I can't get my act together and I don't know why

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  • wishiwere
    wishiwere Member Posts: 3,793
    edited November 2008

    And the weirdest thing is, they were so much lighter themselves back then, smaller and lighter and just less buff.  Amazing they could carry their own packs.  My grandfather was over there in WWI also.  Germany too, which is I think why dad and his brother joined up.  My uncle (dad's brother) was a priest though.  Mom's 5 brother were all in different areas, the one on Iwo, one in the african, one is the pacifice and one stateside, and hm....now I can't remember where the 5th one was.  Have you read any of the books by the men themselves or their sons?  I can't remember the name now, but there's one about a family (I think in wisc) that lost all 5 boys from one family in that war.  I just can not imagine.  I know mom said they came to her school (she was a year younger than Jimmy) to take her home to be with her mom when they told her.  Just ills me to imagine any family hearing those words.  Then of course, they couldn't get him home for 14 months or so.  But, they were lucky, there were a few just recently brought home from Iwo.

  • wishiwere
    wishiwere Member Posts: 3,793
    edited November 2008

    How neat to go and see that Nancy.  And yes, seeing and reading stories make me wish dad were still here to ask those questions you never thought as a stupid kid to ask. The important things to them.  Love reading everyone's memories.

  • gsg
    gsg Member Posts: 3,386
    edited November 2008

    Nancy, thanks for telling us about your dad's service.  How cool  that you got to see the commissioning dinner menu and copy it!  I, too, am really enjoying reading these stories.

     I just posted a black and white picture of my husband in Vietnam in my "Passions" thread. It's always been one of my favorite pictures of him...even though he's in fatigues, still something about a guy in a uniform. Wink  I'll go ahead and post it here too.  Someplace on-line I saw a picture of my grandfather in his World War I uniform.  Now I can't find it, but I'm going to continue to look.  If anyone wants to share photos here, in honor of Veterans Day, please do.

  • gsg
    gsg Member Posts: 3,386
    edited November 2008

    WIsh:  No, I haven't read the books you're referring to. 

  • wishiwere
    wishiwere Member Posts: 3,793
    edited November 2008

    I'll have to figure out which one it was when I get to mom's.  She's got the load of them and we sign out what we take as they started to disappear some years ago.  Ticks me off, but....I've started collecting my own and some are good, some not so well written, the story is good.

    Have you ever read the Flags of our Fathers? That was intersting, but the movie was seen by most, so I think maybe no reads it now. Just realized someone had 'borrowed' my copy!  UGH!

    One I thought I was good, was The Bedford Boys. About a town in Bedford, Virginia of 3000, that lost nearly 20 on D-Day.  So sad reading about it.

    An intersting read, at least I thought so, was Up Front by Bill Mauldin.  It explains were many of the charactures of infantry dogfaces come from in his cartoons and how they came  about during WWII. 

    Then there are all the Patton reads!  Oh my, what an arrogant man.

    I couldn't find the book here about the family, so I'll look for it next time I'm up to moms.

  • Daffodil
    Daffodil Member Posts: 829
    edited November 2008

    Patrice, those pictures are hauntingly beautiful~~I hope he has plans for a book. Your husband is drop-dead gorgeous in that photo. Thanks for posting, everyone.

    I was in appointments/dinner  and didn't get back here. I would have tried to post my daddy's picture~~~he looked (still does) like a blond movie star. My mother made me a ruffled petticoat to wear under poodle skirts from a silk parachute daddy brought home. He and his men used to run on the beach to fill them with air, then use them as rafts.

    On another note: I have finished the ironing. (You ARE aware of the "a lick and a promise" method, aren't you? This was after a long nap, mind you. My last workout and massage today~~~I am feeling trepidation , not over exchange surgery, but the results.Undecided

  • gsg
    gsg Member Posts: 3,386
    edited November 2008

    Thanks, Daffodil...I'm gonna tell my husband you said that.  It's gonna make him a little full of himself, but that's okay.  Not sure yet what my son is going to do with all his pictures and many stories.  I think it's wonderful that Shirley's SIL and daughter are putting a book together on their travels and do hope my son does something similar when his travels are over.

    Would love for you to post the pic of your dad!

    I'm currently using my ironing board as a counter in my laundry room.  Can't remember the last time it was actually used for ironing...good for you that you got yours done.  Love the way freshly ironed stuff smells.

     Best of luck to you tomorrow and hoping you get wonderful results.

  • Harley44
    Harley44 Member Posts: 5,446
    edited November 2008

    Daffodil,

    Hope your exchange surgery goes well, and you get great new boobs!!  I am pretty happy with mine.  I didn't have to do the exchange thing; my ps just opened me up and shoved the saline implants under my chest muscles...  OUCH!  Did it ever hurt for awhile, until everything stretched out.  Also, they looked kind of like two water balloons, until things settled.

    Patrice,

    Your dh is a handsome fellow!!  I think it would be wonderful if he wrote a book!  Also, the very act of writing is very cathartic,and may help him deal with any issues that he may still be dealing with. 

    My dad was in the army, in WWII.  He was in the (I forget his division #... I think 23rd), and he was in Normandy, Omaha beach, the one I hear was so very violent, and they lost so many men.  I think about my dad every year on Veterans Day.  He died when I was in the 11th grade.  He was only 64, I think, but he was an alcoholic.

  • gsg
    gsg Member Posts: 3,386
    edited November 2008

    Harley, so sorry about your dad....too young to lose him.  I wonder if the fact that he was in Normandy and at Omaha Beach contributed to his alcoholism.  So many men come home from war with alcohol and drug problems, trying to forget as they battle PTSD.

    Btw, we were talking about my son writing a book, not my husband.  My son has been traveling for a year and a half.  Well, he's settled in China, for the time being, as he ran out of $$$...but at some point, I'm guessing he'll resume once he feels like he has enough in savings.  His goal is to traverse every continent, except perhaps Antarctica. Shirley's SIL and DD were gone for at least a couple of years, I believe...maybe more.  The pictures she's posted on this board of their travels around Africa are nothing short of spectacular (and her daughter is an absolute beauty).  Can't remember where the thread is.  She might know.  I had also posted some pics of my son's journey down the Amazon, time spent in Africa, and his climb up Everest in the same thread.  Will have to look for it.

  • gsg
    gsg Member Posts: 3,386
    edited November 2008

    Found the thread and I just bumped it.  There's lots of great pictures from many women.  Shirley's may start around Page 9ish  or something.  I have some in there of my travels through the Middle East, followed by  pictures from my son's travels interspersed through the rest of that thread.  Shirley should be posting more pics in there.  Hers were amazing.  It's been quite a while since we've been posting pictures.  I need to get busy and do some downloading of his stuff.

    http://community.breastcancer.org/forum/7/topic/459183?page=9

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2008

    Well, gals, I'll have to catch up later.  I want to wish the girls who are having surgery GOOD LUCK!  When I had my mastectomy it was relatively easy.  My doggy ears have grown.  Think it could partly be due to the fact that I've gained all my weight back plus five pounds. 

    Patrice, glad you son is doing okay.  I know you'll be glad when he comes home.  And yes, the memories our children have.  And the memories WE have because they left. LOL

    Harley, did you finally clean the other day?  I haven't read both pages cuz dh wants on the puter.  Remember, I was supposed to tattle on you? 

    Be back later to finish reading.  I need some HUMOR in my life.

    Shirley

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2008

    Oh my, Patrice.  I just ran across your dh's pic when he was in Viet Nam.  What a good looking guy.  He coulda put his shoes under my bed ANYTIME!  LOL  I love men in uniform.  I love fatigues..my dh used to wear them too.  He never went to Viet Nam though.  His four year military career was in San Antonio except for going TDY to Biloxi, Miss. for school.  Too funny.  He thought he as going to travel the world. Instead he ended up with ME! 

    Shirley

  • mke
    mke Member Posts: 584
    edited November 2008

    I think the 5 brothers lost in WWII were named Sullivan and I think they were from Iowa. This was sort of a story behind the "Saving Private Ryan" movie where the point was to save this surviving son (if I remember correctly which is always in doubt).



    I went on the "Freedon trail" in Boston last month at one point the trail leads through the courtyard of Old North Church (of Paul Revere fame) and there is a wall that has replicas of the dogtags of all the soldiers killed in Iraq and Afghanistan. A sobering site and sight.

  • Harley44
    Harley44 Member Posts: 5,446
    edited November 2008

    Patrice,

    Sorry... I was just reading over the posts quickly, since my friend was on her way over to my house, and I must have missed the important information about WHO was traveling and writing a book.... geez, I think I have permanent CRS issues! 

    Yep, I have come to terms with my Dad's illness.  Alcoholism is an illness, and I agree that it was probably caused by PTSD.  He NEVER talked about it, but before he died, he drank himself into a stupor and once he woke up, and sat up and said "I can see their eyes!"  I am thinking it was the people who he killed during the war.  That HAD to be terrible!


    Shirley

    SHHH..... You weren't supposed to tell!!  Well, I did some "general" cleaning.  I vacuumed and did some laundry, and that was about it.  But, since that friend was coming over, I think I'm exempt.  I didn't clean EVERYTHING.  She is from bc.org also.  We hung out for awhile, and I went with her when she bought some paint for her laundry room cabinets.  I really have no life!

    Oh, and I am a sucker for a man in a uniform, too!!  Laughing  My dh used to be in the NAVY, and I just loved his Winter uniform!!  Now all he wears is sweat pants!!  LOL 

    Harley

  • wishiwere
    wishiwere Member Posts: 3,793
    edited November 2008

    Well, I think that is just SO not patriotic!!!!!!

    Why is that just be/c the guy has finished his time in the service, they think their service is done????

    Well, it isn't!  Listen to you women and who hasn't heard so many women talk about a guy in uniform just does it for her, blows her skirt up, gets all girly and so and so forth....Well?  I think it's just a typical man thing, you know?  They get upset if you mention that a man in uniform and what that does to/for you! So, why is it when they are done with service, that they don't find reasons (those who have served) to wear said uniform more often?  I mean, parade day is fine, there's 4th of july, veterans/armistace day, memorial day?  But surely there were battles fought on any given day of the year and to think we could see all those great uni's walking around on any given day?  Don't you think it should be considered patriotic to wear your uniform to keep the ladies in this country grinning? :D 

    Ewww...never mind though...trying to imagine some of great relatives in their uniforms and how they look form today, I'm certain most women would gag and run, rather than turn and gaze/ponder...Oh, what a silly dream...Men in uni's all over the world!  Thank heavens I woke up!

  • Isabella4
    Isabella4 Member Posts: 2,166
    edited November 2008

     We have all been reminiscing on Nov 11th here....11th day, of the 11th month, on the 11th hour, people have been having 2 minute silences in shopping centers, towns and villages, something that just seems to have started 2 or 3 years ago. Before that it was just small gatherings in ones own town or village, the young ones didn't know much about it all. Seems they do now, at long last, and about time.

     That is, apart from the few disgusting creatures who are now stripping metals from war memorials, and great big plaques from walls, with hundreds of names on, as we have an epidemic of scrap metal thieving. (last week, just before Rememberance Day we had 4 very big plaques stolen, hundreds of names of loved ones on each, which the thieves would weigh in and get about $350, but which are going to cost about $35,000 each to replace) I would be the first to bring back capitol punishment if I could !

    I picked up a saw today, to shorten a piece of wood DH had been thinking about all summer, slipped the blade into my finger, and there was enough blood to fill half a blood test bottle !! I have three 1" saw marks on my finger, and its swelled up, retribution for trying to do some work !! Quickly started a course of antibiotics I got from my vet. I told him one of my dogs had cut themselves !!! Can't get a Dr appointment for 3 days ! Always use my vet, can just ring and get antibiotics same day !

    Isabella.

  • wishiwere
    wishiwere Member Posts: 3,793
    edited November 2008

    #1) The place that accepts those plaques should be shot as well. OR at the least, shut down, similar to when someone copies materials that are copyrighted like the old copy centers around here a few years back. What's the difference I'd say?  Stealing is stealing and NO business could claim ignorance on that one!

    #2) DAng woman! Be careful! When was your last tetnus?  Not sure about your saws, but unless they are spectacularly cleaned and disinfected, you need to make sure you are covered for that!  Do it tonight!

    #3) I'd forgotten the thyroid med I'm on is the same dose as my cocker used to need.  I wonder if he's forget she's not alive yet and fill my script :D  Just kidding, but I did read you need to be careful with animal meds, that they aren't under the strict protection humans are.  Although, I know my levo is the exact same pill form and writing and color she was on.  So.....pretty sure it's the same company.

  • KAK
    KAK Member Posts: 1,679
    edited November 2008

    Listen, I once borrowed my cat's prednisone in an emergency, which was a sudden disk herniation I had once, and my orthopedist took great delight in asking me whether I'd noticed a sudden urge to eat tuna & use a litter box.  Hah.  Hah.  Everyone's a comedian.  But you're right, Isabella.  If all my docs were as attentive as my veterinarian, I'd be in excellent shape!  Plus, my vet is a hottie.

  • GramE
    GramE Member Posts: 5,056
    edited November 2008

    I did get my act together pretty good today.  Had rad onco visit then played bridge.   And I wrote 5 long over due letters to those without computers.   Now the printer is flashing " low ink ", too bad Staples is not open 24/7...   Have a good rest of the week.   Hugs,  Nancy 

  • gsg
    gsg Member Posts: 3,386
    edited November 2008

    Shirley:  My husband is getting a big head from you girls.  Remember that pic was taken 40 years ago, although he (irritatingly) hasn't put on an ounce.  Still the same size.  I really LOL'd at your comment regarding your husband expecting to travel the world and instead he wound up with you.  Sounds like he ended up with a pretty good deal.

    Isabella:  Awful about the plaques!!  I don't understand how they're getting away with turning them in for scrap.  The people paying for the metal, if they're ever caught,  should be put on trial.  Also awful about your finger, but did chuckle about using a vet.  I accidently broke my sister's arm (in 2 places) while babysitting her when we were kids.  We were horsing around and let's just say she landed wrong.  I called my girlfriend's dad who was a vet.  He came over and checked  her out and declared I had to call mom and dad.  She has never let me forget that I called a vet for her.

    Nancy:  You've motivated me to try to get some stuff done today...no matter what.  

    Mke:  My husband has a picture hanging over his desk here at home that has a row of rifles stuck into the ground by the bayonets,  the helmet resting on top and the boots placed in front of the rifle.  He said that's what they would do with the fallen soldiers' things as a memorial.  Very moving and sobering picture.

    Good luck to Daffodil today with her exchange surgery.

  • Daffodil
    Daffodil Member Posts: 829
    edited November 2008

    Putting winter purses on shelf, I have found 3 sticks gum, 2 lipsticks, I nail file and I compact. Not a red nickel nor a new dollar coin (Foot in mouth). I am still putting stuff away in drawers; now it will get ugly, i.e. drawer open, toss in swimsuits and t-shirts and whatever, wherever~~~~

    As I was getting ready for trainer today, PCP called up. I never went around the corner from her suite to the x-ray office for pre-ops~~I just pranced upstairs to the PS office and then home, with never a backward glance. Fortunately, I could dash up there and git 'er done. Sheeesh.....

    Thanks for the luck, ladies~~~have a perfectly divine day, and cross just ONE thing off The List!!!

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2008

    mke, my brother, sil and I took my father to see Private Ryan.  I do believe it brought back memories.

    Harley, so you dh wears sweats too, huh?  Mine started wearing them a couple of years ago.  I hate them!  I don't mind around the house, but I tell him to change when we/he leaves the house.  Well, I really don't care if I'm not with him.  They are comfy.

    Uniforms?  HA!  We got rid of my dh's years ago.  He was skinny when I met him..I was skinny too.  Now we're both fat..he's got an Arimidex belly to.  Our grandson asked him..do you have a baby in there.  Husband replied, No, that's just me.  Grandson says, You don't have any PEOPLE in there.  LOL  Kids can be so funny and he's ONLY three!

    Wish, that was SOME dream you had there!

    Isabella, we'll all have to swim the pond and find those thieves!  Hope your finger's okay.

    KAK..too funny about your vet's response to using cat's meds.  Good one!

    Nancy, stop bragging or Patrice will kick you off this thread!  You must learn to LIE!

    Patrice, our husbands need their egos stroked every now an then. 

    I haven't done anything.  Oh yes I have.  I cooked last night and tonight.  But it was easy.  I want to go to Harley's house to eat.  Her dh cooks yummy homemade stuff.

    Well, I'm going to bed.

    Shirley

  • wishiwere
    wishiwere Member Posts: 3,793
    edited November 2008

    Have to say Gsg about cleaning your kitchens floors? It doesn't even matter to dh's!  He comes home last night, (mind you, that AFTER the endo bx I mopped the floors) then went to work for 8 hours (and we all know a MAN after getting his 'thingy' bx'd would in bed for 3 days!......anyway....he comes in and tells me his slippers were sticking to the floor! OMG!  It wasn't the floor, idiot!  IT's your Danged Slippers!  He wore then out to the shop one morning and walked through crushed apples from the tractors and there's applesause all over the bottoms! UGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    So, I ask again? What is the reason WE mop the floors?

    Okay..so it wasn't all over the bottoms of his slippers but enough to stick em'!  UGH

  • GramE
    GramE Member Posts: 5,056
    edited November 2008

    Shirley, sorry I got motivated the other day...  don't kick me off of here.   Most times I am a lazy recliner potato.   I might have to hunt for my hair brush as I now see more and more fuzz on my head.   Mop floors --   are you kidding?  Wet a paper towel, push around with your foot and that is it for me.   

    One more cup of coffee, check emails and what bills I HAVE to get mailed out.   Whew, I am tired already...!!!    HUGS, Nancy 

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2008

    Patrice,

    I don't want to stroke your husband's ego, but could I kiss him just once? ;-) He's very handsome, but you're a beautiful woman, so I would not have expected less.

    I'm getting ready for another lazy weekend here. I must admit I got a little Christmas shopping done. My son brought home bubble wrap for me, so I think I'm going to get things boxed and ready to mail this weekend. Since the house will continue to be a mess, I'm sure that's all good, eh?

    You guys are cracking me up with the pet meds, although that is some smart thinking, Isabella!

    I think I'll go to Harley's house with Shirley and sample her hubby's cookin'.

    Love you guys! *woof* *meow* *wagwagwag*

    Miss S

  • Harley44
    Harley44 Member Posts: 5,446
    edited November 2008

    Miss S.

    I'd LOVE to have all ya'll visit!  My dh would be happy to cook for us!  That's why I keep him around, you know.  He may wear sweat pants, and procrastinate about doing house maintenance work, but he cooks!!, and he sometimes does the laundry, and he helps to get the house cleaned up in a hurry, if we are expecting company!!

    Isabella,

    It is good that we can occasionally take our pets meds.... LOL  I NEVER thought of that!!

    Wish,

    I heard that if someone flunks out of VETERINARIAN school, they become a HUMAN doctor!  Isn't that really pitiful??  We should be able to go to the drs., and just say 'woof' or 'meow', and the doc should KNOW right away what's wrong!!

    Wish, you MOPPED the floor, after your endo. bx??  Are you nuts, woman?!!  After my D & C, I just laid around, watching TV, and took Hydrocodone for the pain!  I look for excuses NOT to do housework!! 

    After my bilateral mast., my MIL came and cleaned once a week.  After about 3 weeks, I asked my surgeon when I could resume 'normal' activities, like vacuuming and that kind of stuff.  I explained that my MIL was coming over once a week to vacuum and clean, and he said "So, how's that working out for you?"  He agreed not to say anything.  It was our secret! 

    Shirley,

    Yes, my dh wears sweat pants around the house, but at least he WILL change before we go out, and I am grateful for that!

  • Isabella4
    Isabella4 Member Posts: 2,166
    edited November 2008

    Ok .... now on top of my 2 carpal tunnel wrists, my 2 plantar fasiitis feet, and my slipped disc ? siatica ? osteopenic hips ? damaged vertabrae ? (all different diagnoses given for the same set of symptoms, by 4 different Drs ) I now have Orf....betcha never heard of that one he he he , and guess who diagnosed me MY VET !! 

    I have had it 5 times in my lifetime now. Its a viral disease picked up from sheep....and I used to keep great big lumps of sheep, like as many as up to 3,000 at a time for years.... I just love sheep, but unfortunately just can't manage them anymore. The way my back hurts I couldn't deal with mice at the moment !! Sheep pick it up from wooden buildings, gates, feeders and suchlike. It shows as pustules all around their mouths, and on the teats of ewes that have lambs. Its viral, and has to run its course, and its bloody painful-- I can vouch for that. I last had it about 10 years ago, but last week I had a broken nail, pulled it off a bit short, and within 24hrs up pops this little red, very painful lump, its grown to about as big as a fat apple pip, and the surrounding finger tip looks like there's a boil in there, but it will never pop, just looks angry. My GP said she had never heard of Orf, as if I was making it up....I knew what it was, but just wanted to know if she did, I was already booked to see her...So I rung up my dear old vet, and yes, he confirmed my diagnosis, and told me to see my GP for some anti biotics, in case of seconday infection. 

    Yes says me, OK ! Little did he know I was already taking some antibiotics he unknowingly prescribed for me last week !!

    On top of this the girl who cleans for me, and is now pregnant, has started having Braxton Hicks contractions, 2 months before its due, and has suspended working for me 'til next year.  I shall have a house like a tip in about a week !! And it will just get tippier and tippier 'til someone comes along and does it for me.

    Oh, and my BIL had had a stroke, this last Monday, no-one let us know 'til yesterday. We called to see him tonight, and what was once a life and soul of the party, and 10 years younger than me, is now a lop- sided, dribbling mess. It is so sad to see, so all my spare time now will be trips back and forth to hospital, letting my house slide even further into mess.

    Just off to Google stroke now, to bring myself up to speed about what? why? when? I don't remember much of what I learnt when I nursed one of my grandmothers for the last 8 months of her life. I brought her to live with me, and she just kept on having litle stroke after little stroke, until one time the big one came and took her off, in her sleep. That was nearly 30 years ago, so I have forgotten what I once knew.

    Have a nice w/end.

    Isabella.

  • KAK
    KAK Member Posts: 1,679
    edited November 2008

    Oh, Isabella, I'm so sorry about your BIL! 

    Is that how Orf manifests itself in humans?  Boils & big lumps?  Good grief, it sounds biblical!  By the way, Harley, I'm with you.  I KNOW the people who flunk out of vet school go to medical school!!  Once again, the veterinarian gets the gold star.  So, Isabella, I thought, "dear lord, 3000 sheep???  Where does this gal live?"  And then I read "York," and it all made a lot more sense.  Well, gosh, no wonder you've got all those aches & pains, girl!  You were busting your butt all those years you were a shepherdess!!  Well, I send you a cyber-Border Collie to help you out.  That's about as close as I've ever come to being a shepherdess myself -- I grew up with a wonderful, brilliant Border Collie.

    And hey, I send big hugs to everyone else.  I would write more now but I've been absolutely exhausted from work, life, the time change, post-rads, etc., etc. this week.  Plus, I just had to change to a different antidepressant because I started tamoxifen, & the new one is okay, no SE's, but I'm not on enough of it yet because my PCP is having me ramp up gradually with it.  So, right now, the lovely depression sliding-into-the-ditch feeling has returned, so I'm even more paralyzed & lacking in oomph than usual.  And my brain feels like a marquee with about a quarter of the bulbs blown out.  Oy.  I should probably visit the Bitch & Moan thread.  OTOH, I certainly can't get my act together at the moment, but I do know why.  Plus it's been raining here for DAYS!  Grooooannnn!

    Kathi

  • Daffodil
    Daffodil Member Posts: 829
    edited November 2008

    It is 6 in the morning and I have had a cup of coffee, a Luna bar, and meds. I wound up in OR for 5 hours because right size implants had to be found.....so I stayed the night. My dear little housekeeper/LPN stayed right with me, in the tiniest double room I've ever been in. (If I had been awake, I would never have agreed to non-private room; I am really bitchy about that!) I had really nice nurses and CA's, a pleasant change. One from Ethiopia, the other from Ghana, and both stunning.

    Anyway, I barfed after eating breakfast, but seemed well enough to be discharged, which is what I wanted. I went straight to PS office and was glad I carried my plastic bag with me~~sheesh. I usually have no probs. It seems I wound up a C instead of a B~~if I don't look ridiculous, I 'm keeping them. I go in again today at 3, so will go to bed.

    Glad to see people came by with FOOD!!!

    Cheers, ladies!

  • gsg
    gsg Member Posts: 3,386
    edited November 2008

    Good morning, Daffodil.  Sorry your surgery wasn't a completely smooth ride for you, but happy you are now home.  I'm with you on nonprivate rooms.  It would be great if they could be done away with.  When I'm in the hospital, I don't want visitors, except for one person to be on hand to help, and definitely don't want to be forced to be sick in a room full of strangers due to noise levels, hospital gowns that never cover what you want them to and bathroom issues.  Glad you're out of there.  Hope your new C's end up looking good so you can have this part behind you. 

     I don't have time to respond to everybody right now, but will later.  I will say to Miss S that you are welcome to kiss my husband, but may have to get in line.   We were at my boss's wedding this past summer, and when we were leaving, one of my coworkers asked if she could give my husband a hug and kiss goodbye.  I said sure!  As soon as I said that, a different female coworker who was standing in front of him yelled out, "Goody!" jumped up and threw her arms around his neck and planted one on him.  We all cracked up.  Except hubby, who ate it up.  I've since teased him that he was the belle of the ball that day.

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