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A friend has told me that I am essentially NOT allowed to touch, care for, feed or clean up after my pets while I am in treatment....is this true? What do other pet owners do about their pets if they arent allowed to be anywhere near them?  I have a dog, 2 cats, a teddy bear hamster and two simease fighting fish.
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  • Panchoandlefty
    Panchoandlefty Member Posts: 181
    edited September 2008

    Ahhhh... all that sage advice from friends will get you. 

    In my pre treatment "Chemo Class" they told us not to change litter boxes, if possible. If you had to, wear gloves, etc. Pretty much the same advice I got when pregnant. Just use common sense.

    You're fine playing with pets, children, and scruffy neighbors.

    Stephanie 

  • hopefullady
    hopefullady Member Posts: 210
    edited September 2008

    I agree with Stephanie.  I have two adorable cats, one of them is sitting right here with me right now.  I have had surgery, radiation, and started chemo Sept. 15th.  Have been handling them, feeding them, caring for them and cleaning up after them all along.  

    I asked the nurse at my first chemo treatment about handling and holding them and she said that was fine, just don't pee on them!  

    If no one else scoops the litter box I will put on a pair of gloves to do that, usually.

    Chris 

  • pinoideae
    pinoideae Member Posts: 1,271
    edited September 2008

    Two dogs and a cat during chemo treatment not one made me sick.  Couldn't stand it if I had to quarantine myself from them. 

  • LibraGirl
    LibraGirl Member Posts: 160
    edited September 2008

    I have two cats and the only thing that changed during chemo was that my brother visited regularly to clean the litterboxes for me; when he couldn't make it I used gloves and a breathing mask to do it.  One of the cats is still quite young and playful, so I always made sure to cover my hands with gloves or socks if we "playfought" to avoid cuts/infection.  I cannot imagine having gone through treatment without them.

     I suspect the advice we are given to avoid contact with pets is directed to outdoor pets in particular and is erring on the side of extreme caution.  I think if you are on top of your hand-washing and hygeine it is unlikely to be a problem. 

  • Tamara67646
    Tamara67646 Member Posts: 293
    edited September 2008

    I also have a dog and cat and the only changes I made to the usual routines were:

    I don't clean the cat box or clean up in the yard after the dog (if nothing else this was the perfect excuse to delegate those chores to my DH).

    I am cautious with the cat to make sure I don't get scratched because of the concern about infections.

    I santize my hands more frequently. 

  • badboob67
    badboob67 Member Posts: 2,780
    edited September 2008

    I have a dog, cats, fish, and birds. I was told to have someone else take care of the litter box or to wear a mask & gloves. With birds, it's important to mask up too. There is a respiritory illness that can be spread with them--I can't remember what it's called. Some birds and other animals like turtles can carry salmonella as well. The main thing is to be smart and wash your hands often. Anything like kitty litter or newspaper/birdcage liner that can kick up dust is probably not good to inhale--chemo or not! Of course, if you have a break in your skin, you'll want to be sure and keep it clean and covered when in contact with animals/cages.

    I worry about my dog because he is a nervous licker. He hasn't been too interested in licking me since I started TAXOL, though. 

  • crazy4carrots
    crazy4carrots Member Posts: 5,324
    edited September 2008

    I concur with everything said above; how could we stand going through this without the comfort of our pets?

    However, the one cautionary note I would give you is to not let your cats lick you (if they usually do so).  We have 2 cats, and one of them is a licker -- every chance she gets!  While on chemo (and for about 2 weeks after the last tx), I had to brush her off repeatedly...luckily she didn't  take offence!

    Cheers,

    Linda

  • Shirlann
    Shirlann Member Posts: 3,302
    edited October 2008

    Well, I did everything for my pets.  But I did wash up carefully.  I think the benefits far outweigh any risks, especially with dogs, who have very few things that bother humans.  My dog got me through this nightmare.

    Hugs, Shirlann

  • coonie
    coonie Member Posts: 7,618
    edited October 2008

    Couldn't have made it without my two dachshunds!! They make me feel better :)

  • vhqh
    vhqh Member Posts: 535
    edited October 2008

    3 cats, 1 dog plus 8 horses, I had a hay supplier deliver and set out big bales of hay for the horses during the worst of the chemo but I still saw to getting them watered ect. and otherwise I took care of everything.  I should add that the horses are located 15 miles out in the country and I did chemo in the winter so it wasn't easy, I considered it my forced exercise, it would have been very easy to sit at home, snug and warm but the horses forced me to get out and about.

  • traveler56
    traveler56 Member Posts: 164
    edited October 2008

    I am glad to read this as I would not want to have to not be near my dogs -- are the only ones that don't treat me in any way shape or form differently! (even though my family, friends co workers have been great )  I will be starting radiation only in the next 2 weeks or so, and I am worried I will be too tired to walk the younger one -- he is so happy leaping through the weeds that you just can be sad watching him!

  • kerry_lamb
    kerry_lamb Member Posts: 778
    edited October 2008
    Girls, if I didn't do the box it would be overflowing to the front yard! Laughing Cuts and scratches have to be watched (that antibacterial gel pump-bottle stuff everywhere is the go). I also have those clear waterproof bandaids around every bend. I was really paranoid before chemo started but being sensible is all that is required. The endorphins that loving pets generate in us are worth every iota of risk. (And horses! how good does a horse's breath smell?? Heaven!)  Now..if I could only get the teenager to cover his mouth when he sneezes.....Embarassed
  • Yogi70
    Yogi70 Member Posts: 654
    edited October 2008

    This is an e-mail my mom sent me. It made me cry and I wanted to share it with other pet owners.

    A GREAT DOG STORY

    Anyone who has pets will really like this. You'll like it even if you don't and you may even decide you need one!

    Mary and her husband Jim had a dog named Lucky.  Lucky was a real character. Whenever Mary and Jim had company come for a weekend visit they
    would warn their friends to not leave their luggage open because Lucky would help himself to whatever struck  his fancy. Inevitably, someone would forget and something would come up missing.

    Mary or Jim would go to Lucky's toy box in the basement and there the treasure would be, amid all of Lucky's other favorite toys. Lucky always stashed his finds in his toy box and he was very particular that his toys stay in the box.

    It happened that Mary found out she had breast cancer. Something told her she was going to die of this disease....in fact, she was just sure it was fatal.

    She scheduled the double mastectomy, fear riding her shoulders. The night before she was to go to the hospital she cuddled with Lucky. A thought struck her...what would happen to Lucky? Although the three-year-old dog liked Jim, he was Mary's dog through and through. If I  die, Lucky will be  abandoned, Mary thought. He won't understand that I didn't want to leave him.  The thought made her sadder than thinking of her own death.

    The double mastectomy was harder on Mary than her doctors had anticipated and Mary was hospitalized for over two weeks. Jim took Lucky for his  evening walk faithfully, but the little dog just drooped, whining and was miserable. 
    Finally the day came for Mary to leave the hospital.  When she arrived home, Mary was so exhausted she couldn't even make it up the steps to her bedroom.  Jim made his wife comfortable on the couch and left her to nap. Lucky stood watching Mary but he didn't come to her when she called. It made Mary sad but sleep soon overcame her and she dozed.

    When Mary woke for a second she couldn't understand what was wrong. She couldn't move her head and her body felt heavy and hot. But panic soon gave way to laughter when Mary realized the problem. She was covered, literally blanketed, with every treasure Lucky owned!  While she had slept, the sorrowing dog had made trip after trip to the basement bringing his beloved mistress all his favorite things in life.  He had covered her with his love.

    Mary forgot about dying.  Instead she and Lucky began living again, walking further and further together every day. It's been 12 years now and
    Mary is still cancer-free.  Lucky?  He still steals treasures and stashes them in his toy box but Mary remains his greatest treasure.

    Remember....live every day to the fullest. Each minute is a blessing from God. And never forget....the people who make a difference in our lives are not the ones with the most credentials, the most money, or the most awards. They are the ones that care for us.

    If you see someone without a smile today give them one of yours! Live simply. Love seriously. Care deeply. Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God.

    A small request: All you are asked to do is keep this circulating.

    Dear God, I pray for the cure of cancer.  Amen

    All you are asked to do is keep this circulating, even if it's to one more person. In memory of anyone you know that has been struck down by cancer or is still living with it.

  • vhqh
    vhqh Member Posts: 535
    edited October 2008

    Yogi - I LOVE THIS STORY!!!  It's a real day brightener.

  • jdg1
    jdg1 Member Posts: 608
    edited November 2008

    Great story.  My oncologist just told me not to clean up after the animals and never told me I still could not touch them.  Actually, at that time I only had 2 dogs and 1 rabbit.  My youngest dog came and slept with me the first chemo tx.  I know she knew something was not right but after that she seemed standoffish from me.  Dogs are smart and I believe she knew that what was being given to me was not good. 

  • Celtic_Spirit
    Celtic_Spirit Member Posts: 748
    edited November 2008

    I cleaned up after three cats, a pet rat, a betta fish, and the aquarium through nine months of surgeries and treatment (chemo and rads). One cat sleeps under my right arm every night, up against one of my mastectomy and axillary dissection scars (I'm also receiving "cat therapy"). I didn't get sick once. What worried me the most was using the public restroom at the large university where I work. Those students are nasty! After washing my hands, I didn't touch anything in that restroom unless I had a paper towel in hand.

  • RetrieverMomNancy
    RetrieverMomNancy Member Posts: 84
    edited November 2008

    Patrice,

    I went through 6 rounds of TAC last fall and recently discovered mets on my spine have started me on 6 cycles of Taxal/Avastin/Zometa in October. We have two dogs and I agree with everything said already. My husband has taken over the back yard clean and he does a better job than I ever did!

    One thing I would mention is that if you have pets who tend to drink out of the toliet, make sure you double flush, or keep the lid closed, at least for the first week or so after every treatment.

    Nancy

  • RetrieverMomNancy
    RetrieverMomNancy Member Posts: 84
    edited November 2008

    Patrice,

    I went through 6 rounds of TAC last fall and recently discovered mets on my spine have started me on 6 cycles of Taxal/Avastin/Zometa in October. We have two dogs and I agree with everything said already. My husband has taken over the back yard clean and he does a better job than I ever did!

    One thing I would mention is that if you have pets who tend to drink out of the toliet, make sure you double flush, or keep the lid closed, at least for the first week or so after every treatment.

    Nancy

  • Stormy1
    Stormy1 Member Posts: 436
    edited November 2008

    Y,all,

    When i was diagnosed 5 years ago my dr. told me not to ride b/c of bone mets. I never stopped riding, I even hopped on a horse bareback on the way home from the hospital after my mastectomy. There would be little living w/o my corgi and my horses. 5 years later I'm getting ready to start chemo a 3rd time and I still ride and care for my horses myself. They take care of me to. God sure knew what he was doing when he created our best friends. Don't ever consider giving up your pets for a millisecond.

  • cp418
    cp418 Member Posts: 7,079
    edited November 2008

    I was advised not to clean my kitty boxes (asked husband to).  However, I have a dog, 3 cats, 3 birds and 2 horses.  The cats would sleep with me when I had my crash days.  They never left my side.  I got someone to help clean stalls during the week but I did them on the weekend.  However, I groomed my horses and lightly rode whenever I could.  Jeezze - how did they expect me to maintain my sanity if I didn't have my animals???

    Stormy1 - you are awesome.  One day I got dizzy in the barn aisle and laid down.  My older horse immediately knew something was wrong and kept calling to me and running in circles in his stall.  He made me get back up to reassure him I was okay.  There is no doubt how much we love each other.  He gives me the will and purpose to keep on fighting and get through these treatments. 

  • Stormy1
    Stormy1 Member Posts: 436
    edited December 2008

    The horses are so totally awesome because they know how frail you feel after chemo and will walk in small steps besides you as if they are leading you. Ussually they are very careful not to drop you.

    When I was exhausted and dealing with my bad news PET scan a few weeks ago I had dogs pressed against my body as I lay in bed.

    The animals are such a huge part of hope, treatment, and recovery. They are a support group that never takes a break. They are closer than best friends. Can you even imagine being without horse hugs?

  • Deb-from-Ohio
    Deb-from-Ohio Member Posts: 1,140
    edited December 2008

    I have two german shepherds, while I'm GLAD I don't have to mess with the litter box for awhile, I never once stopped petting mine....I just kept a small bottle of purel near me, after I pet them, I put it on my hands.........I have two german shepherds, one is over 150lbs.....he's usually my  hubby's dog, but the whole time I have laid on the couch after hitting that wall after chemo, that dog has been right by my side, laying on the floor next to me......how can you not pet them? They give such unconditional love....and it's truly amazing how much they love you back.......

    Love, hugs and prayers

    Deb

  • nancyu
    nancyu Member Posts: 97
    edited December 2008

    I was alone and took care of them just like I alwawys did.  If the hamster bites you, have it looked at.

  • Stormy1
    Stormy1 Member Posts: 436
    edited December 2008

    How do hamsters show appreciatin for you? My sister says that theirs' was always alert to them when they walked in the room. Janet Evanovich's Rex  seems to let his whiskers whirr.

  • kaylamarie626
    kaylamarie626 Member Posts: 3
    edited December 2008

    My mom was the told the same thing about cleaning up after her pets but the doctor never told her that she couldnt be around her dogs ( with cats its different b/c the tend to dig in there litter boxes.) what the doctor told my mom about indoor dogs was its better to be around them then in a gern filled hospital and be sure to get there nails cleaned every 2 weeks. About your hamster and fighting fish you still cant clean them with out gloves and all and if you want to handel your hamster then i suggest garden gloves because if it does bite you it wont be as bad since he'll be biting through thick plastic first. other than that i think you should ask your doctor about your cats and dogs if they are outdoor animals the rules may be different depending on the enviroment in which your animals live.

  • PinkLaddy
    PinkLaddy Member Posts: 133
    edited December 2008

    Hi All,

    I'm just curious if your dogs acted different toward you after you stared chemo? I have 2 dogs and one is a Momma's girl and even sleeps right next to me but the last week has not and even picking up her bad puppy habits. I had my first chemo almost 3 weeks ago and did cut my long hair off short and now it's falling out. I'm getting it all buzzed on Tuesday.

    Thank So Much,

    Jerri

  • Ivylane
    Ivylane Member Posts: 544
    edited December 2008

    Whenn I was on treatrment my little Jack Russell wouldn't leave my side.... she was next to me on the recliner....

  • PinkLaddy
    PinkLaddy Member Posts: 133
    edited December 2008

    Mine is usually that way but she's different now. When I had a dufferent surgery earlier this year she was by my side at ALL times but now Really distant. It is strange.

  • Stormy1
    Stormy1 Member Posts: 436
    edited December 2008

    My corgi is most always glued to me but assures me that when I am in TX that those Mommy hugs and snuggles are ever so much more important. The horses are incredibly careful with me when I'm in TX. Maybe,your other dog needs to have a talk with her.

  • PinkLaddy
    PinkLaddy Member Posts: 133
    edited December 2008

    Hi Stormy1,

    I loved your note. All of a sudden she's back to being glued to me. I had to Shave my head yesterday and I really thought it would bother her but know I think it bothered my Hubby a bit more than her. What would we do without our PETS!

    My other Dog doestn't really notice since she is hard of hearing and eyesight a bit poor bless her.

    Thank You For The Response. I think I needed it tonight since I had my 2nd round of TC today.

    Bless You,

    Jerri

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