Who here is from Ontario??

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  • Joe562
    Joe562 Member Posts: 6
    edited March 2008

    Beesie,

    Thank-you for the helpful information. I will try to get a referral asap.

    Take good care of yourself too!

    Jo 

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited March 2008

    Joe.....I knew someone would come to the rescue.......best wishes hun......Viv

  • dreamwriter
    dreamwriter Member Posts: 3,255
    edited March 2008

    Joe:

    I too had a Doctor that kept me in the dark.  In January 2007, I had a C/T.  In February I was gasping for breathe and had to see a thoracic specialist.  A nurse let it slip that the pleural effusions were evident on the scan but they didn't tell me because I was asymptomatic.  I was losing energy and having difficulty breathing.  Are those not symptoms?  After the treatment I went home but I made it clear, that I wanted to know what was in my scans.....

    Two weeks later my family doctor ordered an xray - both pleural effusions were there, just smaller.  I had 8 chest xrays before leaving the hospital... they knew but again failed to tell me.  I changed hospitals and doctors.  Now a nurse practitioner will sit down and explain everything.  It is no fun being in the dark.

  • Joe562
    Joe562 Member Posts: 6
    edited April 2008

    Hi dreamwriter,

    My Onc also used the word "asymptomatic" to described me to my family doctor. Maybe that's why she prefers to keep me in the dark. She never let me read the pathology reports, scan reports etc.even though I made it clear that I wish to know everything in details. I always have to ask my family doctor for copies. What city do you live in that allows you to change doctors??

    You know, in my case, I have been fighting this cancer for 8 years and became a stage 4 in 2006,I don't think I can go anywhere without her referral!

    Jo 

  • pip57
    pip57 Member Posts: 12,401
    edited April 2008

    I hope I am not too late. Although I have been a lurker for several months. I am a new member.



    I am from Stouffville, Ontario.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited May 2008

    Hi PIP

    No, never too late. You are practically my nieghbour. I am in Port Perry. Glad you found us here! I used to go to the market there alot. It's not the same anymore though.....lost alot. Keep in touch and take care.

  • Vinogal
    Vinogal Member Posts: 439
    edited May 2008

    I'll jump into this thread also.......from Port Dover, Ontario.....think Arbor Dogs and Friday the 13th.....sucks to have to be here......but atleast we can hang together.....

    Jax

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited May 2008

    Hey Jax.....I didn't know you were from Ontario too! Port Dover is near St Catherines? I've been chatting with you on your thread. Hope all goes well for you!! Viv

  • Vinogal
    Vinogal Member Posts: 439
    edited May 2008

    Port Dover is about 40 mins from Hamilton......on the shores of Lake Erie.....small beach community....thanks

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited May 2008

    Wishing you all a Happy Mothers Day! Hope you all have a good weekend!

    How you all doing?? Glad to see the spring arrive...no more snow!

    Lets hear from all the Ontario Girls.

  • Diana1993
    Diana1993 Member Posts: 29
    edited May 2008

    Hi Ontario Gals,

    Yes the snow has left and the green grass needs cutting, and the black flies and mosquitoes are now out in full force.  Husband and I are trying to paint a house while slapping bugs.  Fun. The best part THE SUN is OUT!

    I just read an article that Tykerb is under review by Health Canada for approval.  This is very good news for those of us with Her2. I will keep calling M.P. Tony Clement's office and writing letters.  I had the craziest experience with our political system.  Hon. Clement left a message on my answering machine stating that someone from the Health Dept. in Ottawa will be calling.  I spoke to this person and she inturn gave me the number of the drug company, for answers. They inturn gave me the Canadian phone number and this gal said that the trials were finished and I should talk to the Minister of Health.   I came full circle.  So, on Monday, I will start the process again. Wish me luck.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited June 2008

    In case anyone is interested, The Dragon Boat Races will be in Port Perry on June 21 with over 50 teams competing. Opening ceremonies are at 8 am.

  • Westie
    Westie Member Posts: 89
    edited June 2008

    Hi all,

    Just found this thread.  I live in Ancaster-a suburb of Hamilton, Ont.  I love The Arbor in Port Dover and we got our dogs at Lake Scugog!  Too bad we all have bc in common, too.  This board is very helpful and informative.  I start dose dense chemo on June 10, so I'm starting to freak a little. 

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited June 2008

    Hi Westie.....sorry your joining the club and all. Small world.....it's good to hear from other ontario ladies......it's funny how so many of us are so close and have paths that cross......go figure you got your dogs here!! Sending good thoughts your way for your road ahead and hope you find comfort and strength here.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited June 2008

    Any Dragon Boaters here??? We had an awesome day and turnout today in Port Perry for the races. 52 Teams in all, the town was packed all day! The survivior race and ceremony was very moving and words could not describe the feelings of seeing so many women forming the arch with paddles held high for the teams to pass under. Way to go girls!

  • lazeechic
    lazeechic Member Posts: 43
    edited August 2008

    HI

    I live about 45 minutes north of Kingston and attend the cancer clinic there.  Does anyone on here go to Kingston?

    I am stage 4, have mets to bones and lung.  I have been mostly stable (mentally well.....???? lol) for 5 years. 

    Hope everyone is having a great summer

    lazeechic

  • DFOnt
    DFOnt Member Posts: 145
    edited August 2008

    I'm in Cobourg, Ontario.  Does anyone else here go to the Cancer Centre in Oshawa?

  • BMac
    BMac Member Posts: 650
    edited August 2008

    Another Ontario girl checking in.  I live in Oakville.  Ovarian diagnosed 6 years ago.  BRCA1.  Bilat mast Apr 30th.  All finished treatments except for ongoing Herceptin and planning to do reconstruction in the future.

    Enjoy the long weekend.  It looks like we're finally getting summer weather!

  • Lucy47
    Lucy47 Member Posts: 183
    edited August 2008

    Hi All

    Lucy from Brampton Ont. We are all in this together. Stay strong my Ontario sisters

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited September 2008

    Hello to the Ontario Gals!

    DFOnt, I live 20mins down the road from Oshawa. Had to go there for diagnostics and followup after surgery. How are you finding it there? Hope they are treating you well.

    Hi Barbra and Lucy, hope all is well for you......as well as can be. Wow, some Indian Summer we are having now, where was all this heat in July??

  • SueG
    SueG Member Posts: 17
    edited September 2008

    Hey everyone

    Thought I'd put in a post in case any Ontario women out there are still latched onto this thread.  I live in Toronto and am scheduled for my first chemo next Wednesday.  This is my second 'go' at bc - first was 14 years ago.  This time I had a mastectomy with tissue expander and am now up for chemo as mentioned.  Anyone out there on Taxotere + Cyclophosphamide?

    Sue

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited October 2008

    Hi Sue

    Wow....14 years huh? What was your DX back then? Sucks to get it again, sorry you have to do this. Good luck for WED. Hope all goes well.

  • SueG
    SueG Member Posts: 17
    edited October 2008

    Hey Crazydaisy

    Sure sucks to do it again but I would not change a thing about the treatment decisions I made last time.  I had a small tumour (6mm) and had a lumpectomy+radiation and then five years of tamoxifen because although I was pre-menopausal then I was  ER+.  This time it came back in the same breast so no choice on the surgery options: mastectomy.  I opted for tissue expander reconstruction which has been going very well despite the fact I had radiation on that breast (sometimes that is a problem).  As I have said in my post on one of the other Canadian threads I have just found out that I will not need to do chemo but will be taking Arimidex.  This tumour is very ER+ (100%) as well as being 95% PR+.  This apparently makes me a good candidate for Arimidex.  Any Canadians out there want to tell me GOOD things about how they have felt on Arimidex - all I am finding is all the horrible side effects!!  I had no side effects on Tamoxifen so am hoping I can ride the wave again!

    Getting Br.Ca. again after 14 years was a big shock but it is doable.  There are so many more things that can be done now versus 14 years ago.  Keep the hope going, women.  We are going to conquer this.

    Sue

  • dreamwriter
    dreamwriter Member Posts: 3,255
    edited October 2008

    I live in Toronto.  I can change doctors, hospitals, whatever.

    I started out at a hospital my family doctor recommended but the onco and I were not a good fit....  politically correct for he treated me like a brainless patient.  I wanted information and he refused to give it to me.  My family doctor did the referral to Princess Margaret Hospital and I have been happy as a clam.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited October 2008

    SueG

    Glad to hear you don't have to do the chemo. I can't say for any hormone treatments as mine was er- pr- , just one more reason I did the MX. Good luck on the recon........maybe you can recomend where your having it done?

  • mke
    mke Member Posts: 584
    edited October 2008

    Hi Sue. I'm in Toronto too. I had my second go at BC about 10 years after the first, and a 3rd go a year later. I didn't have that chemo combination. Taxol (related to taxotere) was hard on me, but that was not the usual thing. I've had all my treatment at Princess Margaret and I'm another that's happy as a clam.



    Good luck to you.

  • prestressed
    prestressed Member Posts: 37
    edited October 2008

    Hi  i am from leamington   20 east of windsor     lots of probs    for a year but no diagnosis yet     any  thoughts  or advice are greatly ppreciated     nice to meet you all

  • lisa39
    lisa39 Member Posts: 255
    edited October 2008

    I'm in Toronto too.  I finished chemo on July 10th and rads on Sept. 3 I will continue to receive Herceptin until April '09.  You can see my BC stats on my bio line below.  I did my treatment at Princess Margaret and am happy as a clam too.  Prestressed - I would recommend you try to get a referral to Princess Margaret and try to get to the bottom of your problems with the doctors there.  It's one of the best cancer treatment centres in the world.  Sue G. - glad you don't have to do chemo. And you're right - the treatment has advanced so much even since your first go round.

    Good luck to all!

  • SueG
    SueG Member Posts: 17
    edited October 2008

    Hi all

    Nice to know there is company out there.  It certainly helps the journey.

    Dreamwriter:  it makes my blood boil to hear that doctors are still speaking to cancer patients in that way.  I worked for Willow Breast Cancer Support Services for ten years and 80% of my work was presenting to health care professionals on psychosocial support skills.  Most of my students were nurses but occasionally I presented to med students and I liked to think that oncologists had joined us in the 21st century of patient communication.  Seems like some are still in the Dark Ages.  It is so much harder to do this if you cannot communicate as a human being with your health care providers.  I am so relieved you switched.

    Prestressed: I highly recommend that you keep pushing for a definitive diagnosis.  You only have one life and should never feel uncomfortable about making the most of it.  I am not sure what the services are in Leamington but have you been referred to a breast centre in London.  I am not an MD and do not know what you have already had done but an MRI might be the most useful diagnostic for you.

    MKE: So sorry to hear that you had to face a third go-round.  After all the stress of the past three months I have more or less decided to have a prophylactic mastectomy of my 'good' breast.  I think my chances of a recurrence in the other breast are more than 50-50 so it just isn't worth it.  I am having reconstruction on the mastectomy side: tissue expander followed by implant - and it has been going very well so I feel emboldened to do the same on the other side.

    CrazyDaisy: I am having the reconstruction done through Womens College Hosp. in Toronto where I have been a patient of the breast centre for more than 20 years.  The plastic surgeon doing the tissue expander reconstruction is a guy called Brent Beber.  He has an office on the Danforth and is a sweetheart.  He put the expander in at the same time as the mastectomy and I go for pump ups every couple of weeks.  It has been a practically painless process and so far I am glad I opted for this kind of reconstruction.  Hope that helps.

    Take care all of you.

    Sue    

  • Curlylocks
    Curlylocks Member Posts: 1,060
    edited October 2008

    Hi Sue,

     It sucks that you were diagnosed again with bc after 14 years.  

    I have heard that er/pr+ bc have a lifetime risk of reoccurance and your storey proves it!

    I am in Acton, Ontario and am also highly er/pr+, 4 cm grade III tumour and 3 positive nodes.  I am a 3 year survivor on the 25th of this month!

    I have been on Armidex for 2 1/2 years now, my s/e's have been some fatigue, insominia, hotflashes and the weight gain in my belly.  BTW Effexor XR works great for hotflashes.

    I had an ooperectomy in May of this year so I could remain on Armidex, previous to that I was on Zoladex injections with the Armidex.

    All in all the side effects are not bad...give them a try and see what happens.

    I also take 800 mg of vitamin d and 1500 mg of calcium each day to help prevent bone loss.  My bone density scan this past February showed some decline from the previous year but still within normal limits.

    Michele 

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