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awwww!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I especially love the kitty cat nestled into the magazines. Adorable!
Keep the faith, dear sister!
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What beautiful babies, Mary-Lou. I had no idea you had a Siamese kitten? Name, please?
Have a great time at the fair!
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They are part~ The grown one is Screamer and the baby is Scout. My step daughters took the kittens home last night. In the picture there is a pure white one under Scout, which is named Sky.
Here is her picture
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Love those babies. Hang in there sis, everything will be okay.
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Odalys, saw your pics from pinkstock, it looked like such a wonderful time!!!
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We had a great time. Boy, we were in such need of a bath. I don't do camping very well. They were making fun of Steven and I for being such city slicker. hehehehe Next year I will rent a room early.
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Hi guys. I prepared a very long message since computer problems have plagued me for the last week. Anyway, I tried to send and got a message that the Discussion Boards were having a problem. Will try again in an abbreviated way.
Mary Lou, keep sending pictures of your babies, I love them. I am so sorry about Michael's RIF--have had to do hundreds of them in my HR career and was the recipient of a RIF after 11 years. It was devastating, but like everyone I know, we landed in a better place. Will his company provide any job assistance or is he on his own. I sure hope that you will be able to join us--I just can't imagine a reunion without you.
Odayls, what an incredible weekend. You can see the love and positive energy all around.
Mary Lou had a great idea in her PM. I will do the same.
Let's see if this actually goes through.
Love to my beautiful sisters.
Nancy
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Forgot to mention that I saw the head of Endocrinology re low Vit D. He put me on 1500 mg. prescription D per day, 25 mg. Calcitriol (Vit D3) per day, 1500 mg calcium per day. Can you believe that despite my Boniva infustions, I continue to lose bone. I have gone from 5' 8-1/2" to 5' 6-1/4". At this rate, I'll be a petite by our next reunion. Sadly, I still weigh the same, its just packed into less space. Oh well! My Vit. D is 16 and he wants it at 50. Should relieve the cramps, muscle and bone aches, and reduce risk of reoccurrence, etc.
Always some drama.
BTW, those of you with a lumpectomy--has your nipple changed color. Mine has become noticeably paler--weird, huh.
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Here are the kids making smores by the camp fire.
Can you tell who the Southern gals are? Brrrrrrrrrr
Does anyone know why these crosses are all over Virginia and West Virginia?
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Hey ladies, did some research on flights, have no idea what to consider a "GOOD" deal!!!!
I'm afraid to go for a cheapie flight and get scammed! ACK!
So far, is Nancy the only one with an official flight booked? Nancy-can you please pm us the specifics of the time you are arriving, and I can try to base my flight off of yours?
I love you guys! Love and prayers, Deb
PS-a neighbor and I are going to start our own "fit" club since she has a wedding coming up to go to, and I have our reunion! So excited to have a workout partner. Don't know about you guys, but my dh prefers to NOT work out. We got the eliptical and he was like, "I need new shoes. I need new workout pants, I need......." There was always something!
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Hi sisters. I was researching flights and OMG it will take me between 11-15 hours to get to Tahoe. I'm sorry but there is no way my poor estrogen deprived body can take working all week and then hoping on a plane for that amount of time. It's taken my joints almost three days to recuperate from the long drive up to Pinkstock. (I can't believe I just admitted that out loud. Geeze, I sound like an old lady. Damn cancer! Ok, I feel much better now that I got that off my chest).
Margerie, I so want to get together with everyone and you are so generous in offering your place. I feel bad not to be able to join you guys this time. Sorry. I do appreciate the offer. Thank you.
Nancy - I used to take Vit D but stopped because my bone density is normal. I do wonder whether or not to start taking it again as preventative measure. My doc said it wasn't necessary but I sure don't want wait until I have lost bone density to start. I am due for bone density test this month so we shall see. As for the nipple, yeap it's very different and paler too. I think it's normal.
Anna - I really enjoyed your last pics. How is the grandson? Any more pics?
MaryLou - I sure hope you can get to the reunion. Most of all, I hope your DH and son find a job soon. How about you? Did I read you were going back to work...nursing? BTW- Since you live in Virginia, 'm hoping you can clue me in on the reason for all the crosses (see pic above). Curious minds want to know...
Deb - I congratulate you guys and being able to stick to Daniels treatment plan. It must have been so hard. Daniel is such a fighter. Give him a hug and a kiss from me for being such a brave little boy through this whole process. Congratulations!
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Odalys here is the info....I will post tomorrow on our trip. It is late and I have got to sleep.
Crosses Across America Offer a Comforting Sight to Travelers
If you've been on the highway and passed a cluster of three crosses that you found inspirational and calming, you can thank the late Rev. Bernard Coffindaffer.
By Linda Orlando
Bernard Coffindaffer of Craigsville, West Virginia, was born in 1935 to West German parents who had emigrated to the U.S. before his birth. His father died when he was still a baby and his mother died with cancer when he was ten years old, leaving him an orphan. Despite these trying circumstances, Coffindaffer graduated from high school at the age of fourteen and then served six years in the U. S. Marine Corps with tours of duty in the Pacific, Iwo Jima, and Nagasaki, Japan. He graduated from the University of Charleston with a degree in business, and then returned to his West Virginia homeland. He worked in the oil industry as a young man, and later founded a coal-washing business in the West Virginia mountains in an economically deprived location. His business was enormously successful. When he was 42, Coffindaffer became a Christian and studied the ministry, becoming a Methodist minister and serving seven small churches in Pocahontas County. He was later given an honorary doctoral degree in Florida.
After two heart surgeries, Coffindaffer decided to liquidate his business and stop working in the coal industry, and then two years later he had a vision. It was "a genuine, marvelous, glorious vision," Coffindaffer said. He was explicitly told what he was supposed to do: Get manpower, get materials, and plant crosses for the world to see. "The Holy Spirit instructed, blessed, dealt with me and told me how to go about installing these Crosses. It was an experience you have once in a lifetime." Coffindaffer's successful business acumen had resulted in his being able to amass a small fortune before liquidating his business. "I worked like a dog for the money, eighteen hours a day for thirty-five years," he said. "The Holy Spirit knew I had the money and was willing to spend it, and I'm not going to back down."
So on September 28, 1984, Coffindaffer started the Crosses Across America project, saying "Not for saints or sinners. For everybody. They're up for only one sole reason, and that's this: to remind people that Jesus was crucified on a cross at Calvary for our sins and that He is soon coming again." Coffindaffer knew that the crosses might lead to controversy, adding, "When you say ‘for our sins,' half the people run. When you say ‘He's coming again,' everybody runs." But maybe, he said, "the crosses will make one person stop and think."
Over the course of the next nine years, Coffindaffer had an office in the basement of his home with a full-time secretary, as well as seven full-time work crews traveling across America to erect the clusters of crosses he had designed. The crosses were all built from California Douglas fir, weighing about 400 pounds each. The center cross is painted gold and the two crosses on either side are painted a pale blue, and the three are set in pea gravel and sand. The three crosses symbolize Christ on the cross, flanked by the two thieves who were crucified with him. The gold paint on the center cross represents royalty, while the pale blue paint on the flanking crosses signifying the earth. When each cluster was erected, a consecration service was held where scriptures were read and prayers were offered for repentance and forgiveness of sins. The same identical service was held at each site. Coffindaffer once said, "The crosses speak peace within as we struggle without."
Coffindaffer spent approximately $3,000,000 to build and plant the clusters of three crosses in 29 states, the District of Columbia, Zambia, and The Philippines. Site owners donated the land's use for the crosses and Coffindaffer paid all the bills. The successful businessman turned colorful evangelist attracted the attention of the media when he became the subject of a PBS documentary about his life titled, "Point Man For God." He was also shown on the award-winning series "Different Drummer," and CBS News did a story about him on its popular program "CBS Sunday Morning." When he died in 1993 of a heart attack at his home, Coffindaffer had been responsible for the installation and maintenance of nearly 2000 clusters of crosses. His ministry, Cast Thy Bread, Inc., ceased operation with no money in reserve.
For six years after his death, Coffindaffer's crosses continued to offer inspiration and comfort to weary travelers, but it appeared that his ongoing mission had ended with his death and the 2000 existing crosses. Then, in 1999, Sara Stevenson Abraham made the decision to pick up where Coffindaffer had left off and revive the project of planting crosses for the world to see. Abraham formed a new non-profit organization called Crosses Across America, Inc., and opened a National Headquarters in Vicksburg, Mississippi. As Executive Director of the organization, Abraham is locating the standing clusters of crosses installed by Coffindaffer's work crews and then enlisting the aid of volunteer groups in getting them straightened, repaired, and restored. Abraham travels the country to present the story of the crosses to churches, civic organizations, television and radio programs, spreading the word of Coffindaffer's original mission and the purpose of the crosses.
Crosses Across America has big plans for expanding Coffindaffer's original mission by installing new clusters of crosses every 50 miles on either side of some 45,000 miles of interstate highways and thoroughfares that crisscross North America. They also plan to install crosses at specific sites that seem to cry out for them, such as the lake in South Carolina where a mother drowned her two young sons, and the field in Pennsylvania where the 9/11 terrorists crashed an airliner killing everyone on board. The organization secured all of the files, photographs, plans, and films used to design, build, and install the original crosses, so that after the existing crosses are repaired, they can begin building new ones.
The new crosses will be more durable because they will be constructed of a plastic-like material that will withstand 200 mph winds. Because of this newer technology, the crosses will never again need repairing or painting, but they will have all the properties of the original crosses and will be exact duplicates as far as possible. The project itself will cost a tremendous amount of money, time, and effort, but because Crosses Across America and its volunteers believe their mission is ordained by God, they do not worry about where the money will come from. They believe that God will touch the hearts of people to provide funds for the project, and so far the funds have been provided by individuals, foundations, churches, and other donors.
All donations are tax-deductible, and there are no paid employees. Administrative expenses for the organization are underwritten by a private individual, and all people associated with Crosses Across America are volunteers. No one will ever receive any financial gain from Crosses Across America, but millions of people will receive tremendous emotional and spiritual gain as they pass by the crosses guiding their way on the highway. -
Those rock sculptures I told you about:
closer up:
one of my favorites:
my very favorite:
my favorite with his mommy at a wedding on the beach:
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Odalys~ Here is a picture I took along I 81 , these were lite up and you could see them for miles.
Beautiful Anna, just beautiful. I love pictures!
Here is Bluestone Lake were I was at this past week end.
And the WV State Fair, Blake Shelton & Miranda Lambert. Her skin looked like porcelain.
Very tiny of blake
Here they are together, they have dated for a little over a year I think they said.
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Wow, those were incredible pictures and I loved the story of the crosses. I have not seen them, so they must be more on the East and South. I'll let you know when I find a set. We have a lot of the rock formations and a company here that makes the scuptures for your garden.Anna, precious, precious baby.Per Margeries e-mail, I am flying into Sacramento, which should be much easier and cheaper than Reno. I will arrive 11:10 am on Friday and leave Sunday at noon. I am flying Southwest.I'm off to work, so will talk to all of you soon.
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Anna~ The pictures are beautiful. Wish I were there too.
We have guest coming this afternoon, so I can't linger.
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Anna,
What a beautiful bunch of photos!!!! You look lovely, by the way!!!! Very happy and content-I can tell.My child is making me cuckoo. Is that to be expected at the tender age of 4?!?!
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Anna, I love your picture. I love being able to picture you when we "talk". That goes for all of you. Four is a fabulous age and a crazy maker for moms everywhere (easier on lucky grandma's, I think). Give him a hug for me.My guest just arrived. Back later.
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Hi sisters.
MaryLou - Thank you so much for the story of the crosses. I had chills reading it because I was feeling a little overwhelmed by all the mountains and hills and quick turns on the road, especially at night. But, every time I saw a cluster of crosses I felt calm and at peace. What a beautiful reminder God is alive. What a wonderful gift that Rev left behind.
I tell you this was a very spiritual weekend. The crosses, seeing everyone doing so well and knowing what we've all been through and to top it off the beautiful rainbow. I'n not sure if you read about the rainbow. So here it goes...You may have known CY, one of sisters who lost her battle this year. She absolutely loved rainbows and wanted so much to be at Pinkstock this year too. She often asked as to remember her every time we saw a rainbow and think of her smiling down at us. Anyway, Saturday afternoon/evening was just a beautiful day. Not a cloud in the sky. We were all having fun listening to Kristin's band when all of a sudden a beautiful rainbow appeared...not once but three times! We looked at each other, jaws wide open and absolutel stumped. Got to tell you, there wasn't a dry eye in the place because we all felt CY's presence. Amazing. She did say she would be with us at Pinkstock and she found a way of being there. Ins't this amazing?
Anna you look great. Your daughter and baby look so happy and healthy. I love all the pics. keep them coming.
Wow, it's pouring with lighting and thundering right now. Yikes! I don't like lightening. Have a good night everyone. Love and hugs to all my sisters.
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Not a dry eye here either.
I'm so loving the pictures.....puts life to our little corner.
Anna you are looking so good!
Love to you all
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Hi everyone! Sorry I haven't posted in so long! Between the play dates with the grandchildren, family & friends visiting, working, the awful pain in the legs, plus the bouts of FATIGUE, I don't seem to get on-line much any more. I've been trying to read past postings a little at a time. Sounds like everyone is very busy!
I'm only working 1 - 2 days a week due to the foot & leg pain, neuropathy????? The oncologist had me stop the Arimidex and go back on the Tamox. - it didn't take long for the night leg cramps to start up again. I'm sick & tired of being sick & tired. The meds I should be taking for my arthritis (ankylosing spondylitis) I can't take because of my history with breast cancer. The tamoxifen is making my joint& muscle pain worse. Now my blood sugar is elevated so I have to take meds for diabetes. Its a vicious circle! YIKES!! If the arthritis & leg pain wasn't so bad, I could get out and walk and perhaps lose some weight and then the blood sugar would go down...............And short term memory loss - an issue that drives the people around me crazy!!! Its not so much a problem to me if I can't remember that I have forgotten something - know what I mean???? LOL
The get together sounds like so much fun!! Sure wish I could go but.....you know how it is with $$$ and such. Bummer. I've missed out on a lot of fun activities this summer cuz of the fatigue : (
I absolutely love looking at all of the pictures of everyone and their families!!
Love to all!!
LAT56 -
Hey Lat! Glad to see you are okay (in the grand scheme of things!
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Lat - Thanks for checking in. We were worried about you. Wow, sorry to hear you are having a hard time with the meds and neuropathy. I know what you mean about the short term memory loss. We joke about it being chemo brain although not sure it really applys anymore. Take care.
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Hi ladies,
Still haven't gotten my ticket to come visit (procrastination!!!!! chemo brain!!! All of the above???).
My son is the light of my life, but he is making me nutsy. Standard bedtime conversation, "Goodnight Daniel, I love you."
"Mommy?"
"Yes?"
"Can you fix my closet door?"
"Yes...."
"Mommy?"
"Yes?"
"What should I have for breakfast tomorrow?"
"I don't know..."
"Mommy?"
"GOOD NIGHT DANIEL"
"I love you...."
Guilty Mommy slinks off into the night......Four is an exhausting age.
Gotta go fold laundry from two days ago since my son didn't nap both days due to potty training issues.....Love and prayers, Deb
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Lat, I am so glad to hear from you. Now everyone has checked in. You sound so much like me and with the leg pain. Not sure of my mind anymore. It is a big fog most days.
And I'm so tired......more than I should be, but I'm here .
Ashley went home this morning, this is her new hair cut and highlights for high school.
I thought it turned out very cute. Now that everyone is gone, I am really starting to stress about the layoff. Not sure what will happen in the next few months to come.
I hate being so uncertain.
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Deb~ My grand-babies are driving Jess crazy. And this layoff has them upset too.
She left them both with me yesterday while she went to the store for groceries. Good thing I'm 10 minutes away. She really will need help later.
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a little friend on my porch
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