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  • golfer779
    golfer779 Member Posts: 1,378
    edited November 2008

    Happy Veterans Day,

    We're hunkering in here in the Pac Nor West, the heavy rains are on there way once again. Oh Joy !!!

    I had a fabulous visit with "Baby Katie" and her parents. Nothing like the smell of a new baby (we'll most of the time)!!! It has been years since I've even held a little one, it took an evening of holding her to get in the comfort zone. I guess I looked like I was in the zone as my friends took advantage of having Auntie Carol there and went out for a long bike ride. Katie and I played under her gym, stretching her arms and legs, ate all 4oz, let out a couple of big burps and then fell asleep across my chest for more than an hour. It was a special couple hours for me.

    So what's been happening ...

    LJ, I enjoy your research and sharing of many topics, particularly the ones on exercise. I should actually be doing a little something here at home today, maybe some Yoga on-Demand. I usually would be going to the gym afterwork today, but shucks I have the day off and the gym is on-Base and closed as well.

    Your plate idea is great too!

    Deb, I'm liking your pick for a license plate "BCSUX". Seems like they'd go for that one. So are we going to try???

    I read the Middle Place this past weekend, a good read. I'm still bummed that I missed out on meeting the author while she was in town.

    Speaking of the book ... anybody interesting a short/easy read. I'd be happy to share.

    D1, I got lucky with a couple of smooth flights. So both parents we're pilots. No wonder your sense of adventure when it comes to traveling seems so comfy for you. You know I was wondering how/why you had been referring to your "family" in Eleuthera. It took Norma to actually ask you about it !!! Cool story.

    Awesome that your massage therapy is going to be the ticket. So you being the lymph queen ... when I put my compression sleeve on for flying it literally feels like it is cutting off the circulation to my fingers. Does that seem normal to you? If your contraption is as tight as my little ol' sleeve is I would not be a happy camper. I can't wait to get that thing off once we're on the ground.

    I love both your ideas for plates .

    So thanks for putting up with my PM's, I need to get a life !!! I did have fun with my new toy.

    Norma, I'm totally with you and wanting an MRI atleast once a year. That's just fine and dandy to me that they may show a false positive, I'll take my chances. I just don't want a clean mamo and 8 months later a 4cm tumor than needs to be removed again. My thought is that the squeaky wheel gets the grease, and what would the docs "REALLY" recommend if it was their wife, mom, daughter who had the concerns we have.???

    Its so important to share the reminders to all of us on taking care of ourselves in more ways than just checking out our boobs. I've seen what a late diagnosis of melanoma entails and its not too pretty. I'm so glad that your friend from survivor group's looks like it was caught early. Wow, you kinda have the full meal deal thing going on with the ovaries playing havoc, a possible colonoscopy to boot. I'm hoping that things settle down for you and in-turn the anxiety level mellows out as well.

    Speaking of the colon ... CHJ did we get that ham sandwich after your procedure???  Assuming that your "clean as a whistle

    Sherry, here's hoping that you had a good visit with the in-laws. You sound like you have been one busy beaver balancing two jobs. Hopefully your getting a little Sherry time as well.

    Dana, I'm so glad that you took the time to let us know how you have been doing. It sounds like you we're more than a little busy, and kudos to you for doing what you could to take care of your dad. My condolences to you.

    May your trip start off a new chapter in your life, and all the luck in finding just the right job for you.

    Paula, we havn't heard from you , hoping that your doing okay, and that removing the caffeine from you diet has helped with some of the heart palpitations. Hmmm, thinking you may be home today, I may have to use the old fashion way of communicating and give you a ringy-dingy!

    Kimberly, hoping your weekend in Monterey was enjoyable. You have been sounding like a get-a-way was in order. I'm assuming it was for pleasure.

    I'm wondering if the coast was fogged in, my flight on Sat had to hover over the airport for a while in San Fran due to fog. They said we may have to land in Oakland, then came back on about a ½ hour later and said we we're cleared. I've never flown into San Fran before, kinda strange to come out of a fog bank and see nothing but water and boats that you we're literally so close to you could see people in them. I was more than relieved to see a runway sneak up under the plane!!!

    Carla, my two cents worth in regards to your kids ... the last thing you want is for your two girls to think that having a verbally abusive spouse is okay and normal. Letting your girls see that you have the strength to do the right thing should have lasting impacts on them. It may take some time, but in the long run they will understand. Too many times these cycles of poor relationships carry on from one generation to the next. The last thing I'm sure you would want would be for your girls to be in a relationship full of negativity. Its time to move in a positive direction for all of you, and it sounds like you are doing just that. The road may have some bumps and potholes to encounter but in the long run things should smooth out.

    Okay, off to the store here shortly, I brought home a loaf of San Fran sour dough bread, thought I'd make a Cioppino for dinner to go with it.

    Carol

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  • SISKimberly
    SISKimberly Member Posts: 762
    edited November 2008

    So, it's been too long again.  Life just gets going doesn't it?  I've read all the posts, but after grading papers all day, am whiped out and just can't deal with individual shout outs right now.

    Dana and Paula, I'm going to shout out to you, though.

    Dana, I'm so sorry about your Dad, but know that you're going to get through this with the knowlege that your Dad was/is so very proud of you and your accomplishment.  You should be on your cruise right now, so I'm hoping you're having a great time. You so deservie it.

    Paula, I was bummed to hear about Ed, and hope that it's only his 'usual' seizure pattern. And get that heart palpation checked out.

    To all the other Jewels, forgive me for being a wimp and not shouting out.

    We end the trimester this Friday, so I've been really busy getting things graded and entered. I'm so disheartened again at the results of a reading test for two short stories we read. Too many failing it as if they weren't even present at our discussions of the stories. AHHHH!!!!! I'm hoping that their trimester grades will wake them up for the new trimester, where they start again fresh.

    Went to Carmel this past weekend. So, beautiful. Started with an overnight in Santa Cruz visiting some old family friends I've known since I was a kid. This couple is like my second parents. From there, it was on to Carmel Friday morning. I took the day off for a mental health day.  Went to a wine dinner Friday night- not great, and another on Saturday night- fabulous!!!!  Walked around Carmel, ate too much, and enjoyed the light rain.  I was dragging my butt yesterday at school, and today it's been all about grading. Whee!

    I will check in this weekend ladies.   And...I'm so glad the election is over.  I was doing the happy dance...such hope and history.  Our school did a mock election, and we predicted the outcome along with the electoral votes. Each class was a state...my class was Wisconsin.  I gave my kids the issues we could talk about and gave a brief this is what a yes vote would mean and what a no vote would mean. I was very factual. After they voted on the issues, they matched their votes to two columns. I revealed which candidate was the 'voter' in which column and explained they should vote for the person who agreed with them more often. We voted and gave our ten electoral votes to Obama at our rally.  It was a good lesson in my opinion.

    Take care all. SIS Kimberly

    PS Thanks SP for my journal. I love it.  Carla, loved the hat and card. I'll see my sis tonight to give her the card you sent along for her.  Thank you so much. 

    Carol, oh, baby smells- the good clean ones, not the poopy ones- are the best!  You'll be heading out to Arizona soon. I'm jealous.

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  • golfer779
    golfer779 Member Posts: 1,378
    edited November 2008

    Hi Jewels,

    Carla, just wanted to pop in tonight to wish you a very Happy Birthday on Thursday!!!  Here's to a great new year ahead of you !!!!   

    I went from a very relaxing day off on Tuesday, to once again another stressful situation created by my lovely ds.  What makes it worse is that ol' mom seems to have a heck of a time getting her own emotions under control when the sh*t hits the fan.  This is definitely a new personality trait that is really getting on my nerves, hate to blame things on hormones (or lack there of), but I'm a friggin' mess.  

    Signing off tonight, hoping that "things" mellow out over the next few days, will be checking back in tomorrow. 

    Oh, Paula, got your voice message ... "Your welcome gal friend" !!!

    Night All, Carol

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  • Determined1
    Determined1 Member Posts: 806
    edited November 2008

    Has it been since Monday that I've posted?  Time flies!

    Well, college girl's news was that she has a boyfriend (she's almost 20 and this is her first one).  Unfortunately, it's not the guy I would have picked for her.  She's known this guy since they were in 6th grade together and he hasn't always been a good friend.  She's always had a crush on him and I know they've hooked up (I think I'm using that right) on and off since they were freshmen in high school (much to my dismay).  I know she's always held a candle for this kid (part of me thinks it has something to do with how women form emotional attachments once we establish physical attachments, but that's probably too heavy to discuss here), but he has been emotionally abusive to her over the years.  She acknowledged that he probably isn't the guy dh or I would have picked for her, but she says he's changed (oh yeah, heard that one before).  She would like to invite him to dinner at the house over the Thanksgiving break, so I'll be on my best behavior.  (Is it time for me to mention that this kid did well in high school, but dropped out of college after the freshman year?  Now he's thinking about attending community college in South Carolina, where his mother recently relocated.  I can already see my college girl dumping her prestigious college to follow this kid...)  What a rant!  Hopefully, this will allow me to behave myself around my daughter and her, swallow hard, boyfriend.

    License plate options.  Love your idea, LJ, but there's already someone driving around my town with that one!  And BC SUX would have the same problem as FUBC, I'm afraid.  So here are my ideas:

    DTRMD1

    D-WON

    BP1BC0 (BP are my real initials)

    FU1BC0

    What do you guys think?

    LJ, thanks a million for the weight videos-it's hard to misunderstand how to do the exercise when you watch someone do it correctly.  I can see that many of them will do the same thing as my bands, so when I graduate from the bands, I imagine I'll be substituting these.  If you find some more, send them on-new ideas are always welcome.

    Carol, I read about your visit with Baby Katie with a big smile on my face because it wasn't clear to me who drank the 4oz and then experienced the big burp!!!  Glad you had a good time.  You look fabulous in the photo.  I think your hair may be thickening up again.  Oh, and the baby is really cute.

    Your sleeve should not be cutting off circulation to your fingers.  When I fly I wear my sleeve and a gauntlet (glove w/o fingers) to keep the compression from sending fluid into my hand.  I don't have to wear the gauntlet every day, tho.  Something about the pressurization when you fly that I need it then.  Try this:  put your sleeve on.  If your skin bulges at the upper arm or wrist around the edge of the sleeve, then it's probably too tight.  Didn't you see a le therapist for an evaluation?  If so, call her and ask if you can pop by between her appointments to show her your sleeve so she can give you some guidance.  My experience with those folks is that they're willing to come out for a few minutes to talk, even if you don't have an appointment.

    Hope the weather is okay for you.  The forecaster here keeps talking about your rain...

    Oh man, SISKimberly, I'm so sorry your students are disappointing you.  That would be hard for me to take-putting in all that effort, only to have it fall on deaf ears.  I hope those kids wake up soon and realize that you're one of the best things to ever happen to them!  (Sounds like the weekend getaway was good for recharging the ‘ol batteries!)

    For crying out loud, Carol, what's up with your "whore moans?"  I know what you mean about the emotions being right there.  As you'll recall, I'm not a crier and since I've been on the Tamoxifen it seems a cry is just around the corner.  Maybe your AI is messing with you.  (Is everything okay with the ds?)

    Hey, Happy Birthday, Carla!!!  I just sang for you at my computer (and you can thank your lucky stars that you couldn't hear it!).

    Take care, gang.

    D1

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  • JulieK_11_30_07
    JulieK_11_30_07 Member Posts: 260
    edited November 2008

    Hi Jewels!! Just a quick post tonight -- haven't had much spare time lately - uuuggghh! School's been crazy and we've made the decision to take the house OFF the market, stay here, and remodel! Numerous factors played into that decision, but I think it's the right one for us right now and I'm excited to be doing some remodeling. We were off school on Tuesday and started in one room already - our goal is to be done with it by the end of this weekend - we'll see!!

     

    Carla -- Hope you had a great b-day today!!!

    Dana - I'm so glad you posted to let us know you're okay. I've been worried about you. I'm very sorry to hear about the loss of your father - take care of yourself.

    Carol - loved hearing you talk about your visit with your friend's baby. You look awesome!!

    Kimberly - hang in there with your students, dear. I know it's sooooo frustrating sometimes, but you'll get through to them eventually. I got a very sweet thank you note from Kathleen today in the mail - she writes as eloquently as you do! Please let us know how she's doing when you get a chance.

    D1 - hope things go okay with dd's new boyfriend! Maybe she'll rub off on him and he'll get himself back in school to finish his education. I don't look forward to my ds getting a girlfriend -- right now he just says girls are a pain and he doesn't want to have to deal with them. We have different girls calling here all the time, but he just blows them off on the phone. I'm sure that will change in the next couple years! OH - I like the first three license plate options - I think BP1BC0 is my fav!

    Okay, girls - that's all I have time for tonight! Gotta put together a new TV stand! Thinking of you all!!

    Julie

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  • golfer779
    golfer779 Member Posts: 1,378
    edited November 2008

    Okay, this is definitely not good for my blood pressure ... typed a post tonight on the dh's computer using the air card.  For some reason our internet service is belly up tonight.  Anyway, I rambled on about the ds, port removal, and a happy birthday to Paula, hit submit to have it disappear.  I should know better than to type in the browser, but as usual I think I'm only going to type a couple of short words.

    Anyway, off in the morning to have my port removed, hoping to be coherent and back on-line tomorrow afternoon. 

    Paula, hoping that you and Eddie have a chance to celebrate your birthdays this weekend.  Happy Birthday's to you both !!!

    I'm fading quickly ... Carol 

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  • wvgirl
    wvgirl Member Posts: 196
    edited November 2008

    GOOD FRIDAY GIRLS

    Carol  Thank You for the card I loved it and yes I also have the pleasure of the hot flashes. Embarassed

    The picture is GREAT Your visit sounds fun

    Thank you for the BDAY wishes D1 and Julie Carol

    Happy B Day to you and Eddie Paula Hope the two of you have a great day

    My mom brought over dinner dear brother his wife and my two nieces came over to eat and celebrate my day. Had a nice dinner with the family.

    My dear collage girls cleaned the kitchen Wed then ask what I wanted for my BDAY I told them that was enough . There though fullness was far better a gift than any material one .

    Well Better Get Back to work

    Carla

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2008

    OMG, D1, you have real initials ?! Who knew your real name was Blood Pressure !

    Agree on Carol's hair. It looks grand.

    Julie, good for you on the strategic retreat on the house sale. I love seeing the amazing things they can do with remodels on HGTV. That guy with the Mac laptop that takes $200,000 houses, does $40,000 in renovations, and ends up with a house that looks like a $500,000 house is my favorite. See if you can spring for a real architect to design the updates. It may cost more, but a good one will do it right, and has the insurance so you can sue him if he screws up Laughing. My next door neighbors have put their house up ... they're disappointed that no one is making an offer. Hello??? Ever watch the news neighbors?

    Decided to treat myself to a new MP3 player with high-end earphones as a treat ... one of my hobbies is high end audio and while I love my first player that got me through chemo and exercise the past year ... I've had the urge to upgrade. Plus the year-end bonus should be coming through in a couple of weeks. Can't wait. Stuff is on the FedEx truck in Somewhere, USA. Oh, and it's my duty as an American to stimulate the economy. Actually, that's one of my hobbies too  Wink. I think I'll keep the original player and put audio books and old-time radio shows on it. Project Gutenberg ... for those of you who aren't aware ... has a nice selection of classic novels and other works, free of charge, in MP3 format. These are public domain works that are read by volunteer readers. I'm thinking of doing some recording for them. Anyway, I listened to Persuasion (Jane Austen) recently, and have King Solomon's Mines on there waiting to listen to. I also spent about 3-4 weeks downloading ALL of the CBS Radio Mystery Theater shows ... 1300 in all ... that ran from the early 70s through the early 80s. Really great stuff. And older radio shows called Inner Sanctum and some others. On the old ones the quality is spotty ... some great, some almost unlistenable. All are a great way to spend 1/2 hour on the treadmill.

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  • KathyL
    KathyL Member Posts: 534
    edited November 2008

    Hi Jewels.  Boy have I missed a lot.  Happy Belated b-days to Paula and Carla.  Yesty was my dd's 6th.  Her party at our house is tomorrow.  I have been up to my earlobes this week and am just exhausted.  Today at work is a little slower, but not slow enough IYKWIM.  I'm hoping tonight I can get some R&R time just for me.  I haven't read the paper or turned on the TV all week.  I have no clue when I'll catch up on posts.

    Flu is starting to hit here.  I'm praying that my good handwashing, and the vaccine will cover me.  I'm surrounded by germs between my 2 jobs, dd's schoolmates, and my 2 kids.  I can't let myself get to run down, or I know I'll get something.  And, pink eye is going around ds's preschool class.  He has it of course.  I wear contacts, so I have been a freak about handwashing after I do his drops.  That dx started my week off...

    Felt bad for dd yesterday; the day was chaotic, not a real fun birthday for her.  We got home and our dog (who's 9) couldn't stand up at all without yelping.  Had us all scared (I thought maybe he'd had another seizure and fell).  The kids were both crying and freaking out.  The dog weighs over 90 lbs.  Dh had to scoop him up and take him to the vet right away.  Dh missed dinner, which upset dd, but made it home in time for cupcakes and singing.  The vet feels it's arthritis and put him on chondroitin powder.  He seemed better last night, but this morning it was the same scenario.  Anyway, it rained all day yesterday, and then the mess with the dog made us late for dd's book fair at school.  By the time we got there everyone was tired and stressed.  It was not a good scene.  I'm hoping tomorrow's party makes up for it.  Plus she's worried about the dog.  And frankly, I don't know what will happen there-- what do you do with a 90 lb. dog who won't walk?  Ugh!

    I'm hoping to catch up on posts some year!  I've breezed through them real quick.  GTG, work to do!

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  • Determined1
    Determined1 Member Posts: 806
    edited November 2008

    Honest to God, who invited LJ to our party?  She's so lippy...

    Today I seem to have an "eat" going.  I'm trying not to snack, but my mouth really wants stuff!  I find it annoying as I'm still 6 pounds away from my goal (although I'm about to kiss off two of those pounds and revise my goal-I just know if I do that, though, it will be the beginning of the end...).  Maybe if I spend some time with you all, my mastication phase will pass.

    So I got some pix from my sister to post.  My sisters are identical twins, although they don't look much alike to me.  The one with the shorter hair was the one who had Hodgkin's Lymphoma 3 years ago.  She now has a new lump (I told you all about that) that her doc's have changed their minds on and will have to have it removed around Thanksgiving time.  And because the news just keeps getting better, she had a bad mammo since we've been home and now has to figure out what's next with that (this on top of the bad thyroid that hasn't been managed, yet).  She had to turn around and head out on a business trip the day after we returned from Eleuthera, so she hasn't had a chance to do anything about her health.  Ugh, Debbie Downer.  So here are the pix:

    This one is the three of us at a beach we used to frequent as kids.  The little island in the background on the left hosted our snorkeling forays many, many times.

    Here we are, drinking the Kitty dry in the Nassau airport.  Those are Yellow Birds we're enjoying!

    Finally, I had to post one that proved we actually did some work!  We sorted many shelves of books and then my librarian sis had us color code them so the patrons would know what to expect from the books.  We also made circ cards and envelopes for the cards in the back of each book.  This is just one case of books, there were a total of 3 cases we finished up in this particular library (all of the children's collection).

    So, other than LJ giving me shit for my blood pressure and single-handedly driving our economy, what's up?

    Julie, taking the house off the market right now is probably a smart move.  You won't get your value back in this economy.  Join me in the renovation revolution!  (I'm redoing a bathroom.)  We can commiserate online...

    Geez, Carol, everything's just aching to test your emotional state, isn't it????  (At least it's the weekend!)

    A clean kitchen sounds like the best gift, ever, Carla!  Glad your girls came through for you.

    I can't believe you have time for a post, KathyL!  I hope the bday party goes better than the family celebration.  Get your dog a wheelchair!  (Seriously, I hope he's back to his old self soon.)

    Best birthday wishes to Paula and Ed!!!  I hope you have a grand celebration!

    Onward!

    D1

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  • JulieK_11_30_07
    JulieK_11_30_07 Member Posts: 260
    edited November 2008

    Paula and Ed -- this one's for you!! Hope you have a FABULOUS birthday weekend!!

    More later when I have more time - enjoy your weekends, girls!

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  • golfer779
    golfer779 Member Posts: 1,378
    edited November 2008

    Happy Friday,

    We'll I've been "de-ported" today.  Went in at 9:00, woke up in recovery at 12:30.  No it was not a 3 ½ hour long procedure, the OR was running late.   I went through 3 warm blankets as the dh and I sat waiting our turn.   So the anetheseologist (sp) used a general on me, but one that wears off pretty darn quick.  I felt tired but great, came home and just got up from a 2 hour nap and hoping that ice and Tylenol do the trick tonight.

    The dh spent the better part of the afternoon with Comcast trying to get our "puters" back up and running in the house.  Seems as if they we're updating "the system" which in turn screwed up our settings on the router which had us dead in the water since yesterday.   

    Wow, my fingers are having a hard time coordinating with my brain here ...  so since my last, I had mentioned about the ds upsetting his parental units once again.  Long story long, he decided to get his ears pierced last weekend.  Not that big of a deal ... but was not given permission to do so.  Once again he pretty much did not like what his father had said when he asked about it last weekend (yes I was once again out of town when he decided to pull this stunt), so thought he'd just do what he wanted to do with no regards to being told that he needed to get both his dad and I together to discuss it.  Status as of today, the earrings are OUT, his car is once again history, and thankfully his dad did not cancel his car insurance which he threatened to do in the heat of the moment.  Here the kid was moving along in the right direction with school, working hard at Sylvan, had a great skate meet last weekend, and then does something foolish, with no thought at all of the consequences. 

    D1, awesome pics there gal, I love a story told with pics to share.  Talk about identical smiles on all three of you.   I could spend some serious time on that beach !!!  What the heck is a Yellow Bird???

    So I read your take on the sleeve, I'm not overflowing out of it at either end, its just not real comfy.  I was fitted for my sleeve over in Bellevue (not very convenient to home), and unfortunately I will be needing to use it again next Thursday as we're heading down to Phoenix.    I assume that the point of wearing it is to compress which it does a good job of.

    So our college girl/boyfriend story ... she decided she wanted to head off to the college he was at (imagine that), they get an apartment together, he decides after 3 weeks, that he doesn't want to cohabitate together (they've been together for 4 years).   Thankfully she did walk on to the soccer team, has made some new friends and life is moving along in a positive direction.  There we're a few weeks with the emotional rollercoaster thing going on.  Hope that your daughter makes some good decisions in the long run.   In the meantime ... breath in/breath out Mom!!!

    Oh, I must say I did crack up with LJ's reference to our "fearless leader ... blood pressure"!!!

    Kathy, I hated to read about "your big guy" (that's how the dh and I refer to our Reggie boy), is having some issues.  Bummer anytime to have something like that happen, double bummer to have it happen when you we're trying to have a celebration. 

    Here's hoping your having some Kathy time as I type here tonight.

    LJ, I kinda had to laugh at the hair comment, as the pic of myself and the baby is me first thing in the morning just out of bed.   I've actually just had a cut/color this week.  Here so many of you are trying to grow your hair out, and I'm cutting mine off every 5 weeks.

    My latest on the treadmill is Grey's Anatomy's first season on my I-touch.  Forty five minutes just flies by!  Your idea of old radio shows sounds rather entertaining as well.

    "BP" ... too funny !!!!!

    Carla, sounds like your b-day celebration was enjoyable, I'm happy for that.

    Julie, my goodness gal, you've all been through a whirlwind with house decisions.   Sounds like you've found the right fit for yourselves, I know I'd hate to have to sell right now with the market in the dumps. 

    Back to your comment D1, loved your "whore moans" reference.  I'm totally thinking that's my problem.  I've always been a bit thinned skinned, but at times now it's embarrassing.  Here I was at my gf's salon, had just had a hot stone massage (which BTW was fantastic),  then she was doing my hair and we're talking about Zach's poor decision making and crap the tears just start streaming down my cheeks.  My poor gf felt bad that she had upset me, which she had not said anything out of line. 

    To my SP, my new tote was totally perfect on my short trip last weekend.  It will be stuffed full again here next week, with my book, mags, I-pod, phone and purse.  Heck it even fit a small loaf of San Fran sourdough bread in it !!!

    Kimberly, glad your weekend at Carmel was relaxing.  So is Carmel close to Monterey?  Have you ever heard of the Sardine Factory Restaurant in Monterey, my cioppino recipe is from that restaurant and delicious. 

    What' s the date of Kathleen's surgery?

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY PAULA !!!

    Time to have a little something for dinner,  and veg out in front of the boob tube. 

    Night all, Carol

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  • Cathy-CA
    Cathy-CA Member Posts: 686
    edited November 2008

    Like others, it seems like I have good intentions of posting and then time gets away from me.  I had a followup with the surgeon on Monday.  Everything looks good, but she wants an MRI to be sure even though I just had a mammo.  I think I've mentioned before that she's a BC survivor, so is overly cautious.  I have that scheduled for early December.

    My MIL was dx'd with lymphoma two weeks ago and started chemo last week.  We've never been close, so the dx isn't affecting me emotionally.  However, talking with dh about his mother's treatment has dredged up a lot of feelings about chemo that I had sort of buried as I've moved on.

    The 3-Day is next weekend.  We have our final training walk on Sunday and then are going out for brunch as a group.  We were almost all strangers when we started training together six months ago and have become friends.  Walking miles and miles every weekend gives you lots of chance to talk and discover what you have in common.  I know there's some talk of having a monthly walk just for fun after the big event.  A couple others in the group have suggested that we try a city other than San Diego next year as a mimi-vacation.  I'm game for that, so we'll see what happens.

    Carol -- the surgeon told me she just does port removal in her office under a local.  I will still need mine until the end of January and the onc may have me keep it for six months after that.  Is there a reason your removal was done in the OR?

    D1 -- thanks for the pix.  Hope things works out well with college girl and bf.  I think my college boy has a girl friend, becasue I'm seeing a couple charges on the AmEx for Claire's.  When I asked what he bought (scratching my head trying to figure it out since I think they only sell girly things), he avoid the topic and said he'd cover it.  Since I normally get a very creative story on why I should pay for all of his charges I find this telling.

    Happy Birthday, Paula!

    Kathy -- hope the germs don't catch up with you.

    Julie -- hope your remodel goes smoothly.  I can't tell you how many times through the years we've started to look at other houses and then decided to stay put and just improve ours. 

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  • golfer779
    golfer779 Member Posts: 1,378
    edited November 2008

    Wow, its Saturday night already ... it's been a lazy day around here today. 

    I unfortunately have not breezed through the port removal as well as a few of you.  I'm friggin' sore !!!  I started to feel some pain by bedtime last night, stupid me ... did not even take the "scrip" for pain meds from the surgeon.  Thank goodness I still had some meds from my surgeries last year.  I tried to suck it up today without any pain meds, finally tonight had to give in.  Trust me I'm not one to give in to the strong stuff as I don't enjoy the se's from my two italian cousins "Consti" and "Pation".  Seems as if this is not the norm for most to be so sore, so for those of you that still have a port to be removed, I hate to complain and not be able to share the positive experience of others.  In the grand scheme of things I know this will just be a blip on the radar.

    Cathy, my surgeon's office whom put my port in was at the University Hospital in Seattle, when I called them to see about scheduling the removal they said that they did the procedure only under a local anethesia ... I wasn't game for that.  I ended up having it removed here locally under a general (my choice as I have had no problems recovering from a general), at a day surgery center.  I'm happy to have been out for the procedure, now I'm hoping to be able to swing a golf club by Thursday !!!

    I'll be looking forward to hearing your story of next weekends big walk ... I was checking out some AZ news sites today to see their coverage of the event this weekend.  I know our team leader is hyped to be heading to San Diego to participate in your event.  I'll be tuning in via the "net" from Mesa next weekend ... have a wonderful experience my friend.

    Happy Sunday to you all ... Carol

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  • RN2teach
    RN2teach Member Posts: 312
    edited November 2008

    Evening Jewels,

    Whew! I have a lot to catch up on...

    Dana- oh dear, Lil Warrior! I'm so very sorry to read about your dad's illness and death. You're a true SHERO, girl- caring for your dad, battling cancer AND graduating from nursing school. You should be back from your cruise soon. I know it must be a bittersweet experience since this was a gift from your dad. I hope that you come back rejuvenated and ready to pass those boards. You're in my prayers.

    Carla- happy belated birthday, WVGirl! I'm glad your girls were good to you- nothing like a clean kitchen, eh? Also good to see that you are planning for a better future for yourself. You deserve better than a life with an abusive husband and your girls will come around. We're all rooting for you!

    Kathy- hope the birthday party went well today. Pink eye and flu bugs... ah, the joys of motherhood! Hope your good handwashing helps you dodge the bullet and stay healthy! God knows you don't have TIME to be sick... Hope your doggie is feeling better- poor baby!

    LJ- thanks for the weight training and Project Gutenberg links. I haven't gotten into audio books yet, but I love to read, so maybe it's time to give it a try. What kind of MP3 did you end up getting?

    Carol- thanks again for the birthday surprise! Sorry to hear that you're having a bit of pain from the port removal. Hopefully, it will be short-lived. Baby Katie is precious- what a great picture of the two of you! Sorry to hear Zach had another "wild hair" while you were out of town. Teenagers can be such a PITA sometimes... I had a bit of a disagreement with dd's bf today. He is more of a drama queen (king?) than my dd, so he blew it waaayyy out of proportion. As if having a high maintenance dd wasn't enough... SIGH

    D1- I don't know what a Yellow Bird is either, but judging from your smiles it musta been good! I can see the family resemblance- esp. in the smiles, like Carol mentioned. What a treat to revisit the site of such sweet memories! How trying that your college girl's new beau is a dud... my dd is only 15 and in her first "relationship" (as the Myspace generation calls it). I'm growing to dislike this boy more and more... he's moody and has been verbally abusive to her on several occasions. It infuriates me! Esp. when I hear her begging and crying... ARGH! I've tried to talk to her, but you can guess how that goes. I'm the enemy. Ah, well...

    CHJ- So, did the colonoscopy results come back okay?

    Therese- Congrats on getting your gals all dressed up with the tats! LOL at the "hair tease away" analogy- IKWYM, my hair is so... POOFY. I'm due for a trim. Until a couple of years ago, I wore my hair nearly as short as it is now, but it was so straight. Never thought I'd look forward to getting rid of my curls, but I am!

    Sherry- haven't heard from you since you mentioned getting the biopsy results from your gastroscopy. Hope everything is A-OK and you're just too busy to post. I'm praying for a smooth transition to just ONE manageable job for you in the near future!

    PALady- as if one ovarian cyst wasn't enough... How'd the US go this week? Hope you got good results. With your BC history (not finding your lump on mammo) and your young age, I can't believe your doc wouldn't consider an MRI... It seems that the standard of care is just the annual mammo, though- that's what my oncologist recommends (and the blood work for tumor markers). I'm thankful to have a surgeon with an aggressive follow-up mindset. He did agree that the false positives can "have us chasing our tails," but believes it is still worth it. Don't be afraid to keep asking for that MRI if you feel that strongly about it.

    Deb- I hear you on the port removal! Why do you have to wait until January?

    Kimberly- thanks so much for the birthday card- yours was the first that I received this year! I see your port removal is coming up soon and Kathleen's surgery as well. You'll be in my thoughts. BTW, loved your school's mock election- what a great lesson for your students!

    Julie- I got my very own birthday animation on the Jewel thread- I've finally made it! LOL  I'd say you've made a sound decision with the remodeling vs. selling, given the economic situation. Happy decorating!

    Cathy- guess you're gearing up for your last training walk before the big event next weekend. Have fun! I'm glad you've got a cautious surgeon- wish all of the Jewels did... Sorry to hear about your MIL's cancer diagnosis. Not easy to have to relive those experiences, is it?

    Sorry this is so long- I get a little chatty when I'm catching up with my Jewel pals!

    Things are going "ok" here. Dh and I had quiet birthdays- no celebrations as he isn't feeling well. He is sleeping most of the time still and now having headaches. Trying not to read a lot into it as I know the meds can cause some brain swelling, but still... he's having difficulty carrying on a conversation and can't understand me half the time... MRI is scheduled for next Friday, then back to Duke...

    I'd better get moving toward the bed. I've sat here for so long that I'm going to be doing my 80-year-old shuffle when I get up. Have a good Sunday!

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  • Determined1
    Determined1 Member Posts: 806
    edited November 2008

    So, I've had a hankering to give our girl Carol a ringy dingy, but have hesitated because I don't want to interfere with family time.  So a post will have to do.  How are you?  As I recall, Friday your port was headed out to sea.  Perhaps as I read through the thread I'll see how you're doing, but you should know, you've been on my mind.

    Ah, yes, there's the mention of your "de-porting" (lol).  I love those warm blankets-the only good thing to be had in a surgery, imo.

    Darn it all, anyway!  Why does the ds have to do his weird teenage shit when you leave town?  Does he want you hanging in his business all the time????  Tell him it's time to straighten up and fly right.  You and his dad are tired of being disappointed, particularly when he seems to be moving along so well.  Maybe you all need to come up with a more constructive way for him to decompress whenever the whole "being a teen" scene gets overwhelming.  Would he be receptive to talking about options with you guys?  (Why is it so hard to be a teen?  You'd think with all the years humanity has been working on it, that it would improve, but NOOOOOOOO!)

    Yellow Bird-the rum drink with crème de banana, orange juice and pineapple juice.  You drink too many of them before you realize you're wasted...

    Well, maybe your sleeve fits okay, then.  I will say, I HATE wearing my compression every day and really look forward to about 7p when I allow myself to take it off.  The sick part is that when I take off the big bra, I can't just go braless-too much of a shock to the system-but wearing a regular bra feels great.  How sad is that???!!!!  I remember the day when I'd shed the regular bra at 7p and felt like the world was right again...

    Okay, I'll try to relax about the boyfriend for college girl.  I guess I don't really have to deal with it till he comes for dinner over Thanksgiving break...

    CathyCA, good for your doc in being so thorough.  I really like having all the testing done for my peace of mind.  I imagine you're getting the same comfort from your medical care.  Oh, and I know exactly how you feel about having buried your chemo memories.   When we were in the Bahamas, one of my old friends was really curious about chemo and I found myself describing some of the se's and, in the back of my mind, wondering where on Earth I found the strength to deal with them.  I hope your MIL finds the strength, too.  Oh, got a smile out of your ds' charges from Claire's.  And our kids think we're stupid...

    Good luck for your 3day!  I'll be there in spirit (and marveling at your wisdom in forgoing the tenting experience).

    Reminder to Carol-you're supposed to stay AHEAD of the pain.  Take the scripts and some colace.  Maybe you can use it as an excuse to call in sick tomorrow...

    Paula-I cannot imagine you doing the 80 year old shuffle-you are as vibrant as anyone I've ever met!  Oh, I do hear you on the whole boyfriend scene.  I want to talk to my college girl about boyfriends (this is her first relationship-unless you count the high school years she spent pining for this kid) and how you are still "you" and don't have to become anything else to please this other person.  I want her to know that her goals and dreams should not change to accommodate anyone else-it's okay to achieve things as an individual-couples can still celebrate the individual successes a partner has and still be a couple.  You know, that kind of thing.  I'm just afraid I might blow it because she'll see right through to my disappointment that she's with this guy.  I'm going to have to keep it in check.  I remember from my own teen years, anything my parents really wanted me to do, I did exactly the opposite (and I wasn't particularly rebellious).

    Oh, and you guys want to see drinking smiles?  You should see the photos we took after we'd finished our Yellow Birds!  Those are not fit for the internet!!!

    I'm off to the in-laws this afternoon to watch the Vikings.  My fil has the football package so we can see the Vikes every weekend.  It really chews up the time I'd spend puttering around the house, but it is fun to watch the games (and if they're willing to pay for the package, I'm all for it!).  Tomorrow I get my next massage-I am SO looking forward to it!

    Later.

    D1

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2008

    Paula -- I ordered a Cowon D2. This is very popular among the "audiophiles" as having the best audio of all the players. I got a 16 GB model and it accepts standard SD cards for expansion, so I ordered another 16 GB for expansion, giving me 32 GB of storage. While that seems pretty roomy, I will put losslessly compressed FLAC (not MP3) audio onto it, because that will yield better sound. I currently rip MP3s at 320k, which is an "average" of 10 MB per song. Lossless compression will take up about 3-5x as much space, so that 32 GB will only be maybe (guessing) 30 CDs worth. It's not like peoples' Ipods where they put every song they own in a highly lossy format (say, MP3s at 128k encoding). Did I lose you somewhere back there, or are you still with me?

    On my main hi fi system, the sound is so good that I can hear hear such fine details as a clarinet player's keys softly tapping, a singer's lips parting, or a pan pipe player drawing in breath before playing. I know most people might think, "whatever" to that, but if it's your cup of tea, it adds a wonderful "you're there in the room with the performer" dimension to music. I'm trying to capture this level of detail in my portable player, hence the upgrade of both player and earphones. For new phones, I ordered Shure ES530s. They're very well reviewed, so I'm hoping they sound great. 

    The Cowon was very reasonably priced at about $160, the earphones about 2x that.

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  • SISKimberly
    SISKimberly Member Posts: 762
    edited November 2008
    Happy Sunday Jewels,
    What a beautiful day it is here in our area today. I am a bit behind aren’t I? Grrr, on the whole work thing just getting in the way, but then again, I am so grateful to have a job I enjoy, even with the frustrations that come along with it.


    So, it’s a new trimester, and so my kids all have an A until they prove me wrong.  My 6th period kids have settled a little bit, but I don’t think they’ll really get it until their report card grade is real to them.  Almost 1/3 of my students will be getting below a C-, and I even gave them a chance to retake a test…not many took me up on it. Sad!
    Oh well, I can’t change them, only encourage them to make better choices.

    I’ll be handing out tickets for completed work and good behavior that can be turned in for things they want: 5 for Sweet Treats, 10 for a Potty Pass, 15 for an Oops Pass for late projects, and 30 for a Pizza Party. I shouldn’t have to bribe kids to do what they should be doing because it is the right thing to do, but I guess intrinsic rewards just aren’t enough in this day and age. Sigh.

    Carol – So, you are port free. WhooHoo. Mine is coming out on the 26th in the OR as well.

    Sorry to hear about the ds stress. Hope that’s working itself out. Zack must have been feeling pretty good about school, work, and Sylvan…wanted to celebrate with a little ear piercing, eh? Man, it’s tough when kids feel grown up enough to make choices about their own lives, and don’t want to hear their parent’s viewpoints. Be happy it was only an ear piercing- which can be reversed just by taking the earring out, and that he’s not into drugs, alcohol, gangs, or unsafe sex (sex at all right now).  I hear ya on the being more emotional thing. You absolutely should blame it on hormones ‘cause they are making us weepier than usual.

    Kathleen’s surgery is Dec 4th. She’s got a PET scan on Tuesday. They don’t expect to find anything, but are doing it as another diagnostic measure.

    Cathy – In one week, you’ll be finishing your 3-Day. Can you believe it’s almost here? All the training will certainly be paying off. I’ll be thinking of you next week.


    Paula – You’re welcome for the birthday wish.  I’m sorry Ed’s having such a hard time with the headaches and just not feeling up to much. That’s got to be so hard on you.

    Did you meet with Carla?  I must have missed that post if you did.

    D1- OK, between being turned down for your license plate, dealing with the compression bra and sleeve, and now the bf you’re not so sure about…taking your mind off those things by redoing the bathroom is a great idea…what better way to deal with shit?  I know it’s hard to see your college girl all gaga over a guy who is more about himself, but it’s a lesson we women all need to learn one way or the other: what am I worth, and am I willing to stand up for myself to make sure I’m being valued?  Think of it this way, when it ends…and it will…she will be more willing to listen to that conversation you want to have with her, and hopefully, she’ll learn the lesson a lot earlier than I ever did.

    Loved the pics of you and your sisters.  I’m sorry to hear about your sisters bad mammo and tumor concerns. Hopefully, both are benign growths.

    Kathy-Hope the puppy is doing better, and that the kids had a fun birthday despite life happening all at once like it did.

    LJ13 – You are a downloading savvy woman. I’m lost, but I hope you get the HiFi quality sound you’re looking for.

    I think I’m caught up from the last time I posted. If I missed anyone, know I didn’t do so intentionally.

    Get that last SP surprise in the mail as I’ll be sending out the new ones over the Thanksgiving break for the Dec – February round of SP’s.

    SIS Kimberly
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  • golfer779
    golfer779 Member Posts: 1,378
    edited November 2008

    Hey Jewels,

    Been sitting inside most of the day, thankfully not needing the icepack like I did yesterday, and no need for the heavy duty pain pills (thank god as my Miralax has not kicked in ...TMI). We have the Seahawks game recorded (can't imagine that we will really want to watch it) but the dh has been outdoors doing honey-do's (actually winterizing the boat) all afternoon and the ds is burning off some steam at his grandma's doing yard work.

    Me, just paid bills, did a little bookwork and now I'm doing some downloading from I-tunes to my "device". As I wait for a slow computer, I'll type away. Oh, and lucky me, just got a call from our Sis Kimberly ... now that's a pick me up !!!

    So yes, Kimberly and I chatted (among other things) about really wanting to have a Jewel "get-together". With everyone's lives so crazy busy I know it's probably not forefront on many of our minds. I'll just start with throwing out a timeframe of mid to the later part of June ... so far so good ???

    LJ, you lost me with your first sentence !!! Now my dh and ds would probably be all over what you chatted about. I would be pretty impressed with the quality though.

    D1, so as I type I have no idea if your Viks won. I have kept the tv off, other than to watch a little of the golf channel today, I don't want to spoil our Hawks game we recorded with knowing the final score. Hope you had a win and good afternoon with the in-laws.

    Hey, call away ... trust me the family time around here is fair game, and you always lift my spirits. Speaking of spirits, I think I just might pour myself one !!!

    I'd give my left "hoot", well maybe not ... to stay home tomorrow !!! The ol' sick leave has gotten mighty thin. I won't be up to doing too much in the way of chaining and strapping down the big loads and shifting an 18 speed transmission, but I'm sure they can put me in a lil' ol automatic 5 ton to haul some sh*t around.

    Oh, and a Yellow Bird ... sounds like you drink too many of those and "up would come the banana's".

    So I can't totally relate to your "big bra" story, but I know that my prothesis bra's are a welcome relief to shed at the end of the day. I think I have become too used to just wearing my "training" bra's to give my remaining gal just a bit of support.

    Paula, glad you had a moment to check in ... I always get a good chuckle with your way with words. So we're we really like that as teenagers ???? I swear I was an angel !!!!!

    I can only wish good thoughts for Ed's MRI this week. As I go on complaining about some aches and pains with my port removal, feeling like an emotional wreck at times, and then read your positive spin on most everything, I get a bit of a reality check. You are an amazing woman, and I look forward to the day I can tell you that in person.

    Okay, probably should motivate to the galley, assuming I will have a couple of hungry mouth's to feed ...

    A pleasant eve to all, Carol

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  • kris60
    kris60 Member Posts: 91
    edited November 2008

    getting the follow up squish test this morning on lefty and chest xray for what used to be righty.... wish me luck... then I leave this afternoon for a TDY to Tinker AFB (OKC) til Wed night...no computer til then ARGHHHHHHHH.......

    hard to believe it's been a year

    Happy Monday all :)

    Kris

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  • wvgirl
    wvgirl Member Posts: 196
    edited November 2008

    Good Evening

    Ohh its cold here we have about 4 inches of snow. Just enough to make the roads slick and cause a few  wrecks, Took longer to come home tonight than usually.

    Carol  Hope your feeling better Had to laugh about your reference to the se's. Your story of the warm blankets reminded me of my cousin. During her 2nd surgery she was ask if she wanted a warm blanket, She started to cry and told the nurse she did not have any insurance and said the hospital charged me $85.00 the last time. The nurse said don't worry dear I wont write this 1 down.

     Kimberly- Here's to a Clear PET scan on sis Kat. I too am thank full for a job.Even though there are days customers curse,yell and even threaten me. I am great full to awake everyday  to get out of bed and to to work.

    Paula  I hate to hear about Ed I can not even begin to imagine what your going through. I hope Ed's feeling better and the appointment goes well. Hugs to you

    D1 I was looking on pics of funny license plates last night there was on from state of Va. it read WTF and they said yours was offensive go figure !

     Take Care

    Carla

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  • SISKimberly
    SISKimberly Member Posts: 762
    edited November 2008

    Quick Hi before I take off to work.

    Good talking to you, Carol. You always brighten my day.  

    Kris, what's at the AFB?  Did I miss that you were in the military?

    Carla, welcome aboard the SP train. I sent you a PM.

    $85 for a blanket?  Man...that's steep.

    GTG, SIS 

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  • Determined1
    Determined1 Member Posts: 806
    edited November 2008

    Hey Ladies.  So the Vikes and the Hawks still suck.  At least the Seahawks KNOW they're getting rid of their coach at the end of the season...

    Had my massage yesterday.  It was as good as the first one.  I've scheduled another for next week and after that my therapist wants to reevaluate.  I'm thinking maybe I need to go in EVERY day!

    Now I'm back from the gym and I'm putting off my shower because that means I have to climb in to my Flexi machine.  BORING!

    Damn, LJ, you know your audio shit.  I'm impressed.  I need you to be closer by when I'm in the market.

    I love your attitude about your students' grades for the next marking period, SISKimberly.  It reminds me of the "innocent until proven guilty" thing.  I hope they start to see the light this trimester.  And I don't see anything wrong with rewards.  Sometimes they add the extra incentive we all need.

    So I see Kathleen is getting her PET scan today.  Hopefully, it will help her team better define what they're going to do during her surgery on the 4th.  What surgery did she decide to do?  (Sorry if I missed it.)

    Doggoneit, Carol, I wish I'd just called.  I know my crew gets their bowels in an uproar (is that an okay expression to use around you, now?) when I disappear in to the phone, so I try to be sensitive about that.  The darn time difference makes it tough.

    Congrats on your cancerversary, Kris!  Thank God it's been a year!!!!!

    WTF, Carla?!  How did that make it past the thought police???  I tried arguing that mine stood for "Friends United By Cancer," but the gal on the phone didn't buy it.  Hey, I saw that you guys were getting some snow-drive carefully.

    You too, Paula, you're probably seeing some white stuff, too.  I'm sending my very best vibes to you and Ed.  Please take care.

    CathyCA-waiting for the results of your 3day...

    Thanks to my SP!  I received a little Thanksgiving cheer in the mail yesterday.  It made me happy and very, very thankful.

    Okay, off to my machine...

    D1

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  • kris60
    kris60 Member Posts: 91
    edited November 2008

    just a fast update.  FUBC!!!!!!! they took extra squish shots because they seen something on good ol lefty and then did an ultrasound, which the radiologist said he couldn't tell.. so he's recommending a biopsy.  I go see my surgeon Thurs.  I already have my mind made up. take it off!!!!  I don't want to screw around again and wait for biopsy results then have to possible go for another one to get a clear margin etc...... It was this exact time last year that I had my biopsy on my right one... I don't want to have to go through this again, but if it comes to that at least I already know what's coming and that takes alot of the scareiness away.

    Kim, I was in the military but now I am civil service. I still do the same job for the USAF as I did active duty.

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  • golfer779
    golfer779 Member Posts: 1,378
    edited November 2008

    Kris, hey gal ... I have both my fingers and toes crossed that you will get through the next couple of tough days with some positive news to share.  I have as well had some "extra" looks on my left side, back in Nov of last year they wanted to do a biopsy as well.  I then had a "second" opinion which wanted a new MRI of their own.  After that test, things looked okie-dokie.  As time went on, in the back of my mine I always kinda wondered about the two different opinions.  Did another U/S just a few months back and all looked good. 

    Not that I want to chat about my own diagnosis, I was just hoping that in the back of your mind it could lead to some calming thoughts over the next 48hours.   I must say that if I we're told what you we're after my 2nd, I'd probably be saying the same thing "take her off".  Please gal, try to take just a couple of deep breaths, although we have had great care, it's not an exact science and I'm holding out for you to have some good news in the next couple of days.

    Carol

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  • chj127
    chj127 Member Posts: 382
    edited November 2008

    Oh, Kris, that just sucks!  Deep breath...  I do know what you mean, though - just get rid of it all!!  I wonder sometimes if I should have had a mast instead of a lumpectomy.  If I end up taking it off in the end, it will really tick me off, because I just hated radiation.  Yell

    Anyway, I'll say a prayer for you that there's nothing going on.  And Kimberly - prayers too for your sis.

    I'm like many of the rest of you - next Monday is my mamm/MRI/followup with the surgeon.  I'm definitely getting anxious about the while thing.

    Have a good day, everyone!

    CHJ

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  • LilWarrior
    LilWarrior Member Posts: 268
    edited November 2008

    RN2Teach, I am just getting into boot camp tomorrow thru saturday to get prepared for the exam and I am so worried because I havent had a moment to study since my Daddy was dying. Is there some book or strategy you recommend for me.

     Hello Ladies, I am back.  I had a nice time but I think I brought two women on the cruise that I shouldnt have.  I did go snorkeling, surfing, jet ski, and swimming.  Relax is something we did not do much of.  I totally forgot you have to get dressed up each night for dinner, and formal, and captain night.  I didnt really enjoy that being that I was tired from the excursions we did everyday; the good part is that I didnt gain any weight from all the good food. I need a vacation from vacation - he he.

    I havent really cried yet, I mean I have shared some tears but I havent really broken down like I really needed too. I miss him alot, I found myself wanting to call him once I got back from the cruise and I said Damn, he is gone what was I thinking.

     Its so scary now to me to see him die so quickly within 4 weeks, but I know he felt good being here with me.  I was by his bedside for at least 20 hours out of a day. I really believe if he was still able to get out and run his errands he would of lived longer but I seen him give up and I dont blame him. Its hard just laying in the bed day after day, he was a go getter - like me.  Well I need to change the subject now before I start crying.  Its just hard, I dont have a mom or Dad, and also my bro from the loss of cancer. But I told God the buck stops here - I am not dying from cancer give me another package.  he he

    I now have to start studying for the board exam and I am a little worried but I have faith in God what will be will be.

     I miss you all, and thanks so much for worrying about me.  Some of you sent me cards to let me know that you are thinking of me, and it really touched me at the times I needed it the most.

    I am just waiting to get this job and move out - you wont believe it but my Daddy left me over $100,000.00 dollars and I am so afraid to touch it.  I took it out on Monday and put them in Savings accounts with the highest interest right now - since the market is so bad. Once I get my job I am moving out of here and finding my own peace of mind and serenity.

     So much has happened while I was taking care of my Dad at my house, the fires got so close I had to evaculate all of us and put my Dad into another place for the day, then my roommates (ex-boyfriend) daughter decides to steal from me and steals at least $10,000.00 dollars of diamonds from me and my MOms wedding ring.  I told her if I ever see her again in life I am going to kill her. I just cant forgive her, I have tried over and over but I cant.  I feed and clothed this girl and she steals from me and my moms wedding ring.  I will just wait till my cancer is terminal and tell her I want to say goodbye and then stab her - he ha.  Then i will not have nothing to lose - he ha - Sorry I have to make jokes about it.

    Then I come back from the crusie and again the fire is back and worse; but God has spared me once again. I just love God so much.  Even when you are at rock bottom you can still feel his presence.  Oh yea, my family is trying to figure out what my Dad left me and telling me that they are broke, well to me they should of thought about taking care of my Dad while he was alive and not turned their back on him. My Dad was an abusive Dad but still he was my Daddy and I knew I had to take care of him and i think he knew I would of taken care of him too and that is why he left me everything.  He he so the joke is on them!!!

     I will back on here more often now - and again I love you all.  I have been praying for all of us and please dont forget about me.


    Love,

    Dana

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  • Determined1
    Determined1 Member Posts: 806
    edited November 2008

    Holy shit.  No, Kris, it's

    FUCK YOU BREAST CANCER!!!!!!

    (I hope I didn't offend anyone.)

    I guess you're going to be seeing your surgeon tomorrow.  I'll be sending all my very best your way.  Be strong, and like Carol says, stay optimistic.  You've got the sparkle of the Jewels on your side.

    CHJ-I'll bet you're a little shaky about your mammo/MRI.  Hold your head up and march on in there.  Don't second guess any decisions you've made along the way-you made them when they were the best options at the time.  You're going to be great, I can just tell.  (Weather cold enough for you?)

    LWDana-Glad to have you back.  It sounds like your cruise was just the ticket-despite the fact you had to dress for dinner.  I know what you mean about wanting to call your dad.  Mine died seven years ago and I talk to him all the time.  You have to know he's there for you-and will probably do a better job parenting with the advantage of hindsight.  Don't ever give up on him.  As for your family, be gracious, but firm.  Family is a tough nut sometimes.  But you have to look out for LW (who will find a way to prepare for those exams-you always amaze).  Oh, and it's so unfair that you didn't gain any weight on your cruise-you put me in an environment with that much rich food and it's a disaster waiting to happen.

    So I went to my gentle yoga trial today.  I LOVED it.  This would have never been my schtick a year ago, but I'm a little different now.  I'm going to call the coordinator tomorrow to see if my friend and I can pay a prorated amount for the remaining three classes in this session, rather than waiting till Jan. 21 (day after inauguration!!!!!) to start the new session.

    Oh, and I made the first call to a therapist.  It led to a list of referrals since the doc I was calling was not accepting new patients.  So I made the call to a LCSW on the list since it's a woman and she deals with relationship issues (which I believe is the crux of my bad feelings).  I'm a little anxious awaiting her return call as it means I'll have to start actually spilling some beans, but I can do it.  I know you guys are all cheering me on and it helps more than you'll ever know (and if you're not cheering me on, you should.)

    Carol, have a good trip and I hope some golf is in the cards for you.

    Onward.

    D1

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  • golfer779
    golfer779 Member Posts: 1,378
    edited November 2008

    Hi Jewels,

    Well, its "CATION" time once again. Although I have been fortunate to have taken a couple of cations already this past year, for some reason it seems like its been ages. This will be the first time that we have been gone over the Thanksgiving holiday. For our kids, it makes it easy to decide which household to chow turkey at !!!

    We are heading to the airport tonight, the hassle of catching a ferry or driving around the peninsula for a 7:30am flight gets my knickers in a knot. The stay and park packages are a wash as far as the price to park in one of the lots for 10 days, and we'll be a quick shuttle ride away from the airport.

    We have a tee time for tomorrow afternoon, I unfortunately don't think my chest has quite recovered from the port removal to be whacking a golf ball. Hopefully by the weekend I will be up and running. Hey, somebody should be sitting on the patio enjoying a "rita" cheering those golfers on !!!

    I'm really excited to get the chance to see my friend Ginny as well. She winters with her husband in Surprise AZ, and their home is also on a golf course, we‘ll be spending one night with them. Gosh its getting better all the time. If time permits I'd also like to be able to atleast share an hour with a gal whom I chat with on the CMF post, who I met last spring while visiting AZ. She has just had some scary times with another lump felt, as of her last, the doc believes it is just a cyst but she will be awaiting a final pathology report here soon. She has already had to deal with a reoccurence so this would just not be fair.

    The dh will have his puter with him, and lucky me I can now surf the site with my phone, I've got a long ways to go to be fast enough to post with the Blackberry.

    Just a quick shout out to Kris ... you are definitely in my thoughts and I can hope that you will have some good news here by weeks end.

    Later, Carol

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  • chj127
    chj127 Member Posts: 382
    edited November 2008

    Carol - have a great vacation!  I'm about ready for one of those myself...

     D1 - YES, too cold, much too cold this early in the season.  The "normal" is 55, and I'd settle for that, really I would.  I hope you can hook up with a good therapist.  I worked with a woman in Rockville (or was it Bethesda?) my first time around.  She was a LCSW, and was the woman who facilitated the support group I was a part of for about a year. (The group was for "young women" and at 39 (back in 1994) I was the oldest one in the group of 18.)  She was just awesome, and met with me one-on-one for a couple of sessions. It was so helpful, so I hope you can get someone you click with.

    Dana - good to hear from you again.  You have been through so much, I don't know how you do it!  I hope your exam goes well and you are able to get on with a new career when all of this schooling stuff is over with.  Take care of yourself, girl!

    Nighty-night!

    CHJ

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