Hats, Scarves & Wigs
I've bought some beautiful hats from http://www.headcovers.com but I am still looking for some good scarves! http://www.tznius.com has full coverage headscarves but I don't like the shiny silver or gold stripes. http://www.cjhats.com has some great stuff but what I really want is real scarves.
Cotton, all one color, maybe one color batik, 36" wide square?
I've done Google searches everywhere with no luck.
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I have been buying a yard of my favorite fabric and cutting it to make scarves. most of my outfits now have matching scarves!
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Hi Fllorik ~
How did you finish the edges? I think maybe I have to do this too!
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I made oodles of scarves for myself--just used up my big fabric stash (see, I KNEW it would come in handy someday! LOL). I have a serger, so I used that to put a nice little rolled hem/finished edge on. You can use a satin/zig-zag stitch on the sewing machine and achieve a similar effect--you would need to use either a special over-edging foot or just carefully cut away the edge after stitching very close to it. (It's a bit late--I hope what I am saying is making sense!)
I found that eBay has LOTS of scarves, hats, etc. If you search for a "HIJAB", you will find some islamic (?) head coverings that can work well and are really quite inexpensive. Many are made out of "slippery" material, but you can get an "underscarf" that would help keep it from slipping. I just ordered a very pretty ruffle-edged hijab a couple of days ago. I'm excited to see if it will stay put on my head because it really is lovely!
(((HUGS)))
Diane -
I might add that I used zig zag scissors for the first cut then zig zag the stitching....
I found that using the additional under scarf makes my head too hot.
Good will is good for scarves too
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thanks!
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I have found all of my scarves in easy places. I found a really beautiful rectangular cotton scarf that is blue and gold at Ross for 8.00. I also found a solid color cotton scarf at Old Navy. They have loads of them and they are a great size. Surprisingly I also found some really pretty cotton scarves at Payless Shoe Source. I like the cotton ones better than the silk as well, and I generally find that the rectangular are better than the square-easier to wrap. Good luck!
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this tip came to me from another survivor. Believe it or not; try large dinner napkins. Get the really fancy, all cotton dinner napkins. They already have the rolled edge and they are large enough. While the good ones are expensive, they are less expensive than buying scarves.
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I've bought some 100% silk scarves that they call "wild rags", they can be found in western wear catalogs and stores, generally will measure 35 inches square. The ones I picked up are a nice jaquard weave but I've seen all kinds of prints and patterns. The colors are beautiful and there is a wide variety available.
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I know this may sound funny, but I found some lovely scarves at the local welding supply store, apparently the welders wear them under thier helmets, some had beautiful flowers and one had a carribean theme...lol... just an idea...
MB
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Hey, lots of posts on here! This is great! I started this thread and am only now coming back to it!
I bought three scarves on anokhiusa.com. Kind of expensive but very nice patterns and colors.
I also realized the Cozy Caps from Headcovers.com are great multi-use hats. They are comfy enough for around the house and napping, but you can dress them up with scarves or pins and they look like bucket hats. Very versatile and pretty. I got them in a number of basic colors like brown, navy, etc. and dress up these thangs - so cute. You can also wear them loose or roll up the cuff or even double it up if you like that look. They're cotton too so not too hot. Can wear as a night hat also.
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New places for hats!!! Kind of surfing for quite a number of weeks. Not seeing anything new ~ until tonite!!!
http://www.hatagories.com
If you're on a budget, you can select the hats from $50 and under LOL.http://chichairoptions.com
Not the greatest site, but some wonderful hats!!! I like the Diana hat with the flower ... -
SCARVES, COTTON, SQUARE, 35 to 45 inches
I have spent many happy hours recently on the internet finding and spending too much money on scarves. The websites of dealers I have personally found reliable and prompt are listed below. Others where I have found problems are not included in my list below. Problems included not keeping websites updated, slow delivery, substituted items, etc. If you are uncertain, call by telephone to make sure of availability, etc.
My recommendations are the larger square cotton scarves, 40 to 45 inches, because the long diagonal folded edge can be rolled several times to add a wider flattering band around the side of the face.
The larger scarves folded into a triangle can also be double-wrapped around the head and tied in the front. Then you then flip the original folded edge over to cover the tied ends of the knot. This adds additional flattering bulk around the edge of the face. This is like the scarf-tying technique described on the Tznius webpage as The Jeruslam:
www.tznius.com/cgi-bin/tying.pl
You can insert a thin foam rubber strip inside the diagonal fold before rolling to add more bulk and width. It helps keep the scarf on, and adds. Use 1/2 inch thick foam rubber, 2 inches or less wide, 18 inches long. Taper the long ends to a point and bevel the square edges. Make the edges irregular shaped. Get cream-colored foam rubber from fabric and craft stores. Dark gray foam rubber comes from hardware/home-improvement stores sold as insulation and weather stripping, which needs to be cut to 1/2 inches thick.
WEBSITES
35-in wood block hand-printed cotton scarves (and rectangles), as well as solids from Anokhi USA. Have seen these in wig shops.
www.anokhiusa.com/index.html
45-inch rayon thin bandana-style scarves. Call to make sure of availability and to get the quantity discount. Also very educational high-end wig website.
www.savvysheitels.com/
43-inch solid color cotton squares, but they seem to be sold out of most colors at present:
www.tznius.com/
MUSLIM HIJAB SCARVES: There is a fashion craze among Muslim women for scarves, called hijabs. Use the word hijab in your searches and you will find a huge number of sites, but I have found that not all are dependable after ordering. If you love a particular item and are not sure, call them by telephone since they may not be keeping their website updated.
40-inch cotton voile scarves in large number of floral prints. AngoraShop ships by mail directly and promptly from Turkey, and you will need to sign a delivery receipt. Fun exotic shopping experience.
www.angorashop.com/main.php
37-inch and 40-inch animal print and batik-like prints, cotton voile from Al-Muminat. Very good service.
www.al-muminat.com/cotton-square-hijabs-c-21_48.html
The StarScarves site was recommended by, and I found their service exemplary. An inter-cultural adventure. Only polyester georgette scarves (square hijabs), but many short cotton under scarves that are sometimes beaded, and some interesting Turkish beaded turbans that seem to sell out from this site very fast.
www.starscarves.com/index.html
TLC Direct, a division of the American Cancer Society has 35 inch scarves, caps, etc.
www.TLCdirect.org
Headcovers.com also has 35 inch cotton scarves, caps, etc.
www.HeadCovers.com
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I am finding it difficult to keep my arm raised to tie the scarfs. Do you know of any sites with pre- tied scarves? I might just have to keep with hats and wigs. but I love to wear scarves!
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Anokhi makes solid color scarves in 30 inch square.
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www.chichairoptions.com carries a large selection of pre-tied scarves in many fabrics.
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I had some beaubeaus that were beautiful ( www.4women.com ) and some hats from headcovers.com, but what I found I wore the most and felt the most comfortable in were the skull caps from sparklingearth.com. The price was right, the prints were fun, they could be tied to adjust to my larger than average head, and since I was bald during the summer the terry cloth lining along the forehead was a nice touch. They are biker wear evidently, but were perfect for me. I'm not to coordinated, so just having to tie the tails was about as complicated as I could go.
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Thought I'd add to this post...
revkat: I loved the fabric used for the skull caps from sparkling earth. Thanks for the link for ideas. I found a pattern on the Internet that looks like these skull caps. I've made 2 and although the pattern takes some figuring out, once you get the hang of it you can sew one in about 15 minutes. I love the middle piece on the hat that makes it look like a "biker's hat" and not the typical chemo hat. The pattern photos don't do it justice. They do look like the biker's hats from sparkling earth. Here's the pattern.
I also raided my local fabric store and bought 1 metre lengths of cotton in different colours. I've been at my sewing machine sewing the ends to make my own 36" scarves. This is my good week so I hope to have a ready selection for next week when I go back for more chemo.
Cheryl in Toronto
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Cheryl, that's a neat pattern. Amazing the things you can find online! I would guess it could be made in something nice and soft and fuzzy for cooler temps too.
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I bought several plastic headbands (like kids wear), and insert one into the scarf before putting on. It helps keep them in place, and you would feel if it was slipping.
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I decided to stop wearing scarves even though I love them. I am now onto wigs. They can sometimes be itchy but overall it's fun!
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My goodness, I wish this thread had been around last spring and summer, when I was bald-bald. Since I had decided not to buy a wig, I was dependent on scarves, caps, and hats.
I did hear back then about some of the websites mentioned here. They have beautiful scarves I never would have discovered otherwise.
I also took advantage of the fabric section at our local WalMart and bought lots and lots of 1-yard pieces of pretty, lightweight cotton. I figured I would cut and hem them into fantastic scarves.
Most of the scarves I found in department stores were way too small--they didn't provide enough coverage in back. One unexpected source of lots of nice, large scarves was antique stores and "flea markets" (without the fleas).
I ended up buying way more scarves, hats, and fabric, than I ever wore. I thought the time would go by so slowly, but it really has been fast. Once I had about an inch of new hair, I started going without a headcover.
Great thread!
otter
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Thanks otter. It never occurred to me to by fabric. I wish I could find a pattern for the Buea Buea's. Not sure the spelling is correct.
Renee
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Okay, I just looked at the beuabeuas....can somebody who acutally has one tell me what is different from it than a regular scarf? I'm trying to understand the price?????????
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Lisa, BeuasBeuas (TM) appear to be a particular brand of pre-tied scarves available from http://www.4women.com/. You could buy one and dissect it to make your own pattern.
ALTERNATIVE to either BeausBeaus (TM), the many other wonderful pre-tied and constructed scarf-look-a-likes (called "ladies skull caps") at www.sparklingearth.com, or the pattern that Mason204 suggested found at http://www.sewersforum.com/photogal/cancercap.pdf is the following:
WRAP A WEDGE OF 1/2 INCH THICK FOAM RUBBER into one corner of a 30 to 45 inch scarf as you roll it, before you tie it around your head.
Actually, I suggested this in my first post, but want to elaborate here. The advantage is that there is no sewing. FURTHERMORE, when you take the scarf off with the foam rubber insert, it stays in place, keeping its roll and back tie in place, and you can pop it on again as though it were a pre-tied sewn skull cap.
INSTRUCTIONS: Get foam rubber insulation from a hardware store, like Home Depot, under the brand name "Frost King." Can get it from some fabric craft stores, but you would have to look for it. Cut it in half with good scissors so you have a long piece only about 1/2 inch wide, instead of the 1 inch thick square strip that it comes in. Cut a length about 18 inches long, Then, taper the 2 ends to a point. Also, round off the square edges along the long sides by snipping (like a beveled mirror)>
Place this wedge along one corner of the square scarf. Roll the scarf with the foam wedge inside. Scruntch some extra fabric into the foam/fabric tube while you are rolling to make a slight gathered effect.
Tie around your head. The foam rubber roll adds thickness to your forhead and the sides of your face which is very flattering. There is no annoying peak at the top that shows your bare forhead.
It also keeps the scarf in place just like adding the plastic headband like someone else suggested. AND, you do not have to tie the scarf as tight to keep it in place.
The deal breaker is the fact that you can lift this off your head, and every thing stays in place, and you can just pop it on again. If you want, you could probably hand-sew with a very few stitches the whole thing after you get the look you want after taking it off your head.
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Thanks Mara-the-Cat. I have looked at the site for beaubeaus. I'm trying to justify the cost. I sew and can't understand what makes them so special, so I wanted to hear from people who have one...are they lined, etc. Just curious!
Thanks
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Lisa, I sent you a pm.
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If you ladies want FREE hats go to www.heavenlyhats.com.....This site was established by a teenage boy whose mother had cancer and needed hats.....They are FREE to anyone needing hats...They will send you about 6 or 7 very nice hats.....I got some when I thought I was doing chemo .....Ended up not having chemo so I gave them to my oncologist's office to give to those who needed them ...Hugs...Lucy
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The beausbeaus sure have nice fabric, but I doubt I can explain the cost just for fashion! I've got to look into the Turkey website, looks like they have great fabrics.
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I just bought 2 sleep caps off a woman on etsy. She has great reviews on both etsy and ebay. The caps were only $6 each as opposed to $20-25 that I saw them marked for at the store at the hospital.
So, anyone looking for sleep caps, I'd suggest shopping online!
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After losing my hair twice while on chemo and never finding an appropriate head scarf, I designed an elastic-backed no-tie scarf that is comfortable and concealing. I donate these through my doctor's office and have also made them available in solid colors, prints, and a reversible (one side print, the other solid) version at http://riseaboveit.etsy.com/
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