MY POEM TO ALL OF YOU

Princess1214
Princess1214 Member Posts: 19
edited June 2014 in Prayers and Spiritual Support

Hello Everyone,

I've been reading posts for a few days now and I felt moved to write this poem for all of you wonderful women and men out there.  I admire how everyone on these boards inspire, encourage, and support each other. You are also a wealth of information for those people who are new to all that is being thrown at them and sending their heads a spinning.I only wish that I had discovered this site when my beloved mother and sister were going through their cancer battles (I've lost both of them).  Anyway, I was moved deep down in my soul and I thought I would write this for all of you.  My love and prayers to each and every one of you as you go through this very tough journey.

Angel Postings

 

I've been reading a lot of message boards these days

There are women who are in crisis mode in so many ways

These women are like you and me happy and healthy as can be

With children and grandchildren they bounce on their knees

They love with all their hearts and souls no strings attached

Just love them in return this is so little to ask

But for some a day comes and life decides to deliver them a blow

Now they must walk down an alternate road

It's like a bad dream some just can't escape

Please tell me you made a horrible mistake

She is listening to her  doctor saying your breast has a  mass

Now comes the phase of determining what comes next

So many times there are conflicting reports

It sends chills right down through your very core

What kind of monster has taken refuge in my breast you ask

We are not sure until we can do the tests

MRIs, ultrasounds, biopsies, and such

The waiting and wondering is almost too much

Time ticks by slowly until you hear the news

I'm sorry, but it is malignant, here's what we can do  

The words the doctors speak are foreign to your ears

You quickly learn to interpret what they say to help end your fears

Stage 0, 1, 2, 3A, 3B, or 4, you've never heard these terms before

How can it be cancer, how can they know for sure

Unfortunately, it is not an easy road for some of you, as your journey seems unending

Every corner you turn is another one pending

I noticed a common factor amongst all you beautiful women

A will to fight for your lives so you can continue to go on living

You are beautiful, strong, courageous, and, yes, vulnerable at times

But all of you are there for each other discussing what is on your minds

You shed tears for each other and give words of encouragement

The compassion in your hearts is heaven sent

You're beautiful souls God has placed on earth

Angels to help guide those who need you the most

                                                by  Elizabeth

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  • irishdreama
    irishdreama Member Posts: 938
    edited July 2008

    Elizabeth, Thank you for such a beautiful poem. If it's ok with you, I would like to copy it and email it to a friend of mine, also with breast cancer. You really touched my soul

    Jeri

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  • faithandfifty
    faithandfifty Member Posts: 10,007
    edited July 2008

    what a kindness to our family here. welcome. welcome to our circle. welcome.

    please continue to offer your insight as a co-survivor. we are here to help you grieve your double loss as well. we are stronger thru our bonds.

    your words inspire.

    welcome.

    xx00xx00xx00xx00xx00xx

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  • Princess1214
    Princess1214 Member Posts: 19
    edited July 2008

    Dear Jeri and Faithandfifty,

    I am so happy to hear that my poem has been an uplifting experience for you.  You certainly have my permission to share with anyone you think it may help.  I was so moved while reading the boards at the wonderful community of people willing to share such personal and, at times, painful information.

     I would like you to know, however, I have not been diagnosed yet.  I had come to the site originally because I had some questions of my own.  I have cysts in my left breast and I also have 6 micro calcification clusters in my right.  Actually, today I am going for an MRI for a closer look (after asking questions and pushing).  The radiologist originally wanted me to come back in 6 monhs for follow-up, however, I did not feel comfortable with the waiting, given my family history.

    Thank you to both of you for your kind words.  Although it's been 10 years for my sister (she was only 41 at the time) and 3 years for my mother, I still grieve as if were just yesterday.  I do believe they were helping me as I wrote.

    I wish the very best for you and yours and I send all my love and prayers.

    Elizabeth

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  • irishdreama
    irishdreama Member Posts: 938
    edited July 2008

    Elizabeth

    My best wishes to you, and I pray you will not have to hear the words "It's cancer". I lost both of my parents to cancer, my mom was 62 and died from Kidney cancer, and my dad was 72 and died from Bladder cancer. I know how hard it is to deal with the loss of loved ones, but your poem was such a tribute to your sis and mom. Please continue to let us know how you're doing!

    Jeri

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  • Princess1214
    Princess1214 Member Posts: 19
    edited July 2008

    Jeri,

    Thenk you so much for the well wishes, what a blessing you are.  I will certainly keep you posted. 

    Love and prayers to you.

    Elizabeth

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  • dmcbooklover
    dmcbooklover Member Posts: 5
    edited November 2008
    Dear Princess121, Thank you so much for your poem. I just found this site and I am so happy that I did. I was first diagnosed in 1998. I have a double mastectomy with reconstruction done at the same time. I had a tram-flap done. About 5 years ago I started getting infections in both breasts.In July of last year I had surgery done to remove the infection. The incision did not heal. A few months later the doctor did the surgery again figuring that it would heal that time. Well it did not heal. I finally went to see a specialist and it took her 3 minutes to see what was wrong, The skin on the bottom and sides of both breasts was dead. I went in to the hospital and she removed the dead skin and rebuilt my breasts AGAIN. I felt like I went through the double mast.all over again. Well,that was in June and I still have not completely healed yet. It has not been easy. Lately I have been very depressed about it.I could really use prayer. I do have friends that are praying for me but you can never get enough prayer. Sorry if I rambled on and on. Thanks for listeningSmileDiane
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  • Princess1214
    Princess1214 Member Posts: 19
    edited November 2008

    Dear Diane,

    You are so very welcome, and please no apologies for rambling (which you didn't).  After reading posts on some of the discussion boards, I was so moved by the compassion of the lovely women and men who post on them.  I myself have not been diagnosed with cancer (I have lost my mother and my sister because of cancer); however my breasts are going through some changes and I had questions about the changes, which is what had brought me to this website in the first place.  I found that my questions were answered with so much kindness and concern and that these people on this site are truly doing Gods work by helping so many people they've never met.  I am so sorry to hear you have gone through so much.  Please stay connected to people on these boards as I know they will be able to help you in many ways.  I am sure they can relate to what you are feeling and experiencing and it will help you to not feel so alone.  I will consider it an honor to keep you in my thoughts and prayers, and I pray that you will soon have the full recovery that you are seeking.  All my love and heartfelt prayers and blessings to you.

     Elizabeth

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  • dmcbooklover
    dmcbooklover Member Posts: 5
    edited November 2008
    Dear Elizabeth,
    Thank you so much for your reply. I will stay connected to the people on this board. I have found it  very helpful. I thought that I knew a lot about bc before I found this site but I have found so many things out  that I did not know by reading what others are going through. I read that you have lost your Mom and sister to cancer. My heart goes out to you. I know what it feels like to lose a loved one to cancer. My Dad passed away from lung cancer and my Mom to thyroid cancer. My Mom passed away one and a half years after my Dad. We took her to the hospital because she was not feeling well. That is when we found out that she had cancer! We had her transported to Boston. The doctors told us that she had the cancer for at least seven years!!! She was taking care of my Dad and didn't even know that she was sick too. From the time that we brought her in until the time she passed away was only seven weeks. She passed away on December 2nd. That has made the holidays very hard for my family. Not a day goes by that I don't think about them. I will  keep you in my prayers. God Bless,  DianeSmile
     
     
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  • footprintsangel
    footprintsangel Member Posts: 43,890
    edited November 2008

     Dear Elizabeth, Thank you for the wonderful poem! I lost Grandparents, Dad, Aunts Uncles and now I am fighting to win. Thank you for the pick me up. God bless you in all you do, Hugs Debbie

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  • Princess1214
    Princess1214 Member Posts: 19
    edited November 2008

    Dear Diane,

    My heart goes out to you as well.  It has been over 10 years since my sister's passing and I still want to pick up the phone to give her a call (we were very close).  My mother has only been gone 3 years (Nov 1).  The Holidays were always/still are a very special time for my family.  We still try to follow traditions that we had through the years.  My children 17, 13 and 9 miss my mother and our tradition of going to her house on Christmas Eve (which is an hour and twenty minute drive from our house) for our big celebration.  We still do it, although it is so different without her there.  My step-dad does his best as we all do.  We celebrate as if she were there and as she would've wanted it, trying to make it just as special.  Keeping my loved-ones close in my heart always brings comfort and even laughs at times.  Hugs and prayers to you!  Elizabeth

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  • Princess1214
    Princess1214 Member Posts: 19
    edited November 2008

    Dear Debbie,

    You are so very welcome, and I'm happy that it brought you smiles.  It is a true honor to know that my poem can help to uplift others.   I am so sorry to hear of your losses and to hear that you are in a battle yourself.  I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers to help you WIN!  Love and blessings to you....Elizabeth

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