I ain't 30 anymore
When I was 37 and went through the TRAM procedure I was back on my feet (lifting wheel barrows of top soil) fairly soon. I'm 51 now and stage 1 really knocked me down and now after stage 2 I feel like it's going to take me forever to be able to exercise like I used to. Anyone else have a similar experience?
Vicki
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Hey Vicki, I am only stage zero but I will be 51 in Feb and know what you mean about not being 30 anymore!!!! I think you need to give it time though. Of course our bodies are older but still resilient. It just takes longer to get back in shape. Before my surgery I was doing aerobic/weight-lifting with my DVDs (the firm series) and also walking my dog about 4 miles a day. I am just now back to the dog walking routine, but I still haven't gotten the weight training going. I just don't seem to have the energy yet. I do chalk that up to being older, but I have hope it will come in time!! Attitude is EVERYTHING!!!! Try to take baby steps and be patient. I am confident you will be back at top form but take it easy and don't beat yourself up over it! Good luck to you, Anne.
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Thank you, Anne.
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Vickie, I think the speed with which normal activities and exercise routines can be resumed varies with each individual. Be patient with yourself, but keep at it!
I will be 56 next week. At 5 week post bi-lat mastecomy (no reconstruction), I have been able to begin working out (aerobic exercise such as eliptical glider and stationary bike), However, I am can't lift weights or climb yet because my shoulder range of motion is not what it should be. I am going to physical therapy and stretching. I find it very frustrating. I don't know what effect my age is having on my recovery; however I think the fact that I have had three surgeries in the past six months (total hip replacement, lumpectomy & snb, & mastectomy) has made the recovery from the mastectomy more difficult. I am tired but when I make myself go the gym and work out, I feel much better. -
God Bless you Lisa!! After all that you are doing great!! I started doing squats and lunges and walking everyday. After the NY I'm going to go back to lifting.
Thanks,
Vicki
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Tell me about it - At first, I was so ashamed when I got on the elliptical and was covered in sweat in like 5 minutes.
Well, I'm up to 10, followed by 30 minutes on the bike, followed by light weights.
Of course, I was fat and out of shape and with significant asthma, but I have lost a bunch of inches and pounds, and I am not going to stop.
Woww,,, so glad I had somewhere to post that (out loud?)
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Good for you Can Do!!!!
Vicki
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Oh gawd, ladies! I can totally relate. I'm 54 and a physical therapist, which has its good & bad points with this whole issue!! We all just have to stop comparing our present selves with our younger selves, I guess! On the other hand, just because it may take us longer to get back in shape doesn't mean we won't look just as great with a toned up body once we do.
Here's some glimmer of hope to pass on. From week two of rads, I've been exhausted & haven't really recoved yet even tho' I'm done with rads now. Because once rads were done, I had to go back to work full time, so I'm exhausted from that. Also started tamoxifen & had to change antidepressants, so EEEEEK! Anyway, I have managed to eat a little better & I've made myself do a little toning & walk the dog for like 2-3 miles at least a couple of times a week. So, I had my fasting lipids done again this week, because I was put on Zocor for high cholesterol in May (another wonderful side effect of post-menopause!!). But tamoxifen is supposed to lower cholesterol, too, so I wanted to see if my doc would let me stop the Zocor. Well, guess what? All my bad numbers were down hugely & my HDL's (the good cholesterol) were up, which means that it wasn't all Zocor that did it, that my exercise has had a real effect on my system in a very short period of time - really only 3-4 weeks. So, I get to drop the Zocor!
Meanwhile, hang in there, everyone!
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KAK
Congratulations - you give me hope. I'm trying to pretend that I don't have to go back to my PCP to address my other help issues, because the last thing I want to do is add a cholesterol drug to my repertoire. I'm still trying to get used to taking diet tonic water to prevent leg cramps.
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