my onc's office ... MRI and Mamo look good !!! I'm thinking that the news will up my spirits for the holidays in a BIG way. All for now,
Carol
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Hi gals,
Kath just called. All is well. Her pathology came back. The cancer is not lobular after all. It is ductal. It was less than 1cm and clean margins. She will be seeing an oncologist and a radiologist. No chemo, just follow–up with the onc. Her onc is in the same office as Dr. Gowda, but is a woman. I may have to switch citing the twin thing and how this onc. is interested in our case. The radiologist is the same gal I saw for my consult.
I’ve got my appointment scheduled for the ob-gyn doc for Monday, the 22nd.
So, Carol, is Kalen taking Tamox or an AI if anything? I know Tamox can cause cysts to show up.
I hope your AZ friend’s test results are good…Cancer really does suck…it’s rather greedy, wouldn’t you agree, going after the same person more than once?
Nice job getting the front-loading LG’s. We love our front- loading washer and dryer.
I want to say that June 19-21 works, but I’m thinking I have tickets to Wicked in San Francisco that weekend. I’ll exchange them if I do for another night if I have to, but I’ll need to know as soon as possible to see if I can exchange them or not. This show sells out fairly fast.
Would the week before work? Nope…D1’s daughter graduates on the 18th. We don’t have to do a weekend, right? Midweek will probably be better rates anyway. How about mid-July?
And…maybe somewhere central would be best, so we can all share in the joys of airline travel. Any ideas ladies?
How’ the ds doing with the knee? Sorry to hear about Steph…that must have been a tough visit, but one that he so appreciates, I’m sure.
OUCH…your MRI adventure doesn’t sound like it was too fun, but were the good results worth it?
Norma – You’re so welcome for being your SP. Loved it. And, I love your hair!
OH…your poor car…and of course, how scary for you!!! Black ice? Thank goodness it was minor damage. It could have been so much worse.
The tickets are working great for the kids that have always done their work. Those that haven’t are still running hot and cold. I collected the Children’s Picture Book project today, and again, only a little more than a third turned them in on time. Jeez!!!
I do know that trick…sneaky little buggers. I always talk to the parent before the kid hangs up.
WhooHoo on your good us on the ovaries news.
D1- So how’s the Megace treating you since your horrible first experience? Man, that would have been enough to hand the bottle right back. Good for you trying it out in the AM to see if it made a difference. Did it? I’ll keep reading to find out.
I didn’t write the Narratives myself. I partnered with another gal to write the opening Narrative, then four teachers per group split the other two major sections.
We just did a read through again, and I sent some suggestions for the other group to consider. It’s due this Friday. Fingers crossed…there’s a lot of competition.
So, has the dh had time to look at what you’ve picked out yet? You know he’s fond of white, and there are so many shades to choose from. HeeHee
Love the plates you chose.
Speaking of which…Kris 1 and PET scan and Path report 0…WhooHoo!!! I’ll be toasting you tonight, Kris!!!
Christmas shopping is done!!!! We’ve been doing charities the past few years. Last year, it was KIVA. KIVA is a group that helps make micro loans to people who are trying to make positive changes for themselves, their families, and/or their community in underdeveloped and undeveloped countries.It’s a great charity. You get to choose who you want to loan money to, and it is only $25. Once the loan is repaid, you can loan it again. This year, it’s an organization selling $60 T-shirts on eBay created by artists. There were only 100 of each type of shirt made, and only 7 choices, I think. The profits go to build solar generation units in places in Africa where electricity is not accessible. $400 will build one solar generation unit, so between Greg and I, we purchased enough for one solar generation unit and got our shopping done in no time. With electricity, kids can study at night and access technology available to them through another charitable organization.
Paula, glad to hear Ed is doing better. And I agree that shopping in your jimmies is way better than having to go out into the weather and fight the crowds.
How did the middle school health fair go? Do your students do basic screenings or educate them in some way?
So did you get to see your onc about the results of your mammo yet? From what you said, it sounds good.
Kathy- Can I have a personal assistant, too? One that will gladly grade essays for me would be fabulous.
Theresa – I love that song, and we are the champions, aren’t we? Good to hear from you, and glad all is well in your neck-of-the-woods.
Donna- Long time…glad to hear you’re doing well after everything you had done, but so bummed to hear of your nodules in the lungs. Like others have said, hopefully it’s nothing to be concerned about, of course that won’t help you to not worry about it, huh? Positive wishes on their way.
Cathy – I missed your departure…but when you post again, know I was thinking of you and being oh so very jealouse.
Jules – OK, between Kris60 going back to work so soon, and you having 8 boys over for a birthday party and sleep over…I’m voting for you being the crazy one. I’m sure the boys had a great time, but not sure I could have handled that…good thing you got today off to just have quiet time.
Questions- I’ve heard that the sex drive is diminished (not more than it is now, I hope) and weight gain is likely. Also bones can be effected. Any issues like that after your ooph and hysterectomy?
LJ13- Oh, heck what a bummer the cat got all excited and just had to bite something, namely you. Good thinking going in to get taken care of with a tetanus shot and antibiotics.
How’s the leg feeling?
CHJ- Good to hear from you, and about your cat story. How sweet of you to rescue your girl cat.
Your trip to Williamsburg sounds like fun, and what a great thing to meet a new friend.
WHOOHOO, I’m caught up. OK off to grade the Children’s Picture Books my kids turned in today…OK, so as many as I can get done before I just say, I’ll do it tomorrow. HeeHee
SIS Kimberly
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Hi Gals,
Wow, just got out of the Post Office, I'm starting to believe the news broadcast where they show the lines at the PO. My Dad has decided not to return home for Christmas this year, so fired off a gift for him and the significant other. Whew ... I can check two off of "the list". Speaking of list, thankfully my dh has been doing a lot of our shopping this year, our dd works at Nike Town in Seattle (when not in college) and we reap the benefit of an employee 40% discount. There will be a lot of vests with "swooshes" being given from Kent and Carol this year !!!
I'll quickly work backwards in the post, with one exception since I just spoke to Paula on the phone ...
Paula, it's been too long since chatting. You may not know it, but hearing your great WV accent is such a treat to a gal from Was"r"shington! As I stood in line at the PO, I was thinking about your question "so what are you asking for X-mas?", the more I thought about it, what I want is pretty simple, good health for all of those I know. I'd like nothing more than to hear of my newly acquainted on-line friends going into 2009 on a positive note. OMG ... I cannot even believe where we we're a year ago.
Okay JJ's so some how or another we need to come up with a date and location for a get together. Once again I'll throw out a date ... figure we need to start somewhere ... how about mid-week (as suggested somewhere), July 14,15,16 ? Personally, other than July 25th, I'm good to go. Being one that has vacationed in a rut for the past ten years to AZ (and Kimberly‘s home in No. CA) , I'm definitely not the go to gal for mid-west destinations. If my geography serves me right, is Chicago not a pretty central location? Another thought ... Branson, Missouri ??? I'm ready to book tickets and put in for my vacation ... any thoughts out there???
Kimberly, great news for Kathleen ... I was pretty worried when they initially thought she was dealing with lobular, as sometimes they end up having to remove more than initially thought when the mass has these crazy "fingers" shooting out from it. So is radiation still an option for her? I guess its always an option, but is she planning on it?
So Kalen never started on Tamoxifan, so the cyst was not a "by-product" of that drug. She is now taking Femera and doing much better than I on it.
My friend in AZ had surgery yesterday to remove her port which is where they spotted a reoccurence. She will be started yet another regimen of chemo Xeloda and Tykerb taken orally. Her path report from surgery should be complete on Thursday. We have our fingers crossed on the CMF post for some good news.
I like your gift idea for celebrating the holidays. At some point in time I'm hoping that the dh and I will agree that our gift giving is out of control, and so not what the season is all about.
Wow, were you not the Suzy Homemaker with the pumpkin bread ... Hang in there gal ... your almost to winter break!!!
Julie, are we back to work today? I know my ds will be on edge all night hoping for a snow day tomorrow, we're expected to get hit again tonight and tomorrow ... not a good day to be a truck driver!
CHJ, so your surgeries we're both on the 13th ... atleast they were not on a Friday!
Great words of advice for Norma ... figuring we'll atleast in the short term be closer to our Onc's than a our PC's, how important is that to be totally connected?
So your considering a ooph as well, would this be strictly as a preventative measure ? I was all over the idea when I assumed that chemo would have not put me into full fledge menopause. I'll be getting my hormone levels checked again next month, but I guess I'm interested in knowing if those of you thinking of the surgery have hormone levels that would indicate it might be a good thing to do. Aahh Paula, I just read that your onc also suggested the removal of the ovaries. This has peaked my interest once again.
LJ, bummer on the 180 your cat pulled ... I hope your tetanus shot didn't ache as bad as mine did a few years back, it was a doozy!
Julie, so how the heck did D1 keep her return address from appearing? I guess I should say the postage paid label with the PO typed out big as you know what!
So you asked when we "might" be heading to Peoria, IL ... at this point with the ds in a knee brace, I hate to be pessimistic but I think it will be pretty tough to come back and qualify for Nationals in July, the competition is too darn tough. I do like the thought of a JJ gathering and skate meet though on one plane ticket!!!
D1, so WTF on this med to make you feel better? Enough said ... I'll be giving you a call !
Okay ... one more question ... did they use the child needle when they did you infusion for chemo or was this for blood draws? My knickers are going to be in quite the knot come Feb when I have my Zometa infusion.
Norma, glad to hear of your US results. You know if we we're just dealing with that we'd be upset enough, but adding insult to injury for most of us this past year is just not fair.
That is just insane that your insurance co won't pony up for the bone density test. Is there a process established to challenge the denial? I think someone mentioned that maybe your onc did not request the test under the proper circumstances. I would put some effort into disputing that one.
Kris, are we drain free ???
Okay, was going to fire off a quick post, now being the one who takes forever to form her words, I probably should hit the galley, although the dh called and won't be home til 7:30 (practically my bedtime!)
A pleasant eve to all, Carol
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still have my drain and I guess I can say things are healing because I'm feeling more pains. It still seems to be draining 50cc in a 24 hr period.
I go back to see surgeon tomorrow for follow up and I seriously doubt he will pull it out. If memory serves me correctly I think the magic number was less than 30cc's.
So I seen on another thread somewhere that what D1 calls frankenboob is also referred to as a 'hamburger bun' yup, that's what I have, just no sesame seeds
. I have been trying to wear a bra to help keep some of the bun supported but damnit it hurts like hell where the drain tube is sewn in at. Oh well, one more road bump to get over.
lunch time is over, back to work.. Stay warm and dry Jewels
Kris
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We're getting all chatty again! How fun!
Sorry to be MIA. I was all in to the Megace monitoring and getting ready for Christmas. So here's my deal with the Megace. It appears that there is a period of 2-4 hours during the day that I notice my heart races a bit and that I'm short of breath after doing something like going upstairs. This starts about 4-5 hours after I take the Megace. Other than that, I'm finding I feel overly caffeinated, kinda jittery. I'm talking faster and probably too much. I haven't taken the time to call the onc with this development, as it's something I can live with. And I only have to try this for a month and then we'll take it from there. I'm hoping I'll have a few moments to call the onc before this week is out to report.
Dh was talking to a colleague of his and discovered that the guy's wife had breast cancer about 7 years ago and took Tamoxifen, too. He said that the Tamox caused his wife to have a serious depression for the entire 5 years she took the drug, but that they both believed in the power of Tamox, so they gutted it out. I cannot imagine doing that, given how low this drug is making me feel. It was, however good for my dh to hear from one of his peers how these drugs can mess you up. I just hope the Megace (or something else) works to balance out the Tamox without causing me too much weight gain (this from the woman who ate a ginormous pastrami sandwich for lunch...).
So, my bad news. Dd was rejected from Vassar. She's handling it very well (better than me, who burst into tears at the sight of the little envelope). She's putting together her strategy from here. First, Wesleyan in CT, then Pomona in CA. Then Emerson in MA (a safety school for her). After that, it looks like it's wide open. I think she's also talking about Colorado College, Emory University, Skidmore College, and in a nod to her parents' alma mater, Kalamazoo College in MI. I'm hopeful she'll also look at something in VA, since the tuition would be a bit easier on the wallet...
She did take her frustrations out a little in the basketball game immediately following the news: she had 4 fouls in about 4 minutes and ended up sitting for most of the game (still managed 2 points and 2 rebounds, so it wasn't a total shipwreck)...
Julie-how much fun is that, that I was able to fool you!!!! Glad you liked the music. I was a little shaky on it as you said you liked top 40 and country, but I figured some of the best pop/alternative songs from the last year would be acceptable. Don't you love that track by Brand New, "Fork and Knife?" Their music can tend to be a little loud and angsty for me most of the time, but they have a couple of cross-over songs (as dd would describe them) that I really like. I also like Tegan and Sara, who are twins from Canada-almost alternative folk, imo. Anyway, glad you liked it. Oh, and the peanuts are from Virginia-since it's my home, I figured they make a good "reveal" gift.
Thanks for the input on the Effexor. Believe it or not, when my onc described my options, the se's from the Megace sounded less offensive than those of Effexor! I'm hoping I can make this drug work-if I gain over 40 lbs I'll be suicidal!!!!
My college girl suffers from migraines, too. (Hey, didn't I just hear somewhere that migraine sufferers are at a reduced risk for bc? I guess you shoot that theory right out of the water.) She takes a drug called Replax (I think that's right). Sometimes it helps, sometimes it doesn't. She considers it a victory when the migraine just becomes a severe headache after her meds.
Oh, and you're crazy having all those boys over...
Carol, I'm so sorry to hear about ds' bad spill. I sure hope the injuries are quick-healing as qualifiers for Nationals will be coming up in a couple of months, won't they??
Shit, LJ, that's why I'm a dog person. (Not that my dog couldn't go all Cujo, but I doubt it.) Doesn't peroxide always foam? Not sure on that, perhaps there will be others with more knowledge weighing in. All in all, it's not a bad thing to get your tetanus up to date (although that shot can be sore for a few days-keep your arm working to minimize the soreness). Have you let kitty out of the doghouse, yet?
Aha, there's a guru with the foaming peroxide answer right there! Thanks, KathyL.
Somehow I can't imagine you going all Griswold, Paula! The lights and bows sound downright tasteful. I always thought our Christmas decorations were a little on the lame side, but dd has been lunching at friends' houses this year (seniors can go off campus for lunch and dd's gang is smart-they rotate going to each other's house so they don't have to buy their lunch), and says we have way more decorations than her pals. Who knew?
Oh, and don't feel sheepish about getting your knickers in a twist over a suspicious lump. Think of what we've been through! And then I can't help but remember how you described that you and Ed have been bouncing the poor health ball back and forth for a while... I think if anyone has a right to be anxious about health, it's you!
Isn't Williamsburg fun at Christmas time, CHJ? We went down there a few years ago to look at the decorations. When we returned I was determined to decorate my house with fruit, but I've never managed to get that together. It probably wouldn't match with my architecture, anyway...
Pumpkin cheesecake bread???? Mmmmm. Even without the appetite stimulant that sounds delicious. Does it count that I made homemade dog biscuits cut with holiday cookie cutters today? Our dog sends them out to the neighbor dogs every year so they don't sniff her butt for the rest of the year.
Snow day, Julie?! My dd would kill for a snow day. She was hoping for some ice overnight so she could have a 2 hour delay today, but no luck. She ended up skipping her first period anyway to get some sleep. Poor kid has been so stressed out about Vassar that she hasn't been sleeping well.
Ooooo, damn, Carol. The ds' knee does not sound good. How's he handling it? (And you got him 3 shots on top of it? That's just mean, Carol.)
A big ole WOOOOHOOOO for SISKathleen!!! You must all be relieved at those path reports. Is she doing rads? I'll bet a good amount that her onc will recommend Tamox since she's not doing chemo...
I think the week after July 4 weekend would be okay. There's nothing on my calendar, yet...
LOL at the subtleties of white, SISKimberly! We haven't made any progress recently, although we've talked about the fact that the next step is for the two of us to go to the tile store together...
Love your present idea. It must make you guys feel really good to do things like that.
So, damn, woman, your post is a tome! But it's so refreshing to hear your voice.
And then there's Carol, making me feel full of greed and avarice. You really don't have material things on your Christmas list? Mine was a mile long this year!
I'm not feeling Branson, MO. Sounds like schlocky dinner theater to me. Chicago can be fun (tickets to a second city performance maybe?), but may be pricey. (Although I could tack on a couple of extra days and visit my sister, who lives nearby.) Didn't someone mention San Antonio? I haven't been there in probably 30 years and I imagine the Riverwalk is all the better for the maturity. To be honest, I don't have any real strong feelings. I agree that we need to go somewhere with easy air service and a few distractions for us. Like there may be some wine, music or art festivals going on in July that could be fun to attend as a group.
I see you're still talking about your se's from Femara. Maybe you can find a drug to take to alleviate them! I know I shouldn't be the only one in the group taking 10 pills a day (yes, 10. One is a multi vitamin, another is the Tamox, but the other 8 are all things to help with the Tamox se's. Life's good!).
And I am not revealing my postal secrets. I'm not sure they always work the way I plan them, but when they do, it's fun!
Ah, the needles. During my chemo infusions I don't know if the needle was technically a child's needle or not. I've only discovered that trick since I finished chemo. I do remember them talking about how they were using the smallest they could. But I think part of the trick there was that I was extremely well-hydrated when I went in (I'm still trying to do that before IVs and blood draws now) and they put a heating pad on my arm for about 15 minutes before they even tried to insert the IV. They also spent a lot of time patting and massaging my arm before they inserted. They were very patient with me. Don't be timid in telling your nurse about your situation (I even had 2 of my onc nurses bring "Dracula" over to do the insertion because they could see the situation made me stressed and getting chemo is stressful enough, thank you very much). And then just grip the waistband on those big girl panties with your other arm...yank hard...not too hard-danger of wedgies!
Oh man, Kris. I'm sorry you still have your tube. Like I told you, be glad you have the tubes, though. They may be just the ticket for avoiding some le down the road.
Well, I hear college girl coming in the door. I'll go see what she's up to and ask if she left any gas in my car...
D1
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Let it Snow ... well I felt like a kid hoping that school would be canceled for a snow day while at work this morning. I ventured to work this morning in the snow and ice, (yes we don't get much snow around here to paralyze traffic, but with the hills it gets ugly quickly). Our jobs had all been canceled (whew), and by 10:30 the base was shut down and we we're told to head home. I don't think this has happened since 1997 in these parts. I've lit the fire, grab my wrapping paper and will try to be useful this afternoon. I'll be calling the snow-line first thing in the morning with my fingers crossed for a base closure!!! Oh how I now remember that feeling the kids have hoping for school closures!!!
Time to be domestic ... Carol
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OMG, Carol, say it ain't so! I did NOT say Warshington! ... did I? I know I've got a twang, but that's just ridiculous!
Kimberly- great news on the path report (sigh of relief).
Kris- hamburger buns? Guess that works...
speaking of hamburgers, I saw on the news that Burger King is marketing a new body scent called "Flame" that smells that burgers. I don't know about you, but I've never wanted to smell like a Whopper.
Julie- I'd say you deserved that snow day after the birthday party weekend!
D1- I'm so sorry to hear that Vassar wasn't wise enough to choose your dd. Glad she's bouncing back quickly and getting a new game plan in place. Good for her!
LOL at the doggie treats. I have a friend who has an organic doggie treat biz. I'll have to share your insights about the butt sniffing thing. You're such a wit!
I am good for the middle of July. I love Chicago, never been to San Antonio or Branson. But I'll go anywhere. Even schlocky (wtf is that?) dinner theater places, if I must...
Off to finish the laundry... later!
Paula
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Good Eve
Well I finally took tie to check in
Saw Onc last week they told me same thing as the tec said It's not ad normal to have fluid filled cyst on thyroid. They would only be worried it they were solid. WHOOO HOOO !!
Other than having pain in my right elbow prob tennis elbow I have been wearing a tension brace. This relieves the pain.
My collage gals finished finals last week. They both did very well. i am so9 very proud of them.
We had a holiday luncheon today at work I brought in mashed potatoes (about 15lbs), One lady laughed at me for making so much. I pointed out to her after everyone had finished eating. Gee look ALL the potatoes are gone.
I am officially topless now!! Today is the first time I have no worn my wig to work. My hair is about 1 1/2 ". Everyone said they liked the curly hair.
I have a vac day tomorrow. Dd's and I are going shopping.
I had a long talk again with my husband he said he is sorry and wants to try. I told him I am destroyed inside and have no feelings left.If it weren't for the cancer we would be divorced. He said well maybe that's why you got cancer.WTF He still is a smart ass.
He really got onto dd for staying in the house all day Sunday. I told him to lay off. He should be proud of her. She just finished he collage finals with a 3.5 GPA. He just laughed like a little kid.
If it were'nt for the girls being here I would spread my wings a fly away. But they ask to not be placed in the middle of this.I promised them I would not.
Take care
Carla
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Hi Gals. I've had an incredibly long week... thank God tomorrow's Friday. Ah, how can I make this short?? I need some hugs from my fellow Jewels. I started the week off Monday night with this weird visual problem where I saw flickering lights (like Xmas tree lights) in my visual periphery. Nothing else (that's the very short version, it was really weird). But it lasted oh, about an hour. Needless to say, I did see an eye doctor right away to make sure it wasn't me going blind. They found nothing and chalked it up to a "visual migraine". I never had headaches, but I'll take it as an explanation. I have follow up next week. Not so bad you say... but in the back of my mind I just wanted reaasurance it wasn't retinal detachment or a brain met. This eye doc said no to either. Fast forward to Wednesday. My last herceptin! I should be happy, but frankly I'm a bit freaked about my security blanket being removed. I also saw my onc, who was less than encouraging about my little visual episode. Right now, I'm scheduled 12/31 for a brain MRI to r/o mets. Not happy, and a little wigged out over it. Couldn't he just forget I mentioned it all?? Number one, I HATE the MRI, there's just not enough Xanax in the world to get me back in that machine. I swear I should be knocked out. And number two I'm really worried about the possibility of a brain met. I know I'm being ridiculous, but I'm frickin' scared of even the remote possibility. He spouted off some stats that I'm sure were supposed to reassure me this is just a precaution, but it didn't work. Remember, I was told when I found my original lump there was "a less than 5% chance" it was anything. So numbers don't reassure me at all. I'm trying to remain calm but it isn't working too well. Sorry to be a downer and ramble, but I know I can do it here safely, so thanks for reading this mess! I'll try and write more later.
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KathyL, borrow Carol's big girl panties and hop in the MRI. Remember, don't yank too hard or you'll have a wedgie that will have to be surgically removed. Look, you know you need to rule out anything bad and you know you'll do it (is this why I still have not called to schedule my CT scan???). You're describing a very migrainy experience (check with Julie on that for confirmation). But it's weird that you haven't had them before. Okay, but here's a thought, perhaps you're a little stressed? It's the holidays. You're ending your herceptin (YAY!). You're feeling like your security is being stripped away? Sounds stressful to me. Seriously, take a deep breath and have the MRI. The peace of mind will go a long way to eliminate those Christmas lights in your vision (either that, or it will be January soon and people will take them down...). (And don't listen to those damn stats-they get us all in to trouble.)
Carol, enjoy the snow and send on the big girl panties to KathyL. Happy wrapping!
Carla, you hang in there. And you can bring 15lbs of mashed potatoes to my house anytime and they'll be gone in a jiffy!
Got my haircut and colored today. We had to go short again because the Tamox is causing some bald spots. This drug better be good because it's fucking up my return to normalcy. Anyway, it does look better than when I was swirling it around to cover the bald areas and I really like the color. I just keep hoping it will develop some body or something. It's really fine (like newborn baby hair) and has no curl or anything (except at the nape of my neck where it curls out like wings. Attractive.). Life is good.
We're down to one car since mine is in the shop and dh is off on a biz trip. Tomorrow should be fun as college girl has to be at work at 6a, dd to school by 8:15, then I have to get to my gym, work out for an hour and a half and get back to pick college girl up from work by 11a. After that, I'm hoping to hop in my machine for an hour, shower, and then head out for some last minute shopping before picking up dd at 3p. I sure hope my car will be fixed and ready to pick up on Saturday. Oh, and I have to find some time to do a few errands to get ready for the Booster snack bar tomorrow night. Like I said, life is good.
Guess I should turn in (even though it's only 9:30) as 5:30 will come early tomorrow (oh man, I just realized, I'll probably have to be up at 5 to be sure college girl gets her sorry ass outta bed...)
D1
Oh, Tina, we have lefse here every year, although my mil has to make it. My dh is totally Scandinavian (mostly Norge) and we eat it at all the holidays. Guess that explains part of the reason I'm such a Vikings fan! (Can you believe they're on top of their division? The Bears have a better schedule for the remainder o f the season, but it won't stop me from donning my Vikings sweatshirt-the one with the holes in the armpits-and cheering like a mad woman!)
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Kathy, you said it gal ... a MRI to "RULE OUT" mets. Any chance you can get it done sooner than New Year's Eve (possible cancelation list), as the waiting game ends up being the worst part? If we could only hang on Paula's words of "not borrowing trouble" to calm our anxieties. Boy I think most of us have had that feeling of completing txts, then thinking "now what"? Warm hugs sister friend.
Paula, OMG I totally was not making fun of your accent ... I was just being goofy in my own little world as I would refer to WA with an "R". I could listen to your "twang" for hours!
Cracked me up with the Whopper comment!!!
Carla, YEAH for going topless ... I think your one of our last to ditch the coverings. Sounds like you have a couple of great daughters to be very proud of. In due time you will know when it will be the right time to address your relationship with your DH, and make the appropriate move.
D1, First off ... have you seen/heard from Tina? I don't think that I've seen a post since last summer from her. In fact I was thinking of her today as I recieved a very cool SP gift postmarked from Minneapolis ,,, Hmmmm????
How's the dd's mood after letting her news sink in for a couple days about Vassar? I take it she has a game tomorrow night, hopefully she'll stay out of foul trouble early on, and then shine on.
So no comment on a Megace se's today ... are we handling it better with each dose?
Aahh, thanks for the reminder of heating up my arm prior to getting poked ... I will be asking for that come Feb, this last go around I could not have been any more hydrated. I started two days before sucking down water, and was still hitting it when I walked in the door for my appt. I really think that my right arm has always had the bigger veins. Time to start beefing up my left arm!
Kris, a hamburger bun ??? Remind me, but have you opted for no recon? I thought you had, and I don't know about you, but I'd be tickled to have a bun shaped chest at this point. I've not got even a pinch of loose skin in my chest ... in fact I freaked myself out months ago as I was rubbing my chest and felt something ... ends up they we're my ribs. I had not felt them since prior to puberty!!!
Off to take my stuffy head cold to bed ... looks like we're back to work tomorrow, icy roads and all.
Thinking of you Kathy as I sign off this evening ... Carol
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real quick lunch break post
D1 I hear ya about the hair wings, I call mine a ducks ass... but hey, it's hair !!!!
Kathy hang in there, I agree out of all the lab rat tests that have been done, the MRI was the worse, but DO IT!!!!!!
Carol, I have not had recon........yet. Maybe eventually I will, see my surgeon left the 'fatty' stuff when he took out the breast tissue, so I have a little bit of sag there, hence the hamburger bun.
I still have the drain in, when it gets below 30cc's then I can call them to go get it out. This one seems to be taking longer to stop draining and their theory is that being on chemo/steriods for all that time, is still making my body heal slower than normal.. sounds logical to me.
I also found out that I can use my left arm for blood and BP checks even though they took out 7 nodes. It's not the number they remove, but the place that they are removed from.
whopper fragrance....Where's the Beef !?! (heehee remember that commercial?)
k ,back to work
Happy Friday Jewels.......
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Hi Jewels,
I hope everyone is well. We had a snow day today and thought about the Jewels.
On December 4, my mother passed away peacefully in her sleep. She was in the nursing home since last February and suffered from rectal cancer and dementia. Hospice has helped our family through all this. The funeral service was beautiful with my cousin giving the eulogy that had us in tears with good memories of mom. I know she is in a better place now. She will be missed by many.
D1 - thanks for the Christmas card. It was so thoughtful of you. I'm so sorry about your dd not getting into Vassar. They are fools!! I'm also disappointed for me. I thought we would be meeting up again.
I would be interested in a get together but my school year doesn't end until the last week of June. How about Las Vegas for the location?
I hope everyone is doing well with holiday preparations. My family are all coming to my house. It will be hard but we'll get through it.
Joan
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Not much time but just wanted to jump in and offer a "reassurance" to Kathy!! What you described sounds EXACTLY like an "ocular migraine" -- you don't typically have the actual headache pain with them, but more like spots that move all over and sometimes are only in one area of your vision. I don't get them often, but have had them -- the first one I had, I ended up in the ER, thinking I was having a stroke!! Mine almost always last about an hour to an hour and a half. I've had a few since and they are very disturbing. Hang in there, dear.... I'm sure it's difficult to wait for your MRI, but it really sounds a lot like the "oculars" I've had.
We finished finals today and now I'm crazy busy trying to get everything done before my nip surgery on Tuesday! Thinking of you all!!
SP - you rock!! I can't wait to listen to the CD's you sent and LOVE the penguin snowglobe!!!
Love and hugs to all -- I'll try to check in and catch up later this weekend.
Julie
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Kathy - I agree with the others. Of course you should get it checked out. However, I get those pseudo-migraines once or twice a month also. I get the "swimmy eyes", followed by some queasiness but without the headache part. I used to get the screaming headaches also, but don't get them anymore, for which I'm thankful. But I did freak out when I first started to get them, until I read something that described it to a T.
Joan - sorry to hear about your mom. It sounds like it's been a difficult time, but glad you have the good memories.
I do agree with Joan about Vegas - that's the one place I might be able to get dh to come to! Of course it's hot hot hot in the summer, but there are plenty of places to cool off.
I'm ready for Christmas. Most of my preparations consist of mailing packages to somewhere else, and that's all done. So we're in for a nice, quiet week that I'm looking forward to.
Lots going on in here! I still have a hard time keeping up... Hope you all have a wonderful holiday season!
CHJ
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Happy Saturday Morning,
Well we're off to the big city "Seattle for us" to watch some college hoops. Our #8 Gonzaga team (from the eastern part of the state) will be taking on #2 UConn at the arena that our Seattle Sonics "used" to play at. Thank goodness we have one team left in the state worthy of supporting!!!
This afternoon we're expected to get between 6 to 16" of snow and wind to accompany it. Looks like it might be an interested evening.
I'm so glad that a couple gals could hopefully ease Kathy's concerns and offer her some much needed support. God it's great to have this as a place to share and receive a vitual hug when needed. Speaking of hugs ... Joan I'm sending one as I type.
Out the door to catch a ferry ... Carol
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Joan, I'm really sorry about your mom. I'm glad when her time came is was peaceful and quiet ... that's about the most any of us could hope for.
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Hello There
I took a fall down the steps Sat. morn thank god I did not break anything. Just have a stiff neck and bruised arm. A friend told me to be very careful because your bones are very brittle from the chemo and rads..
I received a nice voice mail at work from a customer..He said, "we just finished our morning prayers and was thinking of you. Wanted to wish you a Merry Christmas and to remind me I have a lot to be thankful for.
Got a nice gift from my SP Good cookies and very nice desk calender. I know there was a reason for not getting one on Friday when I went shopping.
Well better go...Going to make some raisin filled cookies this am
Take care
Carla
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Okay, the whole holiday prep thing is crazy. Last year I was so distracted that my stress was over totally different stuff (like starting chemo 2 days after Christmas, maybe?). So what's my excuse this year? I feel like I'm running in circles...
Yes, Carol, I got a card from Tina. And from several other Jewels-thanks gang. My dh will look at them at say, who's WVgirl? Who's She-she? I think he's finally figuring out that we're all including our screen names in our cards so we know who they're from! (And he's jealous that I'm getting so many cards this year, he he.)
Dd is really over Vassar (I was surprised at how quickly she moved on). It helped that yesterday she heard from Lewis & Clark in Portland, OR, that she has been accepted. They've even offered her a renewable $8500 annual scholarship for her community service record (I KNEW there was a reason I made my kids do community service-my older daughter was granted a scholarship to one school acknowledging her service, too). L&C was her safety school, so now she's more relaxed and is moving on to the next round of schools. She applied to Wesleyan University in CT yesterday (this is her 2nd choice). Next up is Pomona College in CA (#3), Emerson College in Boston, and Occidental College in LA. All of these deadlines are right around Jan. 1, so she spent yesterday working on the essays for their supplements. I think there will be another batch that will go out for Jan. 15 deadlines, but that list seems to be fairly fluid right now. The good news is, she WILL go to college!
The Megace seems only to give me the jitters. I haven't noticed any relief from the hot flashes, but I did sleep through the night last night without an Ambien, so I'm interested to try again tonight to see what happens. My mood is a bit cheerier, but I'm not sure if it's the drug or the fact that it's almost Christmas. I really hate all the pills I take, though. I think once I run out of the herbal supplements I'm on to help with the hot flashes, I won't replenish. They're not helping, anyway.
I got my duck's ass clipped off the other day, Kris. In fact, my gal trimmed it up pretty short as we're trying to camouflage the fact that I have several areas that aren't growing in at all (thank you Tamox!). Not to mention the fact that this new hair has absolutely no body (where are the curls that were advertised as a benefit of chemo??) and is baby, baby fine, so it resists attempts at styling. Guess I'll just have really short hair for a few more years...
Hang in there with the drains, gf. I know I've said it before, but they could be helping you avoid some more serious complications down the road...
Joan, I'm so sorry to hear about your mom. I know she's been ill for a while, so her peace must be comforting for you. I know having family around for the holiday will be a challenge, but with your mom's passing, it will undoubtedly be nice to be surrounded by so much love.
I, too, am disappointed in Vassar. I was excited about the prospect of visiting with you and Maz occasionally. We'll have to catch up at our reunion. And Las Vegas? What about that, Jewels????
I'm jealous that you were able to get your stuff mailed out, CHJ. I went to the post office yesterday to find a line that some were saying was an hour and a half long! Since I was just mailing out my international cards, I walked out. I figured they'll be just as happy to get a card from me AFTER Christmas. Now there's the bah-humbug spirit!!!
Nicely said, LJ.
Dang, Carla, be more careful on the stairs, girl! And what a great message from your customer. That would be all I'd need for Christmas (plus all the material shit on my list...).
I'm feeling caught up-oh, other than to tell my SP that I started spending the iTunes money. I bought a few Melissa Etheridge songs to round out my collection. Thanks!!!!
Happy last few shopping days... (I don't think any Jewels celebrate Hanukkah, do they? If I'm missing someone, Happy Hanukkah!)
D1
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Quick reply D1 - that's the advantage to living in a little one-horse town. I went to the P.O. on Friday to mail one last package, and there was no one else in there!!
Sorry to rub it in... And you are right - dh and I keep reminding ourselves what it was like at this time last year. We were totally stressed out, I was recovering from surgery and dreading chemo, we were trying (unsuccessfully at that point) to sell our house. We didn't put up our tree, and did very little decorating. It was a very low time for us. It's just so much nicer this year!
CHJ
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Happy Sunday,
Here we sit this morning looking out at more than 8" of snow. For us, this is quite an event. We're down at sea level, so I'm sure that the hills got nailed with more (yep the ds called from his dad's house they have a foot). The dh shoveled a trail for the "wieners" to find grass without high siding their bellies! Looks like we're expected to get a few more inches throughout the next few days. Can we say "White Christmas"???? Being procrastinators this year, the dh and I will be venturing out today (hoping the stores are going to be open), to finish up our shopping.
I give Las Vegas two thumbs up for a reunion site. Prices might be decent as well if the summer months are considered non-peak for the area (it would be hotter than heck) but IMO that is why they invented AC and pools!
CHJ, wow what a difference a year makes!!! I am laughing a bit at myself though this morning as I type ... last year at this time I was probably sitting just like this surfing the net for every ounce of information on BC, from path reports to chemo and beyond. Now twelve months later I'm still logging on to BC.org but in a much different capacity. Here I sit reading from a group of women I've never met (except Kimberly), truly interested in knowing how/what they are doing. Who'da thunk???
D1, hey you know if the dd heads to Portland and mom feels the need to visit I'm only a "quick" 3 hour drive away. You'd be too jealous if your dh got to see your dd while on biz out west!
So your spinning in circles with the holidays, I'm pathetically unorganized. This is the second year in a row that I havn't mustered up X-mas cards, heck I usually would be so done with everything. This morning we have tried to come up with a game plan, we are entertaining family on both X-mas day and on the 26th. Thankfully X-mas eve is at the sil/bil's and I'm only tasked with making a spinach salad for 18. The good news is that my most favorite president gave us the 26th off as a holiday!!! As my dh always say's "it will work out", I'm actually kind of falling into that mindset ... hmmm ... not such a bad thing after all, from a gal who can get her knickers in a knot too darn easy.
Too cool that you've heard from Tina, over the last few months I had been wondering about her and was hoping that all is well.
Carla, whew gal ... we don't need any broken bones. Hopefully your not too sore. Yeah on the SP gift!
Joan, so sorry to read of your mother's passing. There never seems like a good time to deal with a loss but hopefully having family together for the holidays will help ease some of the sadness. May many fond memories of her be held close to your heart.
Kris, aahh hence the hamburger bun. Boy your quite the drainer gal !!! So is All Kris Want's For Christams is Her Drain Out"????
Okay, just tried to take some pics of the "kids" in the snow ... I know some of you are laughing at me as we get so excited with this small amount of snow in comparison to what many of you are used to ... bear with me !!!
And "the big kid" with the wieners !!!
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Joan- Just read about your mother's death. I am sorry for your loss.
Kathy- my first thought on reading your symptoms was migraine-- I have a friend who has the ocular kind (and I see Julie has had them, too). I hope this gives you some reassurance. Hang in there!
Julie- in case I don't get here tomorrow, know that I'll be thinking of you Tuesday as you get nipped!
CHJ- good for you, having all the shopping finished! Hope your weekend was relaxing. We don't have to worry about the lines here, either. Small towns do have some perks, eh?
Carol- those pups are so adorable! Seattle's weather made the news here-- primarily the bus collision with the two buses hanging off a bridge. I'd have needed some clean undies if I'd been on that bus!
I watched part of the Gonzaga vs UConn game yesterday. Your team played well, gave Conn. a run for their money.
Carla- be careful out there, WVgirl! Glad you weren't seriously injured.
Oh and congrats to your college girls for the good grades!
D1- you mentioned getting your hair colored. Are you still a blonde? I hear you on the curls. Nothing here but a few annoying bends and flips and a cowlick in the crown.
Kris- surely you're too young to remember "where's the beef"?! Seems like that was so long ago...
There was a spoof on the Burger King "Flame" in our paper today. There's a website called www.firemeetsdesire.com which is hilarious. Click on the body spray a few times and it goes to the burger king dude lying on a bear rug in front of a fire with nothing on but a blanket across his... whopper!
My "cancerversary" was yesterday. The day was almost over before I noticed the date and realized... it wasn't something I wanted to celebrate anyway...
Two more school days and then we have a break until January 5th. Nice!
I'll be back soon... Paula
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8:00 pm and it's been snowing again ... just came back in from taking the dogs for a walk around the block ... I've got everything possible crossed for a closed naval base tomorrow and a extended weekend ! We're looking at atleast a foot of snow at our house (sea level) so I can only imagine what it would be like over at my work (UGH). We ventured out this afternoon, ended up no further than the local Starbucks and "The Walmart", whoo-hooo !!! Off to bed just in case my 5:00am wakeup for work is needed ... gosh I hope not!
Happy Monday to ya all ... Carol
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Paula, looks like we posted at the same time ... Wow so the Gonzaga game was on National TV. I knew it was broadcasted on CBS but I kinda thought it was only a west coast feed. The darn "Zags" had um until that final shot in reg with 7 seconds left. Once OT started they sucked as a couple of the top dogs fouled out. We headed out the door with 2 min left in OT to catch a ferry home to the peninsula since it had already began to snow.
That bus mishap made me sick to my stomach just watching the coverage on the tube. What the heck those bus driver's we're thinking is beyond my comprehension. The hills in the downtown area of Seattle are very steep, some look like a down hill ski jumper's delight! What a lucky thing that nobody was seriously injured.
Hang in there ... winter break is just around the corner for you !!!
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Carol - your puppies are adorable! There's almost nothing cuter than a dog romping in snow. The snow seems to have bypassed us here, though it was 11 degrees outside this morning.
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Good Morning Jewels,
What a whirlwind…this past week seems to have been one event after another…
OK, I’m going to admit something here…I am NOT in the holiday spirit. I used to love Christmas with the shopping for the perfect gift, the wrapping with care and flair, and all the trappings of the holiday. However, for the past few years, and this year especially, I’ve felt rushed and ‘forced’ into the spirit like it was a chore, another thing that had to get done. It has become more about commercialism, like so many of our American holidays, than about just enjoying being with family and friends, and being grateful for what really matters. Sorry, don’t mean to put a BahHumbug into the Christmas pudding, I just needed to let it out.
OK, I feel a bit better…and in keeping with my feelings, let me say that there is nothing that could be put under my Christmas tree or in my stocking that could bedazzle me more than the love, friendship, and support that I’ve found with each of you…such an unexpected gift.
Speaking of gifts…I got a fabulous gift from my SP. Two Christmas CD’s. One of George Winston and the other Michael Buble. I’m so popping that one in right now. If he can’t get me into the spirit…no one can. Heehee. Thanks SP.
Carol, July 14, 15, 16 sounds great to me. Let’s lock in the date and come up with a mid-continent location ladies…Branson, Missouri…my twinsis’ boyfriend (every time she hears him sing, she say, ‘There’s my boyfriend’) has a theater there…Andy Williams. Have to admit I love him, too. Remember the Andy Williams Christmas specials? But, I’m with D1 on Branson…I envision lots of grey hair and people way over 60 there. San Antonio sounds fabulous to me.
Speaking of the twinsis, she’ll do rads only if they can keep it localized to the site rather than full breast rads…at least that what she said last time we spoke. She has not met with Dr. Dutton yet, so I don’t know.
Snow Day!!!! How fun…once you got home that is. It has been cold enough here to snow, but only in the foothills and mountains has it actually snowed. Got some rain yesterday, and today it’s over cast.
How’s the head cold? I am shocked that I haven’t gotten sick with so many kids and adults around me getting sick the past few months.
WOW, look at all that snow!!!! Great pics of the wieners and Kent.
Kris- Yep, the magic number is 30cc’s…and no wonder you’re draining so much being back to work and probably working that arm way too much.
LOL on the hamburger bun comment. So, is that because you’ll be doing reconstruction and needed the skin?
Was there a pun intended on the ‘road bump’ comment? I cracked up…and then again, it could totally just be me. HaHaha
D1- FUSE…that is all I have to say about Tamox and Megace…but hopefully, in the next few months, you’ll find the right balance. Thankfully, your dh has heard from someone else who has been there, done that.
LOL about the pastrami sandwich comment and gaining weight.
I’m wondering about mood swings and weight gain with the ooph and hysterectomy. I’ll be googling that before my appointment today at 3pm with the OBGYN.
I’m sorry dd didn’t get into Vassar. It does appear, however, that she’s got lots of other options.
Homemade Doggie treats…how festive. Does that bribe work?
Today I made a gingerbread loaf. The pumpkin bread was a huge success.
I think you and I are in a dead heat on writing tomes. Hee Hee I actually had to look that up. Thanks for teaching me a new word.
I got my hair cut short again,too. Not because I need to,but because I like it short. The top is too short, but that’s OK, it will grow out, but until then, I’ve got the Alfalfa thing going on…thank goodness for gel. I just spike it all up so no one is the wiser.
Paula – I heard that too. That has to be a marketing gimmick and not a serious body scent, right? NPR’s Wait Wait Don’t Tell Me did a hysterical discussion on that yesterday.
Carla – 15 pounds of potatoes???? That is a lot, but in winter, it’s a comfort food…a must have on the feast table. Glad it was gone at the end of the meal…of course, leftovers can be turned into potato pancakes. It also is a great addition to cream based soups as a substitute for the cream.
So, what is keeping you there with a man that says things like you’re responsible for giving yourself cancer. WTF is right!!!! If the girls are in college and young adults, you’ve done your job raising them. How would taking care of yourself be putting the girls in the middle? They would have a choice to live with you, their dad, or on their own since they’re in college.
Are you still going to your counseling sessions?
Post a new pic of the new do, Carla.
Ouch…just read about your fall. Glad it was only a bruise.
What a nice call from your customer…that’s what the holiday is all about.
Kathy- Oh man, I am so sorry to hear about your visual episode, but I have to believe that this is just a precaution. I get that weird visual thing every now and again, but it happens after too much caffeine for me. I totally understand the freak out session you’re having. I too wonder when I have odd pains, like in my left thigh, if it’s mets, bone mets. I don’t even want to think about it, but it’s there in the back of my head. However, with that said…listen to our dear leader extraordinaire…the peace of mind will go a long way once they rule out mets…stress sounds like a very likely candidate. We are right here, Kathy, holding your hand, giving you hugs, and if needed pulling up those big girl panties for you…gently of course, not too high. LOL
Joan, glad to hear from you. I am so sorry to hear about your Mom. Peacefully in her sleep is a good way to go…I know that she’ll be right there with the rest of the family at Christmas. Be well…take time to take care of yourself.
Jules – All I want for Christmas are my two front nips…my two front nips…OK, I know, where else would they be but in the front, but it sprang into my head and got stuck there.
I just gave mid-terms. I gave kids that chance to correct errors for ½ credit using notes or their texts , not each other, during class time after I passed the tests back...I figure it’s a learning opportunity to be able to figure out why they missed the answer to a question. Even kids who passed with above a C had that opportunity. Anyway, most improved their grade a full grade, but some didn’t take it very seriously. I don’t get it!!!! I would have loved to have that chance in school.
CHJ- Nice getting all the gifts shipped off and having nothing but a quiet week to look forward to with your dh and the cats…anyone else?
We have family coming up tomorrow for Greg’s 50th birthday…speaking of which, Happy bday to Cathy Ca on that day, too. Then they’ll be here until Friday. We’ll travel to Folsom for Christmas Eve, then have the whole family over Christmas Day. Tonight we have a get together with friends at their house with a bunch of people. Busy…I’m looking forward to Friday afternoon when it will quiet down here.
Ok, I’m caught up and need to download the paperwork for my appointment this afternoon. I’ll let you know what I find out later…I’ve got plans in the morning with Kath, so maybe before I leave for Folsom. Have to leave hear by 7:15am…if not, I’ll login on the 24th.
SIS Kimberly
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Hi Jewels,
Thanks for your kind words of condolences for my mother. I really appreciate it and it means a lot.
Carol - those puppies are so cute! Lucy kinda likes the snow but its been so cold and so much snow! Its supposed to warm up tomorrow.
Kimberly - I know what you mean about Christmas becoming so commercial. I'm trying to cut down this year. I have done a lot of decorating and that helps. I bought these cute animated penguin carolers - they sing Christmas songs and old time songs.
The reunion does not necessarily have to be in the middle of the country. Actually, that might wind up costing more in airfares. Vegas could be cheaper! Go figure. But I am interested in going if I can.
Joan
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Just have to jump in for a couple of comments then back to work.
Carol - Cutest babies (except mine of course
) So cute in the snow.
D1 - Thanks for much for the Christmas card. It came at a really good time to cheer me up. I like SisKimberly am struggling a little with the Christmas spirit this year. Maybe because it was yanked out from under me last year, I don't know. It did help that I wrapped up some care packages for my neighbors (grown) kids who have been struggling, and a couple of gifts for them too. Made me feel good.
Music alert for you - check out Snow Patrol if you haven't already. I have found so many new music interests through you. Hope this is one for you. I love their new song "Chasing Cars" and was very surprised to see how long they have been around.
I really hope to be able to catch up since I am off for the holiday starting tomorrow. It will be good to have quiet time.
To everyone.........
Merry Merry Christmas!
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