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  • Roya
    Roya Member Posts: 346
    edited September 2008

    Rovergirl,

    Congratulations on completing the taxol.  I am going to be going to Taxol next.  I am now on A/C and I lost my hair on it.  I was told that it is the adriamycin that causes the hair loss.  Does taxol cause hair loss too? ..............not that I have any left to lose..... but I was hoping that it might start growing back while on Taxol or soon after.

  • familyroks
    familyroks Member Posts: 575
    edited September 2008

    Roya - It is possible to start seeing some hair growth during Taxol, but don't be surprised to lose the eyebrows, eyelashes and nose hairs (if you still have them or haven't lost all of them yet) during or even after you finish with Taxol.  The good news, I am 3 weeks out from my last Taxol tx and I have hair growth!  Its kind of like a downy coat coming in (or I've been known to compare it to that of a baby cockatiel...but its getting better than that each day).  I've continued to lose most of my eyelashes and eyebrows but I understand that they will start to come back quickly.  I'm excited about my hair growth.  DH says he can't believe how much it grows each day.

  • Roya
    Roya Member Posts: 346
    edited September 2008

    Thank you, familyroks, for the info.  That is very encouraging.

  • tkone
    tkone Member Posts: 511
    edited September 2008

    Adrienne-congrats on finishing chemo!  I have one more so I am excited to be done as well. 

    Roya, I did not have Adriamycin and my hair is totally gone so I'm not sure.  While I am looking forward to growing the hair on my head, I must say not having to shave my legs or my armpit hair all summer has been pretty ok!!  Maybe I can get the head hair back and the rest of it can stay gone? 

    Debbie-hope you are doing well and are having better luck with your docs.

    Rickster-I think I am going to try for the Look Good Feel Better on September 22 at Overlake as well.  I tried to go to one in August, but it filled up early.

    Towhee-welcome to our only "true" Seattleite!

  • Rovergirl
    Rovergirl Member Posts: 194
    edited September 2008

    Roya -

    BC can be cruel...... I lost my hair w/ taxol and then it started to grow about 3 weeks later and tomorrow I start AC so I'm going to lose it again!  I found taxol to be pretty tolerable with the exception of my finger nails.  I'm afraid I'm going to lose them as AC isn't any kinder to nails than taxol.

    Rover

  • DottieW
    DottieW Member Posts: 207
    edited September 2008

    Adrienne -- Hi there, nice to meet you! Yes, I'm Eddie's friend... I went to her final Taxol today and took her pics (you girls are crazy!!) ... it was pretty emotional for me just walking into the Infusion Center at Swedish... I finished my chemo almost 20 months ago but walking through that gi-normous center with those chairs and poles looked just like my little 8-chair center in Auburn. Got me a bit teary... 

    Tracy, Rickster -- Get out and walk when you can. During treatment the roller-coaster of SE's, emotions and family commitments makes it really hard. I also golf as often as I can, and have two other BC survivors in my golf club. In fact, many of our girls have cancer connections so they are very supportive too.

    Jule -- you're only a few hours from us, but cyber-wise you are here walking with us! I can feel your energy!

    Kati, Ruth, Roya, Rover, Debbie -- Hope the rest of you get through your chemo with flying colors ... the "new normal" life is different but even with the lingering aches, pains and chemo brain, every day is a gift to be lived to the fullest. Geez, I sound like a motivational speaker!!

    Judie -- older than dirt ... you're funny. Good luck with Femara.... Tamoxifen has a lot of the same SE's, but my doc will switch me to Femara next year -- oy!  You've had a tough year, but hang in there.

    oh, Roya -- I've heard about Harmony Hill too and it sounds fabulous... it would be a GREAT retreat for all of us.....  Hugzz to all, Dottie

  • Roya
    Roya Member Posts: 346
    edited September 2008

    Rovergirl, I  went for my 3rd A/C today.  The nailbeds on my thumbs have turned a dark purplish brown at the moon of the nail.  This began a week ago. On another thread, (starting chemo aug 08), someone mentioned that using tea tree oil to massage onto the nails might help. I have not tried anything that might help yet. I just started using darker nail polish.

    Tkone,  I totally agree, if only the hair on my head would come back and the rest stay gone! Wink

    Wishing each of you a happy S/E free weekend!!!!

  • footprintsangel
    footprintsangel Member Posts: 43,890
    edited September 2008

     Dear Friends, I felt the the ugly duckling in Ptherapy today, My cancer Dr sent me to get help cause my swelling is up. I went in and when she rubbed she would ask as I jumped if that hurts. Then I brought and my wrapping cause my garments a worn out, She wrapped over my garment and no cotton. Who do I take my garments off at night. I will be wrapping them again. I am very sadden how they treat people on some insurances. Where is there other help that cares. I might have to change. Thanks for caring, Dottie nice to meet you, I did my chemo at Auburn too.Familyroks welcome too, Well I need to rest , I have CTscan Monday they did the wrong spot on my biopsy and so Dr will see if any color differences is in that test.To everyone here my prays are with you. Debbie

  • Rovergirl
    Rovergirl Member Posts: 194
    edited September 2008

    One down, 14 AC treatments and 89 neupogen injections to go - crap! that sounds depressing...... one down, and another one next week - ah-h! much better on the psyche.  As for the neupogen shots 6 per week is depressing no matter I you write it!

    Roya  - I use tea tree oil on my nails and apply it 3 times a day.

    Rickster - How was your first round of chemo - feeling O.K.?

    Footprintsangel - Sorry so to hear about your lymphedema and all the problems you are having.

    Towhee & Dottie - welcome!

    Rover

  • katirob
    katirob Member Posts: 42
    edited September 2008

    Hi all -

        Wow - busy site this last week!  Haven't made it on myself - feeling a little out of it since last tx on  the 27th.  Pretty normal  - achy, punky, tired - nothing worse, except again I got an infection on day 6 again.  Didn't need IV antibiotics, only pills, but what a drag.  Seems my wbc takes awhile to bounce back.  Just before that, my onc said I was a 'model' patient.  Guess I lost that status!  Oh well - at least I'm half way through - yea!

         Roya - I just noticed my nails are looking just like yours.  Thanks for the Tea Tree Oil info - I'm going to start it right away.  Hope it helps. 

         I recently had an interesting discussion with a rad onc that I thought I'd pass along.  This doc at Overlake, who is a personal friend, is going to try to help me get my rads set up to be done in Tucson, AZ where we normally spend our winters.  Anyway, he wants me to wait 8 full weeks after chemo (I'm on TAC) before rads because the Adriamycin can make the rads more difficult (skin problems I guess) and he wants it completely out of my system before I start rads.  Don't know if anyone else had heard that, so wanted to share.

          I'm going to the 9/22 Feel Good, Look Better class at Overlake - hope I see some of you there.  Hopefully we'll be able to figure out who each other is so we can connect! 

          Good luck with everything this week, everyone.

    Kati

  • Wink
    Wink Member Posts: 722
    edited September 2008

    All of you Crazy, Sexy Gals in the Northwest - I'm grrreen with envy!  I lived in the NW for 10 years and worked in Spokane.  My middle daughter graduated from UI and lives in Coeur d'Alene; would you accept me by proxy?  Was just up that way early July for my daughter's wedding in Bayview,ID; it was beautiful but rather warm.  I miss Fred Meyer and Safeway!  You all are truly in God's country and as God is my witness, I will return someday (got to get through all of this first) Wink

  • rickster
    rickster Member Posts: 35
    edited September 2008

    Thanks for the reminder to walk, Dottie.  BTW, I am an occasional golfer, too, and have not played all summer, but might enjoy a (non-competivite) round somewhere near Maple Valley before the weather turns.  Dottie - Have you ever played at Ocean Shores - your profile sounds very similar to someone my ddp and I played with there several years ago.

     Yes, I had my first T/C cocktail at the chemo lounge at Overlake on Thursday (no problems besides a reaction when they first started the taxotere that was quickly fixed with an injection of benedryl). . . . so far, so good (and, my dear sister was kind enough to let me beat her at a game of Scrabble as we waited!!.  Walked about a mile last night, and hope to get out for another walk this afternoon (will be at the Whidbey on the water for another day, so hope that 'three in a row' will establish a 'habit' that I will find hard to break as I move toward more difficult times).

    Tracy and Katirob - I just called the number for 'Feeling Better' and left a message to reserve a spot (also asked to save one for 'my friend, Tracy' so please let me know if you already got in).

     Hope you are all enjoying a bit of the sunny afternoon in the beautiful Northwest.  Rickster

  • tkone
    tkone Member Posts: 511
    edited September 2008

    Thanks Rickster!  I will call tomorrow and see if I can still get in.  We'll have to figure out how to recognize each other.  Kati-glad you will be there as well. 

    Missing Wink-of course we will accept you by proxy!  Glad to have you.

    Rover and Debbie-hang in there!  We'll all make it through. 

    Judie-Maybe you could meet Kati, Rickster and I before or after the 9/22 Look Good Feel Better??  At least the 4 of us could meet....

    I do my last AC this week-Yahoo!!  My husband has rotator cuff surgery tomorrow though and chemo day is Wednesday so wish us luck!  It is going to be a rough ride this week.

    Take care everyone.

  • rickster
    rickster Member Posts: 35
    edited September 2008

    Tracy, et a;,

    Since I had not heard from you, I went ahead and reg'd for 'the looking good' in Renton on 9/15, I think; but they have not confirmed.  I'd rather go to Overlake where I am getting treated, so if you hear there is still space, please let me know. 

    Sunday was a pretty tough day and today I am still pretty achey from my first infusion on Thursday and still 'sleepless in Seattle' . . . What should I be expecting next (on Taxotere and Cytoxan)?  I feel my mouth going south, as well.  Just for clarification, the day of tx / infusion is considered 'day # 1' correct?

    Best to you all - running out to pickup my ddp and about 100 lbs of fresh Alaskan salmon - Yahoo!!!   Rickster

  • footprintsangel
    footprintsangel Member Posts: 43,890
    edited September 2008

    Dear Friends, I went in today for a thyriod scan and there were alot of nodes aleast 7 on one side. They were black and white, I was told the black one are not active, I dont understand why with all the cancer I have had and who fast these are growing, why they cant take care of them. Its like my voice goes bass when they are swollen! I also have asthma. Sorry I am praying that the cancer Dr will find away to get them taken care of. Why dont we take better care of not getting cancer or helping before it gets ahead of us. Thanks for the vent time, See the Cancer Dr the 17th.  Hope I will know more.  Take care,Debbie

  • tkone
    tkone Member Posts: 511
    edited September 2008

    Rickster-I forgot all about calling to get into Overlake today.  My husband went in for surgery today so the day got away from me.  The 22nd works better for me so hopefully we can get in there.  I will make sure to call tomorrow.  Lucky you with the fish!  We just had some that a friend got on a trip to Alaska and it was delish!

    Debbie-I'm sorry you didn't have better news at the dr.  I hope you will have better luck on the 17th.

    I go in for round 4 on Wednesday and this is the first time that my tastebuds haven't totally recovered from last time.  It makes me a little nervous.  I haven't had any nausea with the previous 3 but having my tongue taste yucky still makes me worry about feeling sick.  I guess there is only so much I can do about it, right?

    Good thoughts for all.

  • Randi
    Randi Member Posts: 1
    edited September 2008

    Hi ladies, my name is Randi and I live in Woodinville and also on Whidbey Island. I was diagnosed May 2007. I had my surgery at evergreen hospital, chemo TAC at cascade cancer center and Rads at Evergreen. Tomorrow is my 3rd, 3 month follow-up. My oncologist is Dr. Aimee Kohn. November 24th I am scheduled to have breast reconstruction at Swedish by Dr. Frank Isik.
    I am 47 married to a wonderful man from Sweden and we have 2 Portuguese Water Dogs that are our kids. I was born and raised in Minneapolis.

    Randi

  • rickster
    rickster Member Posts: 35
    edited September 2008
    Hey, Tracy, and the rest of you Seattle / Eastside Gals . . . I just registered for the "Look Good" at Overlake on the 22nd and it sounds like they still have a few slots open.  Please call 1 800 395 LOOK to get registered.  Hope to see you there!!!!

    Welcome, Randi - best of luck with your upcoming procedures!

    Good Luck tomorrow Tracy on reaching #4 . . I am a little jealous, having just one under my belt!  I am working today in the office, but just taking it one day at a time.

    Good Health to you, Amigas - don't be afraid to take the time you need or show the strength you are made of.

     All the best!!!  Rickster

  • footprintsangel
    footprintsangel Member Posts: 43,890
    edited September 2008

    We can all make it We are Strong and have wonderful friends praying for us on-line. To all who need it heres a hug. Please take care, Debbie (shaky tonight)

  • tkone
    tkone Member Posts: 511
    edited September 2008

    TC 4 of 4 done!  Cool  Yippee!  Now if I can just make it through this next week or so.  I am severly anemic which has made it more difficult to recover but am hoping for the best!

    Rickster-I am in on the 22nd at Overlake.  I called today.  Also, you had asked what to expect for the next few days.  Hopefully by now you are starting to feel better.  Generally days 4-5 are my worst days although it takes a while to get back to 100%.  Your taste buds and energy should start to come back. 

    Kati-you are signed up for that one too correct?  It will nice to be able to meet you ladies!

    Randi-Welcome!  Glad you could join us.

    Debbie-hope you are doing well.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited September 2008

    Way to go Tracy!!! One big milestone behind you. I got all excited when you suggested meeting before or after the thing you are attending, forgetting that you were going to be in Bellevue, which is across the bridge from where I am, a couple of blocks from the downtown Seattle Swedish Center. Rats! I'll see when the date is closer whether a run to the east side is doable. I'd love to meet all of you.

    Healing energy and hugs to all,

    Judie

  • katirob
    katirob Member Posts: 42
    edited September 2008

    Hi all -

        Tracy - yes, I'm signed up for the session on the 22nd at Overlake.  Hope I'm up to it - my next tx is Wed the 17th, and last time I got an infection the week after.  Oh well, if I get a fever, I'll just stop by the onc on the way to the seminar and get some drugs :-)    Also, I wouldn't worry about getting sick - I'm told the se's from all this are cumulative, so your mouth (like mine) may just be tasting yucky because your saliva glands have gone into hiding.  I find it affects how my stomach feels for about 10 days after treatment, and I'm thinking it's because my stomach isn't getting it's normal allotment of the digestive juices it's supposed to get from my saliva.  Not scientific, but it's my story and I'm sticking to it! 

         Can't wait to meet everyone on the 22nd.  Despite this board, I still feel a little like I'm dealing with this alone.  My dh is a wonderful support, but sometimes when he says to someone 'we are dealing with chemotherapy" I want to ask him if he has a mouse in his pocket or something - like  ''who is we?".  Kind of like "we're pregnant" - yeah, right.  

          Have a great night all -

    K ati

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited September 2008

    Hi all you westside ladies

    Ive been reading all your post each day but have been terribly busy so havent replied.

    Congrads to those who have finished chemo or rads and are on the next steps of their journeys!!!!!!!

    I wish I could attend one of those Look Good, Feel Good groups with you all.....maybe one of these days we can plan for all of us to meet up at least for an afternoon to visit...kind of like our own Washington PinkStock....

    Im at work so really should be doing something constructive, but hey, its Friday!!!!!!!!

    Judy-I cant remember if it was this thread or the other one that we were talking about your trip over here to see your son, but I would love to meet up with you for dinner or lunch whenever you decide to come over.

    Take care all

    Jule

  • rickster
    rickster Member Posts: 35
    edited September 2008

    Greetings from the ocean - I was feeling well enough Friday to get away from town for a relaxing  weekend at the shores! 

    I am now on day 10 of my first T/C cycle and found that days 4 thru 8 were the hardest for me (so far) with a mixed bag of S/E's from 'the Mac Truck' aches and pains, ongoing bloody nose / mucous, scary pain in chest, thighs and hips, some soreness in my mouth, headaches, burning / itching membranes (you can guess where!), etc.  Thanks to all the tips from this site, I was able to combat most of them and went into work for some long full days on days 6,7,& 8 (working at home on the other days).  Had my first blood check yesterday, and although my white cells were down (as expected), they were not so low as to be of concern. 

    So, all that said, I think I am doing pretty well for my first cycle; the one ongoing complaint is inability to sleep;  my onc gave me a RX, but I keep trying to avoid it but often end up getting up in the wee hours out of frustration to take one . . . does this component ever die out?

    Tracy and Kati - I got switched over to to the Look Good session at Overlake, so look forward to seeing you both there!   Anyone else here going to that one?

    Wishing you all a restful, sunny and S/E free weekend!!!  Rickster

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited September 2008

    The ocean? Oh, Rickster, I'm jealous! I hope it healed body and spirit. You've earned it.

    Jule, I sincerely hope to make it over the mountains soon. I have all your phone numbers, and you will hear from me FOR SURE. I really want to meet you.

    Kati, I know what you mean about feeling alone in this. This board has been incredibly supportive, but I haven't taken advantage of the groups offered by Swedish and other organizations. I have procrastinated for a year now. Laughing sigh

  • familyroks
    familyroks Member Posts: 575
    edited September 2008

    I hope you ladies attending the Overlake LGFB class will share your experience.  I attended one over here in Bremerton and it was just horrible.  I've completed 2 surveys expressing my displeasure with this class and heard nothing more from ACS.  It would seem they don't care, as they have so many successful classes..  I know the class has been awesome for others.  I'm thinking Bremerton just didn't get the same care.  I'm thinking just being Bellevue...it will be an awesome class for all of you.

  • footprintsangel
    footprintsangel Member Posts: 43,890
    edited September 2008

    Dear Friends, I am looking for ways to pay off an old lymphedema garments. I am having to buy wraps and want to know places that help Cancer people. I see the cancer Dr Wednesday and he wrote me a note. I will get my tests back too, My prays are with you all, I cant keep my arms down I am so swollen. Take care, Debbie

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited September 2008

    Debbie-Im sorry you are having such a tough time!!!! I wish there were something I could do......try talking to the social worker at the doctors office while you are there....they are loaded with info on places that will help you....

    Judie-I call me anytime!!!! I look forward to meeting you too....I got your pm and will reply to that in a few mintues too...

    All you ladies going to the Look Good session are soooooo lucky.....you are going to have a blast even if the things turns out to be a dud!!!!! Just meeting each other will make your day.

    As I said in my earlier post....I read here each day to see how all of you are doing but work is absolutely nuts right now and not ending soon...my poor boss was just dx'd with prostrate cancer last week and is playing the waiting game...they got his bone scan back this morning and unfortuanately they found something they are calling suspicious so he is going in for more tests.

    I feel so bad for he and his wife.....they are wonderful people.

    Hope all is well with everyone

    Jule

  • rickster
    rickster Member Posts: 35
    edited September 2008

    The losing hair issue has hit home!!  I am on day 14 of my first T/C regimen.  After my shower this AM, I was combing out my hair, and although it didn't come in 'clumps' it was coming out a'plenty . . . loose handfuls and huge amounts on the comb!!  I am trying to schedule my hairdresser for a 'buzz cut' tomorrow night, but I am just curious, if I can't get with her tomorrow (Thurs night) am I going to make it until Monday (next opportunity)?

    Also, as much as I have tried to prepare for this mentally, I have had several teary breakdowns today . . . welcoming any advice for overcoming this emotional / physical / vanity ridden hurdle.

     Thanks in advance, mi amigas and all the best to you!!  Rickster

    Note:  Also posted on starting chemo in Sept 2008 . . . .

  • rickster
    rickster Member Posts: 35
    edited September 2008

    Towhee,

     I sure wish you could find a way to join us on Monday at the Feel Good seminar in Bellevue.  Your positive attitude may do far more for us than any makeup lesson ever did!! 

     Please stay positive and continue to share your wealth!!!   All the best in your recovery!  Rickster

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