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  • Mary-Lou
    Mary-Lou Member Posts: 2,230
    edited August 2008

    Stay safe Odalys~ I would worry to death if I were in the path of a hurricane. We don't see to much here in Va, tornadoes come and go.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited September 2008

    Ha!  I never would have caught the Memorial Day thing.  Funny!  

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited September 2008

    Odalys, I'm thinking of you and praying you stay safe. 

    Margerie-ack!  I hate reserving airline tickets.  I wish there was a universal price.  I'm so there, don't despair! 

    Love you all!  Deb

    Anna-I miss you, how's little dog?

  • Margerie
    Margerie Member Posts: 526
    edited September 2008

    Odalys-  are you safe? Dry?

    Don't worry Deb, there are a TON of shopping areas close to the airport and I am sure Nancy and I can find something to do until you arrive.....

    I also have a lot of board games and movies at the place, so pack light!!  Anyone that wants us to call you from our get-together, make sure one of us has your phone number!!!

  • Odalys
    Odalys Member Posts: 2,103
    edited September 2008

    Thanks for thinking of me.  We are fine and ever heard from my family in Cuba. They are fine and had only minor damage. Gustav passed far away from thier home...thank God!

     Glad to see Louisiana weathered better than with Katrina. The government was much more prepared this time around.

    Our weather was beautiful today. But we are watching Hurricane Hannah and Tropical storm Ike carefully as one quick turn and they will be headed straight for us.  Have I mentioned, I hate the hurricane season?!

    Love and hugs, 


    Good night sisters. Pleasant dreams.

  • Odalys
    Odalys Member Posts: 2,103
    edited September 2008

    Thanks for thinking of me.  We are fine and even heard from my family in Cuba. They are fine and had only minor damage. Gustav passed far away from their home...thank God!

     Glad to see Louisiana weathered better than with Katrina. The government was much more prepared this time around.

    Our weather was beautiful today. But we are watching Hurricane Hannah and Tropical storm Ike carefully as one quick turn and they will be headed straight for us.  Have I mentioned, I hate the hurricane season?!

    Love and hugs, 


    Good night sisters. Pleasant dreams.

  • Mary-Lou
    Mary-Lou Member Posts: 2,230
    edited September 2008

    We are on our 100Th page!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Laughing

    Can you believe it! 100 pages of history. And look at all that has happened .....it is just amazing. Three years of life has gone by. I have 2 more additions to my family, and a few losses. And each one of you have your own stories.

    The one thing is we all survived our darkest hour. For that I am grateful. I will celebrate my third year cancerversary on the 26TH of this month. It now looks like I have made it through the storm. But like the hurricane Odalys spoke of. Will it turn and come back?

    I will always have that in the back of my mind. And with so many of our dear sisters here on these boards looking this in the face again and again I feel I never will feel completely safe .

    But what ever may come down the road next , for each of us, I know in my heart that we have each other to lean on. You all are dear , dear , sisters to me. And could never be forgotten.

  • Mary-Lou
    Mary-Lou Member Posts: 2,230
    edited September 2008

    Michael was called back to work!!!!!!!

    He had to work tonight!

    My avatar is the picture I took of the lake in WV....

  • Odalys
    Odalys Member Posts: 2,103
    edited September 2008

    Yeah.  Michael is back to work!

    I celebrated my third year cancerversay on Aug 30th!  Did the happy dance with my other bc.org sisters.  Yes, a lot has happened but we are still here to talk about it.  Thank God for that.  There is such saddness in my heart for Kim, Kaye, Cy and all those sisters who passed and very deep hole for my mom.  I miss her every single day!  But, through it all, it's been the support of my family and all the dear sisters here that have gotten me through.  I thank God every day for all of you and pray we will be celebrating many more years together.  

    Sending you a great big hug and lots of love,

  • Mary-Lou
    Mary-Lou Member Posts: 2,230
    edited September 2008

    Update:

    Michael has an interview with another plant tomorrow morning. He may take that job, if the offer is a good one.

    He said something is going on where he is, he thinks they are going to sell out.

    Hard decisions right now.

    Odalys beautiful reflection of the past 3 years.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited September 2008

    Oh, I LOVE you all!!!!! 

    If I weren't so stinking tired from subbing in a preschool room all morning, I'd say more.....yawn.....

    Great news about the job.  Now come to Margerie's place!!  hee hee. 

    We officially listed our house.  OMG.  OMG!!!!  I have to run after Daniel with a dustbuster every day till the house sells.  


    We are going to take a cut, and end up losing money, since the market sucks lately.  That is disappointing, but I am just hoping to get a truly fantastic house with a fantastic deal to make up for it! 

    yawn.  Did I mention that I am exhausted today?! 

    One other thing, I went to a pain doctor yesterday that says the symptoms I describe are classic indicators of a disc problem.  I have to get an MRI to confirm, but if that is the case, I get some steroid injections, and will hopefully NOT HAVE TO TAKE ANY PAIN MEDS ANYMORE!!! 

    I told her I'm bringing her cookies if she can do that for me. 

    Love and prayers, Deb

  • Mary-Lou
    Mary-Lou Member Posts: 2,230
    edited September 2008

    Deb~ I really hope you get the pain under control. As for me getting to Margerie's, it would take a miracle. I believe one happened when Michael was called back.

    I hope he will get a new job, with more money and closer to home. And more stable than what he is in now. It all has to do with Ford. The big wheels are coming to the plant tomorrow, then he will know what is going on. He really believes the reason the salary was called back was to look good for some buyers. ???????? All up in the air.

    All I can do is trust that God will show us his plan.

    I Love you my dear Sisterhood.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited September 2008

    ML-my offer still stands, dear sister.  Heck.  I haven't even ordered my tickets yet (it's just so difficult to find the best flight/deal!!!). 

    There was a giant turtle in my neighbor's driveway today.  It was the silliest thing ever-I totally thought it was a joke, then the weird part of my brain told me, "Maybe that is their pet, and they let it outside for a while?" 

    I knocked on their door, and she wasn't surprised at all.  She said it happens all the time here. 

    Crazy. 

  • Nancy-SanDiego
    Nancy-SanDiego Member Posts: 127
    edited September 2008

    You know what Mary Lou, I saw it and was lightened by your thoughtfulness--didn't even dawn on me that it wasn't Memorial Day.

    Odalys, get your rubbers out and button down the hatches.  It sounds like there are at least two more "rainy day" events headed your way.  Oh, I am wishing with all my heart that you can head for the California sun.  If not, you and Mary Lou will be missed so much.

     Deb, are you scheduled?

    Class in 15--I am starting to feel like I'm on a treadmill.  Love to all.

  • Odalys
    Odalys Member Posts: 2,103
    edited September 2008

    ML - LOL, I saw it but did not have the heart to tell you.  It brought a smile to my face because some days I too don't know what day it is. 

  • Mary-Lou
    Mary-Lou Member Posts: 2,230
    edited September 2008

    LOL, you all should have my back....Tell me please. LMAO

    Michael went for his job interview, would be a big cut in pay. And was not the position he was looking for.

    Deb~ I know your offer is still good, but I really can't during this time. We are already having to tighten up on things that I would have never thought I would. They may work 6 days next week, lets hope.Yell

    Margerie~ You have a PM with my number.

  • Nancy-SanDiego
    Nancy-SanDiego Member Posts: 127
    edited September 2008

    ML and Odalys, you both brought tears to my eyes thinking about the journey we have all been on and how much it means that we had each other to share the victories and the low points.  I, too, hope that 20 years from now, we are still celebrating together.

     Mary Lou, I'm so glad to hear about Michael's job, though I'm sorry the option was not what he/you were looking forward.  At least, he'll be back in the system where he will hear about opportunities.  Odalys, we will be watching the TV and keeping our fingers crossed that the hurricans pass you by.

    One week from today, we will be in Tahoe.  I believe in miracles, too!

     Nancy

  • Odalys
    Odalys Member Posts: 2,103
    edited September 2008

    Margerie, Deb and Nancy - I just know you guys are going to have a great time next week. Please take lots of pics and post them so we can also enjoy. 

    Well, Hurricane Ike has taken a slight shift South.  Now it looks like it will make a direct hit on Key West as a cat 3 or 4 hurricane.  Oh good heavens...

    It has been a very busy week and I am exhausted.  Take care sisters.

  • Odalys
    Odalys Member Posts: 2,103
    edited September 2008

    Good morning sisters.  It's a beautiful day here.  We are going to have great weather today and tomorrow.  The sun is shining and the winds have died down for now.  Amazing, it's always beautiful before a hurricane.  We got good news as the hurricane turned a bit South.  If it keeps this course we won't receive a direct hit as predicted yesterday.  However, the Keys are not out of danger as they will probably get a direct hit.  Evacuations began for all the tourist on the Keys. Mandatory evacuations for local residents will go in effect starting tomorrow morning.  Not so good news for the folks in the Bahamas and Cuba as they are still dealing with the aftermath of Hanna.  I pray they are spared. 

    We are getting our house ready today.  Jose is going to trim our coconut trees today.  Anyone want some coconuts? hehehehe  Well...got to run now.  It's going to be a busy day around here and I need to go into the office to finish Kronos for my staff.  Our hospital is on hurricane mode right now as we expect some evacuees and may go into lock down at 7pm on Monday.  Have a good day? 

    Love and hugs,

  • Margerie
    Margerie Member Posts: 526
    edited September 2008

    Thinking of you Odalys!!!

    We are busy with sports, sports, sports today.  The kids are so excited they all had their uniforms on by 8am.

    Of course i am bringing my camera to Tahoe!!

    Hope everyone has a safe and sane weekend.

  • Odalys
    Odalys Member Posts: 2,103
    edited September 2008

    Coco loco for everyone...

  • Mary-Lou
    Mary-Lou Member Posts: 2,230
    edited September 2008
    How are all my Sisters? Odalys, did you take that picture?
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited September 2008

    Sisters,

    I sent Margerie a note about this, but wanted to tell you also that I can't go to the reunion trip. 

    It was a very agonizing decision, but since we put this house on the market on Thursday, we've had four showings already, we just got a call for one again tonight (now we can't go to church, because there is no way a potential buyer can witness the chaos that takes place the hour before church), we have a showing tomorrow, and who knows what is to come. 

    I can't do that to Greg.  I had a flight all lined up and on hold and everything, but LITERALLY as I was about to call with my credit card to get the flight, I realized that I am already going to be gone all day tomorrow to try to sell my Dad's house, (showing tomorrow), and if we keep at this rate, Greg will have a zillion showings to prepare for all weekend long, and drive me over an hour to and from the airport? 

    It feels all wrong, and it makes me feel selfish.  It's all because of selling this stupid (yes, I have always had issues with this house) house.  I thought with the market being in a slump we'd have hardly any showings.  I was wrong! 

    I'm so depressed that I can't go.  I know a few of our sisters are  already not going to be there, but I guess I felt like one of the "reunion ambassadors" and now I'm letting our little family down. 

    Hrmpfh.  Need ice cream. 

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited September 2008

    Testing my tag line

  • Margerie
    Margerie Member Posts: 526
    edited September 2008

    Deb,

    Life happens.  We all know that!  No guilt woman!

    Nancy, do you want to do the two of us?  Or can you switch your flight to a later date (with no penalty) and we can see if more of us can come later in the year??

    I would love to see just you, but I understand if you want to reschedule too!

    Let me know....

    M

  • Nancy-SanDiego
    Nancy-SanDiego Member Posts: 127
    edited September 2008
    M, I just cancelled my flight and will rebook when we can all get together.  I am so disappointed, but "stuff" happens and everyone's life seems even more complicated than usual right now.  Our personal storms will pass (literal meaning for dear Odalys) and we will celebrate virtually this year and in person another time.  Personally, I hope we don't have to wait another whole year.
    Love to all,
  • Mary-Lou
    Mary-Lou Member Posts: 2,230
    edited September 2008

    Deb, I feel better now.  Embarassed I had been grieving over this for weeks now, knowing how bad I wanted to be with all of you.

    Michael is at least back to work, so there is light at the end of this tunnel. I'm going to apply for some jobs and see what I can do. I miss my "Mad" money. In fact I miss money period.

    I have to watch every dime now.

    I hope and pray that we all can get together and it won't be another year.

    I do understand life's events. But aren't we lucky to be here to share.

    Marg~ How is your mom?

    Anna~ Time to check in.....

  • Mary-Lou
    Mary-Lou Member Posts: 2,230
    edited September 2008
    Odalys we may have to go to pink stock.....Are you dry there? Is your family in Cuba okay?
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited September 2008

    Oh you guys, I am so sad.  Nancy, I am so sorry to ruin the trip for us. 

    Gotta go prepare for the Dad house showing.  Love you all so very much, Deb

  • Margerie
    Margerie Member Posts: 526
    edited September 2008

    My mom is doing fairly well.  She has  major surgery Saturday.  This week is her "last week" without cancer treatment- so she went to Idaho to help keep her mind off it. 

    Hopefully they won't find anymore cancer.......

    Man, I woke up to a sore throat.......!!

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