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  • AMANN
    AMANN Member Posts: 140
    edited October 2008

    Granny71, my prayers are with you. I am doing radiation now. I have 30 more treatments, so far not too bad. I just lay on the table everyday for about 7 min and close my eyes and pray the Lord's Prayer It calms me and makes the time fly by. I feel pretty good now, Thank the Lord, after 4 rounds of Chemo that took alot out of me.  And thank you Felicia.

  • Roya
    Roya Member Posts: 346
    edited October 2008

    Felicia, what is IGAP?

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited October 2008

    Roya, an IGAP is a reconstruction that takes fat and blood vessels from the bottom of your butt and micro-surgically implants them to your chest in the shape/form of a breast. It actually stands for Inferior Gluteal Artery Preforator flap. I'm skinny (no stomach to speak of) and athletic (didn't want any muscle moved, so TRAM and Lat Flaps were out), but I had a bit of "trunk junk" to spare, lol. There is another microsurgical reconstruction that uses tissue from the top of the butt (it is called an SGAP - Superior Gluteal Artery Prefrator), but my "extra" was much lower, so I wasn't a candidate for that, either.

    Here's a bit more info from my surgeon's site that might help do a better job of explaining it:  http://www.diepflap.com/br_treatmentoptions4.html

    Trina - welcome to our little group. So sorry you had to find us but glad you did. Did you decide what kind of surgery - lumpectomy or mastectomy - you'll be having for your DCIS? I'm asking because you may not necessarily need radiation, which could ease your melanoma fears. There are lots of women who have don't have to do rads - and maybe you'll be one of them. Talk to your doctor about it. In any event, all the best to you on your journey! Don't be a stranger, either Laughing

  • Granny71
    Granny71 Member Posts: 58
    edited November 2008

    To Amann: thanks for the encouragement and reminder of the comfort in the Lord's Prayer...Glad you're feeling pretty good.  To Felicia: Lumpectomy seems OK. Will discuss rads with new surgeon (second opinion) this week. Trust me: I'll keep in touch!

  • Roya
    Roya Member Posts: 346
    edited November 2008

     "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope. Then you will call upon Me and go and pray to Me, and I will listen to you. And you will seek Me and find Me, when you search for Me with all your heart." Jeremiah 29:11-13

  • AMANN
    AMANN Member Posts: 140
    edited November 2008

    Amen to that!  That is a good scripture to memorize. Thanks Roya.

    Have a blessed day!

  • ashley36
    ashley36 Member Posts: 23
    edited November 2008

    I agree that is a very good scripture.....

  • Roya
    Roya Member Posts: 346
    edited November 2008
    I am happy to report that Friday will be my very last Taxol treatment and this marks the end of my chemo!  I am soooooo grateful!!!  Now 6 weeks off and then I start the rads.  I am so looking forward to  getting my hair back.  Wink
  • AMANN
    AMANN Member Posts: 140
    edited November 2008

    Alright Roya!  I know the feeling. I am on my 3rd week of Rads. My hair is starting to grow back. I'm glad. I will be glad when these rad treatments are done. Roya may I ask how old are you? You look so young.

  • Roya
    Roya Member Posts: 346
    edited November 2008

    Thank you, Amann, for the compliment.  I am 36 years old but people say I look much younger.  I have a son who just celebrated his 15th birthday last weekend.  I also have a 17 year old daughter and a 4 year old daughter.  I married right out of high school had a baby and still went on to finish college. 

    How soon after chemo did you start your rads?

  • AMANN
    AMANN Member Posts: 140
    edited November 2008

    Yes you do look younger, but 36 is pretty young. :)  I am 42 myself. My oldest is 23 and I have a 17 y.o son that will be graduating this year. I got married right out of high school too, I was 19. We have been married 24 years now. It's amazing how time flys. I started rads about 4 weeks after my last chemo. What breast was yours found in, and did you have a lumpectomy?

  • Roya
    Roya Member Posts: 346
    edited November 2008

    Amann,

    I had my lumpectomy in my left breast.  I was so shocked when I first found that lump. I thought it was my death sentence,  I am soooooo appreciative of this web site.  Knowledge and awareness made a big difference in my attitude and outlook........kept me thinking positive.

    I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength. Philippians 4:13

  • Granny71
    Granny71 Member Posts: 58
    edited November 2008

    Greetings, my beloved sisters. Just checking in. Roya, congratulations on your progress.  Thanks for the reminder of Phillippians 4:13. Have been attracted to that Epistle recently, but was not sure why until now.  Progress report: after cancelling surgery, made a clean sweep of changes: medical center, pcp and surgeon. Have been able to figure out some emotional stuff that was probably helping to aggravate blood pressure. I'm also aware that the presence of DCIS, unwelcome in my body, may be pushing up bp readings. Surgery has been rescheduled for next week. Blood pressure readings are coming down steadily. I feel much more confident with this new surgeon, and I sense that she is the one ordained as God's healing instrument to set me back on my feet... the rest is up to me, placing my trust in Christ, the Great Physician who supervises all medical procedures. Shalom (peace), agape (the love of God), from my heart to yours ... Granny

  • AMANN
    AMANN Member Posts: 140
    edited November 2008

    Greetings, Yes thanks for the verse Philippians 4:13, I have to stay positive through my treatments. Granny yes it is up to us to place our trust in Christ. He will give us that peace. I was reading all of chapt 4 this morning I like verse 6 also. Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God. Roya stay positive as you are and you will get through this with ease. I am praying for the same.

    God Bless,

    Audrey

  • Granny71
    Granny71 Member Posts: 58
    edited November 2008

    Good morning, ladies: Granny checking in after surgery yesterday. Amann, your thoughts about prayer under stress were confirmed.  Just before surgery, my daughter took my hand -- this is always a signal for prayer at home.  The staff stood by respectfully and patiently while we prayed.  The post-op pain was intense! I couldn't focus on the Lord's Prayer, but I could call on the name of Jesus and that was enough.  I came home with a bottle of prescription pain killers, but the bottle has not been opened.  There IS no pain, just numbness. Felicia, the radiology issues will be discussed next week when the reports come in - the 3 procedures were sentinal node, dissection (ancillary?), and lumpectomy. God bless you, everyone!

  • Roya
    Roya Member Posts: 346
    edited November 2008

    I just want to wish everyone a very blessed and happy Thanksgiving day filled with a cornucopia of blessings and love.

    We have so much to be grateful for and we have one another,  Thank you for all the kindness and support that we have all shared here on this webb site.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2008
    i hate africansYellYell
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2008

    Moderator - a little help here, please?

  • Roya
    Roya Member Posts: 346
    edited December 2008

    Wow, it's December already!!!!!  I went for my rads consult last week.  This week I get the contrast study and 2 invisible tatoos.  I guess I will get to start rads before January after all.  I'm glad about that.  I heard that the sooner the better.

  • Lcharmie
    Lcharmie Member Posts: 430
    edited December 2008

    Hi Roya,

    Good luck to you on your Rads, and I hope the time goes quickly for you.

    Be sure and get some rest as it can make you feel very tired.  Keep us posted.

    Linda C

  • Fighter_34
    Fighter_34 Member Posts: 834
    edited October 2010

    Reading thru some of these post just make me want to cry. Once I was given my DX  my next move was to get my breast removed and fast. I am doing everything in my power to stay healthy and will continue to do so. 

    Are any of you ladies in clinical trails? Are you taking any supplements Vit C, D3, Flaxseed (chia seeds) or iodine (liquid kelp). I can't say it enough do you research.

  • msphil
    msphil Member Posts: 1,536
    edited October 2010

    Hello All, yes there is Positive information, I am a 16 yr breast cancer survivor(Black ) female and I attribute it ALL to my faith in God and remaining POSITIVE throughout my Trial and Tribulation. I was diagnosed in September 1993, had needle biopsy, then started chemo 3 months before total L, radical mastectomy with 3 nodes involved, mast, then 3 months after, I got married to my wonderful husband May 21,1994, then went on to have rads in June and July of 1994(5 days a week for 7 weeks, I had re construction right after mast,,started getting implant filled, and my body rejected it, taken out from hardened, use prothesis now. Yes I am a Success Stroy (Praise GOD) I pray for US ALL.  msphil 

  • blessedbreasts
    blessedbreasts Member Posts: 5
    edited November 2010

    I truly know what it means to be a "success story"... in fact, I say that I am a breast cancer overcomer (not just a survivor)... in Christ, I can overcome! 

     When I was diagnosed in June, it was difficult to find a site like this! It is sooo helpful to share your story and to be supported by women in similar situations.  I keep all of my sisters in my thoughts and prayers. 

    I started my own blog after my mastectomy - BlessedBreasts.com - in an effort to encourage MYSELF and others.  blessings, alethea

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